Manipulative Savior Syndrome – He hononga paitini?

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Te mate kaiwhakaora manipulative: Ko tenei mate kaiwhakaora i etahi wa ka kiia he pai i roto i te hapori. I te nuinga o te wa ka kite tatou he nui te ngakau nui, he whakaaro pai ranei. Ina koa ka taea te ahu whakamua o te mate, ko te tangata kua pa ki a ia ka tino raweke. Na, he aha te mate manipulative savior syndrome?

Me pehea te mohio ki tetahi tangata e mate ana i te mate manipulative savior syndrome?

Mena he taketake syndrome kaiwhakaora e tohuhia ana e te te hiahia ki te awhina. Ko tera o te kaitakawaenga ka puta mai i etahi atu ahuatanga. Ki tetahi whānuitanga, ka taea e tatou te kii he te ahua pouri ake o te mate. Anei enei mea motuhake:

Ko te whare herehere karekau i whakaturia e te kaiwhakaora manipulative

Ko tenei ahua o Ka kitea te whare herehere aronganui i roto i te taiao whanau. Ko nga tamariki e tipu ake ana mai i nga matua tiaki rawa ko te nuinga o nga patunga o tenei. I te nuinga o te wa ka tipu ake ratou i roto i te taiao tino whakahaere, engari i runga ake i nga mea katoa kei tawhiti atu i nga tangata katoa. Hiahia kia mau ki ta ratou mahi hei kaiwhakaora, ka pokanoa nga matua ki nga oranga o a raatau tamariki. A ki te whakanui ake i tenei whakamarumaru, ka hanga he arai ki te taha o a raatau tamariki, me te hiahia ki te tiaki ia ratou ahakoa nga utu katoa.

Ka taea e tenei whareherehere aronganui te timata mai i a he pai te ahua i te timatanga. Heoi, ka taea tenei te ritenga atu i roto i te take o te narcissistic savior syndrome i roto i te aroha. Ka whai ia ki te whakamana i tona kiritau i runga ake i nga mea katoa. No reira no te tapea i te taata o te haapopou ia ’na e o te faahanahana ia ’na, e imi paha oia i te tapea ia ’na na roto i te mau mana‘o. Ko tenei whare herehere aronganui i hanga e te ngakau hara o te hunga kua ora. Ka whai nama te hunga o muri ki tana kaiwhakaora, me te kore e kite he tangata raweke ia. Ina koa mai etahi e tumanako ana ko te ka taea te whakarereke mo te aroha.

He aha te take i pai ai te kaikawe ki te kawe i te mahi a te kaiwhakaora?

Ko te take e turaki ana i te kaikawe ki te huna i raro i te mahi a te kaiwhakaora i ahu mai i tona ahua. Tuatahi, ka noho hei uhi mona ki te maataki ia. Karekau he ahua pai ake mo te kaipahua i to te kaiwhakaora. Ma te mau i tenei mahi, ka taea e te kaitakawaenga te hanga i te ahua o te kawenga me tana patunga. Na reira ka iti ake te whakapae me te whakaraerae ake.

Ko te kaiwhakaora manipulative he tangata whanoke?

Ka tere tatou ki tenei whakatau mena ka tirohia e tatou te mate narcissistic or toxic savior syndrome. Engari, he iti noa te rereketanga e tika ana kia mohiohia.

1. Te motuhake o te Manipulative Savior Syndrome

Na tenei e pa ana ki te meka e mate ana te tangata Ko te savior syndrome ka rapu i nga wa katoa. Mo tenei, ka kaha ia ki te whakanui ake i nga mahi ki te whakanui i te tangata kua ora. Kei roto ara te turanga o te whanaungatanga, te syndrome kaiwhakaora i roto i te aroha engari he kaupapa ngawari. I te nuinga o nga wa, ka patai te kaiwhakaora ki a ia ano, ka hiahia kia mawehe atu i tana ahuatanga. Ka patai pea ia ki a ia ano: me pehea koe e mohio ai mena he mate whakaora koe? He aha ahau i mate ai te savior syndrome? Ka taea e tenei mate te arahi ki tenei momo whakaaro.

2. Taapiritanga o te Narcissistic Pervert

Ahakoa ko te tangata whakapoauau kei roto i tetahi atu momo o te mate hinengaro. He tino tangata ake paitini hei kaiwhakaora manipulative. He tikanga a te tangata whanoke, ka rapu huarahi hei tukino i tana patunga. Mo ia, ko te oranga me te kiritau o tetahi anake a ko te tikanga ka mamae te hunga e noho tata ana ki a ia. He tino pai ki a ia. Ko te kaiwhakaora e rapu ana i te whakanui me te whakanui, ko te tangata whanoke he tangata kore noa e whangai ana i nga mea e rua i runga i te mohiotanga, engari i runga ano i te aitua o etahi atu.

Tohutoro pukapuka mo te manipulative savior syndrome

Anei nga tohutoro pukapuka e whitu e pa ana ki te kaupapa o te "manipulative savior syndrome":

  1. Karsenty, A. (2010). The Savior Syndrome: He whakaata mo te oranga me te raweke. Paris: Editions Odile Jacob.
  2. Miller, M. (2015). Te raweke me te whanaungatanga tangata: Te mohio ki te kaiwhakaora manipulative. Paris: Editions L’Harmattan.
  3. Béguin, P. (2018). Hinengaro o te whanaungatanga tangata: Mai i te kaiwhakaora ki te manipulator. Brussels: De Boeck Supérieur.
  4. Dumont, M. (2019). Ko te kaiwhakaora me te kaikawe: Hinengaro o te whanonga awhina. Lyon: Editions Eyrolles.
  5. Lévy, J. (2017). Te kaha kaha i roto i nga hononga: I waenganui i te whakaoranga me te raweke. Toulouse: Éditions Erès.
  6. Boulanger, M. (2021). Savior syndrome me te raweke kare-a-roto: Te tātari Hinengaro. Marseille: Éditions du Cerf.
  7. Garnier, L. (2016). Altruism, raweke ranei? Te mohio ki te savior syndrome. Nantes: Putanga PUF.

Ko enei mahi e korero ana i nga ahuatanga hinengaro me te taha-a-iwi o te savior syndrome me te raweke.

Opaniraa

Hei whakamutunga, ko te manipulative savior syndrome e whakaatu ana i te hihiko uaua e tere ai te hiahia ki te awhina ki te whakahaere me te raweke. Ko tenei whanonga, i te nuinga o te wa e akiakihia ana e te hiahia kia mohiohia, ka waihanga i nga whare herehere kare-a-roto e kino ai te kaiwhakaora me te tangata e awhinahia ana. Ko te mohio ki tenei raruraru he mea nui ki te whakarite hononga hauora me te taurite, me te awhina i te hunga e mate ana ki te mohio ki o raatau tikanga. Ko te wehewehenga i waenga i te kaiwhakaora manipulative me te tangata whanoke e whakaatu ana i te hiranga o te huarahi rereke i roto i te tātaritanga o te whanonga whanaungatanga.

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