Umuntu ohlanekezelekayo uyamzonda isisulu sakhe ngoba simkhumbuza lokho azizondayo ngaye. Ubheka isisulu sakhe njengomfanekiso wokungapheleli kwakhe siqu ukuntula uthando nokungahloniphi umuntu wakhe. Ngempela, umuntu ohlanekezelekayo we-narcissistic uthola amaphutha akhe nobuthakathaka bakhe, futhi akakwazi ukubekezelela ukubona lokhu komunye umuntu.
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Kungani i-narcissistic pervert idinga isisulu?
Umuntu ophambukayo ozithanda ngokweqile unesidingo esiyisisekelo sokuba isisulu silondoloze ibhalansi yaso ebuthakathaka yengqondo kanye neyakhe isithombe sakho Lokhu kuguquguquka okunobuthi kuvumela isisulu ukuba silawule, sibonise ubukhulu baso, futhi sigcwalise isikhala esijulile semizwa. Isisulu siba yisibuko esibonisa ubukhulu baso obungamanga, ngesikhathi esifanayo sisebenza njengesitsha sokungaqiniseki nokukhungatheka kwaso.
Ngokukhohlisa kanye nokubusa isisulu sakhe, i-narcissistic pervert iqinisa umuzwa wayo wamandla futhi ifihle amaphutha akhe. Le nqubo yokuhlukumeza imnikeza ukuqinisekiswa okuqhubekayo kanye nomthombo wokunakwa awufisayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhlupheka kwesisulu kukhulisa isidingo saso sokuzizwa sibalulekile futhi sibalulekile. Lobu budlelwano obungalingani bubalulekile kumuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic. Ngaphandle kwesisulu, uzozithola ebhekene nokushiyeka kwakhe kanye nomuzwa wokungabi nalutho afuna ukukugwema.
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Kungani i-narcissistic ihlanekezela njengengxabano?
Umphendukezeli we-narcissistic ukhangwa ikakhulukazi ekungqubuzaneni ngoba uthola izinzuzo eziningi ezingokwengqondo kuyo. Ukungqubuzana kusebenza njengenkundla yokubonisa ukuphakama kwakhe okufanele futhi alawule abanye. Ukubheka njengethuba lokuxhaphaza, ukudicilela phansi kanye nokubusa, ngaleyo ndlela aqinise umuzwa wakhe wamandla.
Izimo zokungqubuzana zimvumela ukuthi azibeke njengesisulu noma iqhawe, kuye ngokuthi yini esebenzela izithakazelo zakhe kangcono okwamanje. Ukwengeza, ukungqubuzana kudala ukunakwa okukhulu, ondle isidingo somuntu esinganeliseki sokuqashelwa. Usebenzisa lezi zikhathi ukuze aveze ukungazethembi kwakhe kwabanye, kuyilapho egwema ukuzihlola. Izinxushunxushu ezingokomzwelo ezidalwe ukungqubuzana nazo zimvumela ukuthi agcine abathandekayo bakhe besesimweni sokudideka nokuncika. Okokugcina, i-narcissistic pervert ngokuvamile ibona ukuyekethisa njengobuthakathaka. Ngakho-ke ukungqubuzana kuba indlela yakhe yokusebenzelana ayikhethayo, okumenza acabange ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi unesandla esiphezulu.
Yini umphendukezeli we-narcissistic azonda kakhulu?
I-narcissistic pervert izonda ngaphezu kwakho konke okusongela isithombe sakhe sokuphelela nokulawula. Ukunganaki cishe yilokho akuzonda kakhulu, ngoba kumncisha ukunakwa nokuqinisekiswa akulangazelela kakhulu.
Akakwazi futhi ukubekezelela ukugxekwa noma ukungabaza ngezenzo zakhe, njengoba kubukela phansi ubuso bakhe bokuphakama. Ukuzimela kanye nokuzimela kwezisulu zayo kubonakala njengezinsongo eziqondile ethonyeni layo. Uyakuzonda ukubhekana namaphutha akhe noma ubuqiniso bokuziphatha kwakhe okunobuthi. Ukulahlekelwa ukulawula, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo noma phezu komuntu, akubekezeleleki. Imikhawulo ebekwe abanye ibonwa njengokudelelwa komuntu siqu.
Okokugcina, uzwela lwangempela nobudlelwano obulinganiselayo bungaphandle futhi busongela kuye, ngoba babekela inselele uhlelo lwakhe lwenani olusekelwe ekuxhashazweni nasekubuseni. Ngamafuphi, noma yini engaveza ubunjalo bakhe bangempela noma inciphise amandla akhe iyinzondo yakhe ejulile.
Kungani i-narcissistic ihlanekezela izonda isisulu sayo kodwa incike kuye?
I-narcissistic pervert igcina ubudlelwano obuyindida nesisulu sakhe, ixuba inzondo nokuncika. I-narcissistic pervert iyamzonda isisulu sakhe ngoba simelela isibuko sobuthakathaka bakhe nokungazethembi enqaba ukukuvuma. Isisulu siphinde sibe yingozi enkulu ekulawuleni kwakhe, ikakhulukazi uma sibonisa izimpawu zokuzimela noma ukumelana.
Nokho, uncike kakhulu kuye ngenxa yezizathu eziningana. Ungumthombo wakhe oyinhloko wokuqinisekisa, ukunaka kanye nokunikezwa kwe-narcissistic. Ngaphandle kwakhe, wayezozithola ebhekene nesikhala esingaphakathi esingabekezeleleki. Isisulu sisebenza njengendawo yokwamukela imibono yakhe engemihle kanye nembuzi yokubalekela ukwehluleka kwaso.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuxhaphaza nokuphatha isisulu sakhe kumnika umuzwa wamandla nokuphakama okudinga njalo. Lokhu kuncika kudala umjikelezo onobuthi lapho umphendukezeli we-narcissistic eshintshana phakathi kokwehlisa inani nokwenza kahle isisulu sakhe. Akakwazi ukumdedela kodwa futhi akakwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obunempilo nobulinganiselayo.
Ungasibona kanjani isisulu se-narcissistic pervert?
Izisulu ze-narcissistic pervert ngokuvamile zibonisa izimpawu ezibalulekile ezibalulekile ukuzibona:
- Ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba
- Ukukhathazeka njalo nokungabaza
- Icala elidlulele nelingenabulungiswa
- Ukuthambekela kokuzithethelela njalo
- Ukwesaba ukwahlulela kwabanye
- Yehlisa izidingo zakho
- Uxolisa njalo
Ireferensi yezincwadi zokuthola ukuthi kungani umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic ezonda isisulu sakhe
Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa ezikhuluma ngendikimba ye-narcissistic pervert kanye namandla obudlelwano babo nezisulu zabo:
- Miller, J.A. (2012). I-narcissistic pervert: Ukuqonda nokuvikela izisulu. Izinhlobo ze-Eyrolles.
- Kets de Vries, MFR (2010). I-Narcissism emsebenzini: Ukuqonda ama-narcissistic perverts endaweni yokusebenza. Izinguqulo ze-InterEditions.
- I-Lemoine, C. (2015). Izisulu zama-narcissistic perverts: Ukuhlupheka okungabonakali. Izinguqulo Zokuqala.
- UFischer, A. (2009). I-Psychology yobuntu be-narcissistic kanye nabonakele. Izinguqulo zikaDe Boeck.
- U-Pichot, A. (2018). Ukukhohlisa kwengqondo: Ukuqonda izindlela ze-narcissistic pervert. Izinguqulo Leduc.s.
- U-Delépine, C. (2017). I-Narcissism kanye Nobudlelwano Obulimazayo: Ukucacisa I-Toxic Bond. Izinguqulo ze-Payot.
- U-Gutton, J. (2011). Umphefumulo wama-manipulators: I-Psychology ye-narcissistic pervert. Izinguqulo Albin Michel.
Lezi zincwadi zizokunikeza imibono eyahlukahlukene mayelana nokuziphatha kwabaphendukezeli be-narcissistic kanye namandla abo nezisulu.
Isiphetho
Sengiphetha, i-narcissistic pervert igcina ubuhlobo obuyinkimbinkimbi nesisulu sakhe, i-oscillating phakathi kwenzondo nokuthembela. Lokhu kuguquguquka okunobuthi kusekelwe esidingweni sokulawula nokukhohlisa, kuyilapho eveza ubuthakathaka bomuntu kwabanye. Isisulu, njengesibuko sokungazethembi kwabo, siba kokubili umthombo wokuqinisekisa kanye nento yokudelelwa. Lo mjikelezo obhubhisayo ugqamisa ukubaluleka kokuqonda lezi zindlela zokuvikela kangcono izisulu nokukhuthaza ukuphulukiswa kwazo.
Okunye ukuhlolwa kwe-narcissistic okuhlanekezelwe
- Ukuhlola – Ukubamba okuphambene ne-Narcissistic
- Ukuhlola – Ingabe nginomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic?
- Ukuhlolwa – Ingabe ngiyisisulu somuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic?
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Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.