I-Narcissistic pervert: ingabe ukwelashwa kungenzeka?

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I-Narcissistic perverts (PN) abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder. Abantu abanalesi sifo banombono ophansi ngabo. Badinga ukunakwa okukhulu kwabanye futhi kungabalulaza. THE ezonakele Ama-Narcissists awazazisi imizwa noma imibono yabanye futhi azinaki izidingo zabo. Kodwa kungenzeka yini ukuthi bazolapheka kulesi sifo sengqondo?

Ingabe kufanele sithethelele umuntu ohlanekezela ama-narcissistic?

Uma ufuna ukuzikhulula ebudlelwaneni nalolu hlobo lomuntu, kubalulekile ukuxolela, noma ngokunembayo ukwenza ukuthula nawe. Yile ndlela isisulu se-PN esizoya ngayo phambili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akukhona ukuthi umuntu ohlanekezelekayo onezinkinga zengqondo kufanele athethelelwe.

Ukuze kuqedwe lesi sigameko esibuhlungu, isisulu sizodlula ezigabeni ezahlukene ezihlanganisa intukuthelo, ukwakhiwa kabusha kanye nokuthethelela. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kufanele uzixolele ukuze ukhulule imizwa elimazayo futhi ukwazi ukuqhubekela phambili. Kungcono ukushiya ukuziphindiselela eceleni ngoba kubeka engcupheni ukubhebhethekisa isidingo sobuqili sokukhwabanisa.

Ukuphulukisa umuntu ohlanekezelwe yi-narcissistic: singamphatha?

I-PN ayikwazi ukuphulukisa kuphela uma efuna ngempela. Kumele azi ukuthi uyagula. Kodwa-ke, abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder bahlala ngokuphika. Bavame ukufuna ukutuswa futhi abanalo uzwela, ukungazethembi. Ngeshwa, abanawo amandla okubona ukugula abaphethwe yikho.

Kodwa-ke, ezimweni ezithile, ukulandela ukwehluleka okuningana kobudlelwane, noma uma abathandekayo bakhe bemenza azi, umuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic angakwazi ukuzibuza. Ngalesi sikhathi, angakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wokuziphatha kwakhe kwe-pathological futhi athole ukwelashwa kwengqondo nochwepheshe.

Yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha zokuphulukisa i-PN?

Nakuba lingekho ikhambi le-PN, ziningi izinhlobo zokwelapha ezingasiza. Kodwa noma iyiphi i-psychotherapy oyikhethayo, kufanele yenziwe nomelaphi oqeqeshiwe onokuhlangenwe nakho ekwelapheni ukuphazamiseka kobuntu. Nazi ezinye ezingasebenza ku-narcissistic pervert:

  • Ukwelashwa kwe-Gestalt

Lolu wuhlobo lwe-psychotherapy olugxile kakhulu esikhathini samanje kunesikhathi esidlule. Izikhathi zokwelapha ngokuvamile zigxila ezinseleleni umuntu abhekene nazo njengamanje empilweni yakhe. Ngesikhathi sokwelashwa kwe-Gestalt, abantu bavame ukucelwa ukuba balingise ukuxhumana komphakathi ngomzamo wokuthuthukisa amakhono abo okuxhumana.

  • I-Dialectical Behaviour Therapy

I-Dialectical Behavior therapy (DBT) ekuqaleni yayiklanyelwe ukwelapha i-borderline personality disorder. Njengamanje, isetshenziselwa ukwelapha ezinye izinkinga zobuntu kanye nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo.

Kuyindlela yokwelapha efundisa abantu ukuqaphela futhi ibasize bafunde ukuphatha kangcono imizwa yabo. Ngokuvamile, abantu bazothola kokubili ukwelashwa komuntu ngamunye kanye neqembu lapho usebenzisa le ndlela yokwelapha kwengqondo.

Izinzuzo zendlela ye-psychotherapy ku-narcissistic pervert

Le ndlela ingasiza umuntu onobuntu be-narcissistic ukuthi afunde:

  1. bona futhi ulawule kangcono imizwa yakho;
  2. ukubhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okungakhululekile;
  3. ukuxhumana ngokuphumelelayo;
  4. ukuphatha kangcono imizwa engemihle.
  • I-psychotherapy esekelayo

Abanye odokotela bengqondo bangase batuse ukwelashwa okusekelayo kwabaphendukezeli be-narcissistic. Le ndlela ye-psychotherapeutic ingasiza ekudambiseni izimpawu nokucindezeleka kwengqondo. Ngenxa yalokho, umelaphi angakwazi:

  • fundisa amakhono okulawula imizwa elimazayo;
  • ukuhlinzeka ngokwelashwa kwezimpawu ezinjengokukhathazeka nokudangala;
  • ukusiza i-PN ihlole futhi ixazulule izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bayo phakathi kwabantu;
  • nikeza ukwesekwa kumuntu ohlanekezelekayo we-narcissistic (ukuhlala ne-narcissistic pervert) ukuze kubonakale izinzuzo ezihlobene nezinguquko ebuntwini bomuntu.

Kwezinye izimo, umelaphi angase futhi atuse ukufaka abathandekayo ekwelapheni. Ngokuqonda kangcono imicabango nemizwa yabo, i-narcissist ingaba namandla ajulile ozwela.

Yimiphi imithi yokwelapha i-narcissistic personality disorder?

Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi awukho umuthi ongaphatha ngokuqondile izici ze-narcissistic, kodwa imithi efanele isenganikeza izinzuzo ezithile. Abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder ngokuvamile bathola ukuthi imithi ingaba usizo ezimpawu ezihlobene nesimo sabo.

Impela, kuye ngobunzima bazo, izimpawu ezingathi sína zempilo yengqondo kwesinye isikhathi zingathiya impumelelo yokwelashwa kwengqondo. Isibonelo, uma umuntu ezizwa ekhathazeke kakhulu noma ecindezelekile noma edidekile, angase abe nobunzima bokuhlala ekwelashweni kwe-narcissistic personality disorder.

Ngakho-ke, umelaphi anganikeza ama-antidepressants noma ama-anxiolytics ukuze akhulule lezi zimpawu. Imithi evumelaniswe nezimpawu ze-PN ingamsiza ukuba amukele ukwelashwa kwengqondo.

Ingabe uthando lungakwazi ukuguqula i-narcissistic manipulator?

Ngeshwa, ama-narcissistic perverts awathandani nabantu. Bathandana nemicabango yabo ngomuntu. Ngokuvamile, benza umlingani wabo njengomngane ophelele. Ngalo mqondo, uthando luka-a i-narcissistic manipulator ayikha phezulu futhi kuncike ekutheni umlingani wakhe uhlangabezana kanjani nezidingo zakhe. Konke kumayelana nalokho abakufunayo.

Ubudlelwano nomuntu ohlanekezelekayo we-narcissistic abuhlali isikhathi eside ngoba busekelwe ephusheni. Lapho ama-narcissists eyeka ukwenza umzamo wokuzama ukujabulisa nokwazi abashade nabo, bagcina bephoxekile. Isizathu siwukuthi bayawaqaphela amaphutha okugcina.

Uma isithandwa se-narcissistic sithola ukuthi awufaki yonke into abekade eyifuna kumuntu othandana naye, uzocela ukuthi umshintshele. Isithandwa sakho sizoqala ngokuphakamisa izindlela ezizokuvumela ukuthi ube ngcono, ngokuya ngemibandela yabo.

Izinkomba ze-Bibliographic zokuphulukisa i-narcissistic pervert

Nazi izikhombo zebhayibheli eziyisikhombisa endikimbeni yokuphulukisa i-narcissistic pervert:

  1. Sirota, A. (2017). I-Narcissistic perverts: qonda, uhlakaniphe, unqobe. Izinguqulo Le Manuscrit.
  2. U-Hurni, M., & Stoll, G. (2003). "I-Narcissistic perversion in couples". Ijenali yesiFulentshi yePsychoanalysis, I-67, i-873-893.
  3. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Ingcweti yasekuqaleni.
  4. Couderc, P., & Chapaux-Morelli, P. (2005). Ukukhohlisa komzwelo kubabhangqwana: Ukubhekana nomuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic.
  5. Bouchoux, J.-C. (2011). I-Narcissistic perverts.
  6. Hirigoyen, M.-F. (1998). Ukuhlukunyezwa kokuziphatha: ubudlova obuhlanekezelwe nsuku zonke.
  7. U-Eiguer, A. (2018). I-Narcissistic perverts.

Lezi zincwadi nezindatshana zinikeza umbono ojulile mayelana nokuhlanekezelwa kwe-narcissistic kanye nezindlela zokwelapha ezingase zibe khona.

Isiphetho

Ngenxa yalokhu, kubalulekile ukumisa nokugcina imingcele enempilo lapho usebudlelwaneni nomuntu okutholwe ukuthi une-narcissistic personality disorder. Lesi yisifo esibi sempilo yengqondo futhi ukwelashwa kwalesi sifo kuyakhuthazwa kakhulu. Ukuze i-PN ilulame, idinga ngempela ukuqaphela ukugula kwayo futhi ibonane nodokotela wezengqondo.

Nokho, ukusetha imikhawulo kungase kunganele ukukugcina uphephile. Uma ucabanga ukuthi kunobufakazi bokuhlukumeza noma udlame ebudlelwaneni bakho, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nomuntu ongakusiza.

Cristina Balan
Izindatshana zakamuva zikaCristina Balan (bona konke)

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