Konke odinga ukukwazi nge-spiritual savior syndrome

Spiritual savior syndrome : Sivame ukubhekana nabantu abasithandayo nabakholelwa ukuthi banezixazululo kuzo zonke izinkinga zethu. I-Savior syndrome ngokomoya ingabangela ingcindezi eyengeziwe kumsindisi, ikakhulukazi uma ezizwa enesibopho sokusiza abanye ngokwenkolo noma ngokomoya. Nokho, kubalulekile ukuqaphela imingcele yekhono lethu lokusiza abanye ngaphandle kokuyekethisa thina. 

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Iyini i-Savior Syndrome Engokomoya?

Le i-savior syndrome kuwukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, okuphumela ekubeni nesifiso sokusiza abanye kuzo zonke izimo. Uma unalokhu kuphazamiseka, ungase uzibeke engozini yokusiza umakhelwane wakho, futhi ucindezeleke uma wehluleka emsebenzini wakho.

Engokomoya, lesi sifo singaba uphawu lokuthi awukho ukuthula nawe noma ukuthi ufuna ukujabulisa abanye ukuze uzizwe uthandwa. Ezimweni ezithile, kukuvimbela ngisho nokuhlonipha inkululeko yokuzikhethela yabanye, okungase kube yinkinga ngokushesha.

Yiziphi izimpawu zokuvuka ngokomoya?

• Ukuzizwa njengomuntu omusha
• Qaphela ukuziphatha kwakho okubi kanye nezimo zengqondo ezilimazayo
• Ukuze ube nesidingoubuqiniso kanye nokudelela ukungabi nandaba
• Ukuba nomuzwa wozwelo nokudabuka lapho ubhekene nokuhlupheka kwabanye, komhlaba
• Yenza okuhle futhi uthathe izinyathelo ezinhle eduze kwakho
• ube nehypersensitivity kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwezinzwa ezi-5 ezingokomoya (ukuqonda, ukuqonda, imizwa, ugqozi kanye nomcabango)
• Ukuqhutshwa isidingo sokufeza amaphrojekthi/amaphupho akho, ugqozi olwengeziwe nokudala
• Ukuba nesidingo sokuzazi, ukuzitholela wena nokuxhumana nawe
• I-orchestration emangalisayo nokuvumelanisa empilweni (yonke into iqondana kahle)
• Abantu abanesifo somsindisi ngokomoya bahlakulela umuzwa wokubonga kanye nemizwa eyakhayo (ukunyamalala kokwesaba, umkhuba wokukhathazeka, njll.)
• Funa ukuthula okujulile nokuzola
• Ukuhlalwa isifiso sokuthanda nokunikeza ngaphandle kwezizathu, ngaphandle kokulindela noma yini ukubuya
• Yiba nomuzwa wokukhangwa futhi uxhumeke kuyo yonke into (umkhathi, abantu, imvelo, izilwane, njll.)

Yini ebangela i-spiritual Awakening Syndrome?

Nazi izimbangela eziyinhloko ze-spiritual Awakening Syndrome:

1-Isenzakalo esibalulekile

Ukuvuka okungokomoya kungabangelwa isenzakalo esibalulekile noma isenzakalo esingavumelekile esingakuqwashisa ngaso. NgokukaShannon Kaiser, izenzakalo eziyinhloko eziletha izinguquko ezinkulu ekuphileni kwakho ziyizimbangela ezaziwa kakhulu zokuvuka ngokomoya. Kungaba a ukuxoshwa noma ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi, ghosting yomlingani wakho, wokuhamba, Njll

2-Ukuhlukumezeka

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuvuswa ngokomoya kungabangelwa ukuhlukumezeka okuningi kwansuku zonke.: ukushonelwa othandekayo, ingozi yomgwaqo, impi yezikhali, hlala ku umndeni we-narcissistic pervert, njll. Lesi sigameko esibuhlungu siholela ekutheni ushintshe indlela ocabanga ngayo futhi uphile ngokomoya.

3-Othandekayo noma umlingani womphefumulo

La inkampani noma omunye wabathandekayo bakho kungaba futhi umsuka wokuvuka kwakho okungokomoya. Uzokuvulela lomnyango ongokomoya ukuze ufinyelele ukuphakama okungokomoya. Igama elithi “ukuphaphama” lisho ukuveza noma ukuveza ubuwena obungaphakathi (ukuzembula).

Imiphumela ye-savior syndrome

I-Savior syndrome ngokomoya ingaba nemiphumela ebalulekile, kokubili kumuntu ohlushwa yiyo kanye nalabo abaseduze nabo. Nansi imithelela eyinhloko:

1. Ukukhathala okungokomzwelo nokutubeka emoyeni

• Ukutshala imali ngokweqile njalo ekusizeni abanye
• Ukunganakwa kwezidingo kanye nenhlalakahle yomuntu
• Ukuzizwa ungelutho ngaphakathi naphezu kokusebenza kanzima okungokomoya

2. Ukuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane obunobuthi

• Ukwakhiwa kwezixhumanisi zokuncika nabantu “abasizwayo”
• Ubunzima bokubeka imingcele enempilo
• Ukuthambekela kokuheha abantu be-narcissistic noma abakhohlisayo

3. Ukuhlanekezela umkhuba ongokomoya

• Ukusebenzisa ingokomoya njengendlela yokuqinisekisa kwangaphandle
• Ukudideka phakathi kwe-ego engokomoya kanye nokuziphendukela kwemvelo komuntu siqu
• Ukulahlekelwa ubuqiniso endleleni yomoya

4. Umthelela empilweni yengqondo

• Ukuthuthukiswa kokukhathazeka okungapheli
• Imijikelezo yecala nehlazo
• Ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba lapho imiphumela ingahlangabezani nokulindelwe

5. Ukungalingani empilweni yomuntu siqu

• Ubunzima bokugcina ubudlelwano obulinganayo
• Ukunganakwa kwezici ezingokoqobo zokuphila
• Ukuzihlukanisa nabantu ngaphandle kwendilinga yomoya

6. Izithiyo ekukhuleni ngokomoya kwangempela

• Ukuvinjwa ekuthuthukisweni komuntu siqu
• Ubunzima bokubona izindawo ezimpunga zomuntu siqu
• Ukumelana nomsebenzi wangaphakathi weqiniso

7. Imiphumela yobungcweti

• Umsebenzi omningi emisebenzini yokusekela
• Ubunzima bokubeka imingcele yobungcweti
• Ukudideka phakathi kobizo lukamoya nomsebenzi

8. Umthelela kulabo abasizungezile

• Ukudala ama-dynamics angenampilo ebudlelwaneni
• Umuzwa wesikweletu noma wecala phakathi kwalabo abathola usizo
• Ukukhathala kwabathandekayo babhekene nokuziphatha okuyimpoqo kokusiza

Yiziphi izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-savior syndrome?

Nazi izinhlobo ezi-3 ze-savior syndrome:

1-I-savior syndrome eyonakele

Uyisidalwa esidinga ukunconywa, ukucatshangelwa futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthandwa. Kudingeka aqashelwe ukuze anxephezele noma aqinise isithombe anaso ngaye. Lesi sidingo sokucatshangelwa, ukutuswa nokuqashelwa kuyamsiza ukuba apholise amanxeba akhe esikhathi esidlule. Lezi izimpawu ze-savior syndrome eyonakele.

2-I-Emphatic Savior Syndrome

Ivame kakhulu ukuhlangana imibhangqwana kanye ubudlelwano kwezothando. Uwuhlobo lomsindisi obonisa isidingo saphakade sokunciphisa igebe noma ibanga elikhona phakathi kwakhe nomlingani/umlingani wakhe. Uyayilawula le yakamuva ukuze ingaphumeleli kakhulu ngoba esaba ukuthi ngelinye ilanga uzogcina emshiyile noma amlahle.

3-I-terrorizing savior syndrome

Lokhu kuyi-toxic savior syndrome, ngoba umsindisi ufuna ngokuphelele ukulawula umlingani wakhe womshado noma umuntu owabelana nempilo yakhe yansuku zonke. Isihloko esihlushwa yilolu hlobo lwe-savior syndrome sizwela ngokweqile futhi sifuna ukwazi imininingwane emincane yempilo yabalingani babo.

I-bibliographic reference on spirituality savior syndrome

Nazi izikhombo eziyisikhombisa zebhayibhili ngendikimba ye-“savior syndrome” kanye nengokomoya:

1. Miller, W.R., & Rollnick, S. (2002). Ukuxoxisana okugqugquzelayo: Ukusiza abantu ukuthi bashintshe. I-Paris: I-Éditions de l’Organisation.
2. Gagnon, M. (2017). I-savior syndrome: Izinkinga kanye nemithelela ebudlelwaneni bokusiza. Revue québécoise de psychology, 38(1), 45-62.
3. Bouchard, C. (2016). Izingibe zomusa: Ukuqonda i-savior syndrome. I-Psychologies Magazine.
4. Ferre, J. (2011). Ingokomoya kanye nePsychology: Imibono ehlukene. EParis: Editions L’Harmattan.
5. Cohen, L. (2019). Ukuhlupheka kwabasindisi: Lapho ukusiza kuba umthwalo. I-Psychiatry kanye Nempilo Yengqondo, 25(3), 210-215.
6. Dumont, C. (2015). Ukusiza ubudlelwano: Izimiso zokuziphatha kanye nezingozi ze-savior syndrome. Ukubuyekezwa Kwezempilo, 30(4), 33-40.
7. Pérez, A. (2018). Usizo lukamoya nolwengqondo: Indlela ehlanganisayo. I-Paris: Éditions Eyrolles.

Lezi zikhombo zizokunikeza umbono omuhle wesihloko.

I-Spirituality Savior Syndrome – Isiphetho

Ngamafuphi, i-spiritual savior syndrome isifo sobuntu. Lokhu kuphazamiseka kubangelwa ukuhlukumezeka, isimo esihlobene nokuvikeleka ngokomzwelo okungatholakali kahle ebuntwaneni. Ukuthola usizo kuchwepheshe wezengqondo kuzokuvumela ukuba unqobe ukuvinjelwa okuthile futhi unciphise lokhu kuziphatha, okuwukuzibhubhisa nokuhlanekezela.