Lapho uhlangana nomuntu othandekayo futhi okhathalelayo, kungaba isilingo ukuzivumela ungene ebuhlotsheni. Ngeshwa, lesi sikhathi “se-honeymoon” sivame ukufihla ukuqala kokuziphatha okunobuthi engxenyeni ye-narcissistic pervert. Lesi sihloko sihlose ukukusiza ukuthi ubone izimpawu eziyisixwayiso ze-narcissistic trap, uqonde izindlela zokulawula futhi uqondise ezinyathelweni zokwakha kabusha ngemva kobudlelwane obunjalo.
Ukuqaphela ugibe lwe-narcissistic: izimpawu eziyisixwayiso
Uma uhlangana nomuntu obukekayo, okukhathalelayo, futhi obonakala enothando olungenamibandela ngawe, kungaba isilingo ukuzivumela ungene ebudlelwaneni. Kodwa-ke, lesi sikhathi “se-honeymoon” sivame ukufihla ukuqala kokuziphatha okunobuthi. I-narcissistic pervert iphumelela kakhulu kubuciko bokuyenga, isebenzisa amasu afana nalawa:
- the ” thanda amabhomu » : ukulangazelela ngokweqile nokunaka, okungase kubonakale kunothando ekuqaleni
- Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokunakwa nokuqinisekiswa
- Ukuthambekela kokuhlukanisa umlingani wakho kulabo abaseduze naye
Lokhu kuziphatha kungase kubonakale kunothando ekuqaleni, kodwa empeleni kufihla isifiso sokulawula nokukhohlisa.
UCristina unikeza iseshini yomuntu ngamunye ukukusiza uphume ekulawulweni okuhlukumezayo futhi wakhe impilo yakho kabusha.
Umjikelezo we-infernal wokwehla kwenani
Uma “ubanjwe”, i-narcissist iqala ukushintsha kancane kancane ukuziphatha kwayo. Isigaba sokwehliswa kwamanani iqala, ibonakala ngokugxekwa, ukubhuqa kanye nokungacabangi njalo. Kancane kancane uzizwa ubuzwa, uze ululazeke. Leli su lihlose ukukuqeda amandla futhi likwenze ungabaze, okwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukwenza isinqumo sokushiya lobu budlelwano obunobuthi. Ukukhanyisa igesi, okuhlanganisa ukungabaza umbono wakho weqiniso, iba ithuluzi elikhethekile le-narcissistic pervert ukuze liqhubeke lingasebenzi kahle.
Ukuzihlukanisa, indlela yokulawula enobuqili
Ngokuhambisana nokwehla kwamanani, i-narcissistic pervert imisa izindlela zokuzihlukanisa nabantu.
- Le ukuphika kusuka kubathandekayo bakho ukuze kukuvimbele ekusekelweni kwakho komphakathi
- Ukuncipha kancane kancane komphakathi wakho
Leli su lihlose ukukwenza uncike kuye futhi uqinise ithonya lakhe. Ube usuzithola usunqanyuliwe emhlabeni, ungenazo izinsiza zokuziphilisa.
Ithonya lezezimali, uhlobo lokuthunjwa
Ukulawulwa kwezimali kungenye ithuluzi lokulawula elisetshenziswa kakhulu yi-narcissistic pervert. Angase aqale ngokucela ukukhokhela izindleko zakho, akukhuthaze ukuba uyeke umsebenzi wakho noma uyeke ukusebenza. Kancane kancane, uvimbela ukufinyelela kwakho imali, ngaleyo ndlela akwenze uthunjwe ebuhlotsheni. Ngaphandle kwezinsiza zakho, kuba nzima kakhulu ukuhlela impilo yokuzimela. Umuntu ohlanekezela u-narcissistic angakusabisa ngokukuphuca konke ukwesekwa kwezimali uma uzama ukumshiya.
Ukuphula umjikelezo wokulawula: izigaba zokwakhiwa kabusha
Uma uzithola usezimpahleni zomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, isinyathelo sokuqala ukuqaphela ubuqiniso besimo. Naphezu kwamasu okukhohlisa, kufanele uqaphele ukuthi awunasibopho ngalokho okwenzeka kuwe. Okulandelayo, kubalulekile ukuphinda usungule ukuxhumana nomphakathi futhi uxhumane kabusha nalabo abaseduze kwakho, uchaze ngokuzolile lokho obhekene nakho.
Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uthole ukwesekwa kwangaphandle okubalulekile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubalulekile ukuzungeza ochwepheshe (abelaphi, izinhlangano ezisekela izisulu) abangakusekela ohlelweni lwakho lokwakha kabusha.
Phinda ulawule impilo yakho: amasu aphathekayo
Ukuze uzikhulule ethonyeni le-narcissistic pervert, kuzodingeka ukuthi kancane kancane uphinde uthole ukuzimela kwakho ngokwezimali nangokomzwelo.
- Thola umsebenzi noma uzakhele ukonga
- Thutha endaweni ephephile, kude nethonya lomlingani wakho
Lesi sinyathelo singaba bucayi ikakhulukazi, ngoba i-narcissistic pervert ingaba yingozi. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uhambisane futhi uthathe izinyathelo zokuphepha ezidingekayo ukuze uphephe.
Zinakekele ukuze uzakhe kabusha kangcono
Ngemva kokubhekana nezinto ezinjalo ubuhlobo obunobuthi, kubalulekile ukuzinika isikhathi nokunaka ukuze uzakhe kabusha. Zinike izikhathi zekhefu, ukuze ushaje kabusha amabhethri akho, kude nengcindezi nokukhathazeka okudalwe ubuhlobo.
Nakekela impilo yakho engokomzimba nengokwengqondo, uthintane nochwepheshe uma kunesidingo. Funda ukuzethemba futhi, uzibekele imingcele futhi ugomele. Lesi sigaba sokwakha kabusha singaba side futhi sibe nzima, kodwa sizokuvumela ukuthi uphinde uthole amandla nokuzethemba.
Ukuvimbela ukuze ululame kangcono: qwashisa abantu abaseduze kwakho
Uma uke waba sebudlelwaneni nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, kubalulekile ukwabelana ngolwazi lwakho futhi wenze labo abaseduze kwakho bazi ngalama dynamics anobuthi. Lokhu kungasiza abanye babone izimpawu eziyisixwayiso futhi bagweme ukuwela ogibeni olufanayo. Ukwengeza, ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngalokho odlule kukho kungaba yingxenye ebalulekile yokwelapha, ukwephula ukuthula namahloni okuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nalezi zimo.
Isiphetho
Sengiphetha, isicupho se-narcissistic siyiqiniso eliyinkimbinkimbi, elidinga umsebenzi wokuqwashisa, ukwakhiwa kabusha kanye nokuvimbela ohlangothini lwabahlukunyezwayo. Ngokuqondiswa nokusekelwa, kungenzeka ukuthi uzikhulule kuleli thonya futhi ube inkosi yempilo yakho futhi. Ungangabazi ukufuna usizo kochwepheshe kanye nalabo abaseduze kwakho ukuze uqale le nqubo yokuphulukisa.
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Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.
Want to break free from this hold?
The Complete Narcissism Release (PDF book) and the Musc essential oil guide you step by step – at your own pace, at home.