e Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic kuqala kuthando kwaye kunomdla, kudla ngokuba kwicala elinye, ukuthengiselana, okanye nokuba ndlongondlongo. Ama-narcisists ngesondo abeka phambili ukwaneliseka kunye neemfuno zabo ngokwesondo, bengenaluvelwano kumaqabane abo ngesondo. Ngaloo ndlela balindele ukunconywa rhoqo ngokusebenza kwabo ngokwesondo kwaye bazive benelungelo lokwabelana ngesondo nanini na naphi na apho bafuna khona.
I-Narcissistic Pervert kunye neSex kwi-Seduction
Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye ne-narcissist kaninzi akukho nto ifana nokwabelana ngesondo rhoqo. Kwezinye iimeko isenokuvuyisa kwaye ihende ibe ngathi nidlala kunye umboniso womzobo wentelekelelo.
Kwezinye iimeko kubonakala ngathi a isixhobo sothethathethwano yindlela yokuba i-narcissist ifumane ulawulo kunye namandla.
Ekugqibeleni, kunokubonakala ngokupheleleyo gwenxa okanye ukukhohlisa : ngexesha elinye, i Umlukuhli ogwenxa ufuna ukuba neentlobano zesini, yaye ngomzuzu olandelayo ubonakala elucekisa uthando lwakho. Ngamanye amazwi, kuhlala kunzima ukwazi ukuba i-narcissist ifuna ntoni kuwe.
Ngamanye amaxesha ubonakala ethe phithi ngamanye amaxesha ubonakala engenamdla kwaphela.
I-Narcissism kunye nesondo: into enzima eguquguqukayo
I-Narcissism kunye neentlobano zesini zinobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nobunzima. Kumntu we-narcissistic, ubulili buhlala bubonwa njengendlela yokufumana ukuqinisekiswa, ukunconywa, kunye nomqondo wamandla kunokuba kubonakaliswe ukusondelana kunye nokuxhamla ngokweemvakalelo. Le ntshukumo inokuzibonakalisa ngeendlela ezininzi:
- Injongo : Iqabane linokubonwa njengento yokwanelisa kunokuba ngumntu opheleleyo.
- ukwenza : Iintlobano zesini zinokuba “ngumsebenzi” onenjongo yokubonisa ukongama okanye umtsalane kabani.
- Ukungabi naluvelwano : Iimfuno kunye neminqweno yeqabane inokungahoywa ngenxa yolwaneliseko lobuqu.
- Isidingo esihlala sikhona kwizinto ezintsha : Ukukhangela okungapheliyo koloyiso olutsha ukondla i-ego.
- Ukusetyenziswa kwenkohliso : Ukuhenda kunokusetyenziswa njengesixhobo sokukhohlisa kunye nokulawula.
- Ubunzima bobudlelwane obusondeleyo : Ngokumangalisayo, nangona kubonakala ngathi ukuzithemba ngokwesondo, kunokubakho uloyiko olunzulu lokusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo.
- Ukuguquguquka kweLibido : Umdla wezokwabelana ngesondo unokwahluka kakhulu ngokuxhomekeke kwiimfuno ze-narcissistic zelo xesha.
Kubafazi abakubudlelwane kunye neqabane le-narcissistic, oku kuguquguquka kunokuba nzima ngakumbi. Basenokuziva besetyenziswa, bengahoywanga ngokweemvakalelo, okanye bahlale bephantsi koxinzelelo lokwanelisa iimfuno zeqabane labo lokuqinisekisa. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ezi patheni kwaye uqonde ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha ibonisa imiba yangaphakathi ye-narcissist kunokuba uxabiseke ngokwakho.
Ukuphuhlisa ukwabelana ngesondo okunempilo kubandakanya ukuqaphela kunye nokuxabisa iimfuno zakho kunye neminqweno, ukuseka imida ecacileyo, kunye nokufuna uxhulumaniso lweemvakalelo oluyinyani. Ukuba uzifumana usebudlelwaneni apho ubuni bakho buhlala busetyenziselwa ukondla i-ego yeqabane lakho, kunokuba luncedo ukufuna inkxaso, nokuba kungonyango okanye ngamaqela enkxaso.
Ilenza njani iPN Uthando? Ingozi Omele Uyiphephe
Njengayo yonke into eyenzekayo nge-narcissistic pervert, ngumjikelo, ngoko okokuqala ubudlelwane buyamangalisa, emva koko buqala ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo njengoko ukukhanya kwabo kuncipha kwaye ngokukhawuleza kube yindlela yokufikelela kwi-orgasm.
- Usondela kwinqanaba lokuthotywa kwexabiso apho iyinto nje yokwenza ngathi uyehla okanye baqala ukudlala nawe ngokubamba isabelo sabo.
- Ii-FNs, ngabakhohlisi bakudala kwaye abasebenzisi kuphela ngesondo njengemali kodwa njengendlela yokutya ngaphandle konikezelo (o.k.t. bayakuvuyela ukuziva be-sexy kwaye abasacingi malunga neyona nto bavakalelwa ngayo).
- Emva koko kufika ukuphela komjikelezo apho baqala ukukuhlambalaza kwaye bazama ukukuhlazisa kwindawo esengozini kakhulu, igumbi lokulala.
- Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ungubani na, ikwenza uzive ngathi awuyonto, njengoko besenza kuzo zonke iinkalo zomjikelo wobudlelwane. izinto ezimbini ezintle kakhulu abantu ababelana ngazo kunye neqabane labo elikhethiweyo, uthando kunye nesondo, kwaye bazibona njengento yokuthengiselana, njengemali; ibuhlungu kakhulu intliziyo.
Kutheni i-Narcissistic Pervert yenza uthando lube lubi?
1. Bafuna indumiso eninzi
Ebhedini, oku ngamanye amaxesha kunokuguqulela ekubekeni ulonwabo lwabo kuqala. Bafuna ukuba uhlangabezane neemfuno zabo, kwaye ukuba eyakho ayihlangabezwanga, akuyongxaki yabo ngokwenene.
Oko kuthethiweyo, ukukhohlakala kunokuthetha ukuba ufuna ukwaneliseka ukuze ukwazi ukuncoma izakhono zakhe kwaye umxelele ukuba uliqabane elikhathalayo.
Ke, endaweni yokukuxelela ukuba kumnandi kangakanani kunye, unokufuna ukuba uchaze, ngokweenkcukacha ezinkulu, indlela alunge ngayo kwisini (lusizi ngokwesondo) kwaye uyonwabele kangakanani intlanganiso.
Unokufuna oko kuqinisekiswa kunye nokuvunywa ngalo lonke ixesha usabelana ngesondo. Ukuba awubaniki ncomo abalindele ukuyifumana, basenokukuncoma ngakumbi okanye bade bacaphuke.
2. Abazikhathalele iimvakalelo zakho
I-narcissist isenokubonakala ingazi ukuba abanye abantu baneemvakalelo.
Ukuba iqabane lakho lifumana iimpawu ze-PN, unokuziva ngathi ukuba nje lifumana oko likufunayo, akukho nto iyenye ibalulekileyo.
Unokuba nombono ocacileyo kunye oneenkcukacha malunga nokuba kufuneka zenzeke njani iintlanganiso zakho. I-PN ikuxelela into afuna ukuyenza, ikwesiphi isikhundla, into omawuyinxibe xa usiya kulala kunye nento omawuyithethe ngexesha lomdlalo. Akakufuni uluvo lwakho okanye athathele ingqalelo ukuba ungafuna ukuzama enye into.
Emva koko usengozini yokuziva ngathi yinto kuneqabane.
Ufuna ntoni uPN ebhedini kwaye uziphatha njani?
Umbuzo usenokubonakala ulula, kodwa iimpendulo zintsonkothe ngakumbi.
- Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba uninzi lwe-narcissists lufuna ngaphezu kwakho konke ukwanelisa ezabo iintswelo kwaye baqinisekise ulonwabo lwabo.
Kodwa, njengokuba sele uqaphele, le pateni ayiphelelanga nje kwisini yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobuntu babo.
- Badla ngokubonakala njengabantu abazingcayo nabangenaluvelwano, bebeka iimfuno zabo ngaphambi kwezabanye. Le ngcinga yi-anatomy yento eyenza i-narcissist ibe yi-narcissist!
Kodwa ii-NPs ezahlukeneyo ziya kuba nezizathu ezahlukeneyo malunga nokuziphatha kwabo ngokwesondo.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo koMgqwethi weNarcissistic
Nangona ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kungabonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kukho iimpawu ezithile zokujonga. Ama-narcisss ngesondo akholisa ukungena kubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nomtsalane, izimvo ezikhohlisayo, kunye nentabalala yothando.
1. Beka phambili Ukwaneliseka Kwakho ngokwesondo
Abaxhaphazi ngokwesondo bazixakekise ngokuzanelisa, betyeshela iimfuno zeqabane labo lezesondo. Xa iqabane labo livakalisa imfuno yesondo okanye ukhetho, i-narcissist yezesondo inokungasihoyi isicelo okanye ityhole iqabane labo ngokulawula okanye ukuzingca.
2. Babhengeze ukuba abonelisekanga ngokwesondo
Nangona ii-NP zesondo zenza konke okusemandleni ukubeka phambili ukwaneliseka kwazo ngokwesondo, zivame ukuxela ukwaneliseka okuphantsi ngokwesondo kwaye zibeke ityala kwiqabane labo. Basenokugweba okanye bagxeke intsebenzo yeqabane labo okanye bacebise ukuba ukwabelana ngesondo kuye kwadika kwaye kufuneka kutshintshe ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zesini ze-sexual narcissist. Ama-narcissists ngesondo anokuthetha (okanye ade agrogrise ngokuphandle) ukuba baya kufuna ulwaneliseko kwenye indawo ukuba iqabane labo alenzi ngcono. I-narcissistic pervert kunye nesondo zizinto ezimbini ezingenako ukwahlukana.
3. Ubundlongondlongo okanye ugonyamelo
Ngelixa ubundlongondlongo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo bunokuba sempilweni ngokugqibeleleyo kwabanye, kunokubonisa ukuba umntu ungumntu othanda ukuncokola ngesondo xa ebandakanyeka kunxibelelwano lwezesondo olungafunekiyo, ukunyanzeliswa ngokwesondo, okanye udlwengulo. Ubundlobongela bunokwenzeka ngamaxesha athile ngenxa yomsindo we-narcissistic, okanye kunokwenzeka ukuba i-sex narcissist ikhetha zonke iindibano zesondo zibe ndlongondlongo kwindalo.
4. Ukungabikho kovelwano kwiimfuno zeqabane
Uphando lucebisa ukuba ngelixa i-narcissists ikwazi ukuba novelwano, bakhetha ukuyisebenzisa kuphela xa ibasebenzela. Ama-narcissists ngesondo abonisa ukunqongophala kovelwano kwiimfuno zeqabane labo kwiinzame zokuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo zobudlelwane obusondeleyo. Banokukwenza oku ngokuziphatha ndlongondlongo okanye, ngokubanzi, ngokutyeshela izicelo zeqabane labo okanye izinto abazikhethayo ukuze babeke phambili ezabo.
Ubuni obutenxileyo bePN
1. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngabo kuphela
Ngaxa lithile, basenokuba baye bachitha ixesha nengqalelo kwiimfuno zakho. Usenokuba ukholisiwe nguwe ngendlela ongenakuthelekiswa namntu.
Kodwa olu hlobo lokuziphatha luhlala lufana « thanda ibhombu« , kwaye le yindlela eqhelekileyo "ukutsala" amaqabane amatsha kubudlelwane obuyityhefu. Xa kufikwa kwizigaba zokuqala ze ubudlelwane bezesondo, ii<em>narcissists ziyakwazi ukubonakala zinesisa kwaye zinovelwano. Babonakalisa uthando lwabo kuwe, bakutsalele kwihlabathi labo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngeemvakalelo zakho.
Kwaye xa sele bekubambile? Ukwabelana ngesondo kwi-narcissistic pervert iba kukuzingca ngokupheleleyo. Basenokwenza ngathi abakonelisi, kodwa baphele bephelelwa ngumdla emzimbeni wakho, ngesondo, okanye bancamise. Oku kungenxa yokuba isondo kuphela malunga neemfuno zabo, iminqweno kunye nokulindela.
2. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumdlalo nje
Ngoku khawucinge malunga nokuba isondo sinokuthetha ntoni kwi-narcissist. Kwi-narcissist, isondo asinto malunga nokudibanisa, ukudibanisa, okanye ukwakha ubuhlobo obusondeleyo. Kungaphezulu malunga "nokuphumelela umdlalo." Kulo mongo, awuyonto ingaphaya kokulinywa nje kukufuna kwakhe amandla, ulawulo kunye nokuzanelisa.
Ukwabelana ngesondo yenye yeendlela ezininzi abathi bavuse ubuntu babo. Ngoko xa belala nawe, kumalunga nokugcina nokubuyisela i-ego yabo, kungekhona ukudala imvakalelo enamandla yothando.
Ngaba i-Narcissistic Pervert Hypersexual?
Ukuqonda i-narcissist kunye nesondo kunokuba nzima. Ukwabelana ngesondo, ngokubanzi, kufuneka kuzive ngathi sisenzo esimnandi nesiyolisayo kumacala omabini. Ukuba izinto zisabonakala zicala-nye, yiflegi ebomvu leyo ekufuneka uyithobele. Khumbula ukuba ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo akwamkelekanga. Lo mthetho wangaphambili usebenza kuzo zonke iimeko.
Uthando lufuna ukuthenjwa nentlonelo, yaye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kusingela phantsi iziseko zezi mfuno zimbini zisisiseko. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ulixhoba loxhatshazo ngokwesondo, ayilotyala lakho. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo okuzikhusela.
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