Amagama ekhodi e-narcissism: Ukuhlaziya ulimi olufihliwe

“Amagama ekhodi ye-narcissism” amagama nemishwana evame ukusetshenziselwa ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissism ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ngokucacile igama elithi “narcissism.” Lesi simo solimi sibonisa ubunkimbinkimbi kanye nokuzwela okuzungeze ingxoxo yabantu abangabafuni emphakathini wanamuhla. Ake sibhekisise la ma-ephemisms kanye nencazelo yawo ejulile.

Ukuvela kwe-euphemisms ye-narcissism

Le i-narcissism sekuyindaba okuxoxwa ngayo, kodwa futhi kuya ngokuya kuba nzima ukukhuluma ngayo ngqo. Lesi simo siholele ekuqhamukeni kwamagama amaningi ahlukile achaza imikhuba ye-narcissistic ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama ngokwalo. Lawa ma-ephemisms asivumela ukuthi sikhulume ngendaba ngendlela engaqondile futhi engase ibe nokusola.

Ukusetshenziswa kwalawa magama ekhodi kukhombisa ukungabaza okuthile komphakathi “kokuxilonga” noma ukubiza umuntu ngokuthi umnakekeli. Iphinde ibonise isifiso sokuxoxa ngokuziphatha okuyinkinga ngendlela eguquguqukayo, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amagama athathwa njenganezigaba kakhulu noma acwasayo.

“Intense”: I-euphemism evamile ye-narcissism

Elinye lamagama ekhodi ajwayelekile ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic “linamandla.” Leli gama lingase libonakale lingathathi hlangothi, ngisho libe lihle kwezinye izimo. Kodwa-ke, uma kusetshenziselwa ukuchaza ubuntu, ngokuvamile kungafihla izici eziyinkinga kakhulu ze-narcissistic.

Umuntu ochazwa ngokuthi “oqinile” angabonisa izici ezilandelayo:

• Ukuqiniseka okuqinile nokungagodli ezindabeni ezithile
• Ukungakwazi ukwenza izivumelwano noma ukubona amanye amaphuzu
• Ukubuka okuhlabayo noma okwesabisayo
• Intshisekelo eyeqile engaba namandla kwabanye
• Ubunzima bokuzibandakanya ezingxoxweni ezilula

Nakuba ukuqina kungaba kuhle kwezinye izindawo (njengobuciko noma ezemidlalo), kungaba yinkinga ebudlelwaneni babantu. Umuntu ohlale “eqinile” angase abe nobunzima bokujwayela izidingo zabanye noma ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yansuku zonke ngaphandle kwedrama.

“Rough paternalism”: i-euphemism yobulili

Elinye igama lekhodi elisetshenziswa ngezinye izikhathi, ikakhulukazi ukuchaza amadoda asezikhundleni ezibonisa ukuziphatha okungathandeki, “ububaba obunonya.” Le nkulumo ihlanganisa umqondo wesimo sengqondo sokweyisa (ububaba) nobukhulu obunokhahlo noma ulaka.

Leli gama lingakwazi ukufihla ukuziphatha okune-narcissistic okufana nalokhu:

• Umqondo oyihaba ngokubaluleka komuntu siqu
• Isidingo ngokweqile sokutuswa
• Ukungabi nozwelo kwabangaphansi
• Ukuthambekela kokuxhaphaza abanye ukuze kuzuze yena

Ukusebenzisa lolu hlobo lwe-euphemism ngezinye izikhathi kungase kululaze ukungathi sína kokuziphatha okuchazweyo, kukuveze njengohlobo lobuholi obuqinile esikhundleni sokubonisa okungase kube nokuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissism.

“Izindaba Zentukuthelo”: Ukwenziwa Lula Okudukisayo

Ukuchaza umuntu “njengonezinkinga zentukuthelo” kungenye indlela evamile yokubhekisela ekuziphatheni okungase kube ne-narcissistic ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama. Nakuba ukuthukuthela kungase kube uphawu lwe-narcissism, le ncazelo yenza kube lula ukuxaka kokuphazamiseka.

“Izinkinga zentukuthelo” ezihlotshaniswa ne-narcissism zingafaka:

• Ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo akulingani nesimo
• Ukungakwazi ukubhekana nokukhungatheka noma ukudumazeka
• Ukusebenzisa Intukuthelo Njengendlela Yokulawula Ebudlelwaneni
• Ukushintshashintsha kwemizwa okungalindelekile

Kodwa-ke, ukunciphisa i-narcissism kumane nje kube “izinkinga zentukuthelo” kuyingozi yokunganaki ezinye izici ezibalulekile zesifo, njengokuntula uzwela, isidingo esiqhubekayo sokunconywa, noma ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo okungahlobene ngempela nentukuthelo.

“Amandla Omlingiswa Oyinhloko”: I-Narcissism Ngenkathi Yezokuxhumana Komphakathi

Igama lakamuva, elidume kakhulu phakathi kwezizukulwane ezincane, lithi “amandla omlingiswa oyinhloko.” Le nkulumo ibhekisela esimweni sengqondo somuntu oziphatha njengokungathi ungumlingiswa oyinhloko wendaba yakhe yokuphila.

Nakuba lesi simo sengqondo singabonakala njengesihle uma sikhuthaza ukuziqinisekisa kanye nokulawula impilo yomuntu, singabonisa nokuthambekela kokunganaki lapho kwenziwa ngokwedlulele. Izimpawu “zamandla omlingiswa oyinhloko” ngokweqile zingabandakanya:

• Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuba isikhungo sokunakwa
• Ukuthambekela kokulingisa izehlakalo zempilo ezijwayelekile
• Ukuntula ukucabangela okuhlangenwe nakho nezidingo zabanye
• Isidingo eseqile sokuqinisekiswa ngokusebenzisa inkundla yezokuxhumana

Lo mqondo ukhombisa ukuthi izindlela ezintsha zokuxhumana ku-inthanethi nokwabelana zingabhebhethekisa kanjani noma zigqamise ukuthambekela okukhona kakade kwe-narcissistic.

Imithelela yokusebenzisa amagama ekhodi ku-narcissism

Ukusebenzisa lawa ma-euphemisms namagama ekhodi ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic kunemithelela embalwa ebalulekile:

1. Ukunciphisa inkinga: Ngokusebenzisa amagama athambile noma angacacile, sizifaka engcupheni yokubukela phansi ubucayi bokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic kanye nomthelela wako kwabanye.
2. Ukudideka kwabahlukumezekile: Abantu abahlangabezana nakho ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-narcissistic bangase babe nobunzima bokuhlonza nokuqamba ulwazi lwabo uma ukuziphatha kuchazwa njalo ngamagama agcwele ushukela.
3. Isithiyo ekuqwashiseni: Ukusebenzisa ama-euphemisms kungavimbela abantu abane-narcissistic ekuboneni ukuziphatha kwabo okuyinkinga, okungase kubambezeleke ukufuna usizo.
4. Ukumiswa kwe ukuziphatha okunobuthi : Ngokuchaza ukuziphatha kwe-narcissistic ngamagama aphikisayo noma aqondile (njengokuthi “okushubile”), sizibeka engcupheni yokuzenza zibe jwayelekile futhi sizenze zamukeleke kakhulu emphakathini.

Iqhaza lemithombo yezindaba ekusebenziseni amagama ekhodi ku-narcissism

Imidiya evamile idlala indima ebalulekile ekusabalaliseni nasekwenzeni lawa magama ekhodi abejwayelekile ku-narcissism. Izintatheli nabahlaziyi, ngokuvamile ngenxa yokukhathazeka ngokungathathi hlangothi noma ukwesaba ukuthathelwa izinyathelo zomthetho, bagwema ukusebenzisa amagama aqondile afana nelithi “narcissist” ukuchaza izibalo zomphakathi.

Lesi sexwayiso sabezindaba, nakuba siqondakala ngokombono wezomthetho, singaba nemiphumela engemihle:

• Kungaqhubeza ukungazi komphakathi mayelana nokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic
• Ingaqinisekisa ngokungaqondile okuhlangenwe nakho kwezisulu zama-narcisists
• Kungase kuvimbe izingxoxo ezibanzi zomphakathi mayelana ne-narcissism nomthelela wako

Umthelela ekuqondeni komphakathi i-narcissism

Ukusetshenziswa kabanzi kwamagama ekhodi ukuchaza i-narcissism kunomthelela omkhulu ekuqondeni komphakathi kwalesi sifo sobuntu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungenza isihloko sifinyeleleke kalula ngokugwema ukusetshenziswa kwamagama omtholampilo okungenzeka asabisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyingozi ekunciphiseni ukuqonda kokubonakaliswa okuthile nemiphumela ye-narcissism.

Lesi simo sidala indida: kuyilapho igama elithi “narcissism” liya ngokuya liba khona enkulumweni ethandwayo, incazelo yalo enembile nemithelela yalo ingafihlwa ngokusetshenziswa kwezaga namagama anekhodi.

Isiphetho: sibheke enkulumweni evuleleke kakhudlwana mayelana ne-narcissism

“Amagama ekhodi ye-narcissism” abonisa ukuthambekela komphakathi ekubhekaneni ne-narcissism ngokungaqondile. Nakuba le ndlela ingase ibonakale imnene noma iwukukhuluma, ibeka engcupheni yokufihla ubucayi nobunkimbinkimbi bokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic.

Ingxoxo evuleleke kakhudlwana neqondile ye-narcissism, kusetshenziswa amagama anembayo nachazayo, ingaba nomthelela ekuqondeni kangcono lokhu ngokuhlanganyela. i-narcissistic personality disorder. Kungase futhi kusize izisulu zibone kangcono futhi zisho imizwa yazo, futhi ingase ikhuthaze abantu abanezici ze-narcissistic ukuthi bafune usizo.

Ekugcineni, indlela esikhuluma ngayo nge-narcissism inomthelela kakhulu ekhonweni lethu lokubona, ukuqonda, kanye nokubhekana nakho ngempumelelo, kokubili ezingeni lomuntu ngamunye kanye nelomphakathi.