La depersonalization kuyinto engokwengqondo evame ukutholwa yizisulu zama-narcissistic perverts. Lolu wuphawu oludidayo ikakhulukazi olunganikeza umbono wokulahlekelwa ubuwena, webanga nomzimba womuntu noma ingqondo. Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola ukuthi yini i-depersonalization, kanye nesixhumanisi sakho nokukhohlisa kwengqondo okwenziwa abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic.
Kuyini depersonalization?
La depersonalization kuwumuzwa wokuzihlukanisa nawe, kungaba ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo. Abantu abathintekile bangase bazizwe sengathi bantanta ngaphandle kwemizimba yabo, bezibona benza ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka, noma abasaziboni emicabangweni noma emizweni yabo. Lesi simo sivame ukuhambisana nokungafezeki, lapho izwe langaphandle libonakala lingelona iqiniso ngokuzumayo noma sengathi libonwa ngefasitela elilufifi.
Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ukungabi ngumuntu akuyona inkinga ngokwayo, kodwa uphawu olutholakala ezimweni ezahlukene, okuhlanganisa…ukukhathazekaukucindezeleka, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwezisulu zokucindezeleka ama-manipulators e-narcissistic. I-narcissistic pervert, ngokusebenzisa amasu akhe okuhlukumeza ngokwengqondo, ingavusa noma ikhulise lo muzwa ngokufaka ukudideka okukhulu engqondweni yesisulu sakhe.
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Izimbangela zokungathembeki komuntu kuzisulu zama-narcissistic perverts
La ukuxhashazwa kwengqondo Ukukhohlisa okwenziwa ngumuntu ophambukayo ozithanda ngokweqile kuyimbangela evamile yokungabi ngumuntu siqu. Ngempela, lolu hlobo lokukhwabanisa lusebenzisa amasu anjengokuthi ukukhanyisa igesi (noma “ukuthumba okunengqondo”), ukulawula imizwa, kanye nokululaza okuqhubekayo, okwenza isisulu sibe sesimweni sokungabaza njalo ngemibono yaso.
- Ukukhanyisa igesi : Le nqubo ihlanganisa ukwenza isisulu singabaze iqiniso laso. Ngokushintsha amaqiniso noma ukuphika ukuthi kwenzekeni ngempela, umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic uyakwazi ukuhlanekezela umbono wesisulu sakhe, amenze angakwazi ukuhlukanisa okuyiqiniso nokungamanga. Le nqubo yokuqeda ukuzinzisa ingaholela ekulahlekelweni kokuxhumana nawe kanye nokwenza umuntu angabi samuntu.
- Ukulawula imizwelo : I-narcissistic pervert iphusha isisulu sakhe ukuba singabaze imizwa yaso ngokumtshela ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi “uyazwela kakhulu”, “i-paranoid”, noma “i-hysterical”. Isisulu, sikhathele ngokwengqondo, singase sizithole singaxhumene nemizwa yaso, sidale igebe phakathi kwengqondo yakhe nemizwelo yaso.
- Ukusulwa kobunikazi : Ngokugxeka okungapheli kanye namazwi alimazayo, i-narcissistic pervert ikwazi ukusula kancane kancane ubunikazi besisulu sakhe. Lesi sakamuva singase singasaziboni, sizizwe singelutho futhi singabi nabuntu, izici eziyisici zokungazenzi umuntu.
Imiphumela engokwengqondo yokwenziwa komuntu siqu
La depersonalization inemiphumela eminingi empilweni yengqondo yezisulu zama-narcissistic perverts. Umuzwa wokuhlukaniswa nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ungaba ujule kangangokuthi isisulu sizizwa “njengesibukeli” empilweni yaso. Nansi eminye yemiphumela ebaluleke kakhulu yalesi simo:
- Ukuhlukana isikhathi eside : Uma ukuhlukaniswa komuntu kuthatha isikhathi eside, kungabangela ukuhlukana okucacile, lapho isisulu sizizwa sihlukanisiwe ngokuphelele neqiniso. Lesi simo sokuhlukaniswa singenza noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhumana nomphakathi noma lochwepheshe lube nzima, njengoba umuntu engasazizwa “ekhona”.
- Ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba: Isisulu somuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, ohlala ehlaselwa ubuqotho bakhe kanye nobunikazi bakhe, angalahlekelwa ngokuphelele ukuzethemba emibonweni yakhe nasezinqumweni zakhe. Lokhu kulahlekelwa ukuzethemba ngokuvamile kuhambisana nokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka.
- Ukuzihlukanisa emphakathini: Ngaphansi kwethonya lomkhohlisi, umuntu angase azihlukanise nabantu abasondelene naye, ecabanga ukuthi ngeke akuqonde lokho abhekene nakho. Umuzwa wokuqondwa kabi noma ngisho wokuba “igobolondo elingenalutho” uqinisa ukuzihlukanisa nabantu.
I-Depersonalization kanye ne-narcissistic pervert syndrome: isixhumanisi esiseduze
Isixhumanisi phakathi kwe- depersonalization kanye nokukhohlisa ngokwengqondo kwama-narcissistic perverts kujulile. Izisulu, ngaphansi kwemijikelezo engaguquki ye ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo, ngezinye izikhathi baphephela ekuhlukaniseni umuntu njengendlela yokuzivikela. “Ngokuzihlukanisa” nemizwelo yabo kanye neqiniso labo, ngokungazi bazama ukuzivikela ebuhlungu obungabekezeleleki obubangelwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic.
La ukulahlekelwa ama-bearings kusenhliziyweni yalesi simo. I-narcissistic pervert idala isimo sokudideka okukhulu, lapho isisulu singasakwazi ukuthi sithembe bani noma ukuthi iyiphi inguqulo yeqiniso okufanele anamathele kuyo. Lokhu kudideka kancane kancane kuholela egebeni phakathi kokuzibona kanye nomhlaba wangaphandle, okuvuna ukuvela kokungabheki komuntu.
I-Depersonalization: uphawu oluyinkimbinkimbi kodwa oluhlehliswayo
Noma depersonalization kuwuphawu oluphazamisayo nolwesabekayo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi luyahlehla. Uma isisulu sesikwazile ukubalekela ubudlelwano obunobuthi futhi siqonde izindlela zokukhohlisa ebezisebenza, kancane kancane singabuyelwa nomuzwa wokuzibona. Ukwelapha, futhi ikakhulukazi ukwelapha kwengqondo-yokuziphatha, kungaba usizo olukhulu ekubuyiseleni ukuxhumana phakathi komzimba nengqondo, kanye nokubuyisela ukuzinza kwemizwelo.
Izikhombo ze-bibliographic mayelana nokungathandwa komuntu
Nazi izikhombo zebhayibhiliyofi eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni yokungabi bikho komuntu:
- Ithier, B., & Kapsambelis, V. (2013). Ukungqubuzana: Ukwenziwa komuntu siqu. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 77 (4), 973-979.
- U-Lauru, D. (2004). Depersonalization, ukungabaza ekhona? Izibalo ze-psychology, I-1, i-87-95.
- U-Fradet, D. (2017). I-Depersonalization: isifundo se-psychoanalytic se-contemporary dimension ye-phenomenon (Ithesis kadokotela). I-Paris Descartes University.
- U-De Lucas, M. (2015). Ukwenziwa komuntu. EMC – Psychiatry, 12 (4), 1-12.
- Balsamo, M. (2013). Ukwenza umuntu, ukwenza kube ngokwakho kanye nezibalo eziyinhloko. Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, 77 (4), 1055-1068.
- U-Boudry, C., & Mouriaux, F. (2024). Inani lama-athikili esayensi ahoxisiwe liyakhula. I-Techno-Science.net.
- U-Er-reguyeg, Y., & Mouriaux, F. (2024). Inani lama-athikili esayensi ahoxisiwe liyakhula. I-Techno-Science.net.
Lezi zikhombo zihlinzeka ngombono ojulile mayelana nokungathandwa umuntu, ukubhekana nezici zayo zomtholampilo, ezengqondo nezanamuhla.
Isiphetho
La depersonalization iyimpendulo eyinkimbinkimbi ekucindezelekeni okukhulu ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo, okuvame ukutholwa yizisulu zama-narcissistic perverts. Lolu phawu, nakuba ludida, umzamo wengqondo wokuzivikela ekuhlukunyezweni ngokwengqondo. Ukuqonda imvelo yokususa umuntu, kanye nezimbangela zakhona ezihlobene nokuhlukumeza i-narcissistic, kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokwelapha. Ngokusekelwa okwanele, izisulu zingakwazi ukuphinda zizazi futhi ziphinde zilawule ukuphila kwazo, kude nethonya elinobuthi le-manipulator.
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