Umqambimanga we-Pathological: konke odinga ukukwazi mayelana nalokhu kuphazamiseka kokuziphatha

Ukuqamba amanga kungaba yinkinga enkulu ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka kaningi noma kungenasizathu esicacile. Lokhu kunjalo ikakhulukazi lapho sikhuluma izinganekwane ou abaqambimanga be-pathologicalKulesi sihloko, uzofunda kabanzi ngokuqamba amanga okubangelwa izifo, ikakhulukazi ngezimbangela… mythomania kanye nezimpawu zokuqaphela umqambimanga wezifo.

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Umqambimanga we-Pathological: yini i-mythomania?

Le amanga e-pathological, ebizwa nangokuthi mythomania ou i-pseudologia fantastica, ibhekisela ekuziphatheni okungapheli kokuphoqelela ukuqamba amanga ngenjongo noma ngaphandle kwenjongo esobala. Ngokungafani nokuqamba amanga okuvamile ukuze ugweme ukulimaza imizwa yothile noma ukungena enkingeni, kubonakala umqambimanga ogulayo qamba amanga ngaphandle kwesizathu.

Lokhu kungakwenza kukhungathekise noma kube nzima ukwakha ukwethembana ngalolu hlobo lomuntu. Ngoba amanga ayaqisa, anehaba futhi aphindaphindwa ngokwemvelo. Inganekwane iyazabalaza ukuhlukanisa izinto eziqanjiwe eziyiqiniso, ngisho nalapho sibhekene nayo.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi nakuba i-mythomania iqashelwa isikhathi esingaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka, ayikabi khona incazelo ecacile yendawo yonke yalesi sifo. Kwezinye izimo, kungase kubangele isimo sengqondo, njenge-antisocial personality disorder (ngezinye izikhathi ebizwa ngokuthi i-sociopathy). Nakuba kwezinye izimo kubonakala singekho isizathu sezokwelapha salokhu kuziphatha.

Indlela yokubona umqambimanga we-pathological? 10 Izimpawu

Ochwepheshe bacwaninga lesi simo ngethemba lokunquma ukuthi zikhona yini izimpawu ezingakhomba umuntu ozalwa yi-mythomaniac. Nazi eziyi-10 ezingakuholela endleleni yakho :

1. Nakisisa uhlobo lwamanga owasolayo

Ngokuvamile, ama-mythomaniacs aqamba amanga ukuze ahehe uzwela lwakho. Ngaphandle kwalokho, yingoba banesizungu noma banenkinga yomshwalense.

2. Bheka ukuthi umqambimanga we-pathological uphinda yini izindaba ezixoxwa abanye

Kuvamile ukuthi umuntu ofunda inganekwane asebenzise indaba yomunye. Uma indaba oyizwayo izwakala uyijwayele futhi umuntu oyixoxayo ethi eyakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi iyinganekwane.

3. Insumansumane ivamise ukuba nguchwepheshe wokukhohlisa

Ukuze kufihlwe amanga abo, abaqambimanga be-pathological bangochwepheshe bokukhohlisa. Ngakho-ke, lapho bexhumana nawe, zama ukuthola imizamo engase ibe khona yokukhohlisa.

4. Bheka indlela aziphatha ngayo ukuze ubone ukuthi uyayivika yini imibuzo

Uma uqala ukubuza imibuzo ye-mythomaniac, ungabona ukuthi bazozama ukugwema ukuyiphendula. Ngesimo sakhe sokukhohlisa, uzozama ukukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyiphendulile imibuzo yakho. Nakuba lokhu kungeke kube njalo.

5. Qaphela indlela umuntu asabela ngayo lapho umbona eqamba amanga

Umqambimanga we-pathological uzozama ukubeka izaba lapho ebanjwe amanga. Angase futhi athukuthelise noma azivikele ukuze aphazamise ukunaka emangeni akhe.

6. Amehlo omqambimanga angamnika kude

Ukukholisa umxhumanisi wakhe ngeqiniso lamanga akhe, inganekwane ivame ukumbheka kakhulu emehlweni. Ngokuhlala ebukana ngamehlo, uzama ukubonakala ethembekile.

7. Kungenzeka ukuthi i-mythomaniac ibonakale ikhululekile kakhulu

Njengoba amanga ehlelekile kuye, umqambimanga we-pathological akazisoli. Ngenxa yalokho, ngokuvamile uyakhululeka lapho eqamba amanga. Uzobonakala ezolile futhi engabonisi noma yiziphi izimpawu zokwethuka noma ukukhathazeka.

8. Naka ngokukhethekile iphimbo lezwi lakhe

Kuyiqiniso ukuthi lesi sibonakaliso asibonakali kuzo zonke izinganekwane, kodwa sisivumela ukuba siqaphele ezinye zazo. Uma omunye umuntu eshintsha ngokuzumayo iphimbo lakhe futhi ezinye izimpawu ezishiwo lapha ziyabonakala, lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi uqamba amanga kuwe.

9. Umqambimanga uzofaka ukumamatheka okungelona iqiniso

Uma umuntu emamatheka ngobuqotho kubonakala ebusweni bakhe. Lapho amehlo eba mancane, ukumamatheka okuyiqiniso nakakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma kungamanga, uzobona kuphela umlomo unyakaza.

10. Zibuze ukuthi ngabe lowo muntu unezinyawo phansi

Izazi ze-Mythomanics zivame ukukholelwa ukuthi izinkolelo zabo ziyiqiniso. Banqanyuliwe eqinisweni futhi banemibono engelona iqiniso. Abaqamba amanga banomkhuba wokwenza ihaba ukuze babaleke futhi bagweme ukuhlupheka.

Kungani umuntu eba umqambimanga oyimpoqo?

Impela, ososayensi sebeneminyaka eminingi befunda amanga e-pathological. Nokho, imbangela yayo ayikaziwa.

Umqondo wokuqamba amanga we-pathological uhlotshaniswe nokusetshenziswa kabi kotshwala, ukuhlukumezeka, ukulimala kwengqondo, nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Mayelana nalokhu kwakamuva, singacaphuna i-narcissistic perversion disorder, ukunganaki kobuntu noma ukuphazamiseka okuyiqiniso.

Kodwa-ke, abaqambimanga be-pathological kungenzeka bangabi nazo zonke lezi zinkinga ezenzeka ngokuhlanganyela. Ngokuvamile abakwazi ukuzibamba ekuqambeni amanga. Kulesi simo, ukuqamba amanga yi-pathological disorder, hhayi uphawu.

Ingabe umqambimanga we-pathological uyawavuma amanga akhe?

Njengoba kunikezwe iqiniso lokuthi unqanyuliwe ngokoqobo, a i-mythomaniac kuzoba nzima ukuqaphela amanga akhe. Inganekwane izophinda iziqambi zayo kaningi kangangokuthi izoba yindlela yokuphila. Lo muntu cishe uzowavikela amanga akhe noma ngabe bungakanani ubufakazi obuphikisana naye.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, umqambimanga we-pathological akakwazi ukushintsha ngaphandle kokuthi azivumele yena nabanye ukuthi unenkinga edinga usizo. Abasondelene naye, ikakhulukazi umndeni wakhe, umlingani wakhe nabangane bakhe, bangamthonya futhi bamkhuthaze ukuthi abonane futhi alandele ukwelashwa.

Kumuntu ongumqambimanga we-pathological, indlela yokululama isidlulile ukubonisana nochwepheshe abaqeqeshiwe njengodokotela wokusebenza kwengqondo. Lo chwepheshe uzokwazi ukunikeza ukwelashwa ukuze aqonde izimbangela ezibangela amanga angapheli futhi asize i-mythomaniac yamukele ukuphila kwayo njengoba injalo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nomsebenzi, umqambimanga we-pathological angakwazi nciphisa imiphumela ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kuthinta yena kanye nalabo abasondelene naye.

Ireferensi ye-bibliographic kumqambimanga we-pathological

Nazi izikhombo eziyisikhombisa zebhayibhili ngesiFulentshi mayelana nomqambimanga wezifo:

1. Lévy, J. (2013). Ukukhohlisa kwengqondo: Umqambimanga we-pathological kanye nemiphumela yako. EParis: Editions L’Harmattan.
2. Delumeau, J. (2010). Amanga: isifundo sezengqondo. EParis: Editions Odile Jacob.
3. Klein, J. (2015). Iqiniso namanga: Izindlela zomqambimanga we-pathological. I-Lyon: I-Éditions de l’Atelier.
4. Bourdieu, P. (1990). Amasu obufakazi: ukuvuma izono namanga emphakathini. I-Paris: I-Éditions du Seuil.
5. Rousseau, C. (2018). Abaqambimanga: I-Psychopathology kanye nokukhohlisa. I-Marseille: I-Éditions Erès.
6. Fauré, C. (2017). I-Psychology yokuqamba amanga: Ukuqonda umqambimanga we-pathological. Toulouse: Éditions Érès.
7. Tordjman, S. (2021). Amanga neqiniso: Izindlela zomtholampilo nezethiyori kumqambimanga we-pathological. I-Paris: I-Éditions Presses Universitaires de France.

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Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, ukuqamba amanga kwe-pathological kuyinto eyinkimbinkimbi engathinta kakhulu ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu. Ukubona izimpawu zomuntu onamanga oyimpoqo kubalulekile ukuze uvikele imizwa yakho futhi wakhe ubudlelwano obunempilo. Nakuba i-mythomania ingaxhunyaniswa nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuhlukahlukene, ukuqwashisa nosizo lochwepheshe kunganikeza indlela yokululama. Ngokusondela kulesi sihloko ngokuqonda nangozwelo, kungenzeka ukuzulazula ezinseleleni ezivezwa ukuqamba amanga nge-pathological ngenkathi ugcina imingcele yomuntu siqu.

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