I-Bipolarity kanye nobubi be-narcissistic pervert: ukuqonda nokuzivikela

Abesifazane abayizisulu zabahlukumezi abazikhukhumezayo babhekene nesimo esinzima kakhulu nesiphazamisayo. Ubuntu obuyinkimbinkimbi kanye ukuziphatha okunobuthi Izenzo zalaba bantu zingaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo. Lesi sihloko sihlose ukukusiza uqonde kangcono izindlela ezisetshenziswayo nokukunikeza amasu okuzivikela.

Iyini i-Bipolarity?

I-bipolar disorder i-bipolar disorder ebonakala ngokushintshashintsha okuphawulekayo phakathi kwezigaba zokuthokoza (okubizwa ngokuthi iziqephu zomuntu) kanye nezigaba zokucindezeleka.

Kumuntu oke waphila ne-narcissistic pervert, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi:

1. I-bipolarity isifo sengqondo sangempela, ngokungafani nokuziphatha komuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic okuyizici zobuntu obunobuthi.
2. Umuntu oguquguqukayo akakwazi ukulawula ukushintsha kwemizwa yakhe, kuyilapho i-narcissist ilawula imizwelo yabanye ngokuqaphela.
3. Abantu abane-bipolar disorder bangase babe nakhouzwela futhi babe nobudlelwano obunempilo lapho belashwa, okungavamile ukuba kube khona abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic.
4. I-Bipolarity ayibandakanyi ukukhohlisa noma ukuhlukumeza abanye ngamabomu, ngokungafani nokuziphatha komuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic.

Kubalulekile ukungazididanisi lezi zimo ezimbili, njengoba imvelaphi yazo, ukubonakaliswa kwazo kanye nokwelashwa kwehluke kakhulu.

Izimpande zobubi bomshoshaphansi

Ubuxhwanguxhwangu obuboniswa i-narcissistic pervert buthola umsuka wabo ebuntwaneni bakhe. Ukuhlukumezeka kwangaphambi kwesikhathi, ukulimala okujulile ngokomzwelo noma ukunganakwa kwabazali kwaphazamisa ukukhula kwakhe kwengqondo. Lokhu kuye kwadala umuzwa wokungazethembi nokuba sengozini kuye afuna ngazo zonke izindleko ukuze acashe ngemuva kwe-facade yokuba namandla onke.

Lokhu kulimala kwasekuqaleni kwamholela ekubeni akhe igobolondo elivikelayo futhi athuthukise izindlela zokuzivikela ezidlulele. Isiqubulo sakhe sangaphakathi singafingqwa ngokuthi: “Ngeke ngiphinde ngilimale noma ngibe sengozini.” Angisoze ngakuyeka. »

Kungani ububi be-narcissistic pervert kungesona isifo?

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi i-bipolarity kanye nobubi be-narcissistic pervert akuwona umphumela we-pathology yengqondo njenge-bipolar disorder:

• Kuwukukhetha ngokuziphatha
• Kunenhloso ecacile yokubusa nokulimaza
• I-narcissistic pervert iyakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwayo emphakathini
• Akukho ukungabaza noma isifiso soshintsho
• Izisulu zikhethwa ngamabomu futhi ziqondiswe

Ngokungafani nomuntu we-bipolar ongafuna usizo futhi athole ukwelashwa, i-narcissistic pervert ayiboni inkinga ekuziphatheni kwakhe.

Izimpawu ezidukisayo ezingase ziphakamise i-bipolar disorder

Uma uthi nhlá nje, ukuziphatha okuthile okufana ne-bipolarity kanye nokucasuka kwe-narcissistic pervert kungase kufane nezimpawu ze-bipolar disorder:

• Ukushintshashintsha kwemizwa okungalindelekile
• Izikhathi zenjabulo zilandelwa yizikhathi ezimnyama
• I-ego enkulu ngezinye izikhathi
• Ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo kungazelelwe
• a ukungazinzi ngokomzwelo

Lokhu kufana kungenza ukuxilongwa kube nzima, ngisho nakochwepheshe. Nokho, lapho kubukisiswa kahle, umehluko omkhulu ungabonakala.

Izimpawu ezisiza ukuhlukanisa i-bipolarity kanye ne-narcissistic perversion

Ukusiza ukucacisa isimo, nanka amaphuzu abalulekile okuqhathanisa:

1. Ukuvumelana kokuziphatha:
   • I-Bipolar: Ukushintshashintsha phakathi kwezigaba ze-manic ne-depressive
   • I-Narcissistic pervert: Ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo okuqhubekayo
2. Ukuqaphela izenzo:
   • I-Bipolar: Ingaveza ukuzisola ngemva kwesiqephu
   • I-Narcissistic pervert: Ukungabikho okuphelele kokuzisola
3. Ubudlelwano nabanye:
   • I-Bipolar: Ingaba nobudlelwano obunempilo ngaphandle kweziqephu
   • I-Narcissistic pervert: Bonke ubudlelwano busekelwe ekuxhashazweni
4. Ukusabela ekugxekeni:
   • I-Bipolar: Ingahluka kuye ngesigaba (hypersensitivity noma ukunganaki)
   • I-Narcissistic pervert: Ukufutheka okuhleliwe kwe-narcissistic
5. Ikhono lokuzwelana:
   • I-Bipolar: Ikhona, kodwa ingase ishintshwe phakathi neziqephu
   • I-Narcissistic pervert: Ukungabikho okuphelele nokungapheli kozwela

Izimbangela zokucasuka kwe-narcissistic pervert

Intukuthelo evuthayo ye-narcissistic pervert ingase ibonakale ingenangqondo futhi ingalingani. Eqinisweni, ithobela umqondo wangaphakathi onembe kakhulu. Nazi izici eziyinhloko ezingavusa ulaka lwakhe:

• Noma yikuphi ukubuzwa, ngisho nokuncane, ukuphakama kwakhe noma amakhono akhe
• Ukugxekwa okuncane noma ukungavunyelwa
• Ukuntula ukutuswa noma ukuqashelwa kulabo abaseduze kwakho
• Umuzwa wokungakwazi ukulawula ngokuphelele isimo noma umuntu
• Ukwesaba ukushiywa noma ukwaliwa

I-narcissistic pervert ihlale iqaphile, ilungele ukusabela ngokweqile ekusongelweni okuncane okucatshangwayo ngokumelene ne-ego yakhe enkulu.

Ungazivikela kanjani kumuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic?

Lapho ubhekene ne-bipolarity kanye nobubi bomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, isivikelo esingcono kakhulu sihlala siqhelelene, noma sinqamule ngokuphelele ukuxhumana. Nokho, lokhu akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi noma kufiseleke, ikakhulukazi lapho izingane zihilelekile. Nawa amathiphu okuzivikela:

1. Qinisa ukuzethemba kwakho nokuzethemba: Lesi isikhali sakho esihle kakhulu.
2. Funda ukubeka imingcele ecacile futhi uyisebenzise ngaphandle kwecala.
3. Ungazami ukumshintsha noma “ukumelapha”. Kwamukele ukuthi cishe akasoze ashintsha.
4. Yakha inethiwekhi yokwesekwa eqinile (abangane, umndeni, udokotela) ukuze ungahlali wedwa.
5. Bhala phansi izindlela zokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic ukuze uzikhombe kangcono.
6. Zijwayeze ” idwala elimpunga »: hlala ungathathi hlangothi futhi unesizungu ukuze ungabe usamthakasela.
7. Uma kwenzeka ngokwehlukana, thola ukwesekwa ngokomthetho ukuze uzivikele.
8. Zisebenzele wena ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini ekwenze waba sengozini yalolu hlobo lobudlelwano obunobuthi.

Isiphetho: thola kabusha amandla phezu kwempilo yakho

Ukuba yisisulu se-bipolar kanye ne-narcissistic pervert kuyisimo esibuhlungu kakhulu esingashiya imiphumela ehlala njalo. Nokho, kungenzeka ukudlula kukho futhi wakhe kabusha. Isihluthulelo siwukuba kancane kancane uphinde ukwazi ukulawula impilo yakho kanye nemizwelo yakho.

Khumbula ukuthi awunasibopho sokuziphatha okunobuthi kwe-narcissistic pervert. Ukucasuka nokungazinzi kwakhe kuwukubonakaliswa kwamanxeba namaphutha akhe, hhayi awakho.

Ngokuqonda kangcono izindlela zokusebenza, kancane kancane uzokwazi ukuzibamba ngokomzwelo futhi uphinde uthole inkululeko yakho. Ungangabazi ukufuna usizo kochwepheshe noma izinhlangano ezingochwepheshe kule ndawo. Unamandla ngaphakathi kuwe okunqoba lobunzima futhi uzakhe kabusha.