I-narcissistic pervert: Izincwadi eziphezulu ezingu-10 zokuphendukela kwe-narcissistic

Igama elithi narcissistic pervert lisetshenziswe ngokukhululeka isikhathi esithile manje. Ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nalokhu kuziphatha, kuhlale kuthakazelisa ukufunda izincwadi mayelana nama-narcissistic perverts ebhalwe ngodokotela bengqondo, abelaphi noma izisulu. Ukukunikeza umbono wemisebenzi ethakazelisa kakhulu ongayifunda, nansi Izincwadi eziyi-10 ezihamba phambili ezikhuluma nge-narcissistic pervert.

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I-Narcissistic Pervert Book: Izincwadi ezihamba phambili eziyi-10 ku-PN

1. Ukuphathwa kabi kwemizwelo kubabhangqwana: Ukubhekana nomuntu ophendukezela inzondo – uPascal Couderc noPascale Chapaux-Morelli

Umuntu othanda ukuzikhukhumeza ubonisa ubuntu obunobuthi obukhulu nobuqili ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana. Baphatha kabi umlingani wabo ngothando ukuze bambhubhise futhi bamlawule kangcono, bedlala njengesisulu ukuze… ukwenza umuntu azizwe enecala Esinye. Ufuna ukulawula umlingani wakhe ukuze lona wakamuva angabi nabuntu futhi ancike kuye ngokuphelele.

Ngalo msebenzi, uPascal Couderc noPascale Chapaux Morelli bakhuluma ngalesi sihloko. Ithuthukisa amacala aphathekayo ukuze ikusize uqonde ngokugcwele ubuntu bomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic nokuthi ungazikhulula kanjani futhi uzakhe kabusha ngemva kobudlelwane ne-PN.

2. Omama abangekho – Jasmine Lee Cori

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisebenza ngokukhethekile ekusekeleni abantu abadala ababeyizisulu zokuhlukunyezwa kwasebuntwaneni, u-Jasmin Lee Cori ukhuluma ngomama abakhohlakele kanye nemiphumela yokuziphatha kwabo ezinganeni zabo ngale ncwadi. Ukuntuleka kothando nokungabi nalutho kwemizwa izingane zakho umama ohlanekezelwe onarcissistic kungabangela izidingo zokunakwa okukhethekile. Kodwa futhi nemizabalazo ejulile ekujuleni kwalezi zingane.

Le ncwadi ikuvumela ukuba uqonde kangcono isimo sengqondo sezingane ze-PN esezikhulile. Umbhali uphinde abanike izeluleko ezizobasiza belaphe futhi banqobe amanxeba angaphakathi ashiywe ngumama.

3. Izingane-abadala bemilutha yotshwala: uJanet Geringer

Ukuhlala emndenini ongasebenzi kahle kuhlale kunemiphumela ebalulekile ezinganeni. Endabeni yomzali ongumlutha wotshwala, ingane kumelwe ibe nesibopho sayo siqu noyise noma unina ongumlutha wotshwala. Uzothatha indawo yomuntu omdala kusenesikhathi futhi ubuntwana bakhe buzothinteka kakhulu.

Ngencwadi yakhe ethi “Children-Adults of Alcoholics”, umbhali uJanet Geringer ukunika iseluleko sokuthi ungazakha kanjani kabusha futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukhohlwe ukucekelwa phansi okungokomzwelo nangokwengqondo okwenzeka ebuntwaneni nomzali owumlutha wotshwala.

4. I-Narcissistic pervert: Izigcawu ezingu-50 zansuku zonke ezingenabungozi ukuze uzimbule futhi ubhekane nazo – Anne Clotilde Ziégler

I-narcissistic pervert isazi sokukhohlisa esicasha ngemaski yenkosana ebukekayo nelungile. Kodwa-ke, empeleni, ungumlingiswa okhohlisayo, onobugovu futhi omubi ofuna ukulawula nokukhohlisa umlingani wakhe.

Udokotela wokusebenza kwengqondo, u-Anne Clotilde Ziègler ukuhlinzeka ngencwadi yakhe ngezimo ezingu-50 zokuphila kwansuku zonke ezingakuxwayisa futhi zidalule ubuso bangempela bomuntu ophendukezela inzondo kulabo abaseduze kwakho.

5. Amanxeba ama-5 akuvimbela ukuba ube nguwe – uLise Bourbeau

U-Lise Bourdeau, uchwepheshe wokuthuthuka komuntu siqu, ukuhlinzeka ngale ncwadi amanxeba ama-5 angakuvimbela empilweni futhi akuvimbele ukuthi uye phambili. Lokhu ukulahlwa, ukulahlwa, ukululazwa, ukukhaphela nokungabi nabulungiswa.

Ngalo msebenzi, umbhali ukumema ukuthi uthole ngayinye yalezi zilonda ngayinye ngayinye ukuze uzakhe kabusha futhi uqhubeke nokuphila impilo yakho engcono kakhulu. Ngempela, yilapho kuphela lapho uqonda lokho okuzwa ekujuleni kwakho lapho ungachuma khona njengomuntu ngaphandle kokwesaba.

6. Abaphendukezeli beNarcissistic: Bangobani? Zisebenza kanjani? Indlela yokuphunyuka kubo? UJean-Charles Bouchoux

Ubudlelwano obunobuthi nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic abubonakali nhlobo ekuqaleni. Ekuqaleni konke kuhamba kahle kakhulu, kodwa ngokushesha kakhulu imizwa yecala, ukwehla, ukulawula kanye nokukhohlisa kuphakama.

Encwadini yakhe, uJean-Charles Bouchoux ukhuluma ngabahlanekezeli be-narcissistic, ukuthi basebenza kanjani kanye nezicupho abavame ukuzibeka ukuze babophe izisulu zabo. Ikunikeza izimbangela ezingenzeka zokuziphatha okuhlanekezelwe namathiphu okuthi wazi kanjani indlela yokukhohlwa umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic futhi usuke kumlingiswa onjalo.

7. Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokokuziphatha: udlame oluhlanekezelwe nsuku zonke – uMarie-France Hirigoyen

Ububi bomngane womshado, umzali noma umuntu osebenza naye bungaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu kumuntu. Ngempela, asikuqapheli ngaso leso sikhathi, kodwa amazwi alimazayo, ukukhohlisa kanye nokushushiswa ngokwengqondo kungonakalisa ubudlelwano noma umsebenzi womuntu ohlukunyeziwe.

Ukukunikeza umbono ocacile wokuthi kuyini ukuhlukunyezwa kokuziphatha, uMarie-France Hirigoyen, udokotela wezifo zengqondo kanye ne-psychoanalyst unikeza kule ncwadi konke odinga ukukwazi mayelana nalokhu kuziphatha okunobuthi nsuku zonke nokuthi ungasinqoba kanjani futhi usinqobe lesi simo.

8. PN – Flora Maginelle

Ngencwadi yakhe, uFlora Maginelle unikeza ubufakazi obuthinta inhliziyo ngempilo yakhe nomyeni wakhe okhohlakele. Uma konke kwakuhamba kahle ekuqaleni kobudlelwane babo, iphupho elibi laqala ngemva kokuzalwa kwendodana yakhe. Ulandisa ngodlame olungokwengqondo kanye nokuxhashazwa akubekezelele okwamenza a isisulu sokuphendukela kwe-narcissistic.

Ungathola kule ncwadi ehlanekezelwe izincazelo mayelana nokusebenza komuntu onjalo kanye nezixazululo zokubalekela ithonya lakhe.

9. Abaphendukezeli beNarcissistic – Alberto Eiguer

Uma umqondo we-narcissistic pervert uthandwa kakhulu namuhla, izinkolelo eziningi zamanga zizungeza lesi sifo. Ukucacisa le mibono, umbhali u-Alberto Eiguer unikeza ngencwadi yakhe ukuvela kwama-narcissistic perverts kuze kube manje. Iphinde ibonise ukuthi ukuxilongwa kwabelaphi kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kusebenza kanjani ezimweni ezithile ezingavamile. Futhi-ke, u-Alberto Eiguer naye ukhuluma ngamathiphu nezihluthulelo zokugwema ukuwela ogibeni lokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic.

10. I-narcissistic perverted manipulator: Ungazikhulula kanjani kuyo? – UGeneviève Schmit

Wonke umuntu useneminyaka eminingi esebenzisa igama elithi narcissistic pervert ngaphandle kokuliqonda ngempela. Ngomsebenzi wakhe, uGeneviève Schmit, oseke waba yisisulu somuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic empilweni yakhe, usinika ulwazi oludingekayo ukuze ubhekane ne-narcissistic pervert, uzikhulule, uzakhe kabusha futhi uphile impilo yakho engcono kakhulu.

Kungani ufunda Incwadi nge-PN? 

Nazi izinzuzo ezihlukene zokufunda incwadi nge-PN nosizo engakunikeza uma uhlala ne-PN:

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1. Bona izimpawu ezihlukile ze-PN
2. Funda ubufakazi bezisulu esezike zabhekana nezimo ezifanayo
3. Khomba izicupho kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe-narcissistic pervert
4. Ukwazi ukuzikhulula ethonyeni le-PN

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1. Bona izimpawu ezihlukile ze-PN

Ukufunda incwadi ku-PN kukuvumela ukuthi unqume kahle izici zomphendukezeli we-narcissistic. Impela, izincwadi esizinikezayo lapha zinikeza yonke imininingwane ephathelene ne-narcissistic pervert. Njengoba imisebenzi isebenzisa amagama alula futhi kulula ukuwaqonda, afinyeleleka kuwo wonke umuntu. Ungathola kulezi zincwadi izimo zempilo yansuku zonke ezizokusiza uqonde ukuthi uphila nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic.

Isibonelo, encwadini ethi ” I-Narcissistic pervert: 50 izigcawu zansuku zonke ezingenacala ukuze uzimbule futhi ubhekane nazo“, uzothola amacala aphathekayo mayelana nesimo sengqondo nokuziphatha kukamama okhohlakele uma kukhulunywa ngokuvusa izingane zakhe.

2. Funda Ubufakazi Bezisulu ezike zabhekana nesimo esifanayo

Eziningi zalezi zincwadi ziphinde zikhulume ngobufakazi bokuthi ungaphila kanjani nomuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic. Ngempela, izisulu zingama-psychoanalyst angcono kakhulu azi kahle ukuthi kuyini. Basesimweni esingcono kakhulu sokuqonda nokubhala incwadi ekhanda le-narcissistic pervert.

Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukuthola ukuthi abanye abantu abasesimweni sakho bahlangabezane nani, funda izincwadi ezinjengalezi Incwadi Encane idikhoda yama-narcissistic perverts ingakusiza ngempela. Futhi, ungathola kulezi zincwadi izeluleko ezivela kwabayizisulu ezikwazile ukuzikhulula futhi bazakhe kabusha ngemuva kokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic.

3. Khomba izicupho kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe-Narcissistic Pervert

Umuntu ohlanekezelekayo uyamzonda isisulu sakhe futhi unobuntu obudabukisayo obuthanda ukubenza bazizwe benecala. Uma usuhlala ne-PN isikhathi eside kakhulu, ungase ungakwazi ukubona ukukhohlisa nezicelo ezilula. Ukufunda incwadi ekhuluma nge-narcissistic pervert kungakusiza uqonde ubuntu bomuntu ohlanekezelwe futhi kukhulule ingqondo yakho esenzweni afuna ukukudala kuwe. Uma usuwazi ukuthi izicupho kanye nokukhohlisa kwe-PN ezethula kanjani, uzofunda ukuba nesimo sengqondo esingcono kakhulu sokubhekana nazo.

4. Ukwazi ukuzikhulula ethonyeni le-PN

Futhi kunjalo, ukufunda izincwadi mayelana ne-narcissistic pervert kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuzikhulula ku-narcissistic pervert. Ngokufunda lezi zincwadi, ungakwazi kahle kahle isihloko se-narcissistic pervert futhi uphumelele nokusebenza ngokwakho. Uma usuhlale ne-PN iminyaka eminingana, kuzothatha isikhathi ukuzihlukanisa ngokuphelele nayo. Njengoba lobu kuwubudlelwano obunobuthi futhi obuhlukumezayo, uzodinga isikhathi sokuzakha kabusha.

Ungathola amathiphu namasu esiqalo esisha futhi uphile impilo yakho engcono kakhulu kulezi zincwadi. Uma ungathanda usizo lochwepheshe, ungangabazi ukuxhumana nodokotela wezengqondo okhethekile ukuze akusize ngokukhululwa kwakho.

Izinkomba ze-bibliographic eziphendukela ku-narcissistic

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni ethi “i-narcissistic pervert”:

1. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Ukuguqulwa kweNarcissistic. I-Paris: Izinguqulo ze-Payot.
2. Eiguer, A. (1989). I-narcissistic pervert kanye nomlingani wakhe. EParis: Dunod.
3. Hurni, M., & Stoll, G. (2002). I-psychic rampages yansuku zonke. EParis: L’Harmattan.
4. Sirota, A. (2018). I-Narcissistic perverts: qonda, uhlakaniphe, unqobe. EParis: Dunod.
5. Bayle, G., & Prudent-Bayle, A. (2003). Izikhungo zeNarcissistic kanye nokuhlanekezela. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 67 (3), 805-818.
6. Defontaine, J. (2003). Ezinye izici zokudluliswa kwe-narcissistic perversion. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 67 (3), 839-855.
7. Chabert, C. (2003). Ngibheke!. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 67 (3), 911-923.

Lezi zithenjwa zinikeza isisekelo esiqinile sokujulisa ukuqonda kwesayensi komqondo we-narcissistic pervert kanye nokubonakaliswa kwayo ezimweni ezihlukahlukene.

Isiphetho

Izincwadi nezinkomba eziphathelene nokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic kusivumela ukuthi siqonde kangcono lobu buntu obuyinkimbinkimbi, izindlela zabo zokukhohlisa kanye nomthelela wabo ebudlelwaneni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungobufakazi noma ukuhlaziya kwesayensi, le misebenzi inikeza amathuluzi abalulekile okuhlonza, ukulawula kanye nokunqoba umthelela walokhu kuziphatha okunobuthi, kuyilapho kukhuthazwa ukwakha kabusha komuntu siqu.