I-Electra complex ingumqondo othakazelisayo wokuhlaziya ingqondo ohlola ukuguquguquka okuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kwendodakazi nabazali bayo, ikakhulukazi uyise. Yethulwe nguCarl Jung njengomlingani wesifazane ku I-Oedipus complex I-Electra complex kaFreud inikeza uhlaka lokuqonda izici ezithile zokukhula kobulili besifazane. Nakuba kuyimpikiswano, lo mqondo uyaqhubeka nokuthonya i-psychology yesimanje kanye nokuqonda kwethu ubudlelwano bomndeni.
Imvelaphi yezinganekwane kanye nencazelo ye-Electra complex
Le Electra complex ithatha igama layo kumlingiswa we-Electra ezinganekwaneni zamaGreki. Indodakazi ka-Agamemnon noClytemnestra, u-Electra waziwa ngokusiza umfowabo u-Orestes ukuthi aphindiselele ukubulawa kukayise ngokubulala unina nesithandwa sakhe. Le ndaba edabukisayo isebenza njengesisekelo esingokomfanekiso somqondo we-psychoanalytic.
Kuthiyori ye-psychoanalytic, inkimbi ye-Electra ichaza ukuthambekela kokungazi kwentombazane esencane kokunamathela kuyise ngenkathi izwa inzondo ngonina. Lesi simo sithathwa njengesigaba sokukhula kwengqondo kwabesifazane, ngokuvamile phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 neyesi-6.
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Ukuqhathanisa ne-Oedipus complex
I-Electra complex ivame ukwethulwa njengelingana nowesifazane we-Oedipus complex, ethinta abafana. Nokho, kunomehluko obalulekile:
- Umsuka wetiyori: I-Oedipus complex yakhiwa nguSigmund Freud, kanti i-Electra complex yahlongozwa nguCarl Jung.
- Amandla omndeni: E-Oedipus complex, umfana ufisa umama wakhe futhi ubona uyise njengembangi. Ku-Electra’s complex, indodakazi ifisa uyise futhi ibona umama wayo njengembangi.
- Isixazululo : Ukulungiswa kwenkimbinkimbi ye-Oedipus ngokuvamile kuhilela ukuhlonza noyise, kuyilapho lokho kwe-Electra complex kungachazwa ngokucacile.
Ukubonakaliswa kwengqondo kwe-Electra complex
I-Electra complex ingazibonakalisa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene ekuziphatheni nasekuthuthukisweni kwengqondo kwentombazane encane:
- Ukunamathela ngokweqile kubaba
- Umona noma ubutha kumama
- Isifiso sokuthatha isikhundla sikamama othandweni lukababa
- Ukungezwani kwemizwa ngakumama
- Ubunzima bokwakha ubudlelwano obunempilo namadoda njengabantu abadala
Lokhu kubonakaliswa kungahluka ngokuqina nangobude besikhathi kuye ngezimo zomuntu ngamunye nezomndeni.
Izinto ezinomthelela ekuthuthukisweni kwe-Electra complex
Izinto ezimbalwa zingathonya ukubukeka nokuqina kwe-Electra complex:
- Amandla omndeni: Ubuhlobo obukude noma obunezingxabano nomama bungaqinisa ukunamathela kubaba.
- Ubuntu babazali: Ubaba noma umama oqaphelisisayo obhekwa njengamakhaza angabhebhethekisa le nkinga.
- Indawo yenhlalo namasiko: Izinkambiso zomphakathi mayelana nendima yabazali zingathonya umbono wengane.
- Okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambi kwesikhathi: Izehlakalo ezibuhlungu noma izinguquko ezibalulekile zomndeni zingathinta ukukhula kwengqondo.
- I-Genetic predispositions: Abanye abacwaningi basikisela ukuthi kungenzeka kube nengxenye yofuzo ekuthambekeni kwe-Electra complex.
Imithelela yesikhathi eside ye-Electra complex
I-Electra complex ingaba nemithelela ehlala njalo ekukhuleni komuntu ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo:
- Ukukhetha ozakwethu: Ukuthambekela kokufuna ozakwethu abafana nobaba noma ababonisa izici zobaba ezifiselekayo.
- Ubudlelwano nabesifazane: Izinkinga ezingaba khona ebunganeni besifazane noma ebudlelwaneni bomama nendodakazi.
- Isithombe sakho : Ukuthuthukiswa kobunikazi besifazane okuthonywa ubudlelwano nobaba kanye nokubangisana nomama.
- Ukukhathazeka nokudangala: Amathuba okuba nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa okuhlobene nezingxabano ezingaxazululiwe.
- Ukuziphatha okuyimpoqo: Ukufuna njalo ukuvunyelwa kwabesilisa noma ukwenqatshwa okuhlelekile kwezibalo zabaphathi besifazane.
Ukugxekwa nokungqubuzana okuzungeze i-Electra complex
Umqondo we-Electra complex awamukelwa emhlabeni wonke emkhakheni wezengqondo:
- Ukushoda kobufakazi obuphathekayo: Zimbalwa izifundo eziqinile zesayensi eziqinisekise ubukhona benkimbinkimbi.
- Ukuchema kwamasiko: Lo mqondo uvame ukugxekwa ngendlela yawo yaseNtshonalanga kanye neyokhokho bentuthuko.
- Ukwenza lula ngokweqile: Abanye ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi inkimbinkimbi yenza kube lula ukuguquguquka komndeni okuyinkimbinkimbi.
- Ukunganakwa kwezinye izici: Umqondo ungase ubukele phansi ukubaluleka kwamanye amathonya ekuthuthukisweni kobulili bobulili.
- Ukuvela kwemibono ye-psychoanalytic: Abaningi be-psychoanalyst besimanje bawushiyile noma bawuguqule kakhulu lo mqondo.
I-Electra complex isiko elidumile
Naphezu kwezingxabano, inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra ishiye isigxivizo esihlala njalo esikweni elidumile:
- Imibhalo : Amanoveli amaningi nemidlalo ihlola izingqikithi ezihlobene nenkimbinkimbi ye-Electra.
- I-movie theater : Amanye amafilimu akhuluma ngobudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kukababa nendodakazi, abonisa izici zenkimbinkimbi.
- Umabonakude: Uchungechunge lwethelevishini ngezinye izikhathi luhlanganisa izici zenkimbinkimbi ezindabeni zabo zomndeni.
- Umculo: Ezinye izingoma zisho amandla omndeni avusa inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra.
- Ubuciko obubonakalayo: Amaciko adale imisebenzi egqugquzelwe inganekwane ye-Electra nemithelela yayo engokwengqondo.
Izindlela zokwelapha ezixhumene ne-Electra complex
Nakuba i-Electra complex ingesona isifo somtholampilo esisemthethweni, izindlela ezithile zokwelapha zibhekana nezinkinga ezihambisana nakho:
- I-Psychoanalysis: Ukuhlolwa kwezingxabano eziqulekile ezixhunywe nezibalo zabazali.
- Ukwelashwa komndeni: Sebenza ku-dynamics yobudlelwane phakathi komndeni.
- Ukwelashwa kwengqondo-yokuziphatha: Ukushintsha imicabango eyinkinga kanye namaphethini okuziphatha.
- I-Psychodynamic psychotherapy: Ukuhlaziywa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwesikhathi esidlule kanye nomthelela wazo esikhathini samanje.
- Ukwelapha ngobuciko: Ukusetshenziswa kwenkulumo yobuciko ukuhlola imizwa ehlobene nobudlelwano babazali.
Isiphetho: Ifa le-Electra complex ku-psychology yesimanje
I-Electra complex, nakuba kuphikiswana ngayo, isalokhu ingumqondo othakazelisayo ocwaningweni lokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwabesifazane. Kuyaqhubeka nokuba nomthelela ekuqondeni kwethu ubudlelwano bomndeni obuyinkimbinkimbi kanye nokuthuthukiswa kobunikazi. Nakuba i-psychology yesimanje iguquke kakhulu ngale kwemibono ye-psychoanalytic yakudala, inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra isalokhu iyinkomba yokuhlola ukuguquguquka kwemizwelo phakathi kobaba namadodakazi, kanye nezinselele zokukhula kwengqondo yabesifazane.
Ekugcineni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sibhalisela inkolelo-mbono ye-Electra complex noma cha, ucwaningo lwayo lusikhumbuza ngokubaluleka okubalulekile kobudlelwane bomndeni wangaphambi kwesikhathi ekulolongeni ubuntu bethu nobudlelwano besikhathi esizayo. Iphinde igqamise isidingo sendlela eguquguqukayo nezwelayo ngokwamasiko ocwaningweni lokuthuthuka kwengqondo yomuntu.
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