Savior Syndrome : Ke mang ea neng a tseba hore mopholosi ha e hlile ha a na thuso? Lefu lena ha le tsejoe hakaalo sechabeng sa rōna. Haholo-holo kaha ha re e nke e le bothata empa e le tšobotsi. Moelelo oa sehlabelo o ka bonahatsa bobe bofe?
Savior syndrome: ke eng?
Savior syndrome: ke ntho e makatsang e ka fetolang bophelo ba hau!
Fumana hore na boitšoaro bona, hangata ba sa tsebe letho, bo ama likamano tsa hau le boiketlo ba hau joang. Na u lula u hoheloa ke ho thusa ba bang ka ho senya bophelo ba hao ba kelello? Lefu lena, le letle ebile le ka ba kotsi, le hloka tlhokomelo ea hau ka botlalo. Ikakhele ka setotsoana mekhoeng ea kelello ka mor'a eona 'me u ithute ho lemoha matšoao a eona. Hore na o tšoenyehile kapa o batla ho tseba feela, tlhahlobo ena e tla u fa linotlolo tsa bohlokoa tsa ho ikutloisisa hantle le ho ntlafatsa likamano tsa hau tsa sechaba. Seke oa fetoa ke monyetla ona oa ho hola le ho atleha!
Mabaka a lefu lena ke afe?
Savior syndrome e simolohile ka motsoako o rarahaneng oa lintlha tsa kelello le tsa tikoloho. Hangata, e simoloha bongoaneng, ha motho a ne a lokela ho jara boikarabelo ba pele kapa a ne a nkoa e le oa bohlokoa haholo-holo ka lebaka la ho thusa ba bang. Liphihlelo tse sithabetsang, ho itšepa, kapa tlhoko e matla ea netefatso ea kantle le tsona li ka kenya letsoho ntlafatsong ea eona.
Maemong a mang e ka amahanngoa le mekhoa e sa sebetseng ea lelapa moo boitsebiso ba motho bo amanang haufi-ufi le karolo ea 'mopholosi'. Litloaelo tsa setso le tsa sechaba tse tlotlisang boitelo le tsona li ka tiisa boitšoaro bona. Ho feta moo, litsebi tse ling, haholo-holo makaleng a tlhokomelo le tšehetso, li ka hohela le ho mpefatsa litšekamelo tsena. Ho utloisisa lisosa tsena ho bohlokoa ho elelloa le ho sebetsana le lefu lena ka nepo.
U ka tseba joang haeba u na le savior syndrome? Matšoao
Savior syndrome e bonahala ka matšoao a 'maloa a khethollang. U ka 'na ua tšoaroa ke eona haeba u ipona u le matšoao ana:
- Tloaelo e qobelloang ea ho batla ho rarolla mathata a batho ba bang, le ntle le ho botsoa
- Boikutlo ba ho ba molato ha o sa khone ho thusa
- Bothata ba ho hana ho kopa thuso
- Tloaelo ea ho hlokomoloha litlhoko tsa hau molemong oa ba bang
- Tlhoko ea kamehla ea taolo maemong a thusang
- Tloaelo ea ho ikutloa e le ea bohlokoa kapa e ke keng ea nkeloa sebaka;
- Khoheli ea likamano moo u ka "bolokang" e mong
- Boitlhompho bo hokahaneng haholo le bokhoni ba hau ba ho thusa; ho kgathala ho sa feleng ka baka la boitlamo ba hao bo feteletseng
- Lehloeo le ipatileng ho bao u ba thusang haeba ba sa hlokomele boiteko ba hau ka ho lekana.
Ke habohlokoa ho hlokomela hore matšoao ana a tlameha ho phehella 'me a be le tšusumetso e kholo bophelong ba hau hore a nkoe e le syndrome.
Mefuta e fapaneng ea Mopholosi
Savior syndrome e ka hlaha ka mefuta e fapaneng, e 'ngoe le e' ngoe e na le litšobotsi tsa eona. Mefuta e mengata ea bapholosi e ka khetholloa:
- Moshoela-tumelo: Ea lulang a tela boiketlo ba hae molemong oa ba bang, hangata ka ho belaela.
- The Fixer: Ho ameha ka ho rarolla mathata a batho ba bang, ntle le ho hlohlelletsoa.
- Molaoli: Ke mang ea nahanang hore ba tseba ho feta ba bang se molemo ho bona.
- Mothusi: Ke mang ea thusang ka mokhoa o feteletseng, ho thibela ba bang ho ntlafatsa boipuso ba bona.
- Mohale: Ea batlang ho netefatsoa ka liketso tsa bahale kapa pholoso e makatsang.
- The Perfectionist: Ea itelang ho etsetsa ba bang tsohle ka ho phethahetseng.
- Mokena-lipakeng: Ho ba le seabo kamehla ho rarolla likhohlano tsa ba bang.
Mofuta o mong le o mong o ka kopana, 'me motho a ka bontša litšobotsi tsa mefuta e fetang e le' ngoe. Ho elelloa lipontšo tsena tse fapaneng ho bohlokoa bakeng sa kutloisiso e betere le taolo ea lefu lena.
Ke hobane’ng ha bapholosi ba lokela ho itella ba bang?
Bapholosi ba itela ka mabaka a fapaneng a kelello:
- Ho itšepa ho tlase - ho batla ho paka boleng ba bona ka ho thusa ba bang
- Leano la ho qoba - ho qoba ho tobana le mathata le maikutlo a bona
- Ho batla lerato le tumello - ho hokahanya boleng ba bona le molemo oa bona ho ba bang
- Boikutlo ba ho ba molato le tumelo e fosahetseng ea ho ikarabella bakeng sa thabo ea ba bang
- Tlhokahalo ea taolo - ho thusa ba bang ho fana ka maikutlo a ho laola
- Karabelo ho tsietsi e fetileng kapa maemo a sa sebetseng a lelapa
Savior Syndrome ka Kamano
- Molekane e mong o nka karolo ea mopholosi, a lula a batla ho rarolla mathata a e mong
- E baka ho se leka-lekane ha likamano:
- Mopholosi o ikutloa a hlokahala
- Molekane e mong o qala ho itšetleha ka ho feteletseng
- Mopholosi o khahloa ke batho hore ba “lokisoe”
- Litlamorao tse kotsi:
- E sitisa kholo ea botho ea balekane ka bobeli
- E hlahisa khalefo le pherekano
- E ka lebisa likamanong tse ikemetseng
- Kotsi ea ho khathala maikutlong
- Ho lahleheloa ke boitsebiso ba motho ka mong
- Qetello ea likamano haeba e sa rarolloe
Mokhoa oa ho tlosa savior syndrome?
Mehato ea bohlokoa ts'ebetsong:
- Amohela bothata ’me u amohele tlhokahalo ea phetoho
- Sebetsa ka boitlhompho ho fokotsa ho itšetleha ka netefatso ea kantle
- Beha meeli e phetseng hantle:
- ithute ho hana
- Hlompha litlhoko tsa hao
- Itloaetse ho ba le kutloelo-bohloko ho fokotsa molato
- Hlaolela lithahasello tsa botho le likamano tse leka-lekaneng
- Nahana ka phekolo (haholo-holo kelello-boitšoaro)
- Ithute ho lumella ba bang ho rarolla mathata a bona
Buka ea Bibliographic ka Savior Syndrome
Mona ke litšupiso tse supileng tsa buka ea sehlooho sa "savior syndrome":
- Bourgeois, M. (2016). Savior syndrome: Ha thuso e fetoha pathological. Likhatiso tsa L'Harmattan.
- Fournier, P. (2014). Tšusumetso ea Savior Syndrome mesebetsing ea ho thusa. Journal of Psychology, 35 (2), 123-135.
- Tisseron, S. (2012). Ho thusa likamano le Savior syndrome. Ho: Melemo ea kelello le bophelo bo botle. Presses Universitaires de France.
- Lévy, J. (2019). Ho utloisisa Savior Syndrome: litaba le tharollo. Liphetoho tsa Eyrolles.
- Meyer, A. (2015). Savior syndrome: mokhoa oa psychoanalytic. French Journal of Psychiatry, 56 (1), 45-58.
- Benoît, C. (2018). Savior syndrome le taolo ea maikutlo. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 37 (4), 256-270.
- Renaud, L. (2020). Savior syndrome le litlamorao tsa eona kalafong. Ho: Psychotherapy le mekhoa ea tšehetso. Likhatiso tsa Dunod.
Litšupiso tsena li fana ka kakaretso e ntle ea likarolo tse fapaneng tsa Savior syndrome le litlamorao tsa eona ho thusa likamano le bophelo bo botle ba kelello.
fihlela qeto e
Qetellong, savior syndrome, le hoja hangata e nkoa e le boleng, e senola ho rarahana ha kelello ho ka bang le liphello tse kotsi likamanong le boiketlong ba motho. E metse ka metso liphihlelong tsa bophelo le matla a lelapa, boitšoaro bona bo bonahalang bo se na boithati bo ka lebisa tahlehelong ea boitsebiso, likamano tse sa leka-lekaneng le ho khathala maikutlong. Ho bohlokoa ho hlokomela matšoao a lefu lena ho qala ts'ebetso ea phetoho. Ka ho ithuta ho beha meeli e phetseng hantle le ho ananela litlhoko tsa rona, e mong le e mong a ka itokolla ho sena se matla le ho matlafatsa likamano tse leka-lekaneng le tse khotsofatsang.
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