Ukunqoba ukuziphatha okunganaki kwe-narcissistic pervert

Abahlanekezeli beNarcissistic baziwa ngokuziphatha kwabo okukhohlisayo nokulimazayo. Phakathi kwamaqhinga abo amaningi, ukunganaki kungenye yamaqhinga acashile kakhulu. Lesi sihloko sizokusiza ukuthi uqonde lesi sici futhi ubhekane naso ngempumelelo.

Iyini i-narcissistic nonchalance?

I-Narcissistic nonchalance isimo sengqondo sokunganaki okusobala esamukelwa abaphendukezeli be-narcissistic. Benza sengathi akukho lutho olubathintayo, benikeza umbono wokuthi abanandaba nemiphumela yezenzo zabo noma imizwa yabanye.

Kungani abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic bethatha lokhu kuziphatha?

Lesi simo sengqondo sokunganaki sifeza izinhloso eziningana:

1. Yehlisa isithunzi isisulu
2. Gwema icala
3. Gcina ukulawula ubudlelwano
4. Hlwanyela ukungabaza nokudideka kumlingani wabo.

Ungawabona kanjani ama-narcissistic nonchalance?

Nazi ezinye izimpawu ezingakusiza ukuthi ubone lokhu kuziphatha:

• Ukungabi nandaba nokukhathazeka kwakho
• Ukunciphisa imizwa yakho
• Ukwenqaba ukuzibophezela noma ukwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile
• Isimo sengqondo esivamile ngezinkinga zobudlelwane

Imiphumela ye-narcissistic nonchalance

Nansi eminye yemiphumela eyinhloko engaba khona ye-narcissistic nonchalance:

1. Izinkinga zobudlelwano: Ukuntuleka kozwela nokucabangela abanye kungaholela…ukuzihlukanisa emphakathini kanye nezingxabano ezivame ukwenzeka ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu nobomsebenzi.
2. Izinkinga zomsebenzi: Ukungakwazi ukuzibuza nokucabangela izidingo zabanye kungakhinyabeza ukuqhubekela phambili komsebenzi futhi kubeke engcupheni amathuba okuthuthuka.
3. Ukuzenyeza : Ngokumangalisayo, ukuzikhukhumeza kuvame ukufihla ukuzethemba okuphansi. ukungazethembi kungaholela ekuzivikeleni, ekuphatheni kabi, nasekufuneni njalo ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle.
4. Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo: I-narcissism eyeqile ivame ukuhlotshaniswa nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okunjengokucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka noma ukuphazamiseka komuntu. Ukwenqaba ukuqaphela ubuthakathaka bomuntu siqu kungenza lezi zinkinga zibe zimbi nakakhulu.
5. Ubunzima ekukhuliseni izingane: Abazali abangamaNarcissistic bavame ukufaka izidingo zabo ezinganeni zabo, okungaba nomthelela omubi ekukhuleni nasekugcwalisekeni kwazo.
6. Izinkinga zomthetho nezezezimali: Ukungacabangeli abanye kungaholela ekuziphatheni okungekho emthethweni noma ngokunganaki kwezezimali, okungaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu.

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela lokhu kuthambekela kwe-narcissistic futhi usebenze ekunciphiseni ngokuzihlola futhi uzisebenzele ukuthuthukisa uzwela nokucabangela abanye.

Ungasabela kanjani ekungangenisi kwe-narcissistic pervert?

Ukuze uzivikele kulokhu kukhohlisa, nanka amanye amathiphu:

1. Themba intuition yakho
2. Qinisekisa imizwa yakho nemibono yakho
3. Misa imingcele ecacile
4. Funa ukwesekwa kochwepheshe noma obathandayo othenjwayo.

Ukubaluleka kokugcina ukuzethemba kwakho

Uma ubhekene ne-nonchalant narcissistic pervert, kubalulekile ukuthi:

• Bona inani lakho langaphakathi
• Ungazibeki icala ngokuziphatha kwakhe
• Hlakulela ukuzimela ngokomzwelo.

Umjikelezo wokungacabangi nokushuba

Isici esibalulekile okufanele siqondwe ekuziphatheni komuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic ukushintshanisa phakathi kokungacabangi nokushuba kwemizwa. Lokhu okuguquguqukayo kudala umjikelezo oqeda amandla kulowo ohlukumezekile:

1. Izigaba zokungacabangi okwedlulele lapho i-narcissist ibonakala ixhumekile ngokuphelele.
2. Izikhathi zokushuba okuzumayo ngokomzwelo, ngokuvamile ezihle ekuqaleni (thanda amabhomu).
3. Kubuyelwa kungazelelwe, okushiya isisulu sididekile futhi singanakwa.

Lo mjikelezo uqinisa ukuncika komzwelo kwesisulu, okubangela ukuthi bahlale befuna ukuvunyelwa nokunakwa ku-narcissist. Ukuqaphela le phethini kubalulekile ekwephuleni umjikelezo futhi uphinde ukwazi ukulawula imizwa yakho.

Nini futhi kanjani ukushiya lobu buhlobo obunobuthi?

Uma uzibona ukulesi simo, kungase kudingeke ucabange ukuqeda ubuhlobo. Nazi ezinye izinyathelo ongazilandela:

1. Lungiselela uhlelo lokuphuma oluphephile
2. Zizungeze nabantu obathembayo
3. Xhumana nomelaphi ogxile ekuhlukumezeni i-narcissistic
4. Nquma konke ukuxhumana nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic ngemva kokwehlukana

Ireferensi ye-Bibliographic yokunqoba ukuziphatha okunganaki

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa ezihlola ukuziphatha okunganaki nokukhohlisayo kwabahlanekezeli be-narcissistic:

1. Grosjean, D. (2016). I-narcissistic pervert: ukuqonda nokuzivikela. Editions de l’Homme.
2. Bélanger, C. (2013). Ukukhohlisa: ukuqonda i-narcissistic pervert. Izinguqulo Québec-Livres.
3. Lecocq, E. (2015). Imidlalo yamandla: ukuqonda i-narcissism kanye nokukhohlisa. Izinhlobo ze-Eyrolles.
4. Dumont, C. (2018). I-Narcissistic perverts: ukuqaphela nokuqonda ukungakhululeki. Marabout Editions.
5. U-De Bock, M. (2020). Olunye uhlangothi lwe-narcissism: lapho ukuyenga kuba ukukhohlisa. Odile Jacob Editions.
6. UFriedman, M. (2014). Ama-Narcissistic perverts: umhlahlandlela wokusinda. Izinguqulo Albin Michel.
7. Menard, J. (2012). I-Narcissistic perverts: enhliziyweni yokukhohlisa. Izinguqulo Zokuqala.

Lezi zithenjwa kufanele zikunikeze isisekelo esiqinile sokuhlola itimu yokuziphatha okunganaki phakathi kwama-narcissistic perverts.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, ukunganaki kwe-narcissistic pervert kuyindlela ecashile kodwa enamandla yokukhohlisa imizwa. Ngokufunda ukukubona nokubhekana nakho, ungakwazi ukuphinde ukwazi ukulawula ukuphila kwakho nempilo yakho engokomzwelo. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi ufanelwe ubuhlobo obunempilo nokwanelisayo, obusekelwe ekuhloniphaneni nomusa.