I-Narcissistic victimization syndrome: kuyini?

i-narcissistic victimization syndrome : yindlela yokukhohlisa abanye abantu abayisebenzisayo ukufeza izinhloso zabo. Ukukhohlisa kungazibonakalisa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Sikutshela kulesi sihloko ukuthi uzobona kanjani.

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Iyini i-Narcissistic Victimization Syndrome?

I-Narcissistic victimization syndrome isifo sobuntu esisuka ngenxa yokulawulwa kwengqondo ngumuntu ohlanekezelekayo. I- victimization syndrome ingaba khona phakathi nethonya elingokwengqondo, noma ngisho nangemva kokuphela kwethonya. Kodwa Umbiza ngani umuntu ozenza isisulu? Engxoxweni eyindida bayizisulu zamanga; kodwa le ndima ingathathwa yi-narcissistic pervert.

Izimpawu ze-narcissistic victimization syndrome

Ukuze wazi ukuthi kufanele sisabele kanjani esimweni esizihlukumezayo? kufanele siqale sazi ukuthi singamthola kanjani umuntu ozihlukumezayo? Nansi imikhondo:

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1. Ukukhathazeka
2. Ukucindezeleka
3. Ukuntula ukuzethemba
4. Ukuzimela 
5. Ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla
6. Ukuphika
7. Ukuzilimaza
8. i-savior syndrome

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1. Ukukhathazeka

Umuntu ohlukunyeziwe angase abonise ukusabela komzimba okungalawuleki okusukela ekukhathazekeni okulula kuye ekuzinikeleni okuphelele ekuhlukunyezweni. Umhlukumezi ubonisa ukuthambekela kobukhazikhazi ngenxa yokuphathwa kabi kwangaphambilini noma icala umhlukumezi wakhe amenza ukuba azizwe ngalo.

2. Ukucindezeleka

Ukuzithoba kuvame ukuhambisana nokucindezeleka. Ukuncipha kokuzethemba kuholela isisulu emicabangweni emnyama engaholela ngisho isisulu ekuthambekeleni kokuzibulala.

3. Ukungazethembi

Ngemva kwesikhathi eside sokukhohlisa, ukuzethemba kuyehla. Isisulu siyoba nokuthambekela kokuziqhathanisa nabanye ukuze sizuze ukuzethemba. Kodwa futhi, isisulu siyayeka kancane kancane ukubethemba abanye, ikakhulukazi njengoba singase sizithole singaphansi kwabanye.

4. Ukuzimela

I-narcissistic pervert iphatha inyamazane yakhe ukuze ingasakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhululeka. Eqinisweni, ukulawulwa kwengqondo kuholela ekuthembeleni okuphelele kwesisulu kumhlukumezi wabo.

5. Ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla

Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuthinta umzimba. Ukulahlekelwa ukudla kungenye yemiphumela yokuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic. Isisulu singase singakwazi ukulawula lesi simo ngaphandle kosizo lochwepheshe.

6. Ukuphika

Isisulu asisakwazi ukuba nombono ofanele mayelana neqiniso. Ngeke abone ukuthi ungaphansi kwethonya elingokwengqondo lomunye umuntu. Nokho, labo abamzungezile babona ngokucacile ukuthi isisulu asikwazi ukuqeda umhlukumezi wakhe.

7. Ukuzihlukumeza

Abanye abantu bavame ukubona ububi yonke indawo futhi lokhu kutholakala eqinisweni lokuthi uqhathanisa impilo yakhe nabanye. Inkinga ukuthi ubona okuhle kwabanye kuphela nokubi kuyena. Kulapho ukuhlukunyezwa kuvezwa khona ku-psychoanalysis.

8. I-Savior syndrome

I-Narcissistic victimization syndrome akufanele kudidaniswe nayo i-savior syndrome (ukuhlolwa kwe-savior syndrome). Endabeni ye-savior syndrome, isisulu sinesidingo se-pathological sokuzidela ukuze kuzuze abanye. Akakho ngaphansi kokulawulwa umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic.

Umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic angakuthuthukisa kanjani ukuhlukunyezwa kusisulu sakhe?

Ukuthuthukisa ukuhlukunyezwa kumuntu, i-narcissistic pervert ikhomba amaphuzu enza isisulu sakhe sibe buthaka futhi enze lokhu kube lula ukuwasebenzisa.

• Kungenzeka ukuthi isisulu sesinomlando wokuhlukunyezwa, kodwa ukuthi wakwazi ukuzikhulula kukho. Kulokhu, umuntu angase ahlukunyezwe yi-pathology futhi umuntu ophendukezela angasebenzisa le pathology ukuze azuze.
• Umuntu unjalo ekufuneni okungapheli kokunethezeka nokuvikeleka. Umuntu ohlukunyezwayo owake wadivosa ngaphambili angashintshwa kalula, njengoba i-narcissist ingasebenzisa imizwa yokungazethembi yesisulu mayelana nokuba yedwa.
• Ukusebenzisa amasu okukhohlisa njengamanga ivumela umuntu ohlanekezela i-narcissistic ukuthi athuthukise ukuhlukunyezwa kusisulu sakhe. THE i-narcissistic pervert kanye namanga zixhumene ngokujulile.
• I-narcissistic pervert isebenzisa ukuzilimaza ukuze ilawule inyamazane yayo. Njengoba kushiwo kancane ngenhla, i isisulu syndrome ihambisana ne i-savior syndrome. Isisulu singase sizizwe sibaluleke kakhulu kumuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic futhi azithole esesohlwini lwezwe lokukhohlisa.

Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic pervert kubonakala kanjani ngesikhathi sesehlukaniso?

• Ukuzilimaza Kwesikhohlisayo

Ukuhlukumezeka kuvame ukubonakala ekuphileni komshado lapho umngane womshado ekhohlisa omunye. Uphusha omunye ukuze azizwe enecala ngalesi simo futhi uzama ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthatha indawo yesisulu. I-narcissistic pervert iyazilimaza kulokhu, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke isisulu akakwazi ukubona ukuthi umngane wakhe uyazihlukumeza.

• I-narcissistic pervert iqala ukuhlukana

Ngesikhathi sokwehlukana, i-narcissistic pervert ingahola futhi iqalise inqubo yesehlukaniso. Inhloso yayo ukwenza yenza umlingani wakho azizwe enecala. Lapho i-narcissist idlala isisulu, uthemba ukuthi isisulu sakhe sizizwa sinecala futhi siyimisa inqubo yesehlukaniso ngokuzithandela. Lokhu kuyindaba yokuhlukunyezwa kwe-manipulator ukuze aqinise eyakhe ukubamba ngokwengqondo.

Uyini umehluko phakathi kokuhlukunyezwa kanye nokuhlukunyezwa?

Umehluko omkhulu phakathi kokuhlukunyezwa kanye nesisulu usekukwazini ukulawula noma cha umthelela we-NP.

• Umuntu ohlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic uyazi ukuthi uyisisulu. Uyakwazi ukuphatha amasu okukhohlisa we-narcissistic pervert nokuthi angagwema kanjani ukukhohliswa umhlaseli.
• Ukuhlukunyezwa yisigaba esilandelayo sokukhohlisa. Eqinisweni, lapho isisulu siwela ngaphansi kwethonya lengqondo le-narcissistic pervert, sikhuluma ngokuhlukumezeka. Izimpawu ezihlukahlukene zokungabi nalutho ziqala ukubonakala bese kuvela umbuthano ononya.

Ungabhekana kanjani ne-narcissistic victimization syndrome?

Ukuphatha isisulu yinqubo ende futhi eyisicefe. Ngisho noma ukubanjwa kuqediwe, kungenzeka ukuthi izimpawu ze-syndrome ziphinde zivele kungazelelwe.

• Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuphatha kangcono i- victimization syndrome ukunqoba ukuphika. Yamukela ukuthi singaphansi noma besingaphansiukubamba ngokwengqondo ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic kubalulekile.
• Ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kuyisinyathelo esilandelayo, ngoba sibona kumuntu ophethwe yi-narcissistic victimization syndrome, ukuzethemba okuphansi. Futhi ukwenza lokhu, isisulu kufanele sihambisane nosizo lochwepheshe njenge-psychoanalyst kanye nombuthano ochazwe kahle wokusekela njengomndeni nabangane.

Ingabe singathola izinzuzo zesibili ngemuva kokuhlukunyezwa?

• Kulowo ohlukunyeziwe, ukuhlukunyezwa akulethi izinzuzo. Isisulu sizoba buthakathaka ngokomqondo, singase siphinde sibuyele emuva uma sibhekana nesihlanekezi esisha se-narcissistic. Umuntu ohlukunyeziwe naye angathula i-calimero syndrome lokho kukwenza ukholwe ukuthi umhlaba wonke umelene nawe.
• Ukuhlukumezeka kungaba yinzuzo ku-narcissistic pervert, ngoba kungathatha uhlobo lwesistimu yokuzivikela kuye. Eqinisweni, umuntu ohlanekezelekayo we-narcissistic wayengaba isisulu somunye u-narcissistic ophendukela ebuntwaneni bakhe, ngokulingisa isisulu, wayekwazi ukuzivikela.

I-bibliographic reference on narcissistic victimization syndrome

Nazi izikhombo eziyisikhombisa zebhayibhili ngendikimba ye-“narcissistic victimization syndrome”:

1. I-Lemoine, C. (2018). I-Narcissism kanye nokweqisa kwayo: Ukuqonda i-narcissistic victimization syndrome. I-Paris: Editions de la Sorbonne.
2. Miller, J. (2019). I-Narcissism: Isibuko esihlanekezela ubudlelwano babantu. Paris: Presses Universitaires de France.
3. UKernberg, O. (2016). I-Narcissistic pathologies: Ithiyori kanye nokusebenza komtholampilo. EParis: Editions Odile Jacob.
4. Pichot, P. (2020). Ukuhlukunyezwa kanye ne-narcissism: indlela ye-psychoanalytic. Revue Française de Psychoanalyse, 84(3), 345-360.
5. Grosjean, A. (2021). Ukuhlukunyezwa ebudlelwaneni babantu: izici zengqondo nezenhlalo. Toulouse: Éditions Érès.
6. Dumont, F. (2017). Umthelela we-narcissism ku-dynamics yokuhlukunyezwa. Psychology and Societies, 9(2), 123-139.
7. Bouchard, M. (2022). I-Narcissism kanye namasu okuhlukunyezwa: Ukuhlaziywa kwesistimu. I-Psychotherapy, 45 (4), 256-272.

Lezi zikhombo zizokunikeza ngemibono eyahlukene ngesihloko, zikhuluma ngazo zombili izici zethiyori nezingokoqobo ze-narcissistic victimization syndrome.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, i-narcissistic victimization syndrome imele ukuguquguquka okuyinkimbinkimbi lapho ukukhohlisa nokuhlupheka kuhlangene. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela izimpawu zalokhu kuhlukumezeka, kokubili kumuntu othintekile kanye nakumkhohlisi, ukuze uqonde kangcono futhi udambise le mijikelezo ebhubhisayo. Ukuqwashisa kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokululama, futhi ukwesekwa okwanele kwengqondo kungaba yisinqumo kwabahlukunyeziwe. Ekugcineni, ukuqeda lesi sifo kanye nezindlela zakhona kukhanyisa ukuziphatha okuvame ukungaqondakali kahle, ngaleyo ndlela kunikeze indlela ebheke ekuqineni nasekuzakheni kabusha komuntu siqu.