Izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism: Ukuhlaziywa okujulile

I-Narcissism ingumqondo oyinkimbinkimbi oye wahlaba umxhwele izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomphakathi jikelele amashumi eminyaka. Nakuba ngokuvamile kubonakala kalula, kunezinhlobo ezimbalwa ze-narcissism, ngayinye enezici zayo kanye nokubonakaliswa. Lesi sihloko sihlola izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism, incazelo yazo, izimbangela zazo ezingaba khona kanye nemiphumela yazo kubantu ngabanye nakulabo ababazungezile.

I-Narcissism: I-spectrum kunesigaba kanambambili

Le i-narcissism akuwona umbuzo olula othi “yebo” noma “cha.” Kunalokho, iyi-spectrum enamazinga ahlukene obunzima. Ngakolunye uhlangothi kukhona izinhlobo ezithambile ze-narcissism ezingabonakala njengokuziphatha okucasulayo kodwa okungenangozi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwe-spectrum kunezinhlobo ezinzima kakhulu ezingaba nemiphumela elimazayo ebudlelwaneni babantu phakathi kwabantu kanye nempilo-mpilo engokomzwelo yalabo abathintekile.

Umehluko phakathi kwe-narcissism kanye ne-narcissistic personality disorder

Kubalulekile ukuqonda umehluko phakathi kwe-narcissism njengesici sobuntu kanye ne-narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). I-Narcissism yigama elichazayo elihlanganisa iqoqo lokuziphatha nezimo zengqondo, kuyilapho i-NPD iwukuxilongwa okuthile komtholampilo. I-TPN idinga ukuhlangabezana nemibandela ethile echazwe ku-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) noma i-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11).

Izici ezijwayelekile ze-narcissism

Nakuba ukubonakaliswa kwe-narcissism kungahluka, izici ezithile ngokuvamile zikhona:

1. Ukungabi nozwelo
2. Ukuzizwa uphakeme
3. Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuqinisekisa
4. Ubunzima bokulawula imizwa
5. Ukuthambekela kokuxhaphaza abanye
6. Ukungazethembi okujulile okusithwe ukubonakala kokuzethemba.

Izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism

Nazi izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism:

• I-Grandiose narcissism

I-Grandiose narcissism cishe iwuhlobo olubonakala kakhulu. Abantu abanalolu hlobo lwe-narcissism banombono ophakeme wokubaluleka namakhono abo. Bahlala befuna ukutuswa nokunakwa kwabanye, futhi bangaba nokuqhosha nokuzehlisa.

• I-narcissism efihliwe (noma efihliwe).

Ngokungafani ne-grandiose narcissism, i-covert narcissism icashe kakhulu. Abantu abanalolu hlobo lwe-narcissism bangase babonakale benamahloni noma begodliwe ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphakathi baphethe amaphupho obuhle kanye nesidingo esikhulu sokuqashelwa. Bangase babe nokuzwela ngokweqile ekugxekeni futhi babe nomona ojulile ngabanye.

• I-narcissism yomphakathi

Ukuzikhukhumeza komphakathi kubonakala ngesidingo esikhulu sokuqashelwa ngeminikelo yomuntu emphakathini noma esizathwini esithile. Laba bantu bazibona njengabasizi abangenabugovu, kodwa isisusa sabo esiyinhloko sihlala siwukuzanelisa komuntu siqu kunokuba…ukuzidela kuyiqiniso.

• I-narcissism enonya

I-narcissism enonya ibhekwa njengenye yezindlela eziyingozi kakhulu. Ihlanganisa izici ze-narcissism nalezo ze-psychopathy kanye ne-sadism. Abantu abanalolu hlobo lwe-narcissism bangakhohlisa, babe nolaka, futhi bangabi nokuzisola.

• I-Benign narcissism

I-narcissism emnene iwuhlobo oluthambile olungathathwa njengesigaba sokukhula esijwayelekile, ikakhulukazi entsheni nakubantu abadala. Ibonakala ngokuyize okuthile kanye nesidingo sokunakwa, kodwa ngaphandle kwezici ezilimazayo zezinye izinhlobo ze-narcissism.

• I-narcissism yesizukulwane noma yamasiko

Lolu hlobo lwe-narcissism lusho ukuthambekela kwe-narcissistic okubonwa kuso sonke isizukulwane noma isiko lonke. Kungathonywa izici zomphakathi, njengokugcizelela ubuntu noma umthelela wenkundla yezokuxhumana.

• I-narcissism ehlanganisiwe

Abanye abantu bangase babonise izici zohlobo olulodwa lwe-narcissism, okwenza ukuhlukaniswa kwabo kube nzima kakhulu. Lolu hlobo lwe-narcissism exubile lungahlanganisa izici zezinhlobo ezincane ezihlukene, zenze okuyingqayizivele futhi ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuphina iphrofayela.

Izimbangela ezingase ze-narcissism

Umsuka we-narcissism uyinkimbinkimbi futhi isihloko semibono eminingi. Phakathi kwezinto ezingase zibandakanyeke, singabala:

1. Ezemfundo: Imfundo evumela kakhulu noma, ngokuphambene, egxeka kakhulu ingaba nomthelela ekuthuthukisweni kwezimpawu ze-narcissistic.
2. Ukuhlukumezeka kwasebuntwaneni: Izehlakalo zangaphambi kwesikhathi ezibuhlungu kwesinye isikhathi zingaholela ekwamukelweni kwezindlela zokuvikela i-narcissistic.
3. Izici zofuzo: Olunye ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthambekela kofuzo ku-narcissism.
4. Umthelela Wamasiko: Ukuhlonishwa komphakathi kwezici ezithile ze-narcissistic kungakhuthaza ukukhula kwazo.

Imiphumela yezinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism

I-Narcissism ingaba nemiphumela ebalulekile ezimpilweni zabantu abathintekayo nalabo ababazungezile:

• Umthelela ebudlelwaneni babantu

Abantu abangama-Narcissistic bavame ukuba nobunzima bokugcina ubudlelwano obunempilo, obuhlala njalo. Ukuntula kwabo uzwela nokuthambekela kokuxhaphaza kungadala ukungezwani nezingxabano eziphindelelayo.

• Izinkinga zobungcweti

Nakuba ezinye izici zokunganaki zingase zikhuthaze impumelelo yomsebenzi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zingaholela ebunzimeni. Ukuziphatha okuzikhukhumezayo nokuntuleka kokubambisana kungalimaza ubudlelwano bomsebenzi kanye nokuthuthuka komsebenzi.

• Impilo Yengqondo

I-Narcissism ivame ukuhlotshaniswa nezinye izinkinga zempilo yengqondo, njengokucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, noma ukuphazamiseka kokusebenzisa izidakamizwa. Ubunzima bokusingatha ukugxekwa nokwehluleka kungaholela ekucindezelekeni okukhulu ngokomzwelo.

• Umthelela womphakathi

Ngezinga elikhulu, ukusabalala kwezimpawu ze-narcissistic emphakathini kungaba nemiphumela kumagugu eqoqo, ukuguquguquka komphakathi kanye nezimo zezombusazwe.

I-Narcissism kanye ne-narcissistic personality disorder

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi akubona bonke abantu ababonisa izici ze-narcissistic okufanele babhekane nazo i-narcissistic personality disorder. Ukuxilongwa kwe-TPN kudinga ukuhlolwa okuphelele komtholampilo kanye nokuba khona kwezinqubo ezithile ezibangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu noma ukukhubazeka ekusebenzeni komphakathi kanye nomsebenzi.

Izinkomba ze-bibliographic ezinhlotsheni ezahlukene ze-narcissism

Nakhu okukhethiwe kwamareferensi ayisikhombisa ebhayibheli endikimbeni yezinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism:

1. Séguin, D. (2024). Ukwehluka kwezici zobuntu be-narcissistic: ekuqondeni kangcono i-pathology ye-narcissism.
2. I-Descôteaux, J., & Laverdière, O. (2019). I-narcissism evamile neye-pathological: isethulo esihlanganisayo semiqondo eyinhloko yaseNyakatho Melika ye-psychoanalytic.
3. Intshebe, R. (2021). I-Narcissism.
4. Willis, M. (2023). Izinhlobo ezimbili ze-narcissism: i-grandiose futhi esengozini.
5. Michaud, P. (2019). Wonke ama-narcisists?.
6. Cabanat, A., & Carton, F. (2021). Iwa ngento.
7. Sellier-Mesnard, É. (2021). Ukuhlangana nomunye kanye subjectivation.

Lezi zikhombo zinikeza umbono ojulile ezinhlotsheni ezahlukene ze-narcissism, kokubili ngokombono wethiyori nowezokwelapha.

Isiphetho

Izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism ziyisihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi futhi esiyinkimbinkimbi. Kusukela efomini elikhulu kuya kufomu elimboziwe, okuhlanganisa ukuhlukahluka kwamasiko nokuxubile, i-narcissism izibonakalisa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Ukuqonda lezi zinhlobo ezahlukene akusivumeli nje kuphela ukuthi siqonde kangcono lesi simo esingokwengqondo, kodwa futhi sithuthukise izindlela ezijwayele ukubhekana nazo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungokomuntu siqu, ngokomsebenzi noma kwezokwelapha.

Ukubona izinhlobo ezahlukene ze-narcissism kuvula indlela yokuqonda kangcono inkimbinkimbi yobuntu bomuntu kanye nezinselele ezingaba nazo ekusebenzelaneni kwethu kwansuku zonke. Iphinde igqamise ukubaluleka kwendlela ezwelayo nengenamaphutha endleleni esibona ngayo ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic, kuyilapho siqaphela umthelela ongase ube yingozi ezingaba nawo kubantu ngabanye nasemphakathini uwonke.

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