I-Paranoid manipulative ubuntu: yini i-paranoia?

La i-paranoia kuwuphawu oluvamile kubantu abaphethwe i-narcissistic personality disorder. Kodwa kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi umuntu okhohlisayo azizwe esengozini aze abe yi-paranoid? Ingabe ukukhohliswa kwakhe kwe-paranoid kudlalwa ngokweqile noma wesaba ngempela? Ingabe angakwazi ukwelapha i-paranoia yakhe? Sithatha isitoko kulesi sihloko.

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Izizathu ezi-5 ezibangela ubuntu be-paranoid be-narcissistic manipulator  

Ngenxa yokucindezeleka kwe- i-narcissistic manipulatorUbheka izinto eziningana njengeziyizinto izinsongo zangempela. Kulezi zigaba ezilandelayo, sizokwethula kuwe 5 izizathu eziyinhloko ezikhiqiza izici zabo ze-paranoid.

1. Ubunono bakhe bumbeka phakathi kwesifiso

Abantu abahlushwa i-narcissistic personality disorder ba beqiniseka ukuthi labo ababazungezile bafisa izimfanelo zabo nezinto zabo. Nokho, kuwukuzicabangela, iqiniso elakhiwe elizomvumela ukuba agcwalise ubuze bakhe bangaphakathi.

Udinga ukushukunyiswa kwangaphandle ukuze azikholise ukuthi uphakathi kwezifiso. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuze azizwe emkhulu, udinga ukubhekwa ngabanye. Nokho, ukuze abuyisele ukunaka kwabanye kuye, angase afinyelele ezingeni lokuvusa inzondo kuye.

2. Kuyamcika ukufuna ukulawula yonke into

Ama-manipulators e-Narcissistic ane isidingo esingenampilo sokulawula. Baqhutshwa isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuzizwa bephakeme kunabanye futhi bavale ngokuntula kwabo ukuzethemba. Nokho, ukuze bathole futhi bagcine labo ababazungezile bengaphansi kokulawula, kufanele benze umzamo omkhulu. Ngokuhlala uqaphile, i-PN iphila esimweni sokucindezeleka okungapheli.

Ngenxa yalokho, ngokusongela okuncane okuthinta ibhalansi yakhe, ukhona ethukile. Ngenxa yalokho, ulindele noma iyiphi ingozi engase imsongele, kuze kube yilapho ekwenza kube ukuthatheka kwangempela. Lesi simo sokukhathazeka okungapheli kokufaka engozini yokulahlekelwa ukulawula nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sizokondla i-paranoia kuye futhi simvalele embuthanweni ononya.

3. Uveza izenzo zakhe kwabanye futhi azilindele

Ama-Narcissistic perverts nawo angaba yi-paranoid, ngoba bayawazi umthelela wabo kubo nethimba. Impela, lapho sibonisa isimilo esilimazayo kwabanye, ngokuzenzekelayo sithatha umhlaba njengosongo olungase lube khona. Ngenxa yalokho, umkhohlisi uzizwa esongelwa njalo ngenxa yezenzo zakhe.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu kuchaza ukuziphatha kwe umona owedlulele ukuthi abantu abakhohlisayo basebenzise ubuhlobo babo. Uthando nozwela akuyona imizwa abayaziyo noma abayiqondayo.

4. I-PN ihlukumeza isisulu sayo ngokuhlehlisa izindima

Ukuze ube ne ukulawula okuphelele phezu kwesisulu sakhe, umhlaseli onomzwelo uyamthanda hlehlisa izindima. Utshala ukudideka engqondweni yesisulu sakhe ngokumenza akholelwe ukuthi izinkinga zivela kuye. Njengomkhohlisi omuhle, akanakho ukungabaza ngokuzibheka njengesisulu esiyinhloko. Ngaphezu kwalokho, leli tulo limvumela ukuba aphambukise ukunaka kwesisulu sakhe enkingeni yangempela. Ngenxa yalokho, ugcwala umuzwa wecala. Futhi ngokubhekana nokuhlaselwa okunjalo, isisulu sangempela sigcina sikukholelwa.

5. Ulindele impindiselo yezisulu zakhe

Ama-manipulators nawo abe yi-paranoid lapho bembulwa. Ngokuphatha kabi isisulu sakhe nokutshala isiphithiphithi engqondweni yakhe, wesaba ukuthi uzobhekana nolaka lwabo lapho embulwa. Ukuziphindiselela ukuziphatha okusabayo umkhohlisi we-narcissistic. Kuyena, uma isisulu sakhe sesidabule iveli kuye, angathanda ukuziphindiselela ngobubi esabhekana nabo. Ube eselindela ukuhlasela okungenzeka.

I-Narcissistic kanye ne-paranoid ubuntu obuphendukezelwe – umehluko phakathi kwalaba ochwepheshe ababili bokukhohlisa

Iziyaluyalu zobuntu ama-narcissistic perverts et i-paranoid zombili zinezici ezifanayo. Nokho, laba chwepheshe ababili bokukhohlisa basenomehluko othile.

• Ngaphezu kokuphatha, a i-narcissistic pervert ngokujwayelekile ungumuntu ozicabangela yena yedwa. Uhlale ezizwa enezidingo ezeqile zokutuswa nokunakwa. Bangase futhi bangavinjelwa ngokomthetho futhi bangase bazizwe bengazisoli noma benecala. Kunalokho, ibhubhisa inyamazane yayo isebenzisa Imisho edala icala.
• Ngokuqondene nomuntu ohlushwa yi i-paranoia, ukuphazamiseka kwakhe ngokuvamile kuzibonakalisa njengokungabethembi okukhulu nokusola abanye. Uhlale eqiniseka ukuthi uyakhohliswa noma uyakhashelwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, basabela kulezi zinkolelo zangaphakathi ngobudlova noma ngenzondo.

Ngamafuphi, abantu abathinteka yi- i-narcissistic personality disorder bagxile kakhulu kubo kanye nasesithombeni sabo. Ngokuqondene nabantu abanenkinga yobuntu obunezinsolo, bagxile kwabanye kanye nokungabethembi.

Indlela yokwelapha i-manipulator’s paranoid personality disorder?

Isiyaluyalu sobuntu bomuntu okhohlisayo sizibonakalisa ngokungathembani okusabalele kanye nokuthambekela kokubona uzungu nokukhaphela yonke indawo. Kodwa-ke, kunezindlela zokwelapha ukuphazamiseka kwe-manipulator’s paranoid. :

• La ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo kanye nokwelashwa kweqembu kungasiza umuntu ophethwe yi-paranoia disorder.
• La ukwelashwa kwengqondo futhi kuyindlela engasiza abantu abanalesi sifo ukuthi balawule ukungathembani kanye nentukuthelo yabo. Lokhu kwelashwa futhi kuvumela abantu abadidekile ukuthi bathuthukise ubudlelwano babo bomphakathi futhi bathuthukise amakhono okuxhumana asebenzayo.

Kwesinye isikhathi, i-paranoia idinga ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa, ikakhulukazi lapho isimo sokwesaba okungapheli sidala ukukhathazeka nokudangala. Nokho, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukwelapha i-paranoid personality disorder kumuntu okhohlisayo akulula neze. Kungathatha izinyanga ezimbalwa noma iminyaka ukubona imiphumela ebalulekile.

Ungasabela kanjani kubuntu be-paranoid be-manipulator?

Ku-narcissistic manipulator, i-paranoia ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okungase kubangele ukuziphatha okungenangqondo et othathekile. Ngakho-ke, umuntu kufanele aphathwe ngesineke nangokuqonda. Kodwa uma uphawula futhi umgxeka, kungenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. Ukwengeza, kubalulekile futhi ukuhlonipha indawo yomuntu siqu futhi ugweme ukwabelana ngemizwa abangazizwa bekhululekile ukwabelana ngayo. Okokugcina, ukubonisana nochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo kungasiza ekutheni ubhekane kanjani nomuntu odidekile.

Izinkomba ze-bibliographic ngobuntu be-paranoid be-manipulator

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni yobuntu be-paranoid nokuziphatha okukhohlisayo:

1. Bergeret, J. (1996). Ubuntu obujwayelekile kanye ne-pathological. EParis: Dunod.
2. Moro, M.-R., & Baubet, T. (2004). I-Transcultural psychopathology. EParis: Masson.
3. UMellier, D. (2009). Izimpawu ze-Pathological. EParis: Armand Colin.
4. Crocq, L. (2013). Iziyaluyalu zobuntu. EParis: I-PUF.
5. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Ingcweti yasekuqaleni. I-Paris: I-Payot.
6. UKernberg, O. (2004). Ubudlelwano bento kanye nezinqubo zengqondo. EParis: I-PUF.
7. UCloninger, CR (1999). Ibhayoloji nobuntu. EParis: Odile Jacob.

Lezi zithenjwa kufanele zikunikeze isisekelo esiqinile sokujulisa ukuqonda kwakho ubuntu be-paranoid nokuziphatha okukhohlisayo.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, le ndatshana igqamisa izici eziyinkimbinkimbi neziyinkimbinkimbi zobuntu be-paranoid kuma-narcissistic manipulators. Ibonisa ukuthi ukunakwa kwabo okukhulayo, isidingo sokulawula kanye nokuqagela kubhebhethekisa kanjani umjikelezo wokungathembani kanye ne-paranoia. Nakuba izindlela zokwelapha ezifana nokwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo noma i-psychotherapy inikeza izixazululo, inqubo yokuphulukisa ngokuvamile ihlala isikhathi eside futhi ibucayi. Uma ubhekene nalokhu kuziphatha, ukubekezela, ukuqonda nokusekelwa ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo kubalulekile.