I-narcissistic pervert kanye nocingo

I-Narcissistic Pervert kanye nefoni: Ngempela umbhangqwana ongeke wahlukaniswa nempilo. Umuntu ohlanekezela u-narcissistic akalokothi ashiye ucingo lwakhe ukuze ashayele isisulu sakhe. Ukubizelani? Ufona nini? njll. Zonke izimpendulo zikulesi sihloko. 

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Kungani i-PN ilokhu ikufonela?

Kwesinye isikhathi umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic ukhuluma nawe ocingweni kuphela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iyindlela yokuxhumana eyaziswa kakhulu ama-FN. Sizokunikeza izizathu zokuthi kungani bancamela ukukushayela:

• Lokhu kungenxa yokuthibangasho noma yini abayifunayo ngaphandle kokubhekana nezisulu zabo. 
• Ngokushaya ucingo, umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic angaphinde agweme izingxoxo angathandi ukuba nazo njengoba zingasebenzi ezivuna zona.
• Ukukhuluma ne-narcissistic pervert ngezingcingo umvumela ukuthi avele futhi anyamalale empilweni yakho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. 

I-PN ikushayela nini?

1. Lapho esebhorekile

Okwe-a i-narcissistic pervert, lapho usebhorekile athathe ucingo lwakhe afonele isisulu sakhe. Ngalolu cingo, angaqhubeka nokumkhohlisa futhi amenze abe sengozini nakakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isisulu ngokuqinisekile sizosaba ukuvala ucingo ngakho-ke kukubo ukuthi banqume ukuthi bayimisa nini ingxoxo. Isikhathi esiningi u-PN uvala ucingo uma esekhathele ukukhuluma nesisulu.

2. Ngesikhathi efuna ubuye

Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi i-narcissistic manipulator ukufonela kuphela ukuze ngibuye nawe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufanele uqaphele kakhulu njengoba awusoze waphuthelwa i-PN. Uzokwenza ukholelwe ukuthi uyakudinga ukuze uwele ogibeni lwakhe. Khona-ke uyokuqeda nya ngoba ngeke akuxolele ngokumshiya.

3. Uma efuna ulwazi

Ngokwenza lolu cingo, i-narcissistic pervert izama ukwenza njengomuntu ojwayelekile ocela izindaba ngomunye umuntu. Igolide, inhloso yakhe ngalolu cingo akukhona okunye ngaphandle kokuba nolwazi ngawe uma kwenzeka nihlukene. Ukuze ugweme ukuwela ezandleni zakhe futhi, kumelwe ugweme ukumnika ulwazi ngawe.

4. Uma efuna ukwazi ukuthi ujabule yini empilweni yakho entsha

Lapho usukwazile ukushiya i-narcissistic pervert, futhi engakakwazi ukuthola inyamazane entsha, ngokuqinisekile uzozama ukukubiza. Inhloso yalokhu uku yazi uma ujabule ngaphandle kwakhe. Uma kunjalo, qaphela kakhulu ngoba kuzokuqeda nya. Ngakho-ke, ungamazisi ukuthi ujabule, kufanele nje umfake ohlwini lwabamnyama.

5. Lapho engakwazi ukuqhubeka

Iningi labahlanekezeli be-narcissistic lisuka kwesinye isisulu liye kwesinye. Ngokushesha babheka inyamazane entsha ngemva kokuqeda ubuhlobo nomunye. Kodwa, lapho ehluleka ukuthola isisulu esisha, i-PN isazoqhubeka nokukufonela ukuze uthole ukuthi ubuye.

I-Narcissistic Pervert nokuxhumana, isebenza kanjani?

Akunakwenzeka ukuba nokuxhumana kwangempela nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic. Lesi sakamuva asikwazi ukuba nengxoxo enempilo nevamile nanoma ubani. Ukuxhumana okuwukuphela kwe-PN ekwaziyo ukukhohlisa. Umgomo wakhe awukona okunye ngaphandle kokukhohlisa isisulu sakhe kuyilapho esisola.

Ukufeza inhloso yayo, le narcissistic pervert izinhloli kuwe. Qaphela akapheli nengxoxo ayiqalile. ke isuka kwesinye isihloko iye kwesinye ngaphandle kokuthi isisulu sikwazi ukunikeza umbono noma izincazelo zakhe. Khona-ke, uyobe esesola isisulu sakhe kalula ngokumbeka icala ngomuntu ongenawo umuzwa wokukhulumisana.

Ucingo nobudlelwano obubonakalayo ne-PN

Lesi yisikhathi esinzima kakhulu. Kulesi sigaba, kungaphezu kokujwayelekile ukungasebenzisi ukuxhumana. Lokhu kuhlanganisa shintsha izintambo zefoni futhi ushintshe ama-akhawunti ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kusukela ngokugcina umugqa omdala kanye nama-akhawunti amadala wokuxhumana nomphakathi, i isisulu somuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic usajwayele ukubona imilayezo ayivimbile ngaphambilini. Uma inyamazane yenza lokhu, i-NP iyohlale yazi ukuthi yenzeni. Ngakho-ke, kuhle kakhulu ukuthi isisulu sigcine inombolo yaso entsha kanye nama-akhawunti abo amasha eyimfihlo ukuze angabuyeli emdlalweni we-narcissistic pervert.

AKEKHO Othintana naye – Kuyini?

Ngesinye isikhathi, indlela engcono kakhulu yokugqashula ekubanjweni ngumuntu ophambukile ngokwengqondo ukusebenzisa “AKEKHO Othintana naye“. Lokhu kuhlanganisa nokunyamalala ngokuphelele ekubukeni kwe-PN. Le ndlela inzima kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa, ikakhulukazi uma usunabantwana ndawonye, ​​kodwa iyona ephumelela kakhulu ekuphumeni ekulawuleni kwayo.

I-Narcissistic pervert kanye nefoni – Indlela yokukhwabanisa

I-narcissistic pervert isebenzisa ucingo njengendlela yokukhohlisa. Uyayithanda le ndlela ngoba imenza akwazi ukulawula isisulu kalula. Ocingweni, i-narcissistic pervert ngeke ivumele lona wakamuva ukuthi aveze imizwa yakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, angakwazi ukushintsha isihloko noma nini lapho efuna. Khona-ke, ubeka lonke icala kusisulu futhi isisulu sikholelwa ngempela ukuthi sinephutha.

Kungani i-PN ivame ukwenqaba ukuxhumana okuqondile?

I-PN yenqaba ukuxhumana okuqondile ngezizathu eziningi, njenge:

• Umkhohlisi we-narcissistic akathandi ukuqhubeka nengxoxo emphoxayo.
• Akafuni ukuba nemibono yabanye ngoba yimibono yakhe kuphela.
• I-PN ithanda ukuhlala ingacacile kuzo zonke izifundo ukuze itshale ukungabaza kusisulu sayo. Ngakho-ke uma bekhuluma ocingweni, akavumeli isisulu sibuze lutho kuye.
• Uyakwazi ukukhohlisa isisulu sakhe ngokuxhumana okungaqondile.

Ireferensi yezincwadi ku-PN kanye nocingo

Nazi izikhombo zesayensi eziyisikhombisa ngesihloko “se-narcissistic perverts” kanye nokusetshenziswa kocingo:

1. “Ama-Narcissistic Perverts: Bangobani? Zisebenza kanjani? »
   Umbhali: UJean-Charles Bouchoux
   Umshicileli: Eyrolles
   Unyaka: 2013
2. “Ukuhlukunyezwa: Ubudlova obuhlanekezelwe ekuphileni kwansuku zonke”
   Umbhali: UMarie-France Hirigoyen
   Umshicileli: La Découverte
   Unyaka: 1998
3. “Abakhohlisayo baphakathi kwethu”
   Umbhali: Isabelle Nazare-Aga
   Umshicileli: Les Éditions de l’Homme
   Unyaka: 1997
4. “Ukuxhaphaza imizwa kumbhangqwana: Ukusebenzelana nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic”
   Umbhali: Yvane Wiart
   Umhleli: Odile Jacob
   Unyaka: 2010
5. “Ama-Narcissistic Perverts: Imibuzo nezimpendulo eziyi-100”
   Umbhali: Christel Petitcollin
   Umshicileli: Jouvence
   Unyaka: 2014
6. “Ukukhohlisa Okujwayelekile: Ukuqonda kanye Nokweqisa Abazenzisi”
   Umbhali: Pascal Couderc
   Umhleli: Albin Michel
   Unyaka: 2011
7. “I-Ravages of Manipulators: Ukusinda Nokuzalwa Kabusha”
   Umbhali: Patricia Delahaie
   Umshicileli: Leduc.s Éditions
   Unyaka: 2012

Le misebenzi ihlinzeka ngokuqondisisa okujulile ngokuziphatha kwabahlanekezeli be-narcissistic kanye nokusebenzisa kwabo ucingo njengethuluzi lokukhohlisa.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, ucingo luba yithuluzi elikhethwayo lomuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic, okumvumela ukuthi agcine elubambe ngaphandle kokubhekana ngqo. Ngokusebenzisa izingcingo eziqondiwe namasu, umkhohlisi angathonya, alawule futhi ahlole isisulu sakhe ekude, kuyilapho egcina ibanga elithile elingokomzwelo. Ukuze uzikhulule kulokhu kubanjwa, umkhuba “wokungathintani” ngokuvamile ubonakala ubalulekile, ngaleyo ndlela uvimbela ukubuya njalo kwalesi sixhumanisi esinobuthi.

Ukuze uxhumane:

• PN nokulala
• I-Narcissistic Pervert kanye Nemali