Ungabhekana Kanjani Nengane Ehlanekezelwe I-Narcissistic?

Un ingane ehlanekezelwe enarcissistic uhlushwa yi-narcissistic personality disorder. Iyini ingane ehlanekezelwe ye-narcissistic nokuthi ingakubona kanjani lokhu kuziphatha enganeni? Kungani ingane ingaba imbuka le-narcissistic? Zonke izimpendulo ezigabeni ezilandelayo.

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Iyini Ingane Ehlanekezelwe I-Narcissistic?

Isipho sengane ehlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic izici zobuntu eziphambene ne-narcissistic. Lezi zimpawu zingaba yingozi ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni babantu.

Ingane ye-PN iyamangalisa umanipulator kanye ne-egocentric. Ngokuvamile ufuna ukuba isizinda sokunakwa. Umfana noma intombazane ene-narcissistic ingaba umqambimanga ngokuphelele. Uzoba nobunzima ekuzweleni.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lezi zici zizoba okunzima kubazali ukuphatha wengane ehlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic. Okubi nakakhulu, zizoba yimbangela yezinkinga eziningi zobudlelwane, zomndeni nezenhlalo.

Ukuziphatha Kwengane Ehlanekezelwe I-Narcissistic – Ungakuqaphela Kanjani?

I-Narcissism ibhekwa njengesici esibalulekile esikufundisa ukuzithanda ngendlela enempilo. Nokho, lezi zici ziba ukukhathazeka lapho ziphikelela futhi zilimaza ubudlelwano bengane phakathi kwabantu.

Ngaphambi kokunquma ngesimo somntwana, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ngokucophelela izenzo nemikhuba yakhe. Ngokuvamile, thina ibona impelesi ye-narcissistic (kuhlanganise nengane ye-PN) ngalezi zindlela ezimbalwa:

• Ingane idinga ukuba isizinda sokunakwa ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ingase ithukuthele noma ikhungatheke lapho kungenjalo.
• Uyakhohlisa. Uzama ukulawula abanye esebenzisa umuzwa wecala noma izinsongo.
• Ingane inakho ubunzima obukhulu ukuzwa uzwela (uma kunjalo) kwabanye. Akanandaba nemizwa noma izidingo zabanye.
• Uvame ukuba ngumqambimanga noma umkhohlisi, enze ihaba noma enze izindaba ukuze athole lokho akufunayo.
• Uvame ukuthandeka. Ubabaza izisulu zakhe ngokuncoma

Iseluleko : Bheka imizwa yakho nemizwa yakho lapho uzama ukuqonda ukuziphatha kwengane yakho ezithanda ngokweqile. Ubhekene nokucindezeleka noma…ukukhathazeka Ingabe ubhekene nokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo okuvela enganeni yakho? Ingabe impilo yakho ibonakala iwohlokile? Lokhu kungaba uphawu lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.

Impela, ngokwemvelo sihlelelwe ukuthanda izingane zethu ngaphandle kwemibandela. Kodwa lolu thando olungenamibandela lungaxhashazwa yingane ehlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic ukuze izivocavoca ngibambe wena.

Kungani Ingane Iba I-Narcissistic Pervert?

Asikho isizathu esizwakalayo sokuthi kungani ingane iba yi-narcissistic pervert. Izici zobuntu ezihlanekezelwe ze-Narcissistic zingaba umphumela walokhu:

• amanxeba okuqala ngokomzwelo;
• ukuphazamiseka kobuntu;
• izindlela zokuziphatha ezifundwa endaweni yengane. 

esifanayo imfundo emboza kakhulu futhi evikela ngokweqile ukuthi izindinganiso zokungavuthwa kungaba nomthelela ekuthuthukisweni kwezimpawu zobuntu obune-narcissistic enganeni. Kwengezwe kulokhu:

• obuthakathaka nokuqinisela ;
• ukwanda kokuzwela;
• umkhawulo ophansi wokubekezelelana wokukhungatheka nemiyalo.

Lesi sakamuva sivame ukuphusha ingane ye-PN ukuthi ibeke izindlela zokuzivikela. Sibhekisela ikakhulukazi ku ukucindezelwa ngokomzwelo.

Amathiphu angu-5 Okuphatha Ingane Ehlanekezelwe Ye-Narcissistic?

YEBO ! Kubuhlungu kakhulu futhi kunzima ukubhekana nengane ehlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic. Ikakhulukazi njengoba ingane ene-PN ngokuvamile ingaqapheli ukugula kwayo futhi incane kakhulu imvelo yayo eyingozi nobuthi kulabo abaseduze kwayo.

Naphezu kokukhohlisayo futhi kunzima kakhulu ukujabulisa ukuziphatha kwezingane ze-PN, akhona amathiphu okusingatha lesi simo.

1. Zola

Kubalulekile ukuba ungasabela ngokweqile ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho ehlanekezelwe. Lokho kungenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. Adonse umoya kakhulu. Zama ukuhlala uzolile futhi ucabange ngendlela engcono kakhulu yokusingatha isimo.

2. Misa imithetho ecacile

Ingane yakho yakwa-FN idinga ukwazi ukuthi yini eyamukelekayo nengamukeleki. Qiniseka ukuthi usungula imithetho ecacile futhi abenze bahlonipheke ngokungaguquki.

3. Khuthaza inhlonipho nozwela

Ingane yakho ehlushwa i-narcissism idinga ukuqonda ukuthi abanye banemizwa nezidingo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kumelwe abahloniphe. Khuthaza ukuzwelana:

• ukuxoxa ngemizwa yakho;
• ngokumbuza ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi abanye abantu bazizwa kanjani ezimeni ezithile.

4. Ukujezisa ukuziphatha okubi

Bonisa umfana noma intombazane yakho ebhuqabhuqayo ukuthi izenzo zabo zinemiphumela. Uma ingane yakho iziphatha ngendlela engamukelekile, mjezise ngendlela enengqondo futhi engaguquki.

5. Cela usizo

Ingabe unenkinga yokusebenzelana nengane yakho ehlanekezelwe ye-narcissistic uwedwa? Ungangabazi ukubuza usizo a uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo noma umeluleki wesikole. Bazokwazi ukukunikeza iseluleko. Bazokusiza futhi ukuthi uthuthukise amasu omuntu siqu okushintsha ukuziphatha kwengane yakho ye-PN.

Ingabe Umzali Ohlanekezelwe Oyi-Narcissistic Uzala Ingane Ephendukezelwe Ye-Narcissistic?

Ingane yomuntu ohlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic maningi amathuba okuthi ithuthukise izici zobuntu ezihlanekezelwe. Isizathu silula: sivezwa kuso imodeli yabazali enobuthi. Akayazi futhi imodeli yobudlelwano obunempilo.

Eqinisweni, isisulu sengane ubaba ohlanekezelwe narcissistic noma a umama PN izobona kuphela imodeli enobuthi ephuma kulabo ababazungezile. Uzoba nobunzima bokuqhela ebudloveni nasekuhlukumezekeni ayebhekana nakho nsuku zonke ebuntwaneni bakhe.

Ingane ekhulela endaweni lapho izidingo nemizwelo yabanye inganakwa noma iphathwe kabi ube nobunzima ekuthuthukiseni olwakho uzwela. Uyophinde alwele ukulawula imizwa yakhe ngendlela evamile nenakekelayo.

Incazelo ebalulekile: ingane ngayinye ihlukile. Angase asabele ngendlela ehlukile endaweni akuyo.

Ingabe Ingane Ephendukezelwe Ye-Narcissistic Ingaphulukiswa?

Kufanele wazi ukuthi i-narcissism yisifo sobuntu okunzima kakhulu ukuselapha. THE ukwelashwa kwe-narcissistic pervert kuwumsebenzi wesikhathi eside. Uma unendodana noma indodakazi ye-narcissistic, uzodinga kakhulu ukubonisana nokwelapha ukukusiza ukuthi uhlele izingane zakho nomndeni wakho. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukwelapha kubalulekile ukuze usize ingane yakho ye-PN iguqule izici zayo.

Sincoma kakhulu ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo kanye nokwelashwa komndeni ukusiza ingane ehlanekezelwe ye-narcissistic ilawule imizwa yayo futhi ithuthukise amakhono obudlelwano obunempilo. Kubalulekile futhi ukumnikeza indawo ezinzile nenakekelayo ukuze amsize ashintshe ukuziphatha kwakhe.