Mmene Wonyenga Amachitira Mukamusiya

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Kutayidwa ndi chinthu chosavomerezeka kwambiri kwa munthu wopotoza wamatsenga. Izi zikachitika, wowongolera amakhala ndi zochita zingapo. M'nkhaniyi tikambirana momveka bwino za kachitidwe ka narcissistic manipulator mukamusiya ndithudi. Kuti mudziwe zonse pankhaniyi, tsatirani ndemanga iyi. 

6 Zochita za Wosokoneza Mukamusiya

1. Amatenga Malo a Wozunzidwayo

"Ndinu chilichonse kwa ine", "Musandisiye ndekha, khalani ndi ine". Izi ndi ziganizo zomwe wopotoza wankhanza anganene pamene wozunzidwayo aganiza zochokapo. Kumva zimenezi kungachititse wozunzidwayo kuganiza kuti ndi munthu woipa m’nkhaniyi. Choncho, amayamba kudziimba mlandu ndikudziuza kuti ayenera kukhala naye woyendetsa.

2. Wonyenga Amupangitsa Mnzake Kukhala Wolakwa

Pamene wozunzidwayo akufunadi kuthetsa ubale wake ndi wokondedwa wake wonyenga, adzaonetsetsa kuti adziimba mlandu. Kuti athe kulingaliranso za chisankho chake, PN idzamuuza ziganizo monga: "Ndiwe wodzikonda, suganizira za ana", "ndiwe kanthu popanda ine". Ngati wozunzidwayo sasintha malingaliro awo pambuyo pa ziganizozi, wosokoneza bongo amayamba kukhala wachiwawa komanso wolamulira kwambiri.

3. PN imapanga Malonjezo Atsopano

Atangomva kuti wophedwayo amusiya, a narcissistic wopotoza nthawi yomweyo amapanga malonjezano atsopano kwa iye. Pamene izi sizifika kwa wozunzidwayo, adzachita ngati kuti ndi mkangano wamba koma chigamulo cholimba kuchokera kwa mnzake. Kenako, adzamuuza za ntchito yawo yatsopano ya tsogolo lawo. Wozunzidwayo nthawi zambiri amagwera mumsampha wake ndikuyiwala cholinga chake chothawa mnzake wankhanza.

4. Adzanyozera Wozunzidwayo

Ngati wozunzidwayo apitirizabe kulimbana ndi chisankho chake, wonyengayo amamuchitira chipongwe. Adzanena mawu monga: "Ngati mutachoka, ndithetsa moyo wanga", "mukandisiya, mudzadziwa kuti gehena ndi chiyani", "kuyambira pamene mumandisiya, ndikutsanzikana ndi ndalama".

5. Wogwiritsa Ntchito Narcissistic Amatsutsana ndi Nyama Yake ndi Miyezo Yawo

Mukangosiya kupotoza kwa narcissistic, mudzakumbukira mapulani onse omwe mumayika ndi mnzanu. Kuonjezera apo, adzakupangitsani kumvetsetsa kuti ndi chifukwa cha inu ngati ntchitozo sizidzatheka. Chifukwa chake mutha kukhalabe mu ubalewu.

6. Wopotoza Narcissistic amagwiritsa ntchito Njira Yokopa

Kumayambiriro kwa ubale, wopotoza wa narcissistic ndi munthu wokoma mtima kwambiri, wokondeka ndipo amakhala ngati kalonga weniweni wokongola. Adzachitanso chimodzimodzi pamene wozunzidwayo akamusiya. PN adzanamiza mnzake kuti akhulupirire kuti ndi mwamuna yemwe amamulakalaka. Koma, kuti mutuluke mu ubalewu, wogwidwa ndi narcissistic wopotoza azikumbukira kuti mnzakeyo akulankhula zopanda pake, zonse zomwe akunena ndi zabodza.

Kodi Narcissistic Manipulator yemwe watsala pang'ono kutsala amatani?

Wopotoza wamatsenga amaganiza kuti wozunzidwayo sangamusiye. Ndiye akaganiza zopatukana naye. adzachita chilichonse kuti adzimve wolakwa. Kusiyidwa ndi chinthu choyipa kwambiri chomwe chingachitike kwa wonyenga wa narcissistic. Choncho, adzaonetsetsa kuti wogwiriridwayo akuvomera kupitiriza chibwenzicho. Koma, ngati amusiyadi, adzayang’ana mkaidi watsopano.

Kodi PN imachita bwanji pambuyo pa Kutha?

Pambuyo pa kusweka ndi wokondedwa wake, wopotoza wa narcissistic adzachita mosiyana. Khalidwe loyamba lomwe akanakhala nalo ndi bwezerani nyama yanu. Adzadziwonetsa yekha kukhala wochita mwadala kuposa momwe analiri pachiyambi cha chiyanjano chawo. Munthu wonyengedwayo adzayesa kutsimikizira wozunzidwayo ndi okondedwa ake kuti wasinthadi.

Chachiwiri khalidwe la manipulator pambuyo yopuma ndi ya pangitsa kuti wozunzidwayo anong'oneze bondo kumusiya. Kuti achite izi, adzayang'ana nyama yatsopano ndikuwonetsa aliyense kuti moyo wake ndi wabwino kwambiri kuposa wa mnzake wakale. Adzakhala ngati mwamuna wamaloto wa mtsikana aliyense: womvetsera, wokoma mtima, womvetsera, ndi zina zotero. Poona izi, wozunzidwayo amayamba kukayikira ngati adapangadi chisankho chabwino kwambiri.

Ndi Nthawi Yanji Yoyenera Kusiya Narcissistic Manipulator?

Muyenera kusiya wopotoza wankhanza pamene mukumva kuti mwakonzekadi. Kusiya munthu wonyenga sikophweka nkomwe. Koma, mukangodziwa kuti muli paubwenzi ndi munthu wosokoneza bongo, muyenera kupanga chisankho chomusiya.

Ndizowona kuti mudzawona zithunzi zingapo kuchokera kwa mnzanu mutamuuza kuti zatha pakati panu koma dziwani kuti ndi chisankho choyenera. Popeza, ngati mupendanso chisankho chanu, ndizotsimikizika kuti simudzakhalanso ndi mwayi wothawa m'manja mwake. Ndicho chifukwa chake, kuti mutuluke mu ubalewu, mudzafunika thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo.

Kodi mungamuuze bwanji Narcissistic Manipulator kuti mukumusiya?

  • Gwiritsani ntchito mawu oti "AYI" mochulukirachulukira - Mukangoyamba kukana zopempha zake, wonyenga wa narcissistic adzamvetsetsa kuti simukumufunanso. Mawuwa amatanthauza chizindikiro cha alamu cha PN mwa awiri.
  • Muuzeni mwachindunji kuti zatha – Mukamuuza kuti mwapeza masewera ake, nthawi yomweyo amangoganiza kuti musiya.
  • Sinthani moyo wanu - Tsiku lililonse mudzayamba kukhala osadalira iye ndikuchita zomwe zimakusangalatsani m'moyo. Poona izi, amvetsetsa kuti mukuganiza zosiya chibwenzicho.

Kufunsira:

Cristina Balan
Nkhani zaposachedwa kwambiri za Cristina Balan (onani zonse)

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