Ukuhlakazeka Kobunikazi
La Ubusuku Obumnyama Bomphefumulo kuwukucwila ekujuleni kobukhona, isigaba lapho i-ego inyakaza, lapho izisekelo zobunikazi bethu zibhidlika. Le nqubo ebuhlungu ifana nokuhlakazeka kwangaphakathi: lokho ebesicabanga ukuthi siyikho, izinsika ebesincike kuzo, azisabambeki. Umqondo uyatatazela, ufuna izimpawu zendawo ezingasekho. Lokhu ukungabi nalutho, lo muzwa wokulahlekelwa, empeleni kuyithuba lokuphindukuzalwa.
Ukuvula Inhliziyo Ngokuhlupheka
Ubuhlungu obuzwiwa phakathi nalokhu kuwela akulona ize. Uyimbangela yokuvulwa kwenhliziyo. Igagasi ngalinye lokuhlupheka lisiqhubezela ukuba silahle inkohliso yokulawula, sidedele okunamathiselwe obekusibophe. Le ndima iyadingeka ukuvumela amandla enhliziyo ukuthi aphaphame ngokugcwele.
Ukwesaba Ubukhulu Bakhe
Esinye sezici ezingaziwa kakhulu zalolu hambo ukwesaba ubukhulu bomuntu siqu. I-ego, ejwayele imingcele yokwaziwa, iyathuthumela ngaphambi kobukhulu bomphefumulo ovukayo. Kulula ukuhlala ekuhluphekeni kunokwamukela ngokugcwele ukukhanya namandla angaphakathi kwethu. Nokho kungokwamukela lobu bukhulu lapho umuntu engaletha ngempela izulu emhlabeni, ngokufaka ingqikithi yalo eyiqiniso.
UCristina unikeza iseshini yomuntu ngamunye ukukusiza uphume ekulawulweni okuhlukumezayo futhi wakhe impilo yakho kabusha.
Ukukhohlisa Kwengqondo Nokuhlakanipha Kwenhliziyo
Ingqondo iyazabalaza ngokumelene nalolu shintsho, ifuna ukuqonda okungaqondakali. Kodwa i Ubusuku Obumnyama Bomphefumulo akuyona inkinga okufanele ixazululwe, isipiliyoni okufanele sidlule kukho. Lapho ukungabaza kungena, impendulo kuphela iwukubuyela enhliziyweni, ukuzwa esikhundleni sokuhlaziya. Ingqondo ayikwazi ukubamba ubukhulu bomphefumulo. Inhliziyo kuphela eyaziyo.
“Isifiso sami sokuphila sisalokhu sinamandla njengakuqala, futhi nakuba inhliziyo yami idabukile, izinhliziyo zenziwa ukuba zaphukile: yingakho uNkulunkulu ethumela usizi emhlabeni … »- Oscar Wilde, Letters
Iqhaza lokuhlangana kanye ne-Karmic Bonds
Phakathi nalesi sigaba, ukuhlangana okuthile kukhanyisa umphefumulo wethu. Laba bantu bahambisana neqiniso lethu elijulile. Lokhu kuxhumana akufanele kuvinjwe, kodwa kwamukelwe ngokuzethemba. Ngokuphambene, ubudlelwano obunobuthi, obusekelwe emaphethini e-karmic, kufanele buvalwe unomphela. Isikhathi sokuthi uthi: “Iphela lapha.” Ukudedela lezi zibopho kusivumela ukuthi sizikhulule siye phambili.
Inqubo Yokubhujiswa Nokuzalwa Kabusha
Wake walubona uvemvane luphuma emfeceni walo? Kumele alwe ukuze aqinise amaphiko akhe. Uma othile emsiza ngaphambi kwesikhathi, akasoze akwazi ukundiza, ngoba uzobe engadlulanga kulesi sigaba esibalulekile soguquko.
yakho Ubusuku Obumnyama Bomphefumulo umoya wakho, umfece wakho; Kungukufa kwe-ego, inqubo lapho ususa khona yonke into ekuvimbela ukuthi uhlanganise umphefumulo wakho ngokugcwele. Ngaphambi kokuba noma yikuphi ukuphulukiswa kwangempela noma ukukhula kwenzeke, kufanele kube nokubhujiswa nokubhujiswa kwakho konke obucabanga ukuthi kuwumthombo wenjabulo.
Kusukela ekuzalweni, ubekwe esimweni sokukholelwa ukuthi imali, impumelelo, uthando olufanele noma ubuhlakani kuzokujabulisa. Kodwa lesi sifiso sangaphandle senjabulo siwumlingo, ngoba injabulo isivele ikhona, kulo mzuzu, ngaphandle kokwenza noma yini noma ukuyifuna. Injabulo kuyinto.
Ukuphela Komshikashika: Ukuthethelela Nokwamukela
Enye yezingqinamba ezinkulu ze- Ubusuku Obumnyama Bomphefumulo yisilingo sokuziphindiselela noma ukucasuka. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi nguNkulunkulu – noma indawo yonke – onakekela ukubuyisela ibhalansi. Ukuqhubeka nokuthukuthela kubambezela ukuthwasa. Kufanele sidlule entethelweni, hhayi ukuze sizithethelele, kodwa ukuze sizikhulule. Ukudedela, ukukhala, nokuqhubekela phambili kuyizinyathelo ezibalulekile.
Mdedele Athembe
Konke esasicabanga ukuthi siyakufuna, futhi akuzange kugcwaliseke, empeleni kwakuyisipho. Kuhlale kukhona okukhulu okulinde ukudalulwa. Okubalulekile wukuyeka ukuzama ukuqonda nokumane uthembele. Lapho sizizwa siboshwe kakhulu futhi singenamandla yilapho kanye okufanele sidedele khona.
Isiphetho: Ukufa Nokuzalwa Kabusha Kobukhona
La Ubusuku Obumnyama Bomphefumulo kuwukuqalwa eqinisweni lobuNtu. Le nqubo ibuhlungu, kodwa futhi iyisihluthulelo soguquko olujulile. Asivuki ngokuziveza ekukhanyeni, kodwa ngokwenza ubumnyama bethu buqaphele. Umbuzo ojulile – Ubani ocabangayo? Ubani owesabayo? Obani abafayo? – kubalulekile ukuze udlule kulobu busuku futhi uzalwe kabusha uwena.
Ingqondo iyithuluzi elinamandla, elibunjwe ukuziphendukela kwemvelo, elisivikelayo futhi lakha iqiniso lethu. Kodwa futhi inomkhawulo futhi ayikwazi ukwamukela ubukhulu bomphefumulo. Ukuwela i- Ubusuku obumnyama, umuntu kufanele aqonde lo mkhawulo futhi azinikele kulokho okukhulu kunokucabanga.
Khala nsuku zonke uma kunesidingo. Buyekeza okwedlule, bese ukukhohlwa. Umphefumulo mawuthathe indawo yawo efanele. Futhi ekugcineni, hamba indlela yakho, uhlanganise ngokugcwele ingqikithi yakho, ngaphandle kwemaski, ngaphandle kokwesaba.
Uguquko Olujulile
Empeleni, Ubusuku Obumnyama Bomphefumulo kuyinqubo yokuchitha ikhaya lakho langaphakathi elidala futhi ufune elisha. Ngokwemvelo, le nqubo idinga ukugxumela okukhulu kokungaziwa, okungafika ngokuzumayo futhi ngokwesabekayo.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ubhekene nalokhu, yazi ukuthi awuwedwa. Baningi abanye abakhona futhi abaningi basekhona. Alikho imephu yalolu hambo, kuphela ukukhanya okucwayizayo komphefumulo wakho okukuqondisayo.
Cabanga ngesifaniso sokugqoka: ukugqoka izingubo ezintsha, kufanele uqale ukhumule ezindala. Ngamafuphi, yilokho kanye okuphathelene nakho. Okudala kumele kukhunyulwe ukuze kuvuleke okusha. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuhlupheka obhekana nakho phakathi nalolu vivinyo kunenjongo: ukucekelwa phansi kwezinkolelo eziphelelwe yisikhathi, ubuwena kanye nemikhuba yokuvula indlela yezindlela ezintsha zokuphila.
Ufuna ukwesekwa komuntu ngamunye?
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