Izincwadi Eziphezulu Eziyisi-7 Zabanezipho: I-HPI ne-HPE

Iyiphi incwadi enesiphiwo ye-HPI ne-HPE? Ukuzithola usezicathulweni zomuntu onesiphiwo noma idube akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. THE I-HPI et HPE yizigaba ezimbili ezisetshenziselwa ukuhlukanisa abantu abanekhono eliphezulu lokuqonda noma lomzwelo. Icala labo lifanelwe ukunakwa okukhethekile ngenxa yentshisekelo abahlanekezeli be-narcissistic abanayo kubo.
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Izincwadi Eziphezulu Eziyisi-7 Zabanezipho, i-HPE kanye ne-HPI

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1. “Umuntu Omdala Onesiphiwo: Ukufunda Ukwenza Kubelula Lapho Uyinkimbinkimbi”
2. “Amandla Abanesiphiwo Emhlabeni Osezimeni Ezibucayi: Ubuhlakani Nokuqina”
3. “Abanesiphiwo Nothando”
4. “Ukuze ingane yami iphumelele”
5. “Umuzwa wesizungu”
6. “Umuntu Omdala Onesiphiwo Ekunqobeni Injabulo”
7. “Owesifazane Oyisiphiwo”

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1. “Umuntu Omdala Onesiphiwo: Ukufunda Ukwenza Kubelula Lapho Uyinkimbinkimbi”

Kuyiqiniso ukuthi sihlakaniphe kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi senza izinto eziwubulima, iqiniso asiliboni ebusweni ngoba siqonda izinto eziningi futhi ngenxa yalokho asiboni izinto kalula. Le ncwadi ye UMonique Huon waseKermadec kuwusizo ngempela ekufundeni ukukugcina kulula ngisho noma uhlakaniphe kakhulu futhi uqonda izici eziningi ezingokoqobo.

2. “Amandla Abanesiphiwo Emhlabeni Osezinkingeni: Ubuhlakani Nokuqina”

Ukuqina kuyinto abantu abaneziphiwo (abantu abazwela kakhulu, isibonelo) abanayo, okubenza bakwazi ukubhekana nabahlukumezi abazikhukhumezayo. Kodwa ukuqina kumele kuqondiswe kokuthile okudala, okuthile okuhle, hhayi kokuthile… ubuhlobo obunobuthi nabantu abaphambukile abazikhukhumezayo. Lo msebenzi futhi wenziwa yi UMonique Huon waseKermade.

3. “Abanesiphiwo Nothando”

Impela uthando luyindaba esikhathazayo, yikho sonke esikufunayo eqinisweni. Isihlokwana sithi: “Thanda ngekhanda lakho nangenhliziyo yakho”. Imvamisa izingane ziyazwelana, zintula uthando ngakho-ke lapha kuba isisulu somuntu okhohlakele ongenalo uthando ebuntwaneni bakhe.

4. “Ukuze ingane yami iphumelele”

Lokhu kuthinta enye into kancane, okusho ukuthi uma uyi-HPE/HPI, maningi amathuba okuthi ingane yakho ibe nayo. Kumele uqonde ukuthi ungumuntu onjani, nokuthi ungayisiza kanjani ingane yakho ukuze ingagcini isiyi-narcissistic, isibonelo, uma uyise noma unina ehlanekezela futhi uphiwe.

5. “Umuzwa wesizungu”

Kuhlala kubhalwe ngu-Monique de Kermadec. Yincwadi echaza kahle okwenzeka ekhanda lomuntu we-HPI/HPE/Onesiphiwo ozizwa ehlukile kwabanye.

6. “Umuntu Omdala Onesiphiwo Ekunqobeni Injabulo”

Kubalulekile, uma unesiphiwo futhi usebudlelwaneni nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic, le ncwadi ikusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi yini enhle kuwe, inikeza izinkomba kusukela injabulo yabaphiwe akuyona ngempela injabulo yabanye njengesibonelo.

7. “Owesifazane Oyisiphiwo”

Uma ungowesifazane futhi unesiphiwo/HPI/HPE, ngincoma. Uma usuwafundile amanye, yincwadi enikeza umbono omusha. Liyincwadi esivumela ukuba siqonde indawo yowesifazane onesiphiwo emphakathini wanamuhla futhi ngokuqinisekile hhayi ngemuva komuntu ohlanekezelwe.

QAPHELA: Ukukhetha kwethu lezi zincwadi ngu-Monique Huon de Kermadec kuvela ekuzimiseleni umlobi akubeke emsebenzini wakhe.

Uyini umehluko phakathi kwe-HPE ne-HPI?

Umehluko phakathi komuntu one-HPE nomunye one-HPI usemikhakheni eyahlukene yabo.

• Umuntu one-HPI ngumuntu one- QI ou Intelligence quotient phezulu kakhulu. Ngenkathi i HPE ulinganiswa phakathi QE ou I-Emotional Quotient. Umehluko lapha ungaphakathi kwenethiwekhi ye-neural ngokwayo. Ku-HPI, izindawo ezixhunywe emisebenzini yokuqonda ingqondo yilezo esenziwe zasebenza kakhulu. Nakuba i-HPE ingaleyo exhumene nemizwa kanye nemibono yezinzwa enamandla kakhulu.
• Zihlukene futhi ngokucabanga. Ngempela, umuntu one-HPI uzosebenza ngokomqondo, kuyilapho i-HPE izosebenza enembile kakhulu.
• Elinye iphuzu lokuhlukana kusekulawuleni imizwa. Umuntu one-HPI uzogxila ku- logic ukuphatha imizwa yakho. Usebenzisa ubuhlakani bakhe ukuhambisa icala lakhe elingokomzwelo. Lokhu kungaba ngempumelelo ngokubukeka, nokho, i-HPI othandweni ingase ibe nobunzima bokuphatha lokho ekuzwayo ngenxa ye ukungazethembi. Esimeni sayo, i-HPE ine- ukuphatha imizwa yakho ngokuqaphela. Kodwa-ke, ingawela ezimweni ze-hypersensitivity ezimweni ezithile.

Wazi kanjani ukuthi uyi-HPI noma i-HPE?

Kunezindlela ezahlukene zokwazi ukuthi ngabe uyi-HPI noma i-HPE. Okokuqala, kukhona izivivinyo ezahlukene ongayenza. Nokho, imithombo ethulwa ku-inthanethi ayiqiniseki kakhulu. Yingakho ukubiza ukungenelela kukadokotela wezengqondo kuhle kakhulu. Nokho, kukhona nethuba lokubhekisela ekufundweni. Ikhona ngempela incwadi engakukhanyisela ubone ukuthi uphiwe yini, HPI noma HPE.

Kodwa-ke, izici ezithile zingakunikeza izinkomba mayelana nokuthi uyi-HPI noma cha noma i-HPE:

• Okokuqala, kukhona ngokusobala ukuba khona kwe-a ubuhlakani obungavamile. Lesi sici sijwayelekile kubo bonke abantu abanesiphiwo noma amadube.
• Singaqaphela futhi a hypersensitivity ngokomzwelo.
• Ubukhona be isihlahla ukucabanga okungase kube nzima ngezinye izikhathi.
• a ukucabanga okunembile, okuthuthuke kakhulu.
• Un umlingiswa onozwela, iphakeme impela.

Iluphi usizo okufanele ngilunikeze kumuntu we-HPE noma we-HPI?

Kungase kubonakale kungenangqondo ukucabanga ukuthi umuntu onesiphiwo angase adinge usizo. Nokho, isimo sabo esikhethekile sibabeka esimweni esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunomuntu olula. Ubunzima bukhona ebudlelwaneni babo bomphakathi, kuyahluka noma ngabe i-HPI noma i-HPE.

• Kukhona ikakhulukazi iukubukeka kwe impostor syndrome. Abantu abane-HP bavame ukungabaza ikhono labo. Ubonisa ukuntula ukuzethemba okuthile ukuze abhekane nezinselele zokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ezimweni eziningi, umuntu onegunya yilokho okufunwa kakhulu.
• Umuntu one-PIH naye uhlangabezana nenkinga ethile ukuzenyeza et ukuntula ukuzethemba. Bavame ukubhekana nalokhu ebuntwaneni nasebusheni. Yilesi sikhathi esivame ukuqokwa ngabaphiwe njengesibi kakhulu empilweni yabo. I-HPE ayihlangabezani nalolu hlobo lobunzima, ngoba ngokuvamile inalo ukuzithanda okuqinile.
• Okokugcina, iphuzu elithinta kuphela ama-HPI ukuthi angazithola esebunzimeni uma kuziwa emizweni. Bayoba nobunzima bokuveza imizwa yabo. Kusothandweni ukuthi i-HPI idinga usizo ikakhulukazi.

Uthando lusebenza kanjani nge-HPI?

Othandweni, i-HPI ingase ihlangabezane nobunzima obuthile. Isizathu siwukuthi ngokuvamile bavame ukuthembela kuphela ekuhlaziyeni kwabo okunengqondo. Lokhu kungabavimbela ekuchumeni ngokukhululeka ebudlelwaneni. Yingakho ngokuvamile bedinga iseluleko esiqondile. Incwadi efana nethi “The Gifted and Love” iyanconywa ukuze ibasize kule ndawo. Umbuzo othi “ama-HPI athandana kanjani?” ” iyitimu ephindaphindayo. Ukuqonda ngokweqile kwemizwa ibeka i-HPI ebunzimeni ebudlelwaneni bayo bemizwa.

Izingozi ze-HPI ne-HPE ezibhekene ne-Narcissistic Pervert

Lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zabantu ziphakathi kwezisulu ezifiseleka kakhulu zama-narcissistic perverts. Ngempela, i-hypersensitivity yabo ivame ukusetshenziswa ngabaphendukezeli be-narcissistic ngokumelene nabo. Bazothukuthela kalula lapho bebhekene nezenzo zomuntu ophambene. Sinesibonelo sozwelo lwabo olukhulu oluzovumela umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic ukuthi abahlukumeze ngamaphuzu ahlukene. Bazokwazi ke ukuthuthukisa i i-savior syndrome, okuzoqinisa kuphela ukubambelela kwembuka kubo. Yingakho ukuthola ulwazi ngezincwadi ze-HPI enesiphiwo kanye ne-HPE kubalulekile.

Izikhombo ze-Bibliographic

Nansi ukukhethwa kwemisebenzi eyisikhombisa ku-High Intellectual (HPI) kanye ne-Emotional Potential (HPE):

1. “I-Philo-cognitives: Bathanda kuphela ukucabanga nokucabanga ngendlela ehlukile” ngu-Fanny Nusbaum, u-Olivier Revol no-Dominic Sappey-Marinier (2019).
2. “Umuntu Omdala Onesiphiwo: Ukufunda Ukugcina Izinto Zilula Lapho Uyinkimbinkimbi” ngu-Monique de Kermadec (2011).
3. “Uhlakaniphe kakhulu ukuthi ungajabula? Umuntu omdala onesiphiwo » nguJeanne Siaud-Facchin (2008).
4. “Abantu abadala abazwelayo nabanekhono: Ukuthola indawo yabo emsebenzini futhi bayachuma” ngu-Cécile Bost (2014).
5. “Umehluko nokuhlupheka komuntu omdala onesiphiwo” ngu-Cécile Bost (2011).
6. “Ingane enesiphiwo: Ukumsiza ukuthi akhule, amsize aphumelele” nguJeanne Siaud-Facchin (2002). oués, iwusizo ekuqondeni i-HPI/HPE yabantu abadala.
7. “I-Psychology yezingane ezinesiphiwo esikhulu” ngu-Olivier Revol (2013).

Le misebenzi ihlinzeka ngokuqonda okujulile kwemininingwane yabantu abanekhono eliphezulu lobuhlakani nemizwa, okusekelwe ocwaningweni lwesayensi kanye nolwazi lomtholampilo.

Isiphetho

Sengiphetha, ukufunda nge-HPI kanye ne-HPE ngokufunda ngokuzinikela kusivumela ukuthi siqonde kangcono lezi zimo ezihlukene futhi seseke abanesiphiwo ezinseleleni zabo zomuntu siqu nezobudlelwano. Le misebenzi ihlinzeka ngezindlela ezibambekayo zokuqonda ubunkimbinkimbi bengqondo nemizwa yabo, kanye nokukhuthaza intuthuko evumelanayo ezweni okunzima ngezinye izikhathi ukulihlanganisa nemininingwane yalo.