Mwakusiya moyo wawo mozindikira, akatswiri onama amazindikira kuti zochitika zakunja zasokoneza kwamuyaya zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa iwo. Mwachidule, ndi za kuyamikiridwa, kulemekezedwa ndi kulemekezedwa ndi ena monga munthu wapadera, wapamwamba ndi mwayi.
Kumvetsetsa bwino kugwirizana pakati pa narcissism ndi kudzipha kumafuna, ngati ziyenera kupeŵedwa bwino, kuunika kozama komanso kozama.
Lingaliro la Kudzipha - Ndi Chiyani?
Malingaliro ofuna kudzipha angachokere ku malingaliro osakhalitsa okhudza imfa, monga kudabwa kuti munthu angamve bwanji atamwalira kunena "Bwanji ndikagona osadzuka?" », ku zolinga zenizeni zodzipha, monga kuganizira mmene mungadziphe komanso nthawi imene mungadziphe. Malingaliro odzipha kwakanthawi amatha kuipiraipira ngati sakuthandizidwa. Ngati mukulimbana ndi malingaliro kapena machitidwe awa, ndi nthawi yopempha thandizo:
- Kudzimva kuti sakugwirizana ndi ena kapena kuchoka kwa abwenzi ndi abale (banja lopotoka la narcissistic).
- Kudzimva kukhala wotsekeredwa mumkhalidwe wosapiririka.
- Kudzimva ngati cholemetsa kwa ena kapena kuuza ena kuti zikanakhala bwino popanda inu.
Ngati mukuganiza zodzipha, ndikofunikira kuti mupeze chithandizo chamankhwala pafupipafupi kudzera kusukulu kapena kusukulu kapena mlangizi. Ndikofunikiranso kudziwa nthawi yomwe muyenera kupeza chithandizo chachangu.
Chifukwa chiyani Narcissistic Pervert Amalankhula Za Kudzipha Akakumana Ndi Anthu?
Munthu wina wopotoza maganizo ananena kuti cholinga cha mawu ake chinali kukwiyitsa wokondedwa wawo. Chifukwa chakuti amadziŵa zimene anthu ena amaganiza ponena za kudzipha, ndipo ankafuna kuona ngati okondedwa awo angachitepo kanthu. N’chifukwa chake akakumana ndi zimene anachita, amakamba za kudzipha kuti munthu amene ali patsogolo pake azidziimba mlandu.
A PN amachita zimenezi kuti akwiyitse munthu amene akumuona, n’kudziwa kuti ndicho chinthu choipa kwambiri chimene mungachite kwa munthu amene amakukondani. Makamaka ngati amakhala pafupi ndi ola limodzi ndipo mukuwopsezedwa ndi apolisi ngati muwaletsa.
Kwa wopotoza woona wa narcissistic, iye ndi wina chabe chida chonyengerera chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito kukopa chidwi ndi chifundo kuchokera kwa anthu omwe samamudziwa. Pachifukwa ichi, munthu wopanda pake ngati narcissist akhoza kudzipha mwangozi.
Malingaliro Osokoneza Narcissistic ndi Kudzipha - Zizindikiro zomwe ziyenera kuchenjeza
Kukhala narcissist ndi vuto la umunthu lomwe limapangitsa anthu kukhala ndi malingaliro ochulukirapo pakufunika kwawo komanso kufunikira kwakukulu kosilira ndi kutsimikiziridwa.
Izi zikutanthawuza kuti opotoza ankhanza amatha kukhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu cha manyazi, manyazi, ndi kugonjetsedwa akamadzudzulidwa kapena kukanidwa.
- Manyazi amenewa, limodzi ndi kudzikayikira kwa FNs, zingawapangitse kuwopseza kudzipha, maganizo ofuna kudzipha, ngakhalenso kuyesa kudzipha pamene akhumudwitsidwa kapena kuchititsidwa manyazi pamaso pa ena.
- Palinso zifukwa zina zambiri zodzipha, zina zomwe zimalumikizidwa ndi zovuta zamaganizidwe monga kupsinjika maganizo kapena bipolar disorder.
- Komabe, zinthu zina zamaganizidwe zimakhudzidwa ndi chodabwitsa ichi, monga kusadzidalira, mbiri yoyesera kudzipha ndi mbiri ya banja yodzipha mwa anthu opotoza onyoza.
Ngati muli kale ndi maganizo ofuna kudzipha, kusintha kwakukulu m’moyo wanu kapena zochitika zomvetsa chisoni, monga imfa ya m’banja, kutha kwa chibwenzi, kapena ntchito yochokera ku ntchito zingapangitse maganizo ameneŵa kukhala aakulu kwambiri kapena pafupipafupi. Ngati mukuwona ngati malingaliro anu odzipha akuipiraipira, nazi zizindikiro zochenjeza zomwe muyenera kuziwona:
Makhalidwe owopsa a Suicidal Narcissistic Perverts:
- Kuyendetsa mosasamala, monga kuyendetsa galimoto utaledzera kapena wopanda lamba.
- Kuchulukitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa (narcissistic wopotoza ndi mowa).
- Kugonana mosadziteteza.
- Yambani kapena onjezerani kudzivulaza.
- Kusintha kwa kadyedwe, mwina kuletsa zakudya zanu kapena kudya kwambiri.
- Kusintha kwa kagonedwe, kugona kwambiri kapena pang'ono (PN ndi kugona).
- Kusintha kwakukulu m'malingaliro
- Kuganiza, kulankhula, kapena kutumiza pa intaneti za imfa kapena chiwawa.
Chitonthozo Chakanthawi Chakuvutika
Ndikofunikira kupereka zambiri Kusamala kwambiri ku kuthekera kodzipha kwa anthu opotoza a narcissistic. Tiyenera kuyamikira kwambiri zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimayambitsa matendawa komanso momwe tingachitire ndi omwe ali pachiopsezo kwambiri.
Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, chitetezo cha NPs omwe akufuna kudzipha ndichofunika kwambiri kuti iwo awonekere kusiyana ndi ena kusiyana ndi kudzimva kuti ndi "anthu." Komabe, kulekanitsidwa kwawo motsatira malamulo oyendetsera dziko lino ndi ife tonse kumene kumawaika pachiwopsezo chodzivulaza okha.
Popanda kudziwa, iwo mosimidwa afunika kumva kulumikizana kwapamtima ndi m'maganizo ndi omwe ali nawo pafupi. Ndi njira iyi yokha yomwe angatetezedwe ku malingaliro odzipatula omwe, mwinamwake kuposa china chirichonse, amawapangitsa kukhala osatetezeka ku kutaya mtima kumene kumapangitsa moyo wawo kukhala wosafunikanso.
Chifukwa chake, chithandizo chilichonse chomwe chingawathandize ayenera kukhala nacho kuthandiza kugwirizanitsanso gulu la anthu lomwe ali kutali kwambiri. Popeza kuti anthu ambiri ozunza ana amanyalanyazidwa kwambiri ndi makolo kapena zosiyana, kuledzera kwa makolo, chithandizo chiyenera, mwanjira ina, "kuwaphunzitsanso". Ndipo izi zingakhale zovuta kwambiri, chifukwa chitetezo chawo chimakhala cholimba kwambiri kuti chisinthe.
Kodi Mungakhale Bwanji Mbuye Wa Moyo Wanu Ndi Kugonjetsa Kudzipha?
Kupotoza ndi kudzipha ndi zinthu ziwiri zomwe zimayendera limodzi. Choncho, kuti tithane ndi izi, ndikofunika kuzindikira zomwe zimayambitsa kapena zochitika. Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mukhale opanda chiyembekezo, monga imfa kapena kutayika, kumwa mowa, kapena kupsinjika maganizo.
Zochitika za malingaliro ofuna kudzipha ndizosiyana kwa aliyense. Malangizo omwe ali pamwambawa adzakhala othandiza kwa anthu ena, pamene ena adzavutika kuwagwiritsa ntchito. Ngati malangizowa sakukuthandizani, sizikutanthauza kuti simungathe kuthandizidwa. Mwinamwake mukungofunika njira yogwirizana ndi nkhani yanu. Lumikizanani ndi mlangizi kapena akatswiri ena azamisala. Akhoza kukuthandizani.
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Ndi njira yothandizanso anthu, popeza ineyo ndakhala ndikutha kupeza chithandizo kwa anthu osawadziwa pamoyo wanga wonse. Palibe anthu opotoza a narcissistic padziko lapansi pano komanso mwamwayi! Pano tikuthandiza anthu kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuwachitikira ndikupita kumoyo wopanda anthu onyoza - moyo wanu wabwino kwambiri! Simuli nokha ndipo mutha kusintha kuti mukhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa, wodzaza ndi mtendere, mgwirizano ndi chikondi!
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