La umona wabahlanekezeli be-narcissistic kulele endleleni abazizwa ngayo ngabo. Kunzima futhi ngesinye isikhathi akunakwenzeka ukuthi i-narcissist ithembe noma ubani omunye. Eqinisweni, lapho ubuhlobo benu buyasondelana, uyobe esekwethemba kancane. Ama-Narcissists esaba noma yikuphi ukusondelana kwangempela noma ukuba sengozini ngoba esaba ukuthi uzobona ukungapheleli kwawo futhi uwahlulele noma uwalahle.
Kungani I-Narcissistic Pervert Inomona?
Ukuthambekela kwamaNarcissists ekutholeni umhawu kungase kuncike kakhulu esimweni sabo somzwelo.
Ngeshwa, njengoba ungase uqaphele, isimo somzwelo se-narcissist siyinto eguquguqukayo. Abantu abane-narcissistic personality disorder bangase bathethise izinto ebezingahloselwe ukubalimaza - ngokuvamile lapho igebe eliphakathi kocwecwe abalugqokile nobuntu babo bangempela livezwa.
Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukulimala kwe-narcissistic, okubeka engcupheni ukushiya i-narcissist esimweni sokuzethemba okuphansi. Ngemuva kokulimala kwe-narcissistic, ngakho-ke singalindela ukuthi ama-narcissists athambekele ekubeni nomona.
Indlela yokubona i-PN enomona onomona?
Nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokuqaphela umona we-narcissistic pervert:
1. Banomona ngakho konke
Asikho isilinganiso sokuqinisekisa esibonakala senza umehluko, ngoba ama-FN azonda ngokujulile futhi akwenqaba okwawo ukungapheleli okuyihlazo.
Abahlanekezeli be-Narcissistic ababonakali bethemba uthando lwabanye futhi bahlezi bekuhlola ngokuziphatha okubi kakhulu nokubi ukuze bazame ukuthola iphuzu lakho lokuphuka.
Ukuntula ukuzethemba nokuzethemba kusenhliziyweni ye-narcissism. Lokhu kuntula ukuzethemba ngokwemvelo kubenza babe nomona kalula, babe nomona kakhulu. Futhi hhayi nje kunoma ubani okungenzeka unentshisekelo yothando kuwe, kodwa kunoma ubani nanoma yini engasusa ukunaka kuye. Lo mhawu uzovusa ukufutheka okukhulu nokuziphatha okuyinkinga.
2. Imidlalo ye-PN
Uma uke waba nomuntu othandana naye owaqoma abanye abantu phambi kwakho, waxoxa nabantu ongabazi abakhangayo, futhi wazama ukwenza uzizwe sengathi awulungile, kungenzeka ukuthi uthandana nothile.
Futhi mhlawumbe babekwenza ngamabomu. Ucwaningo olusha lusikisela ukuthi abantu ababonisa amazinga aphezulu ezici ze-narcissistic babangela umhawu kubalingani babo ukuze bafinyelele imigomo ethile: Ukulawula, kwezinye izimo, noma ukwanda kokuzethemba kwabo.
Izinkinga zomona weNarcissistic Pervert
Izizathu zale midlalo yekhanda yothando ziyahlukahluka, noma kunjalo, kuye ngohlobo lwe-narcissism. Ama-Grandiose narcissists abike ukuthi akhuthazwa isifiso sabo sokuthola amandla nokulawula ebuhlotsheni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ama-narcisists asengozini, azama ukuvusa umona ngezizathu eziningi.
Ukulawula kukodwa, njengokuhlola amandla obudlelwano, ukufuna ukuphepha ebudlelwaneni, ukunxephezela ukuzethemba okuphansi, nokuphindisela lokho abakubona njengokuziphatha kwabo okubi. Lokhu kungabhekwa njenge-a umona ogulayo.
Kungani i-Narcissistic Pervert ifuna ukwenza umlingani wakhe abe nomona?
Endabeni yabaphendukezeli be-narcissistic, lolu hlobo lokuziphatha komhawu ngokuvamile lwenzelwe ukwenza ukholwe ukuthi banentshisekelo komunye umuntu.
Uzochitha isikhathi nomngane wakhe omusha, phambi kwakho noma cha, futhi uzovame ukukhuluma ngaye ngamazwi afudumele nanokuncoma. Imiphumela yabonisa umehluko phakathi kwezinhlobo ezimbili zama-narcisists. Ama-narcisists ama-Grandiose enza abalingani babo babe nomona wokuba namandla nokulawula phezu kwabo.
Abaphendukezeli be-Narcissistic nabo bakwenza ukuze bathole amandla nokulawula, kodwa futhi banezinye izisusa:
- Ukuziphindiselela: Uma wenze okuthile okubacasulayo (okungase kube lula ukukwenza), bangase bazame ukukwenza ube nomona njengendlela yokuziphindiselela.
- Ugqhozu lwakho: uma unomona ngomuntu, kumele abaluleke kuwe ngandlela thize. Ngakho-ke umona wakho ubanikeza amandla amancane ekungazethembini kwabo.
- Hlola ubudlelwano: Ngenxa yokuthi ama-narcissists avame ukungabi nozwelo, kunzima kubo ukwazi ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ukuze bathole lokhu kuqonda, bangase badinge ukuqala ukusabela okusobala kakhulu kuwe.
- Ezokuphepha: kungenzeka ukuthi uzama ukukuqinisekisa mayelana nokuqina kobudlelwane benu. Kufana nokushayela odongeni ukuze nje ubone ukuthi imoto yakho iphephile yini. Kodwa izenzo zama-narcisists ngokuvamile zingokomzwelo kunokuba zicatshangwe ngomoya ophansi.
Umehluko phakathi kwe-Narcissistic Pervert kanye Nomona Ogulayo
Un I-PN ngumuntu onobugovu obuphakeme kanye nomuzwa ongekho ngokoqobo wokuzibona ubalulekile. Angabangela umonakalo ebudlelwaneni bakhe ngenxa yesifiso sakhe sokugomela amandla akhe noma ukuphakama phezu komlingani wakhe kanye nokungabi nandaba nemizwa noma inhlalakahle yalowo wakamuva. I-Narcissism ngempela ihlotshaniswe nayo ubudlova obungokomzimba kanye/noma ezengqondo ebudlelwaneni, okungukuthi, ekuziphatheni njengokulawula umlingani wakho, ukuzihlukanisa, ukugxeka kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuziphatha okuhlukumezayo ezingadala umonakalo omkhulu ongokwengqondo.
Konke lokhu kungase kukwenze ucabange ukuthi kulula ngempela noma kusobala ukuhlala kude nabahlanekezeli be-narcissistic ebudlelwaneni, kodwa akuwona wonke ama-NP abonisa ukuziphatha kwawo okuphambene nomona ngokusobala, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kanye nomona we-narcissistic pervert
La umhawu du i-narcissistic pervert ngokuvamile kuhlobene eduze nokuziphatha komuntuABUS. Lolu hlobo lobuntu luyachuma ngesidingo esiqhubekayo sokulawula nokuphatha labo abaseduze kwakho. Umona ube usuba indlela yokusebenzisa lokhu kulawula, ikakhulukazi lapho ebona usongo kumuzwa wakhe wokuba mkhulu noma ukwethembeka kozakwethu.
Ngokungafani nomhawu wakudala, lowo we-narcissistic pervert udlulele futhi awunangqondo. Izibonakalisa ngokumangalelwa okungenasisekelo, ekuziphatheni kokugadwa kanye nemizamo ephindaphindiwe yokuhlukanisa abanye. Lezi zimo zengqondo ngokuvamile ziholela ekuhlukunyezweni ngokomzwelo noma ngisho nangokwenyama, okuhloswe ekutholeni kabusha ukulawula okuphelele phezu kwesisulu. Ngakho-ke ukuhlukunyezwa kuba yimpendulo eqondile kumhawu we-narcissist, ongakwazi ukuthwala umqondo wokulahlekelwa ukulawula kwakhe.
Izinkomba ze-Bibliographic mayelana nomona we-narcissistic pervert
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- UKernberg, O. (1975). Izimo ze-Borderline kanye ne-Pathological Narcissism. ENew York: Aronson.
- Vaknin, S. (2001). Ukuzithanda Okuyingozi: I-Narcissism Ibuyekezwe. EPrague & Skopje: Narcissus Publications.
- U-Akhtar, S. (2009). Comprehensive Dictionary of Psychoanalysis. London: Izincwadi zeKarnac.
- UGrilo, CM, & McGlashan, TH (2001). "Ukuzinza kanye nenkambo yezinkinga zobuntu: Isidingo sokucabangela ukuzinza kwezimpawu. » Ijenali Yezinkinga Zobuntu, 15 (4), 300-312.
Isiphetho - Ingabe i-Narcissistic Pervert ithembekile?
I-PN namanje ayithembekile kodwa basadlala umdlalo lapho kufanele abukeke kangcono kunomlingani wakhe. Nqoba umona kungaba nzima kumuntu ophendukezela i-narcissistic. Khumbula ukuthi ama-narcisists adinga ukunakwa nokuthakaselwa ukuze alondoloze ukuzethemba kwawo, yingakho benomona kakhulu.
Bavame ukubuka ubudlelwano ngokombono wokuthengiselana, okungukuthi, ngokwalokho abangakuthola kubo.
Ngakho-ke, uma besothandweni nawe, kungenzeka ukuthi kungenxa yokuthi basadonsa izinsiza zabo zokukhuluma kuwe. Uma uyishiya, uyawunqamula lowo mthombo. Futhi ukuqonda lesi simo, i-narcissistic pervert ayikwazi ukwethembeka ngoba kuye kungumncintiswano.
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