Indlela yokuphatha i-narcissistic pervert ye-pathology yakhe?

Ngokuvamile, i-narcissistic pervert iqinile, inamandla ngokwemvelo futhi ayikwazi ukuzibuza yona. Uma ufuna ukwelapha i-narcissistic pervert, uzohlangabezana nenkinga yenkhulumomphendvulwano. Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi uyakwazi yini ukushintsha noma cha.

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Indlela yokuphatha i-narcissistic pervert: ingabe ukululama kungenzeka?

Un i-narcissistic pervert akaboni ukuthi unesifo sobuntu. Kunzima ukuthi ashintshe ngoba akazi ukuthi unezinkinga. Ngenxa yalokho, akakwazi ukuzisebenzela futhi aguqule ukuziphatha kwakhe. Lolu hlobo lomuntu lubeka icala ngokuhlelekile kwabanye.

Kungani ufuna ukuphatha umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic?

Ama-Narcissistic perverts angabazingeli abangomakadebona. Bakhetha ngokucophelela izisulu zabo. Ngokuvamile, bangabantu abanozwela, abanomusa futhi abaphakeme kakhulu ezingeni lomuntu nelomzwelo. Abazi ngengozi ubudlelwano nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic ongayimelela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo wakamuva uyabakhohlisa ukuze abenze bangabaze i-pathology yakhe. Okushiya ukungabaza nge-pathology yesilwane esizingelayo. Izisulu-ke zivame ukufuna ukushintsha isihlanekezeli.

Izimbangela ze-narcissistic personality disorder

Kuye ngomuntu, umsuka walokhu kuphazamiseka kobuntu uhlukile. Nokho, Abacwaningi bathi izimbangela zalesi sifo zitholakala ekuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kwasebuntwaneni. Kuye ngendawo yakhe, ingane ibeka isimiso sokuzivikela ukuze singabe sisahlupheka. Izimo eziningana zingabangela lesi sifo, okuyilezi:

• ukuhlukumezeka noma ukuhlukunyezwa ngabazali,
• umuzwa wokulahlwa noma ukuntula uthando kubazali
• ukwesaba ukushiywa,
• umzali naye oyisihlanekezeli se-narcissistic,
• ukuhlanjalazwa, ukuhlekwa kaningi, ukunganakwa kanye nokwaliwa kontanga,
• enganeni okuwukuphela kwayo, ukulindela okukhulu nokunaka okuvela kubazali kungaba imbangela yalesi sifo,
• ukuntula uthando nokuqashelwa ngabazali.

Izimbangela zalesi sifo zingaba ziningi. Nokho, ngokuvamile zihlobene nendawo yomkhaya wengane nokuhlupheka okujulile. Nokho, kukhona ezinye ukwelashwa ukusiza abantu abaphethwe yilesi sifo.

Imiphumela ye-narcissistic personality disorder

Kulabo abahlukunyezwa yi-PN, impilo yansuku zonke ayilula ngezihlamba ezingapheli kanye nokusolwa. Kulabo abaseduze kwe-a i-narcissistic manipulator, umusa nozwela kubalulekile. Kodwa-ke, lapho indawo yakhe yokuhlala ingamvumeli ukuba azizwe eyigugu, i-narcissistic pervert, ukuphazamiseka okuhlobene ne-pathology yakhe kuyavela.. Ngempela, ukuzethemba kwakhe kuntekenteke kakhulu.

I-predator ingabuye ihlupheke:

• Ukucindezeleka kanye nemicabango yokuzibulala,
• Ukuhlukaniswa nokwaliwa,
• Ukungakhululeki nokuhlushwa ngokuziphatha.

Kungani i-narcissistic pervert ingelapheka?

Ngokungafani nabanye abantu, umuntu ohlanekezelekile we-narcissistic akabuzwa ubuhlungu futhi akazizwa enecala ngezenzo zakhe. Shintsha othandweni akunakwenzeka kumuntu ophethwe yi-narcissistic personality disorder. Kunezizathu ezimbalwa zokuchaza ukuthi kungani umhlaseli we-narcissistic engakwazi ukushintsha:

• Umuntu othanda ukuzikhukhumeza une- iphutha le-narcissistic kubaluleke kakhulu ngenxa yendawo ahlala kuyo. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, ube nombono omkhulu ngaye.
• I-narcissistic pervert iyakuthokozela ukucekela phansi abanye. Unesidingo sokululaza abanye ukuze azizwe ejabule.
• Ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, yazi ukuthi umhlaseli we-narcissistic uyabona ukuthi ubangela ukuhlupheka. Udla amahloni nesisulu sakhe futhi uzizwa enamandla.
• Umuntu okhohlisayo akakwazi ukuzwa umuzwa omncane kwabanye. Njengoba ethanda ukulawula yonke into, akakwazi ukuzilahla kumlingani wakhe. Uthando, ububele noma ngisho nozwelo kuyimizwa engaziwa ngokuphelele ye-PN.
• Akanazwelo futhi akakwazi ukuzibuza. Uyawujabulela umkhuba we ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo.
• I-narcissistic pervert ayihlushwa isimo sayo futhi ayifuni ukushintsha. Njengoba engenaluzwela, akazami ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ngisho noma ekwelapheni, uyakwazi ngempela ukuphatha isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo noma udokotela wengqondo.

Yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha ezingasiza umuntu ophethwe yilesi sifo?

Ngokujwayelekile kuba yilowo osuke ephethwe yilesi sifo osuke ebona ukuthi udinga usizo. Njengoba engakuqapheli ukugula kwakhe, ngokuvamile kuba nzima ukumelapha. Umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic uvamise ukuba nempilo yothando engazinzile, kodwa futhi nobudlelwano obushayisanayo nalabo abamzungezile (umndeni kanye nezenhlalo). Ngemva kwezehlukaniso eziningi noma ukuhluleka kwezothando, kungenzeka ukuthi umkhohlisi uyasibona isimo sakhe. Ukuze alulame, kufanele azenzele yena umsebenzi. Nokho, leli icala eliyivelakancane.

Kunezinhlobo ezi-3 ezihlukene ze-psychotherapies ezingasiza abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic kule nqubo, okuyilezi:

1. Ukwelashwa komndeni

Lokhu kwelashwa kuhlanganisa umndeni wesiguli futhi kwenzeka ngendlela yezikhathi zezingxoxo. Inhloso yawo ukuhlola izingxabano kanye nezinkinga zokuxhumana ukuze kubhekwane nezinkinga zobudlelwano.

2. Ukwelashwa kweqembu

Ngokwelashwa kweqembu, isiguli sibamba iqhaza kumaseshini nabanye abantu abaphethwe yi-pathology efanayo. Lokhu kumfundisa ukuba anake ubufakazi babanye futhi azwele kakhulu imizwelo yabanye.

3. Ukwelashwa komuntu ngamunye

Lokhu kwelashwa kuvumela ohlanekezeli we-narcissistic ukuthi abe nobudlelwano obunempilo nalabo abaseduze kwakhe. Umgomo uwukwakha kabusha ubuntu bakhe ukuze abe nombono omuhle ngaye.

Ingabe uthando lungakwazi ukuguqula noma ukwelapha umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic?

Impendulo ithi cha! Kuwukumosha isikhathi ukufuna ukushintsha umuntu ohlanekezelekayo ngokumenza athole uthando. Uma engafuni ukushintsha, ngeke ashintshe. Ukuze i-manipulator ikwazi ukushintsha, kufanele ihlangabezane nemibandela embalwa, okuyilezi:

• Ukuqaphela inkinga yakhe,
• Isifiso noma umuzwa wokufuna ukushintsha,
• Ukufezeka kwezinguquko.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi noma ngabe i-narcissistic pervert ithola ukwelashwa, izinguquko azikho ngokushesha. Ngempela, Lona umsebenzi wesikhathi eside ongathatha iminyaka eminingi.. Ukuze uthole ulwazi lwakho, yazi ukuthi ayikho imithi ethile yokwelapha ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic. Kodwa-ke, ama-antidepressants noma ama-anti-anxiety medication angakwazi ukwelapha ukuphazamiseka okungathinta i-narcissistic pervert.

Izikhombo ze-Bibliographic

Nazi izikhombo eziyisikhombisa zebhayibhili ngendikimba ethi “Indlela yokwelapha umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic we-pathology yakhe”:

1. I-narcissistic pervert: yikuphi ukwelashwa kwalesi sifo sobuntu?
2. Ukwelapha umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic: 9 amathiphu okumsiza ukuthi alulame
3. Ingabe kukhona ukwelashwa okusebenzayo kwe-narcissistic pervert?
4. Isiqephu sama-20: Indlela yokwelapha – I-Narcissistic Pervert
5. I-Narcissistic pervert: ukuqonda nokuphatha i-narcissistic pervert
6. I-Narcissistic Pervert: Izimpawu Zomuntu Okhohlisayo kanye nokuthi Ungazisiza Kanjani Izisulu
7. Ukwelashwa Kwe-Narcissist Ehlanekezelwe – Indlela Yokwelapha I-PN?

Lezi zithenjwa zinikeza ukuqonda ezindleleni zokwelapha nezinselele ezihlobene nokwelapha ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, ukwelapha umuntu ohlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic kusalokhu kuyinselelo enkulu ngenxa yokuqina nokuntuleka kwemibuzo eqondene nalesi sifo sobuntu. Nakuba izindlela zokwelapha zinganikeza indlela yokuthuthukisa, zidinga ukuqwashisa kanye nesifiso sangempela soshintsho, izici ezimbili ngokuvamile azikho kulaba bantu. Nakuba ukuphulukiswa kusangenzeka, akuvamile futhi kudinga ukuzibophezela okujulile, okuhlala isikhathi eside.