Ubudlelwane phakathi kweNarcissistic Pervert kunye nomama wakhe

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Ukungakwazi ukuba ngubani, ukungazithembi, ngokomzimba, ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo… Umntwana ogqwethekileyo akanabudlelwane buqhelekileyo nabazali bakhe. Ukuziva enqabisekile akwanelanga ukuxhasa ukuzithemba kwakhe. Ukucacisa ubudlelwane phakathi umntu ogqwethekileyo nonina.

Yintoni uMama ogqwethekileyo weNarcissistic?

Une narcissistic umama ogqwethekileyo une I-narcissistic engaguqukiyo kunye nokuphazamiseka okugwenxa. Indlela yakhe yokusebenzisana nabanye ijika ibe yityhefu, ingalungelelananga kunye ne-pathological. Ukwangumntu ocingela isiqu sakhe kwaye uneqhinga. Kumama okhohlakeleyo, ubomi bubonakala ngathi ngumdlalo awulawulayo ngendlela athanda ngayo.

  • Iimpawu zikamama we-Narcissistic: ungumxhaphazi we-pathological kunye netyhefu

Ukwimvelaphi ibhinqa le-narcissistic ubuntu bakhe obuzicingela, obuhendayo nobukhohlisayo obungatshintshiyo xa esiba ngumama. Usafuna ukuhoywa kakhulu. Umama ongenalo novelwano naluvelwano. Iingcamango zothando, uvuyo kunye nokhuseleko ziphantse zingabikho.

  • Kubudlelwane bukamama kunye nonyana we-narcissistic, umntwana uyifoyile kuphela

Uyisebenzisa ukuphumeza iinjongo zakhe. Umama ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic naye ufuna ukugcina umfanekiso wakhe. Ufuna ukubonisa umfanekiso kamama oxhalabileyo ngekamva lomntwana wakhe. Ukanti ngasese, wenza konke okusemandleni ukuze umntwana wakhe azive enetyala aze angaphumeleli. Angade abe nomona ngomntwana wakhe adale ukhuphiswano oluyityhefu. Imfuno yokuncoma ibalulekile kumama othanda u-narcissistic. Uthatha umntwana wakhe njenge-pawn kumdlalo wakhe womngcwabo. Ubuntwana babantwana bakhe abanethuba eliqinileyo lokuba ngabagqwethi be-narcissistic nayo iyoyikeka.

Ngaba i-Narcissistic Pervert iyamthanda uMama wayo?

Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuye kukuba negunya phezu kweemeko nokulawula abanye. Kunye nabazali bakhe, umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic ucinga inkqubo yobudlelwane bomzali nomntwana njengento ephazamisayo. Endlini ka umntwana ogqwethekileyo, zininzi iingxaki ezinokuvela:

  • ubundlongondlongo
  • intloko ebuhlungu;
  • uloyiko ebusuku...

Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic akanaluvelwano. Akaneliseki yaye usoloko efuna okungakumbi. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuhlala nenarcissist kudla ngokudinwa, ngakumbi kwabo baxhomekeke ngokweemvakalelo kwaye banengxaki yokuphazamiseka ukungazithembi.

I-Narcissistic Pervert kunye noMama wakhe: Kutheni le nto i-Narcissistic igqwethekileyo inqula uMama wakhe?

Kumntwana ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic, umama wakhe ngumntu wokuqala ebomini bakhe. Yeyona:

  • ngubani na owondlayo;
  • okholwayo kuye;
  • ngubani na omkhuselayo.

Ngoko ke exhomekeke kuye.

Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic kunye nomama wakhe banobudlelwane obuyityhefu. Inene, umama wobugqwirha bobugqwirha uyamqhwabela izandla kwaye uyamncoma nokuba kwenzeka ntoni na. Umenza akholelwe ukuba ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo aze amqinisekise ukuba abahlobo bakhe abamfanelanga. Umama we-narcissistic pervert ke umnika umfanekiso omkhulu.

Ngokunjalo, igqwetha le-narcissistic alinatyala kumama. Usoloko emkhusela. Nokuba uthe wangcatsha iphulo lakhe okanye abahlobo bakhe, uya kuthi ngabanye abanempazamo hayi umntwana wakhe. Umama ukwatyekele ekuzijongeleni phantsi iimpazamo zomntwana wakhe. Ngoko ke unokuzithemba okuphezulu kakhulu. Kwinyani, unqulo-zithixo ludla macala omabini.

Ubudlelwane phakathi kwe-narcissist kunye nomama wakhe bunokuba yingxaki ngakumbi kwi-narcissist kunye nephulo lakhe. Inyaniso kukuba umama wakhe uya kuhlala ethatha indawo yokuqala ebomini bakhe.

Iimpawu zokuqaphela uMama weNarcissistic ogqwethekileyo

Kukho imiqondiso emininzi ekufuneka ibonwe inkangeleko kamama ogqwethekileyo.

1. I-Manipulator

Kumama we-narcissistic, iimfuno zakhe kuphela zibalulekile. Umisela impembelelo yakhe ngokusebenzisa:

  • ukutyhola
  • ukukhohlisa;
  • ukuthotywa kwexabiso;
  • ukuxhatshazwa.

Kwakhona akalibazisi ukubaxhaphaza abantwana bakhe ukuze abalawule ngendlela athanda ngayo.

2. Ayimncedi umntwana wakho ukuba azimele

Umama obhuqayo akamniki umntwana wakhe ukuba abe bucala. Ngoko ke, akalibazisi:

  • funda idayari yakhe;
  • buza imibuzo engacacanga;
  • yenza ngendlela yokuba ungene ngaphakathi entloko yomntwana wakho.

Emva koko uthintela umntwana wakhe ukuba avele kwaye akushiyi ukuzimela geqe.

3. Inetyhefu

Umama okhohlakeleyo okhohlakeleyo uyaphika ukuba umntwana wakhe ungubani. Uyamjongela phantsi, ngelixa esebenzisa ubundlobongela ngokwasenyameni nasengqondweni. Oku kuphathwa kakubi kumvumela ukuba azalisekise i-narcissism yakhe. Kubudlelwane obunetyhefu kamama we-narcissistic kunye nentombi yakhe, akavumeli akukho ndawo yabucala, inkululeko yokuzikhethela nokuba ngumntu ngamnye womntwana.

4. Hlala ugxeka

Xa umama ehlaselwa sisifo se<em>narcissistic, uhlala emgxeka umntwana wakhe ukuze amenze azive ephantsi. Uzakufihla oku ngeenjongo ezithi zinobubele.

5. Sebenzisa uthando njengomvuzo

Abantwana bomama we-narcissistic abaqhelanga ukufumana uthando, ingqalelo okanye uthando. Konke malunga nokugqibela. Umama we-narcissistic unquma ukubonisa uthando kubantwana bakhe nje gcina imbonakalo okanye ukufumana into ngembuyekezo.

I-Narcissistic Pervert kunye nokusweleka kukaMama wakhe-Usabela njani?

Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic akaphenduli njengomntu oqhelekileyo ukufa kukamama wakhe.

1. Iimvakalelo zakhe

Narcissistic abagqwethekileyo ngaphandle kosizi nokuzisola. Baziva benomsindo ngakumbi, becaphuka kwaye beziphindezela xa bengayifumani into abayifunayo. Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic ucinga ukufa kukanina njengokulahlwa.

2. Ukuziphindezela okungazalisekanga

Nokuba umama wendoda egqwethekileyo uyaluphala okanye ugule kakhulu, umntwana wakhe akathamba. Okuphikisanayo, ukuziphatha kwakhe kusenokuba mbi ngakumbi. Umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic unokumgxeka ngakumbi ngokungafumani ngqalelo eyaneleyo kunye nothando.

3. Isimo sakhe sengqondo

Naxa umama wakhe esifa, umntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic usafuna ukutsalela ingqalelo kuye. Usebenzisa imeko ukutsala uvelwano lwabantu. Uhlala ehenda kwaye akalibazisi ukuzenza ixhoba ngokuthetha kakubi ngonina. Enyanisweni, ukugqala ukufa kukanina njengoku ukungcatshwa komgangatho ophezulu. I-narcissism yakhe iyaqhubeka ikhula. Usenokude asole unina ngengqalelo ayifumanayo.

I-Bibliographic reference kubudlelwane phakathi kwe-narcissistic pervert kunye nomama wakhe

Nazi iireferensi ezisi-7 zesayensi kwisiFrentshi ezijongana nomxholo wobudlelwane phakathi kogqwetheki we-narcissistic kunye nomama wakhe:

  1. UPaul-Claude Racamier - "Ubugqwetha beNarcissistic"
    Umthombo: lapsychanalyse.fr
  2. "Ukumelwa kwabazali kunye nezimbo zokuncamathisela kubaphuli-mthetho ngokwesondo"
    Umthombo: erudit.org
  3. "Ukusuka kumama one-narcissism egqwethekileyo ukuya kwiqabane eligwenxa"
    Umthombo: hal.science
  4. "Ukuguqulwa kwe-Narcissistic" - Indlela ye-Psychoanalytic
    Umthombo: openition.org
  5. "I-Hysteria kunye nokugqwetheka: i-narcissistic pervert"
    Umthombo: cairn.info
  6. "Ubugqwetha beNarcissistic - uPaul-Claude Racamier"
    Umthombo: psychoanalysis.com
  7. "I-Narcissistic pervert kunye neprofayili yengqondo"
    Umthombo: psychotherapie-calonne.be

Ezi zimbekiselo zibonelela ngohlalutyo olunzulu kubudlelwane obuyityhefu kunye nefuthe likamama ekubumbeni ubuntu bomntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic.

isiphelo

Ukuqukumbela, ubudlelwane phakathi komntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic kunye nomama wakhe buyityhefu nesangqa esikhohlakeleyo, esiphawulwa ngokukhohlisana kunye nokunqula izithixo okungenasiseko. Umama we-narcissistic ogqwethekileyo ubumba ubuntu bomntwana wakhe ngokumvalela kwipatheni yokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuzingca okugqithisileyo. Olu lwalamano, olwakhelwe phezu kolawulo nempembelelo, luthintela umntwana ekuphuhliseni ubuntu bokwenene bokuzimela, bumfaka kumjikelo wokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuqonda olu tshintsho luntsonkothileyo kusenza siqonde ngcono iziphumo kubomi bomntu omdala bomntu ogqwethekileyo we-narcissistic, kokubini kwibhalansi yakhe kunye nobudlelwane bakhe nabanye.

Cristina Balan
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