Ngaba i-PN iyazi ukuba yi-PN? Ngaba uyabazi ubuntu bakhe? Ngaba wonwabile ebomini bakhe? Ngaba uyazi ukuba udala ubudlelwane obuyityhefu? Uziphatha njani? Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukuyiqonda? Uya kuba neempendulo zale mibuzo kweli nqaku. Ngaba umntu ogqwethekileyo uyazazi ukuba uyaphoxa okanye unzima? Kwaye mhlawumbi okona kubaluleke ngakumbi, ngaba ngokwenene bayayazi indlela abangakhuselekanga ngayo? Ngamanye amaxesha banokuqaphela kwindawo encinci yengqondo yabo ukuba ukuziphatha kwabo mhlawumbi ayisiyonto ilungileyo.
Ngaba u-PN uyayazi ukuba uyi-PN kwaye uyabuqonda ubuntu bakhe?
Le umgqwethi we-narcissistic akazazi ukuba nguPN kwaye akaziqapheli. Ucinga ukuba ngabanye abantu abaneengxaki. Kumntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic, ungoyena mntu uqhelekileyo emhlabeni. Esi sisizathu sokuba akabazi kwaphela ubuntu bakhe. Akalihoyanga kwaphela iqabane lakhe kwaye akayithatheli ngqalelo into aziva ngayo. Uluvo lweqabane lakhe alubaleli konke konke kuye. Ixhoba alinakho ukukhetha ngaphandle kokuhlala phantsi komthunzi we-narcissistic pervert.
Ngaba umntu ogqwethekileyo weNarcissistic wonwabile ebomini?
Iimo zengqondo ezahlukeneyo zomgqwethi we-narcissistic zibonisa okoakonwabanga ebomini bakhe. Ubomi bakhe bonke uchitha ixesha lakhe echukumisa abanye, ezibonisa ngaphezu kwabanye kwaye atshabalalise ixhoba lakhe. Ukususela ebuntwaneni bakhe, umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic akazange alufumane uthando lwabazali bakhe. Yiyo loo nto engaziva naluphi na uthando.
Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic uvuma kuphela iimvakalelo zakhe xa efuna ukubuyisela isisulu ukhotyokiswe nguye ukuze amqhathe ngcono. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba i-PN ihlala igxininisekile kwaye ixhala kakhulu. Ukongezelela, akakwazi ukunyamezela ukungaphumeleli konke konke. Kwimeko apho ujongene nokungaphumeleli, ubeka ityala ngokukhawuleza abathandekayo bakhe: umfazi, umntwana, umqeshwa, njl.
Ngaba i-PN iyazi ukuba ivelisa uBudlelwane obunobutyhefu?
Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic akazi ukuba unengxaki yokugqwethwa kwe-narcissistic. Ngokutsho kwakhe, ubomi bakhe buqhelekile kodwa ngabanye abanobomi obungaqhelekanga. I-PN ngokwenene icinga ukuba nguye yedwa onenyaniso kwaye ayithatheli ingqalelo nayiphi na imbono zabanye.
I-PN ibona njani ihlabathi? Ngexesha lobomi bakhe, umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic ukholelwa umzimba kunye nomphefumlo ukuba ufanelwe zizo zonke izinto ezilungileyo kuba ezisa okuhle kwabanye kuphela. Kungenxa yoko le nto i i-narcissistic manipulator ucinga ukuba unelungelo lokukhohlisa abanye ukuze afumane yonke into emfaneleyo. Ngoko ke ubeka eyakhe imithetho esoloko ichasene naleyo yoluntu.
Iindlela zokuziphatha ezingaqhelekanga zoMgqwethi weNarcissistic
- Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic uhlala ekhusela. Uchitha ixesha lakhe ezithethelela. Ngokukhawuleza, uya kugxeka umntu omgxekayo.
- Ukuxoka, ukusabela ngobubi, njl. zizinto eziqhelekileyo zePN. Xa bubhencwa ubuxoki bakhe, uya kusebenzisa zonke iindlela ukubaleka le ncoko.
- Uyitshintsha ngoko nangoko incoko xa ebona ukuba incoko ayisahambi ngendlela yakhe.
- Akakwazi kuzibamba.
- I-narcissistic pervert ngumntu ongazithembanga kwaye ngoko ke usabela kakhulu xa ixhoba okanye umntu othetha naye egxininisa kwisifundo.
Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukuqonda i-PN?
Akuyomfuneko kwaphela ukuqonda i-PN. Kwelinye icala, uninzi lwamaxhoba abagqwethekileyo be-narcissistic basazama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni iqabane labo liziphatha ngolu hlobo. La maxhoba awela ngqo kumgibe wabo ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba azenze ixhoba.
Sicebisa ukuba ungavumeli ukugada kwakho phantsi malunga namadoda namabhinqa angama-narcissistic kuba abangobantu abaziziyatha. Ukongeza, yazi kakuhle indlela iimvakalelo zabanye abantu ezisebenza ngayo. Ngoko ke, ungabacaphukisi kuba ekugqibeleni iya kuhlala inguwe oya kubandezeleka kakhulu.
Umjikelo wehlazo kunye nengqumbo
Oku kundizisa kwinto endiyibiza ngokuba lihlazo nomsindo endisoloko ndithetha ngawo. Abantu abangendawo be-Narcissistic abaphambene okanye bakhohlisa ngokunyanisekileyo, banokubona ukuba kukho iziphumo zokuziphatha kwabo, kwaye bayazi ukuba ukuziphatha kwabo akusoloko kuncoma. Nangona kunjalo, ukungxamiseka kwabo kunye nemvakalelo yokuba nelungelo kuthetha ukuba abanakuyeka kwaye bazive bengafaneleki.
INdawo yokuNgena kubudlelwane
Kukho indawo yokuguquguquka kulo lonke ubudlelwane kunye ne-narcissist, umzuzu xa i-narcissist iqonda ukuba uyifumene. Ngumdaniso ochuliweyo, ophantse ungabonakali. Awuyithathi i-bait kakhulu, ukuguqulwa kwengqondo akuchaphazeli kakhulu. Uthatha isimo sengqondo sokungathathi hlangothi ngokweemvakalelo, awuzikhuseli, awuchazi. Mhlawumbi ume ngokuthe ngqo kuba ngoku uyaqonda.
Ukunyuka komsindo weNarcissistic
Kweli nqanaba kubudlelwane kuba buhlungu ngakumbi. I-narcissist iya kwenza ngakumbi ngokungathi ugqobhoze iqamza lakhe lokungakhuseleki kwaye wafumanisa umdlalo wakhe, kwaye akayithandi. Xa abantu beqala ukwamkela isimo sengqondo sokungathathi hlangothi ngokweemvakalelo, ungaphantse usibone kwigrafu, njenge-roller coaster. Umsindo we-narcissist uya kwanda okwethutyana njengoko engasakwazi ukufumana iimpendulo ezifanayo kuwe. I-Decoy ayisekho nayiphi na impembelelo. Badinga ukuba uthathe i-bait kwaye usabele ngendlela engalinganiyo ukuze bathi, "Owu, umntu uphazamisekile," kwaye uzive ungcono.
Ukuqondwa kunye nokuphazamiseka
Ke baye baba nastier, bahlasele abahlobo bakho okanye usapho lwakho, bahlasele iindawo zakho ezibuthathaka. Iya iba yityhefu ngakumbi, nokuba ubungacingi ukuba inokwenzeka. Kodwa ukuba unokuma uqinile kwaye unganikezeli, fikelela encotsheni ye-roller coaster, i-narcissistic pervert ngokwenene iya kuqala ukuphazamisa. Kwezinye iimeko, baya kuba nesithukuthezi, kodwa baya kukhupha. Nangona kunjalo, kwindlela eya phezulu, kukho ihlabathi lokuxhatshazwa, umsindo kunye nomsindo.
Xa beqonda ukuba uyaqonda, kufana nomdaniso ochuliweyo, ophantse ungabonakali. Awuyithathi i-bait kakhulu, ukuguqulwa kwengqondo akuchaphazeli kakhulu. Uthatha isimo sengqondo sokungathathi hlangothi ngokweemvakalelo, awuzikhuseli, awuchazi. Mhlawumbi ume ngokuthe ngqo kuba ngoku uyaqonda.
Ilahleko yaMandla yoMgqwethi weNarcissistic
Kweli nqanaba kubudlelwane kuba buhlungu ngakumbi. I-narcissist iya kwenza ngakumbi ngokungathi ugqobhoze iqamza lakhe lokungakhuseleki kwaye wafumanisa umdlalo wakhe, kwaye akayithandi. Xa abantu beqala ukwamkela isimo sengqondo sokungathathi hlangothi ngokweemvakalelo, ungaphantse usibone kwigrafu, njenge-roller coaster. Umsindo we-narcissist uya kwanda okwethutyana njengoko engasakwazi ukufumana iimpendulo ezifanayo kuwe. I-Decoy ayisekho nayiphi na impembelelo. Badinga ukuba uthathe i-bait kwaye usabele ngendlela engalinganiyo ukuze bathi, "Owu, umntu uphazamisekile," kwaye uzive ungcono.
Ukuqatshelwa kunye nokuLahleka koLawulo
Ke baye baba nastier, bahlasele abahlobo bakho okanye usapho lwakho, bahlasele iindawo zakho ezibuthathaka. Iya iba yityhefu ngakumbi, nokuba ubungacingi ukuba inokwenzeka. Kodwa ukuba unokuma uqinile kwaye unganikezeli, fikelela encotsheni ye-roller coaster, i-narcissistic pervert ngokwenene iya kuqala ukuphazamisa. Kwezinye iimeko, baya kuba nesithukuthezi, kodwa baya kukhupha. Nangona kunjalo, kwindlela eya phezulu, kukho ihlabathi lokuxhatshazwa, umsindo kunye nomsindo.
Ukuqatshelwa kwabo bakungqongileyo
Xa beqonda ukuba uyaqonda, kufana nomdaniso ochuliweyo, ophantse ungabonakali. Awuyithathi i-bait kakhulu, ukuguqulwa kwengqondo akuchaphazeli kakhulu. Uthatha isimo sengqondo sokungathathi hlangothi ngokweemvakalelo, awuzikhuseli, awuchazi. Mhlawumbi ume ngokuthe ngqo kuba ngoku uyaqonda.
isiphelo
Ukuqukumbela, ukuqonda i-narcissist kunokukhulula ekuhambeni kwexesha, kodwa qaphela ukuba kunokwenza ubomi bakho bube lusizi okwethutyana. Ungaziva uxolo olungaqhelekanga ekuqondeni umdlalo, kodwa zilungiselele ukuphoxeka kunye nomsindo we-narcissistic pervert. Indlela eya ekuqondeni i-narcissism inokujikajika, kodwa wakuba uyivulile, ungaqala ukuzikhupha kubuxhakaxhaka obuyityhefu. Enkosi kwakhona ngokuzibandakanya nam kolu phononongo lweentshukumo zobudlelwane nabagqwethekileyo be-narcissistic.
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