I-Narcissistic Perversion - Iziveza kanjani?

Igama elithi narcissistic pervert lisetshenziswe ngokungakhethi eminyakeni yamuva. Ukuze ucacise izinkolelo ezingamanga mayelana nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic, thola ngalesi sihloko zonke izincazelo zalokhu kuziphatha okulimazayo, izimpawu zokubona ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic kanye nezindlela zokuphunyuka zokuphuma ebudlelwaneni nomuntu ophendukela ku-narcissistic.  

I-Narcissistic perversion - Kuyini?

Un i-narcissistic pervert ngumuntu onenkinga yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo yokuba sengozini okuzomphoqa ukuthi abeke phansi abanye ukuze azizwe bebalulekile. Uphendukezelwe ngenxa yokuthi angaba nonya, angabi naluzwela futhi athole ukwaneliseka ekuhluphekeni kwabanye. I-Narcissistic, ngoba unokuzethemba ngokweqile futhi unomlingiswa wokuzicabangela kakhulu. Ukuze avale isikhala esingaphakathi kuye, udinga ukunconywa, ukuthandwa futhi abe yisizinda somhlaba.

Uma ubheka kuqala, umuntu okhohlakele ozithanda ngokweqile ungumuntu okhangayo kakhulu, othandekayo, futhi onakekelayo. Uzokwakha isibopho ukuthambekela kokuxhumana phakathi kwakhe nesisulu sakhe. Kamuva, lapho isifihla-buso siwa, uzoshintsha ngobusuku obubodwa abe ngumkhohlisi ongenandaba nongenandaba.  I-Narcissistic perversion ithinta amadoda kaningi kunabesifazane. Yingakho sivame ukukhuluma ngama-narcissistic perverts. Nokho, i owesifazane ohlanekezelwe onarcissistic kungaba futhi umuntu omubi onobuntu obunobuthi kakhulu.

Ukuhlanekezela ku-narcissistic pervert

I-Narcissistic perversion izethula ngezindlela ezahlukene ukusuka kumuntu oyedwa kuya komunye. Uma umuntu oyedwa ohlanekezela u-narcissistic ebonisa umlingiswa onobudlova nomhawu oweqile, omunye angase akwazi ukudlala indima yomuntu omnene futhi ozolile. Ukuze uthole okwengeziwe mayelana nezici eziveza ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic, thola izici ezivame kakhulu lapha:

1. I-Narcissistic perversion - Ihlukanisa isisulu sakhe

Umphendukezeli we-narcissistic uthola injabulo ngokuhlukanisa isisulu sakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umngane wakhe womshado, ingane yakhe noma umngane, uthanda ukukholelwa ukuthi isisulu sakhe sixhumene naye kuphela futhi akasabugcini ubuhlobo nomndeni wakhe, abangani bakhe kanye nalabo abaseduze naye. Ukuhlukanisa isisulu sakhe kuphinde kumvumele ukuba alawule unomphela phezu kwaso futhi aqinisekise ukuthi abalutholi usizo noma imibono kunoma ubani. 

2. I-Narcissistic Perversion - Ubuso Obubili

I-narcissistic pervert inobuso obubili. Phambi kwabantu, ungumuntu ohluke ngokuphelele, kodwa ngesisulu sakhe unonya futhi unonya. Ngakho-ke, uma isisulu sakhe sizama ukuthulula isifuba noma ukutshela labo abaseduze naso lokho esibhekana nakho ngempela, akekho oyomkholelwa. Yingakho kwenzeka ukuthi isisulu siwela ekukhohliseni futhi sizingabaze, futhi sivame ukubona lokhu kumafilimu e-narcissistic perversion. 

3. I-Narcissistic Perversion - I-PN izenza isisulu ukuze iqinise ithonya layo

Ukuze agcine isisulu sakhe singaphansi kwethonya laso, i-narcissistic pervert idlala isisulu futhi yenza isisulu sangempela sizizwe sinecala. Uzozama ukwenza isisulu sakhe siqonde ukuthi uma ubudlelwano babo bungaphumeleli, kuyiphutha lakhe kuphela. Njengoba engakwazi ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo, uhlale ezama ukubeka icala komunye umuntu. Udlalisa isisulu ngokuphelele phambi kwawo wonke umuntu futhi azame nokunxenxa isisulu sakhe ukuze sihlale siseduze futhi singalokothi simkhulule.

Ubani ohlushwa i-Narcissistic Perversion?

Umuntu omubi we-narcissistic akabonakali ngaso sonke isikhathi ekuqaleni. Kodwa kusenezimpawu ezingakhomba lesi sifo esingokwengqondo nangokwengqondo: 

• Ubani okufanele abeke abanye phansi ukuze bazizwe bebalulekile?
• Ubani ongakwazi ukuqaphela amaphutha abo njalo efuna ukusola abanye
• Ohlale edinga ukunconywa, ukuqashelwa, ukuthandwa futhi abe yisizinda somhlaba
• Ongakwazi ukuzwa uthando nozwelo kulabo abaseduze kwakhe

Umehluko phakathi kwe-narcissistic perversion kanye ne-bipolarity

Uma i- umuntu one-bipolar Nakuba umuntu othanda ukuzikhukhumeza eqaphela isimo sakhe, akakwazi ukubona isimo sakhe sengqondo. Ngempela, lapho ephuma enkingeni i-bipolarityUmuntu onesifo sengqondo esiguquguqukayo uyakwazi ukulawula imicabango yakhe futhi abe ngumuntu ojwayelekile ongenaso isifo sengqondo esibonakalayo. Ukweqisa kwakhe kanye nokunganaki kwenzeka kuphela ngesikhathi sakhe sokuhlanya.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i- i-narcissistic pervert akakwazi ukuqaphela ukuziphatha kwakhe futhi akalokothi alahle i-narcissism yakhe kanye ne-egocentrism. Ucabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu umkweleta inhlonipho nokutuswa, ngoba ukholelwa ukuthi uphakeme kunabo bonke. 

Ukuhlanekezelwa kwezocansi kanye ne-narcissistic

Uma lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo zifana ezicini ezimbalwa, umehluko usesenzo sobudlova kanye nokuba umlutha wocansi. THE i-narcissistic pervert unokuzethemba ngokweqile kangangokuthi ufuna ukufiswa yilabo abaseduze kwakhe futhi ikakhulukazi isisulu sakhe. Ngokwakhe, i ubulili obuhlanekezelwe unesidingo esiqhubekayo sokwanelisa izifiso zakhe zobulili. Akanaki izidingo zabanye noma zomlingani wakhe, ufuna ukwanelisa ukoma kwakhe kanti okunye akusho lutho kuye. 

Ingabe singaphuma ebudlelwaneni be-Narcissistic Perversion?

Kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukuthi uzikhulule ebudlelwaneni bokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic. Isinyathelo sokuqala ekwelapheni kuyoba ukuqaphela isimo. Inhloso lapha ukuthola umsuka wokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic. Ubuntwana obubuhlungu nobungazinzile ngokwengqondo bungaba imbangela yokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic. Ngemuva kwalokho, kuzodingeka ukuthi uqale ukuziqhelelanisa futhi uqede ubudlelwano. Ukwelapha ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic, kufanele ulashwe kakhulu futhi uzenzele umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ungangabazi ukuthola usizo kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esigxile ekuphendukezeleni kwe-narcissistic.

Izinkomba ze-Bibliographic mayelana ne-narcissistic perversion

Nazi izikhombo eziyisikhombisa zebhayibhili ngesi-French ngendikimba yokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic:

1. Hirigoyen, M.-F. (1998). Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokokuziphatha: Ubudlova obuhlanekezelwe nsuku zonke. Izinhlobo ze-La Découverte & Syros.
2. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Ukuguqulwa kweNarcissistic. I-Payot.
3. Tisseron, S. (2013). Imfihlakalo yokuhlanekezela. Izinguqulo Albin Michel.
4. Cori, J.-J. (2000). Abazenzisi baphakathi kwethu: Bangobani? Bafunani? Indlela yokuvikela ngokumelene nayo?. Editions de l'Homme.
5. Coutanceau, R., & Gabela, C. (2005). Udlame oluhlanekezelwe nsuku zonke. Dunod.
6. Caldwell, L. (2005). Ukuhlanekezela kanye ne-narcissism, e Caldwell, L. (Umhl.), I-Perversion: I-Psychoanalysis kanye nomtholampilo (amakhasi 45-60). I-Press Universitaires de France.
7. Meloy, J.R. (2002). Narcissistic futhi antisocial ubuntu, e Meloy, J.R. (Umhl.), Ubuntu obunzima: Ukuxilongwa nokuphathwa (amakhasi 75-98). UMasson.

Le misebenzi ihlinzeka ngombono ojulile mayelana nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic, ekhuluma ngazo zombili izici zethiyori nezomtholampilo zalesi sihloko.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, ukuqonda ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic kusivumela ukuthi sibone kangcono lokhu kuziphatha okulimazayo futhi sizivikele kukho. Le ndatshana yethule izici eziyinhloko zama-narcissistic perverts, izindlela zabo zokukhohlisa nezindlela zokuphuma ebuhlotsheni obunjalo. Uma ubhekene nalolu hlobo lwesimo, ungangabazi ukubonisana nochwepheshe ukuze uzuze ekusekelweni okufanele.

Ukuze uxhumane:

• Ukwelashwa Kwe-Narcissist Ehlanekezelwe
• Indlela yokujezisa i-PN?
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