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Narcissistic Perverse Test

The test to recognize that one is a narcissistic pervert is to answer certain questions: 

• am I lacking in empathy and remorse?
• am I haughty, superior?
• do i have a high but fragile self-esteem?
• am I bullying and belittling others?
• am I looking for constant attention and admiration?
• can't I stand the slightest criticism?
• Do I have an inflated sense of my own importance?
• Am I not respecting other people's boundaries?
• Am I very selfish and egocentric?
• do i have superficial relationships?
• can't I put up with others making decisions for me?
• am I not taking responsibility for my own mistakes?
• am I envious and believe that others are envious of me?
• Am I taking advantage of others without feeling shame or guilt?
• do I feel better than others?
• am I overestimating my intellectual and physical superiority?
• am I arrogant and hostile?

The Narcissistic Pervert and Money

The narcissistic pervert and money are two great lovers. The narcissistic pervert uses money to control. Having a lot, even having a little gives him a sense of dominance and power over others. However, apart from loving money for the sake of loving it, the narcissistic pervert loves the feeling that money gives him. According to them, money gives admiration from others, well-being, higher self-esteem, freedom, power and security.

The narcissistic pervert uses money as a vehicle to get him to a destination. Money can buy friendship, love and happiness, thinks the narcissistic pervert. However, in normal times, he does not attach too much importance to this. The narcissistic pervert just wants to feel appreciated and adored.

Narcissistic Pervert at Work – Manager PN

The narcissistic pervert at work does exist. It is unfortunate to think that a manager intentionally wishes to harm a person's well-being and professional career. Behind his leader's mask, the manager has only one goal: to make his employee suffer. Here is how this crime presents itself through a few signs:

• the manager attacks the physical integrity of the victim employee,
• only one employee will endure the relentlessness of his manager,
• the manager professionally discredits the victim employee,
• moral harassment is only based on an objective reason,
• the manager underestimates the victim with the collective,
• the victim is isolated,
• the manager prevents the victim from speaking out.

Narcissistic Pervert Father

The narcissistic pervert can be a family member, a spouse, a colleague, a friend. Here we will see that a parent can also be a narcissistic pervert. The father, suffering from narcissistic perversity, is a manipulative parent who needs to feel superior to his children. To assert himself, the narcissistic perverse father denigrates his children and harms the building of their self-esteem. He competes with his children and sees their success as a threat. Her child victims will grow up feeling devalued, guilty and lacking in self-confidence. The narcissistic pervert father has these characteristics:

• in the name of family ties, he makes others feel guilty,
• even in his absence, he is constantly the object of discussion,
• he doubts his children (their skills, their personalities, their qualities),
• he judges and devalues,
• he criticizes,
• he forces his family to do things they would not have done of their own free will,
• he is jealous,
• he arouses in his family a sense of being trapped,
• he lies,
• he denies the obvious and does not support criticism,
• to be pitied, he poses as a victim,
• he uses open blackmail or disguised threats,
• he is egocentric,
• he is able to break up a couple,
• he sows discord,
• it divides to conquer better.

Narcissistic Perverse Mother

A narcissistic evil mother is a destructive mother to her children. This marks the lives of his children forever. The characteristics of this mother viper are very numerous:

• she uses affectionate words to hide her cruelty,
• she leaves no autonomy to her children,
• it favors the child prodigy and denigrates the others who occupy the role of scapegoat,
• she only recognizes her child's success if she can take credit for it,
• according to her, her children are always wrong,
• she makes her child look like a madman,
• she is jealous and wants to control everything,
• she invents false scenarios,
• she wants to be the center of attention,
• she is a manipulator to finally make others unhappy,
• only his needs, desires and feelings are important,
• she can't take criticism
• she sows fear,
• she is petty and childish,
• she is shameless and aggressive,
• she is a profiteer,
• she projects her own faults onto her children,
• she never apologizes or regrets anything she's done,
• she is never aware that others are suffering,
• she will hold others responsible for anything bad that happens in her life,
• it ruins relationships,
• she makes herself vulnerable or helpless when faced with the inevitable consequences of her bad behavior.

Narcissistic Pervert Child

The perverted narcissistic child makes those around him live a permanent nightmare, especially his parents and brothers and sisters who are his main victims. This narcissistic pervert under construction exhibits these bad behaviors:

• he can't stand being answered "NO",
• the PN child moans,
• he insists on getting what he wants,
• the little PN gets angry,
• he's complaining,
• the child sulks,
• he likes to pose as a victim of his classmates and his teachers,
• he manipulates his parents,
• the PN child contests the authority of his teachers, teachers,
• he flutters,
• he opposes a refusal to any request that does not satisfy his pleasure.

Perverse Narcissistic Couple

In a couple, the narcissistic pervert can be present. The narcissistic manipulator can both seduce and terrorize his partner. As the relationship progresses, you will see that the partner is a dangerous strategist who abuses and uses everything through these signs:

• you had a crush when you met your partner,
• he is jealous sickly and very possessive towards you,
• he devalues ​​you despite the praise you receive from him/her,
• you are always at fault,
• he lies and is often confused,
• the PN frequently offers you financial aid,
• he is intolerable to criticism,
• he wants to be the only one who wants your happiness.

How to live with a Narcissistic Pervert?

To live with a narcissistic pervert, we found these tips:

• we have to be realistic,
• it is very important to listen to each other,
• la mindfulness should be practiced,
• you have to ask yourself good questions,
• reinforcement of the positive is also necessary.

There may be other more effective solutions but these are the simplest.

How do you become a narcissistic pervert?

 we become narcissistic perverts by:

• having low self-esteem
• being in a situation of emotional dependence,
• unaware of the existence of this disorder,
• by not realizing that narcissistic perversion disorder can exist. 

The Narcissistic Pervert and his Mother

At his young age, the narcissistic pervert is attracted to the parent of the opposite sex: the little boy will be in love with his mother. The narcissistic pervert will be attracted to women who will stimulate him in the same way as his mother. He likes to return to his comfort zone: the arms of his mother who took care of him. He will therefore look for positive or negative or physical character traits. it is sometimes healthy or not at all. This relationship between the narcissistic pervert and his mother translates as:

• everything and its opposite
• a never balanced relationship.

Here are some examples:

• crazy Love  / hatred, rejection,
• disinterest  / want to save her,
• too involved,
• no limit, enentanglement,
• ignored / favored,
• control,
• admirationn, need for affectionn
• over-involvement,
• criticism / idealization,
• relationship of seduction, almost sexualized,
• competition,
• stay number 1 in his life,
• looking for approval to be liked.

Can the PN Change?

The narcissistic pervert can change if he has an awareness and undertakes work on himself. There are different psychotherapies that will help him to bring out his discomfort:

1. family therapy : several discussion sessions aim to explore communication problems and conflicts to deal with relationship problems,
2. group therapy : the narcissistic pervert will meet people with the same problem and improve their relationships with others,
3. individual therapy : it can last several years. The therapy will restructure the personality and recreate a realistic and positive image;

It is important to communicate that there is no medicine for narcissistic perversion. However, anti-anxiety medications or antidepressants can help the person with symptoms of depression.

Leaving a Narcissistic Pervert – The Breakup & Divorce with the PN

Leaving a narcissistic pervert is an escape from exhaustion and loss of self-confidence. If it is a couple relationship, all hope for a harmonious and healthy life will not be in vain. It is absolutely urgent to inform the entourage. You may need to get a lawyer because the narcissistic pervert is an expert in defamation. Sometimes, the victim of a narcissistic pervert can be helped by his friends. Consultation of a psychotherapist is also recommended. 

How to forget a Narcissistic Pervert?

To forget a narcissistic pervert, you can follow his instructions:

• rest,
• resume a social life,
• do a sport or an activity that you enjoy,
• reconnect with your loved ones, your friends.