Ukuhlola Ukuzilimaza

Ingabe uzizwa ubhajwe esivunguvungwini sokuzibhubhisa? Lezi zikhathi lapho ulimaza khona injabulo yakho, impilo yakho, noma ubudlelwano bakho ngamabomu noma ngokungazi azinakugwenywa. Ukuzibhubhisa, le ndlela eyinkimbinkimbi eshukumisela abanye bethu ukuba bazilimaze, kuthinta abantu abaningi kunalokho esikucabangayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuhilela ukuziphatha okuyingozi, ubudlelwano obunobuthi, noma ukuzidelaUkuqonda lezi zindlela kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuthola ukwelashwa.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulwa nalokhu kuthambekela noma ufuna ukuqonda othandekayo, lesi sihloko sizokuqondisa ngezindlela ukuzibhubhisa, izimbangela zayo futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, izindlela ezingenzeka zokululama. Ngoba wonke umuntu ufanelwe ukuzikhulula emaketangeni akhe angaphakathi, ake sihlole ndawonye izihluthulelo zokuguqula ukuzibhubhisa kube ukuzalwa kabusha.

Imiyalelo

Esitatimendeni ngasinye, likala ukusuka ku-0 kuye ku-3 kuye ngokuthi uzizwa kaningi kangakanani noma uhlangabezana nalezi zimo:

• 0 = Ngeke
• 1 = Kwesinye isikhathi
• 2 = Kaningi
• 3 = Kaningi

Umbuzo

Isigaba 1: Ukuziphatha Nezenzo

1. Ngizithola ngisezimeni eziyingozi ngaphandle kwesizathu sangempela
2. Ngibhidliza ubudlelwano bami uma buba buhle kakhulu
3. Ngidebeselela ngamabomu impilo yami engokomzimba
4. Ngihlala ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi naphezu kobuhlungu
5. Ngidla izinto eziyingozi ukuze “ngikhohlwe”

Isigaba 2: Imicabango Nemizwa

6. Ngizizwa ngingakufanelekele ukuthandwa noma ukuhlonishwa
7. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngifanelwe ukuhlupheka
8. Nginenkinga yokwamukela izincomo noma impumelelo
9. Ngihlale ngizibeka icala uma izinto zingahambi kahle
10. Ngizizwa ingaphakathi elingenalutho ezijulile

Isigaba 3: Ubudlelwano Nabanye

11. Ngizihlukanisa ngokuzithandela kwabanye
12. Ngiyabaphusha abantu abafuna ukungisiza
13. Ngikhetha ozakwethu abangizwisa ubuhlungu
14. Ngikuthola kunzima ukwenqaba noma kubuhlungu kimi
15. Ngidela izidingo zami ngokuhlelekile ngenxa yabanye

Isigaba 4: Ubudlelwano Nawe

16. Ngiyazijezisa uma ngenze amaphutha
17. Ngiba nemicabango emibi ephindaphindekayo ngami
18. Angikunaki ukubukeka kwami ​​noma inhlanzeko yami
19. Ngiyawenqaba amathuba amahle
20. Ngilwela ukuzinakekela

Ukubala Umphumela Wokuzibhubhisa

Hlanganisa wonke amaphuzu akho ukuze uthole amaphuzu akho aphelele kwangu-60.

Ukuhunyushwa Kwemiphumela

0-15 amaphuzu: Amathrendi abuthakathaka

Ubonisa ukuziphatha okumbalwa okuzilimazayo. Qhubeka nokuzinakekela futhi uhlale uqaphile ukuze ubone izimpawu zokucindezeleka.

16-30 amaphuzu: Amathrendi Amaphakathi

Izingxenye ezithile zempilo yakho zibonisa izimpawu zokuzibhubhisa. Kungaba yinzuzo ukuhlola lokhu kuziphatha nochwepheshe.

31-45 amaphuzu: Amathrendi Aphawuliwe

Ukuziphatha kwakho okuzilimazayo kubalulekile futhi kunomthelela izinga lakho lempilo. Usizo lochwepheshe lunconywa kakhulu.

Amaphuzu angama-46-60: Amathrendi Anzima

Ukhombisa izimpawu ezingathi sína zokuzibhubhisa. Ukwelashwa kokwelapha ngokushesha kuyadingeka.

Inothi elibalulekile

Lokhu kuhlola kuyithuluzi lokuzihlola futhi akuthathi indawo yokuxilongwa kochwepheshe. Uma uthola amaphuzu aphezulu noma ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha kwakho, bonana nochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo ngokushesha.