La nsanje ya opotoza onama zimadalira mmene amadzionera okha. Nkovuta ndipo nthawi zina zosatheka kuti munthu wa narcissist akhulupirire wina aliyense. Ndipotu ubwenzi wanu ukakhala wolimba, m’pamenenso sangakukhulupirireni. Narcissists amawopa ubale weniweni kapena chiwopsezo chifukwa akuwopa kuti mudzawona zofooka zawo ndikuweruza kapena kukana.
Chifukwa chiyani Narcissistic Pervert ndi Nsanje?
Mchitidwe wa nsanje wa Narcissists umadalira kwambiri momwe akumvera.
Tsoka ilo, monga momwe mwawonera, mkhalidwe wamalingaliro a narcissist ndi chinthu chosasinthika. Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la umunthu wa narcissistic amatha kudzudzula zinthu zomwe sizinali zowapweteka - nthawi zambiri pamene kusiyana pakati pa mawonekedwe omwe amavala ndi umunthu wawo weniweni wawonekera.
Izi zimatchedwa kuvulazidwa kwa narcissistic, zomwe zimachititsa kuti munthu wa narcissist asakhale wodzidalira. Pambuyo povulazidwa ndi narcissistic, tikhoza kuyembekezera kuti anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la nsanje azichita nsanje.
Kodi mungazindikire bwanji PN wansanje?
Nazi zina mwazizindikiro zozindikiritsa nsanje ya wopotoza wa narcissistic:
1. Amachitira nsanje chilichonse
Palibe chitsimikiziro chochuluka chomwe chikuwoneka kuti chikupanga kusiyana, chifukwa FNs amadana kwambiri ndi kukana zolakwa zawo zochititsa manyazi.
Opotoza a Narcissistic samawoneka kuti akukhulupirira chikondi cha ena ndipo amakuyesani ndi machitidwe oyipa komanso oyipitsitsa kuti ayese kupeza pomwe mukusweka.
Kusadzidalira ndi kudzidalira ndi pamtima wa narcissism. Kusadzidalira kumeneku mwachibadwa kumawalola kukhala ansanje mosavuta, ansanje kwambiri. Osati kokha kwa aliyense amene angakhale ndi chidwi ndi inu, koma kwa aliyense kapena chirichonse chimene chingachotse chidwi kwa iye. Nsanje iyi idzayambitsa kupsa mtima kwakukulu ndi makhalidwe ovuta.
2. Masewera a PN
Ngati munayamba mwakhalapo ndi mnzanu amene amakopana ndi anthu ena pamaso panu, kucheza ndi anthu oti simukuwadziŵa, ndi kuyesera kukupangitsani kumva ngati simuli woyenerera, mwina mungakhale pachibwenzi ndi munthu wamatsenga.
Ndipo mwina anali kuchita dala. Kafukufuku watsopano akuwonetsa kuti anthu omwe amawonetsa mikhalidwe yayikulu yamatsenga amapangira nsanje mwa okondedwa awo kuti akwaniritse zolinga zina: Kuwongolera, nthawi zina, kapena kukulitsa kudzidalira kwawo.
Nkhani za nsanje za Narcissistic Pervert
Zifukwa za masewera achikondi awa amasiyana, komabe, kutengera mtundu wa narcissism. Grandiose narcissists adanena kuti adalimbikitsidwa ndi chikhumbo chawo chofuna kupeza mphamvu ndi kulamulira mu chiyanjano. Komano, anthu osatetezeka, anayesera kudzutsa nsanje pazifukwa zingapo.
Kulamulira ndi chimodzi, monganso kuwunika mphamvu ya ubale, kufunafuna chitetezo mu ubale, kubwezera kudzidalira, ndi kubwezera zomwe amawona ngati khalidwe lawo loipa. Izi zitha kuganiziridwa ngati a nsanje yodwala.
Chifukwa chiyani Narcissistic Pervert akufuna kupanga mnzake nsanje?
Pankhani ya anthu opotoza onyoza, khalidwe la nsanje la mtundu umenewu nthawi zambiri limapangidwa kuti likupangitseni kukhulupirira kuti ali ndi chidwi ndi wina.
Adzakhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi bwenzi lake latsopano, pamaso panu kapena ayi, ndipo nthawi zambiri amalankhula za iye mwachikondi ndi moyamikira. Zotsatira zinawonetsa kusiyana pakati pa mitundu iwiri ya narcissists. Grandiose narcissists amapanga anzawo nsanje kuti akhale ndi mphamvu zambiri ndikuwalamulira.
Opotoza a Narcissistic amachitanso kuti apeze mphamvu ndi kuwongolera, koma amakhalanso ndi zolinga zina:
- Kubwezera: Ngati munachita chinachake chowakhumudwitsa (chimene chingakhale chosavuta kuchichita), angayese kukuchititsani nsanje monga njira yobwezera.
- Kudzidalira: ngati mumachitira nsanje munthu, ayenera kukhala ofunika kwa inu mwanjira ina. Kotero nsanje yanu imawapatsa mphamvu pang'ono kuti adzichepetse.
- Yesani ubale: Chifukwa chakuti anthu okondana narciss nthawi zambiri alibe chifundo, zimakhala zovuta kuti adziwe momwe mukumvera. Kuti amvetse izi, angafunikire kuyambitsa kuyankha koonekeratu kwa inu.
- Chitetezo: angakhale akuyesera kukutsimikizirani za kulimba kwa ubale wanu. Zili ngati kuyendetsa khoma kuti muwone ngati galimoto yanu ili yotetezeka. Koma zochita za anthu olankhula narcissists nthawi zambiri zimakhala zamalingaliro m'malo molingalira modekha.
Kusiyana Pakati pa Wopotoza Narcissistic ndi Wansanje Wodwala
Un PN ndi munthu amene ali ndi kudzikuza komanso kudziona kuti ndi wofunika kwambiri. Akhoza kuyambitsa chisokonezo mu ubale wake chifukwa chofuna kunena kuti ali ndi mphamvu kapena wapamwamba pa wokondedwa wake komanso kusakhudzidwa ndi malingaliro kapena ubwino wa womalizayo. Narcissism yakhala ikugwirizanitsidwa ndi chiwawa chakuthupi ndi/kapena zamaganizo mu maubwenzi, ndiko kuti, ku makhalidwe monga kulamulira wokondedwa wanu, kudzipatula, kudzudzula ndi mitundu ina ya khalidwe lachipongwe lomwe lingayambitse vuto lalikulu la maganizo.
Zonsezi zingakupangitseni kuganiza kuti ndizosavuta kapena zodziwikiratu kuti mukhale kutali ndi opotoza opondereza mu maubwenzi, koma si onse a NP omwe amasonyeza khalidwe lawo lansanje lopotoka momveka bwino, makamaka poyamba.
Nkhanza ndi nsanje ya narcissistic wopotoza
La nsanje du narcissistic wopotoza kaŵirikaŵiri zimagwirizanitsidwa kwambiri ndi khalidwe la munthuabus. Mtundu uwu wa umunthu umakula bwino pakufunika kosalekeza kulamulira ndi kulamulira iwo akuzungulirani. Kenako nsanje imasanduka njira yochitira zimenezi, makamaka pamene aona zimene zingamuwopseze kukhala wamkulu kapena kukhulupirika kwa mnzake.
Mosiyana ndi nsanje yachikale, nsanje ya narcissistic ndi yopambanitsa komanso yopanda nzeru. Imadziwonetsera yokha mu milandu yopanda pake, makhalidwe akuyang'anira ndi kuyesa mobwerezabwereza kudzipatula. Mikhalidwe imeneyi kaŵirikaŵiri imatsogolera ku nkhanza zamaganizo kapena ngakhale zakuthupi, zimene cholinga chake n’kukhazikitsanso ulamuliro wonse pa wochitiridwayo. Kuponderezedwa kotero kumakhala kuyankha mwachindunji kwa nsanje ya narcissist, yemwe sangakhoze kupirira lingaliro la kutaya ulamuliro wake.
Maumboni a m'mabuku a nsanje ya narcissistic pervert
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Pomaliza - Kodi Narcissistic Pervert ndi wokhulupirika?
PN akadali wosakhulupirika koma akusewerabe masewera omwe ayenera kuwoneka bwino kuposa mnzake. Gonjetsani nsanje zitha kukhala zovuta momwemonso kwa wopotoza wankhanza. Kumbukirani kuti narcissists amafunikira chisamaliro ndi kusilira kuti asunge ulemu wawo, chifukwa chake amakhala ansanje kwambiri.
Nthawi zambiri amawona maubwenzi kuchokera kumalingaliro amalonda, ndiko kuti, malinga ndi zomwe angapeze kuchokera mwa iwo.
Choncho, ngati ali paubwenzi ndi inu, n’kutheka kuti ndi chifukwa chakuti akutengabe chuma chawo cha narcissistic kwa inu. Mukachisiya, mumadula gwero limenelo. Ndipo kuti timvetse izi, wopotoza wamatsenga sangakhale wokhulupirika chifukwa kwa iye ndi mpikisano.
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