I-Narcissistic Pervert Teen – Ungayibona kanjani?

Unengane ekhulayo ekhaya futhi ucabanga ukuthi unayo i-narcissistic personality disorder Kunezimpawu ezithile ezikuvumela ukuthi ubone i-narcissistic osemusha ohlanekezelwe ! Ngokubona lokhu kuphazamiseka kusenesikhathi enganeni yakho, ungathatha izinyathelo ezithile zokuyisiza ikuqede ukuze ibe nempilo ejabulisayo neqhubekayo. 

Ingabe umuntu osemusha angaba yi-narcissistic pervert?

Kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukuthi osemusha wethula izici zomlingiswa eziseduze nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi unenkinga yobuntu bakhe. Khumbula ukuthi i-FN iwumuntu obonisa ukuziphatha okuguquguqukayo okuphawulwa ukuthambekela okunamandla kokuxhaphaza nokuxhaphaza abanye, ukuzethemba okukhulu kanye nokuntula uzwela okukhulu.

Intsha ekhohlisayo neqamba amanga kufanele ibhekwe njenge i-narcissistic pervert uma futhi kuphela uma izindlela zakhe zokucabanga noma zakhe ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ziyaqhubeka futhi ziqine. Ngokuvamile, ukuphazamiseka kobuntu ebusheni kubangelwa ukucindezeleka komphakathi noma kwabazali kanye nokushintsha kwamahomoni. Xhumana nodokotela wengqondo noma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo uma lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ezibonisa ukuzikhukhumeza ziba yinto ekhathazayo.

Ungayibona kanjani intsha ehlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic?

Nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokuqaphela intsha enarcissistic:

• Ukuthambekela komona : ukubonakaliswa komhawu ongenampilo entsheni kuwuphawu lokuphendukezelwa kwe-narcissistic. Umona wokunaka okukhokhwa kwabanye, umona wempumelelo kanye nokwehliswa kwemizamo yabanye yokuzicabangela kangcono nokuzizwa ngokwabo, njll.
• Ukungabi nozwelo : iqiniso lokungabaqondi abanye noma ukungabi nazwelo ngobuhlungu/ukuhlupheka kwabanye liyaveza. Intsha enobuthi ayinandaba nezidingo zabanye futhi ayinandaba nokuzwela kwabanye.
• Umuzwa wokuzicabangela omkhulu : osemusha onama-narcissistic uba nomuzwa ojabulisayo wokuziphakamisa ngokusekelwe kulokho okulindelekile okungenakulinganiswa. Uvame ukufuna ukunconywa nokuqashelwa abanye.
• Isidingo sokubusa nokulawula : ukubusa, ukwesabisa kanye nokufuna ukulawula abanye ukuze umuntu afinyelele izinjongo zakhe kuyizimpawu zokuthi osemusha unokuthambekela okuqinile ekukhohlakaleni kwe-narcissistic.
• Ukugxeka okunzima : uma osemusha ene-hypercritical noma ejabulela ukwenza izahlulelo zenani kanye nokhahlo, ngisho nokugxeka okunobuthi kwabanye, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlushwa yi-narcissistic personality disorder.

Ungamsiza kanjani osemusha ohlanekezelwe narcissistic?

Ukwelashwa kwe-pathology exhumene ne-narcissistic personality disorder kudinga indlela ehlukahlukene. Ukuhlolwa okuphelele kochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo kuyadingeka ukuze kwelashwe lesi sifo kusuka ezimpandeni zako. Kodwa okokuqala, nansi indlela ukusiza osemusha onama-narcissistic ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwabo:

• Misa ukuxhumana okuvulekile ukumkhombisa indlela
• Nikeza njalo impendulo ukuze uyisize ithuthuke
• Yiba yisibonelo enganeni yakho
• Gwema ukungqubuzana okungadingekile futhi ukhuthaze ukuxazululwa kwezinkinga
• Khulisa uzwela
• Ungashintshi, uqine futhi ungenzeleli nengane yakho
• Cabangela izindlela zokwelapha zomkhaya
• Khuthaza ukuzethemba okulinganiselwe nokunempilo

Ukuba nentsha ehlanekezelwe ene-narcissistic: ingabe iphutha labazali?

Ngokuvamile, lokhu kunjalo! Imbangela eyinhloko yalokhu kuphazamiseka kubangelwa izinga lokuphila elisheshayo lentsha. Kulokhu, abazali banesibopho ngokuyinhloko sokuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic entsheni.

Ngokwesibonelo, a ubaba ohlanekezelwe narcissistic noma umama ongenalo uthando nozwela enganeni yakhe, angabangela ukuthuthukiswa kokuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic ekugcineni. Ngokunjalo, umzali ophambene ne-narcissistic angase adlulisele ukuziphatha okufanayo enganeni yakhe. Ngoba ukuhlala ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa, i-PN nendodakazi yakhe noma umfana bazohlanganyela endaweni yonke efanayo lapho umzali ezokhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha kwe-narcissistic entsheni.

Esinye isimo: Umzali ogxeka ngokweqile nonombono omuhle ngaye ngokwakhe ngeke abe isibonelo esihle enganeni yakhe. Lo osemusha ngokwemvelo uzofuna ukufana noyise noma owakhe umama ohlanekezelwe onarcissistic futhi kancane kancane uzothuthukisa izici zokuphendukezela i-narcissistic.

Ungakwazi yini Ukwelapha Noma Ukushintsha Intsha Ye-Narcissistic?

Kungenzeka ukugxilisa amanani athile ku-PN osemusha ukuze ulungise ukuziphatha kwakhe futhi umvumele ukuthi ashintshe. Qaphela ukuthi lokhu ngeke kube umsebenzi olula ukuwufeza, ngoba lolu hlobo lokuziphatha luqala kusukela ebuntwaneni.

Imvelo yalokhu kuphazamiseka, okugxiliswe ngokujulile emaphethini okuqonda wentsha, izodinga ukungenelela kukachwepheshe. Ngakho-ke isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo noma udokotela wengqondo angakwazi ukusiza osemusha ngokusebenzisa indlela yokwelapha esekelwe ekuthuthukisweni kwamakhono omphakathi kanye nokuzazi.

Ireferensi ye-bibliographic yokuqaphela intsha enganakile

Nazi izikhombo zesayensi eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni yobusha kanye nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic:

1. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Ukuguqulwa kweNarcissistic. I-Paris: I-Payot.
2. Eiguer, A. (2008). I-Narcissistic perversion, umqondo oguqukayo. Ulwazi Lwezengqondo, 84 (3), 193-199.
3. UMarty, F. (2007). I-Narcissistic isekela ebusheni. Ijenali Yezazi Zengqondo, 25 (2), 22-27.
4. Roman, P. (2019). I-narcissism elimele kanye nobunikazi bokuhlupheka ebusheni. I-Watermark, 28 (1), 75-87.
5. Madi, H. (2014). I-Narcissism ebusheni. Ijenali ye-Child Psychoanalysis, I-1, i-123-140.
6. UMarty, F. (2006). Singakhuluma ngokuhlanekezela ebusheni? Intsha, 24 (3), 593-601.
7. Eiguer, A. (2024). Umthelela wobubi empendulweni ye-narcissistic. Intsha, 42 (1), 43-55.

Lezi zithenjwa zihlinzeka ngombono ojulile mayelana nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic ebusheni, ekhuluma nezici zethiyori nezomtholampilo.

Isiphetho

Ngamafuphi, ukuhlanekezela kwe-narcissistic yisifo esikhula ebuntwaneni futhi siqala ukuthomba. Nokho, kungenzeka ukusiza osemusha we-PN ukuthi aguqule ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ngemva kokuxilongwa, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singakhetha ukwelashwa kwengqondo-yokuziphatha ukuze sisize osemusha okhohlisayo nomama wakhe ukuthi baguqule amaphethini okucabanga noma amaphethini, kanye nokuziphatha kwakhe okuyinkinga.