I-Psychic Vampire: Ungawabona njani la mibhobho yamanzi?

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I-Psychic Vampire : ungumntu ofuna ukude kuwe. La ngamasela amandla angadinwayo lixhoba lawo de aligqibe amandla alo abalulekileyo. Nazi ezinye iinkcazo kunye nezinto eziyinyani eziya kunceda ukuzohlula kwaye uzikhusele kuzo. 

Yintoni ivampire yengqondo?

Inkcazo ye-vampire yengqondo yinto encinci kwaye iyingozi kakhulu ekhupha amandla akho obomi ngaphandle komda, kude kube nokudinwa. Eyona nto imbi kukuba uhlala ezibonisa njengexhoba, akushiye udiniwe kwaye ungenanto.

Ivampire ngokweemvakalelo ingaba a umhlobo, isizalwane, umntu osebenza naye, umntu ohlala naye okanye iqabane. Ithiyori yale ngcamango, Stéphane Clerget, ichaza ukuba ezi zidalwa zifuna nje ezinye ukuze zibekho. Ngoko ke ngulo mnqweno we-visceral wokuba amandla abanye kunye noku kudla ngokugqithiseleyo okwenza i-vampire yeemvakalelo ibe yinto eyoyikwa kwaye igwenywe.

Uyibona njani ivampire yengqondo?

Ulumke kakhulu kwindlela yakhe yokwenza izinto, i-vampire yengqondo iyazazi izenzo azenzayo ziyingozi. Kungenxa yoko le nto ubuqili bubobunye beendlela zakhe eziphambili, kuba ngumbulali othuleyo. Kodwa unokuba njani ivampire yengqondo?

Enyanisweni, eyona nto inzima kakhulu kukukwazi ukuchonga umntu onamandla kubo bonke ubuqili babo. Indlela yokuqonda i-vampire yamandla? Phakathi kweempawu ezibonakalayo unayo:

  • Ukuziva ungonakali : le yenye yeempawu zomntu odlamkileyo. Ingaba ngumntu osebenza naye, umzala, umhlobo, uyise we-psychic vampire okanye umama, i-vampire ibonisa ukuba akanakuze aphazamise.
  • Ukungoneliseki ngokupheleleyo : uya kuqaphela ukuba yonke into ivampire yengqondo kubuhlobo okanye kubudlelwane ihlala icela ngakumbi. Akaneliseki yintwanana ayinikwayo kwaye naloo nto ayicelayo ayimneli.
  • Fukugxeka abanye : ivampire yengqondo kubudlelwane ithatha uyolo olubi lokufaka ubutyala kwi-subconscious yeqabane lakhe. Kwenziwa into efanayo kulo lonke ulwalamano lwakhe nabantu okanye lwentlalo.
  • Ukungabikho kwenkohlakalo okanye ukungabi naluvelwano : akukho kuziva unetyala, okanye nokuzisola ngevampire yeemvakalelo. Akanakuze abe novelwano ngentlungu okanye ukubandezeleka kwakho.
  • Ayikwazanga ukubonisa umbulelo : ekubeni engumntu ongenambulelo, akanakuyibona nangayiphi na indlela into omenzela yona. Nangona i-psychic vampire engazi nto ayinayo i-shred yokubulela kwabo bafikelela kuye okanye bamxhasa yonke imihla. Ngaba sinelungelo lokuzibuza umbuzo othi "ingaba ndiyivampire yengqondo?" xa singenavelwano.
  • Imvakalelo esisigxina yokwamkeleka : Olunye uphawu olubonisa ukuba ujongene nomdli wamandla ocinga ukuba wamkelekile kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke indawo. Akayihloniphi indawo yakho, ungasathethi ke ngemfihlo yakho. I-psychic vampire ayikho zingqondweni. Indlela eziphatha ngayo ixhaswa sisibakala sokuba ifuna ngamandla ukuba amandla obomi bexhoba layo.

I-Psychic vampire kunye ne-narcissistic pervert: Yintoni umahluko?

Makhe sibone umahluko phakathi kwevampire yengqondo kunye ne-narcissistic pervert:

  • I-vampire yengqondo ayinakukhohlisa : le yindlela yokuziphatha ebonakalisa bonke abagqwethi be-narcissistic. Le yokugqibela igqwesile kule ndawo kwaye isebenzisa ubuqhetseba ukwenza amaxhoba amaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, yenza uvavanyo oluncinci kwi-vampire yengqondo kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba akayena umqhubi olungileyo.
  • Umntu odlamkileyo akazimiselanga kwenzakalisa : I-PN kukulambela ukuziphatha kunye nothando. Ezi zenzo zinegalelo ekonakaleni ngabom nasekutshabalaliseni ixhoba layo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-vampire yengqondo ifuna kuphela ukufunxa amandla abalulekileyo exhoba layo kwaye inomdla wayo ukuba ilungile ukuze ifumane ezinye izinto.
  • Ivampire yengqondo ayikwazi ukuhlala yodwa : olu luqwalaselo olulusizi, kodwa oluphinda ludale umsantsa phakathi kwababulali ababini. I-vampire ixhomekeke ngokukodwa kumandla exhoba layo kwaye ayikwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwayo. Kwelinye icala, umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic uzimele ngakumbi kwaye ufuna nje ukulawula, ukulawula kunye nokulimaza ixhoba lakhe.

QAPHELA: I-drainer yamandla kunye ne-narcissistic pervert inento enye abafana ngayo. Aba ngabantu ababini abangenalo uvelwano nakubani na.

Wazi njani ukuba ulixhoba levampire yengqondo?

Ukumamela intuition yakho okanye kuwe kunye neemvakalelo zakho kukuvumela ukuba wazi ukuba uvampirized. Ngokwenyani, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kububungqina bokuba ulixhoba le-drainer yamandla. Phakathi kweempawu zengqondo emva kokuba i-hypothesis yokugula ikhutshiwe, sinokucaphula:

  • Iintlungu (amalungu, umva, njl.),
  • Ukuqhawuka kolusu (urticaria, eczema, njl.),
  • Isisu okanye intlungu yokuthengisa,
  • Ukudinwa ngokubanzi, okungaqhelekanga nokungachazwanga.

Njengexhoba, kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuqonda ukuba ezi ngxaki zibangelwa ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe. Enyanisweni, ii-vampires zengqondo zihlala zibandakanya ukusebenza kabini, okukhokelela kubumfama bamaxhoba abo. Owokugqibela uya kuziva eluncedo kwaye acele umngeni xa kuziwa ekuboneleleni ngoncedo kwi-vampire enikezelwe njengexhoba. Awuyi kuba nomfanekiso ongalunganga wevampire.

Iimbekiselo zeBibliographic

Nazi iireferensi ezisixhenxe zebhayibhilografi ngevampire yengqondo:

  1. Clerget, S. (2018). I-Psychic Vampires: indlela yokuzibona, ukubaleka njani. EParis: Fayard.
  2. Saint-André, S., Richard, Y., & Lazartigues, A. (2009). "Iindaba zengqondo kwiivampires. Vampire: intsomi yangoku? » Ulwazi Lwengqondo, 85 (7), 675-679.
  3. Goens, J. (1993). Iingcuka, iivampires kunye nezinye izilo, uphando lwezonyango kunye noncwadi. EParis: CNRS Editions.
  4. Faivre, T. (1962). IiVampires. Isincoko sembali, esibalulekileyo nesinoncwadi. EParis: Ii-Editions du Terrain azicacanga.
  5. Lecouteux, C. (1994). Fairies, amagqwirha kunye werewolves kumaXesha Aphakathi. Paris: Imago.
  6. UMarigny, J. (1999). IVampire. Imbali kunye neentsomi. EParis: Iinguqulelo du Rocher.
  7. Hirigoyen, M.-F (1998). Ukuxhatshazwa ngokuziphatha. Ubundlobongela obugwenxa mihla le. EParis: Ukufunyanwa.

Ezi zikhombisi zibonelela ngokuqonda okunzulu kwee-vampires zengqondo, zombini kwimbali kunye nembono yengqondo.

I-Psychic Vampire-Isiphelo

Ngamafutshane, i-vampire yengqondo ngumntu odla ngokuxinezeleka ngokweemvakalelo okhupha amandla abalulekileyo amaxhoba abo ukuze aphile. Ubuchwephesha be-vampire yengqondo buxhomekeke kubuqili kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Injongo kukufunxa amandla exhoba layo ngokuvusa ingqalelo kunye nothando kuwo. Indlela yokuqonda ivampire yeemvakalelo? Ulwazi oluphuhliswe kwesi sikhokelo luya kuba luncedo olukhulu kuwe.

Ukuqhagamshelana:

Cristina Balan
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