Abagqwethi beNarcissistic bayazana: Lo mbuzo ubangela umdla kuba sinokubona iingongoma ezisebenza njengesikhokelo sokubona umntu ogqwethekileyo kumntu olula.
Ngaba iNarcissistic Perverts bayazana?
Isifundo esintsokothileyo, ulwazi olubhekiselele kwinkalo ye-narcissistic perverts lubalwa kwiidrib kunye needrabs. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abaphandi baye banomdla kulo mbuzo. Ngenjongo yokwazi ukuba ngaba ezi zobuntu narcissistic babenokwazi omnye nomnye. Oku kusenokubonakala kuntsonkothile kuba kwa ubume bomntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic bukwinyaniso yokuba kunzima kakhulu ukumqonda. Abagqwethi beNarcissistic banokubonana ngenxa yeemeko zabo. Abenzi be-Narcissistic manipulators banokuqaphela ngokwenene abo bafana nabo.
Ngaba i-Narcissistic Perverts ineempawu zoMzimba zokuzazi?
Ukubuza olu hlobo lombuzo kunokukhokelela ngokulula ukubekwa amabala komntu. I-narcissist ngumntu onengxaki yobuntu bakhe. Ukuthi oku kubonakala kumzimba womntu kukhokelela kwizigwebo eziyingozi. Izifundo kwi Unxulumano phakathi komzimba kunye nenyaniso yokuba ungumgqwethi we-narcissistic lumbalwa kakhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, abaphandi baye bajonga kulo mbandela kwaye baqaphela inqaku elibalulekileyo. Umntu ogqwethekileyo usenokufuna ukuba nako amashiya ahlukileyo. Injongo kukugqama nokugqalwa phambi kwabanye. Bafuna ukutsala ingqalelo enqwenelekayo kwaye ke ngoko babonise umfanekiso olungileyo kakhulu kubaphulaphuli babo. Nangona kunjalo, olu phononongo kufuneka luthathwe ngepinki yetyuwa. kunikwe ubungqina be-amalgam enokwenziwa. Oku kufana nokuthi ukuba umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic ufuna ukukholisa singazisa ezinye iinyani, emva koko. Ngaba ukuzama ukukholisa ingaba bubungqina be-narcissism? Ngaba uncumo lwe-narcissistic pervert yahlukile kwabanye? Okanye ngaba ukutya okutyayo i-narcissistic pervert idla umqondiso? Okanye ngaba umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic unenkangeleko yogqwethe olucacileyo?
Kuyabonakala ukuba le ndlela inobuthathaka obuninzi. Isizathu kukuba le ngxaki iqala ngokuziphatha hayi ngokwasemzimbeni. Kuya kuba nomdla ngakumbi ukugxila kwimikhwa ye-narcissistic pervert. Nazi iimpawu zokuqaphela igqwetha le-narcissistic eqinisekisa ngakumbi kunoko.
Ngaba abagqwethi beNarcissistic bayakwazi ukuncedana?
Inokwenzeka ngokwenene loo ntoumntu ogqwethekileyo ufumana uncedo komnye umgqwirha. Ubume babo bunokuphelelisana ngokwenene. Oku kunokubonwa kwiimeko zoqhawulo-mtshato kumntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic. Umgqwethi we-narcissistic usenokufuna igqwetha elinobundlobongela ukuze lixhase izenzo zakhe zomthetho. Unokuthi ke ngokuphandle okanye ngokungathanga ngqo akhangele igqwetha elikwimo efanayo neyakhe. Oku kulungileyo kokugqibela kokuba ngumntu ongaziwayo kwixhoba kuya kuthatha inxalenye yomthuthumbisi wakhe ukongeza ekubandezelekeni kwabo bamva. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe eyakho igqwetha ngokuchasene nomntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato.
Isibakala sokuba umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic anokufumana uncedo komnye umntu ogqwethekileyo wenzakalisa kakhulu ixhoba lakhe. Ngokwenyani banokuhlangana ukuze batyhale ixhoba kwimida yabo ngaphambi kokuba bawaphule ngengqondo. Ngokubanzi, aba bagqwethekileyo bafunyanwa phakathi kwesangqa esithile esibadibanise. Oku kuthetha ukuba baya kuphelelisana baze bamanyane ukuze batshabalalise omnye umntu. SO xa 2 abagqwethekileyo narcissistic baba isibini? ingaba le ndlu ingasebenza?
Ngaba i-Narcissistic Pervert ifuna ukuqondwa ngoontanga bayo?
Ngendlela efanayo ne I-psychopaths abazananayo, abagqwethi be-narcissistic nabo banabo obu buchule. Ukusebenza kokuqiqa kwabo kunye neengqondo zabo zahlukile kumntu oqhelekileyo. Umntu ogqwethekileyo unokubona isenzo esithile esimbonisayo ukuba uphambi koontanga bakhe. Oku kunzima ukukubona kumntu ophakathi. Uyakwazi ukubona izenzo kunye namaqhinga oontanga bakhe kwixhoba lakhe. Ngokubanzi, yayo ubuntu obutshabalalisayo iya kumtyhala ukuba awuxabise umsebenzi womnye umntu ogqwethekileyo, ikhonkco kwinto yokuba umntu ogqwethekileyo uyalithiya ixhoba lakhe.
Umntu ogqwethekileyo weNarcissistic unokuyibona njani enye?
Njengoko sibonile, ukuba abagqwethi be-narcissistic bayaqaphelana, kungenxa yokuba bayayazi into emayiyiqwalasele. I-novice elula ebaleni iya kuthotywa ngokulula yindlela yokuphunyuka ye-narcissistic pervert. Oku sinokukubona xa sizibuza ukuba umntu ogqwethekileyo wenza njani xa simxelela ukuba ungumgqwetheki? Umntu oqhelekileyo uya kusetyenziswa, kwaye akayi kukwazi ukujongana negqwetha, ngokungafani nesazi sengqondo okanye omnye ugqwetha. Aba bamva bayazazi iingongoma ekuyimfuneko ukugxininisa kuzo.
- Indlela aziphatha ngayo nomntu othile esidlangalaleni nangasese. Oku kwenza kube lula ukufumanisa imikhwa ye-narcissistic pervert. Uya kwenza ngokwahlukileyo kuxhomekeka kwimeko abhenceke kuyo. Ke unokuba yimvana enoxolo esidlangalaleni kwaye akhuphele iintsika zakhe ngasese.
- Indlela yokuziphatha ebalekayo. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntu ogqwethekileyo evakalelwa kukuba imeko ingaphaya kolawulo lwakhe uya kukhangela indlela yokuyikhupha. Kudla ngokuba njalo xa simxelela ukuba ungumntu ogqwethekileyo kwaye ubungqina bunzima ukuphikiswa.
- Ulixoki elibalaseleyo. Ugqwesa kakhulu kulo mmandla, ewusebenzisela ukuxhaphaza abo bamngqongileyo. Ngaloo ndlela uzifihla phantsi kobuxoki obunzulu ukuze afihle ubungendawo bakhe obunzulu.
Ngaba umntu ogqwethekileyo weNarcissistic ujonge omnye oza kuhlangana naye?
Kwenzeka ukuba i-narcissistic pervert ikhetha ukutshata nexhoba lakhe kwaye kungekhona enye igqwetha.. Isibakala sokubambana nexhoba lakhe siyamvumela ukuba amgcine rhoqo ekufikeleleni kuye. Ngenxa yoko, wayeya kuba nako ukulibamba ngakumbi yaye ngoko ke wayenamandla ngakumbi okulawula ixhoba lakhe. Inyaniso yokuba inxulunyaniswe nenye igqwetha le-narcissistic idla ngokuvela kwimpembelelo yangaphakathi. Inene, aba babini banokutsalana ngokwendalo yabo okanye ngenxa ye iimvakalelo zabo komnye umntu. Ngokufumanisa olu hlobo lokufana, banokuphela kunye. Le yindlela esinokujonga ngayo ukubunjwa kweqela labagqwethi be-narcissistic. Eyona nto iyingozi kolu hlobo lomxube kubantwana babo ukuba banayo. Bobabini abazali abagqwethekileyo ngendalo banokwenzakalisa ukukhula kwabantwana babo. Kwaye ke ngoko banokubamisela kwangaphambili ukuba babe ngabagqwetheki be-narcissistic ngokulandelelana kwaye bakhuthaze ubuntu obuyityhefu ekugqibeleni. Ukuthintela oku, ukuba ilungu liyavakalelwa okanye liyayiqonda imeko, kufuneka lenze oko ukuze kulungelwe lona. Ukuphila kwindawo enetyhefu ngolo hlobo akuyi kumnceda nganto.
Ireferensi yebhayibhilografi kumgqwethi we-narcissistic
Nazi iireferensi ezisixhenxe zebhayografi kumxholo we-narcissistic pervert:
- UKernberg, O.F. (1998). I-Narcissism kunye ne-Narcissistic Pervert. Iintlelo zePayot.
- Féret, J. (2006). I-Narcissistic Perverts: Ukuqonda ukwenza ngcono. Editions Jouvence.
- Vidal, A. (2014). I-Narcissistic Pervert: Ukuqonda ukuzikhusela ngcono. Iinguqulelo Leduc.s.
- Schnoll, R. (2012). I-Narcissistic Perverts: Ukugula okanye isicwangciso sobomi? Iintlobo ze-Atelier.
- Dautel, C. (2015). I-Narcissistic Pervert: Iinkqubo kunye neziphumo. Iinguqulelo Érès.
- ULévy, A. (2009). Isihogo sabanye: Xa i-Narcissistic Pervert imema kubomi bethu. Iintlelo zikaAlbin Michel.
- UMarty, A. (2017). I-Narcissistic Perverts: IiNdlela zokuSebenza kunye nokuChasa. Iinguqulelo La Découverte.
Ezi zalathisi kufuneka zikunike isiseko esilungileyo sokuphonononga umxholo we-narcissistic pervert ngokwembono yenzululwazi neyengqondo.
isiphelo
Ukuqukumbela, abagqwethi be-narcissistic bayakwazi ukubonana ngokuziphatha kunye nezicwangciso ezithile. Nangona inkangeleko yabo yomzimba ingeyiyo isalathisi esithembekileyo, iindlela zabo zokulawula kunye nokusebenzisana nabanye zinokungcatsha ubume babo. Ukuqonda ezi ntshukumo kubalulekile ekukhuseleni amaxhoba anokubakho, ngakumbi kwiimeko ezinzima zobudlelwane. Lo mbandela uhlala ubuthathaka, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba sijongane nemiba yobuntu ngononophelo, ukuze kuthintelwe nakuphi na ukubekwa ibala ngendlela engafanelekanga.
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