Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu base- amandla aphezulu obuhlakani Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu abaneziphiwo (HPI) noma abantu abanemizwa enamandla (HPE) kanye nabahlukumezi abazikhukhumezayo bungaba yinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi buqine. Lesi sihloko sihlola izindlela ezihlukile ezingavela lapho abantu abaneziphiwo kanye nabahlukumezi abazikhukhumezayo bexhumana, kanye nezinselele ezingaba khona lobu budlelwano obungase buziveze. Sizohlola izici zalezi ziphrofayili ezimbili kanye nokusebenzisana kwazo okungenzeka.
Incazelo yamandla aphezulu obuhlakani nawomzwelo
Le amandla aphezulu obuhlakani (HPI) ibonakala ngamakhono okuqonda angaphezulu kwesilinganiso. Abantu be-HPI bavame ukuba:
- I-IQ ephezulu (imvamisa ibe ngaphezu kuka-130)
- Ilukuluku elikhulu lobuhlakani
- Kuthuthukiswe ukucabanga okungaqondakali
- Inkumbulo enhle kakhulu
- Ikhono lokufunda ngokushesha
Amandla aphezulu emizwelo (HPE), ngakolunye uhlangothi, abonakaliswa yilokhu:
UCristina unikeza iseshini yomuntu ngamunye ukukusiza uphume ekulawulweni okuhlukumezayo futhi wakhe impilo yakho kabusha.
- Ukwanda kokuzwela ngokomzwelo
- Uzwela olunamandla
- Umbono obukhali wemizwa yabanye abantu
- Ukusabela okubalulekile ngokomzwelo
- Umuzwa onamandla wobulungisa
Lawa maphrofayili amabili avame ukuhlanganyela izici ezithile ezifana nokuthihypersensitivity, ukuqina ngokomzwelo kanye nokuthambekela kokufuna ukuphelela.
Izici ze-narcissistic pervert
I-narcissistic pervert iveza isethi yezici zobuntu eziyinkinga, ezihlanganisa:
- Ukuzizwa uphakeme nobukhulu
- Isidingo ngokweqile sokutuswa
- Ukuntula uzwela
- Ukuthambekela kokuxhaphaza abanye
- Umona oshubile
- Ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo
- Ukungakwazi ukubona amaphutha omuntu
Laba bantu bahlale befuna ukubusa nokulawula labo ababazungezile, ngokuvamile ngezindlela ezicashile nezicashile.
Ukukhangwa okungaba khona phakathi kwamandla aphezulu kanye nama-narcissistic perverts
Kunezici ezimbalwa ezingachaza ukukhanga okungaba khona phakathi kwamandla aphezulu kanye nama-narcissistic perverts:
- Ukuphelelisana okubonakalayo: Uzwela nokuzwela kwe-HP kungase kubonakale kuhambisana nesidingo sokunakwa se-narcissist.
- Inselele yobuhlakani: Ama-HPI angase akhangwe kubunkimbinkimbi obubonakalayo be-narcissist.
- Isidingo sokuqashelwa: Ama-HP, ngokuvamile afuna ukuqinisekiswa, angase akhohliswe ukutuswa kokuqala kwe-narcissist.
- Ukwenza kahle: Ama-HPE angase aveze ezawo izimfanelo ku-narcissist, enze isithombe esihle.
Amandla obudlelwano obunobuthi
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwe-HP kanye nama-narcissistic perverts bungasheshe bube nobuthi:
- Ukukhohlisa kwemizwelo: I-narcissist isebenzisa ukuzwela kwe-HP.
- Ukukhanyisa igesi: I-HP ingase ingabaze umbono wayo lapho ibhekene nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissist.
- Ukwehla kwenani okuqhubekayo: I-narcissist iqeda ukuzethemba kwe-HP.
- Ukuhlukaniswa nomphakathi: I-HP inganqanyulwa kulabo abaseduze kwayo yi-narcissist.
- Imijikelezo ye-idealization kanye nokwehla kwenani: I-HP ibhekana nokushintshashintsha okulimazayo.
Umthelela ongokwengqondo emandleni aphezulu
Ukuchayeka isikhathi eside ku-narcissistic pervert kungaba nemiphumela emibi ku-HP:
- Ukukhathazeka okungapheli
- Ukucindezeleka
- Ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba
- Ukudideka ngokomzwelo
- Ukukhathala kwengqondo
- I-post-traumatic stress syndrome
Ama-HP angase ahlupheke ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokuzwela kwawo okuphakeme nokuthambekela ekuzihloleni.
Izindlela zokuzivikela kanye nokujwayela amandla aphezulu
Ibhekene nokuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic, i-HP ingathuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezahlukahlukene:
- I-hypervigilance engokomzwelo
- Ukuhlukaniswa
- Ukulinganisa ngokweqile
- Ukuphika noma ukunciphisa ukuhlukumeza
- Ukwanda kokuthanda ukuphelela
- Ukutshalwa kwezimali ngokweqile kochwepheshe noma okunobuhlakani
Lawa masu, nakuba evikela esikhathini esifushane, angaba yinkinga esikhathini eside.
Ubunzima bokuthola nokushiya ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo
Ama-HP angase abhekane nezithiyo ezithile ekuboneni nasekushiyeni ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo:
- Ubunkimbinkimbi bobuhlakani: Ukuthambekela kokuhlaziya ngokweqile kanye nokuthethelela ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo.
- Ukuzwela okweqile: Ubunzima bokwamukela ububi be-narcissist.
- Ubuqotho : Ukunamathelana okuqinile naphezu kokuhlukunyezwa, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwe-HPE.
- I-Perfectionism: Ukuzizwa ukwehluleka komuntu siqu lapho ubhekene nezinkinga zobudlelwane.
- I-Isolement : Ukuntuleka kokusekelwa kwangaphandle ukuze kuqinisekiswe ulwazi lwabo.
Imiphumela yesikhathi eside kubunikazi kanye nokuzethemba
Okuhlangenwe nakho kobudlelwane nomuntu ophendukela ku-narcissistic kungaba nemiphumela ehlala njalo ku-HP:
- Ukuzibuza okujulile ngobunikazi babo
- Ubunzima bokwethemba abanye kanye nawe
- Ukulahlekelwa yizimpawu zomzwelo
- Umuzwa wecala ophikelelayo
- Ubunzima bokuqinisekisa izidingo kanye nemikhawulo yomuntu
- Ukwesaba ukuzibophezela ebuhlotsheni obusha
Ukwakha kabusha kungaba yinqubo ende neyinkimbinkimbi, evame ukudinga ukwesekwa kochwepheshe.
Umthelela ebuhlotsheni besikhathi esizayo kanye nokubuka umhlaba
Umuzwa wokuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic ungashintsha unomphela indlela ama-HP abheka ngayo ubudlelwane futhi abone umhlaba:
- Ukwanda kokungabathembi abanye
- Ubunzima bokuvula imizwa
- Ukuthambekela ekuzihlukaniseni nomphakathi
- Umbono ongenathemba owengeziwe wobudlelwane babantu
- Ukubuza amakhono abo okwahlulela
- I-Hypersensitivity ezimpawu ze-narcissism kwabanye
Lezi zinguquko zingathinta kakhulu izinga lempilo ye-HP yezenhlalo nezomzwelo.
Isiphetho
Ukusebenzisana phakathi kwamandla aphezulu kanye nama-narcissistic perverts kungadala ukuguquguquka kobudlelwane okuyinkimbinkimbi futhi okungase konakalise. Ukuzwela kwe-HP, uzwela, kanye nobuhlakani kubenza babe sengcupheni yokukhohliswa abantu abaphendukezela i-narcissistic, okuholela emiphumeleni engathi sína engokwengqondo neyomzwelo. Ukuqonda lezi zinguquko kubalulekile ukuze uvikele kangcono abantu abangaba namandla futhi ubasize bakhe kabusha ngemva kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic. Kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokufunda lokhu kusebenzisana ukuze kuthuthukiswe amasu okuvimbela nokweseka aguqulelwe ezidingweni ezithile ze-HPI kanye HPE.
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The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.