Ngati mwakhalapo kapena mukukhala ndi munthu wopotoza narcissistic, mukudabwa zomwe zidzachitike kwa PN ndi banja lake m'tsogolomu. Ngakhale PN sisintha kwenikweni, ukalamba ukhoza kukhudza khalidwe lake. Kodi zimasintha bwanji pakapita nthawi? Kodi mkhalidwe wake ungakhale bwino kapena m’malo mwake ukuipiraipira? Tiyeni tifufuze apa narcissistic imapotoza bwanji zaka.
PN ndi ukalamba - Mantha a wopotoza wa narcissistic
Wopotoza wa narcissistic ndi munthu wapoizoni yemwe amafuna kuwongolera chilichonse. Kufunika kulamulira chirichonse ndi nsonga yofooka ya wopotoza narcissistic zoonekeratu kwambiri. Nawa 5 Mantha oopsa kwambiri a wopotoza wankhanza akadzakula:
- Kuopa kutaya unyamata wanu
- Mantha oti sangathenso kunyengerera
- Mantha opezeka
- Kuopa kutaya mphamvu
- Kuopa kufa
1. Kuopa kutaya unyamata wanu
Pokhala ndi chirichonse, wopotoza wa narcissistic akuwopa kukalamba, chifukwa akuwopa kutaya unyamata wake. Pamene muli wamng'ono, mumamva bwino, ndinu wamphamvu komanso wodzaza ndi moyo. Wopotoza wachinyamata wa narcissistic amadzimva kukhala wotetezeka, chifukwa amayamba kudziwa bwino luso lachinyengo. Iye ndi katswiri pa luso lake ndipo ali ndi mphamvu zotheratu pa ozunzidwa. Koma pamene msinkhu wake ukukulirakulira, amayamba kuzindikira kuti nthaŵi siimuleka. Amaopa kutaya unyamata wake, kutaya malingaliro ake otetezeka ndi mphamvu.
2. Kuopa kulephera kunyengerera
Pamene tikukula, timayamba kutaya thupi lathu lachinyamata ndi maonekedwe. Wopotoza wa narcissistic ndi wamatsenga wamkulu, ndi katswiri wamabodza ndi kunyengerera. Amagwirizana kwambiri ndi thupi lake ndipo ndikofunikira kuti asunge mawonekedwe ake okongola. Akadzakula, amataya mphamvu zake zokopa, chifukwa kwenikweni, thupi lake lidzasintha. Sadzakhalanso munthu mmodzimodziyo ndipo adzakhala ndi vuto lonyengerera anthu amene amazunzidwa monga kale.
3. Kuopa kuwululidwa
Pamene wopotoza wa narcissistic akukula, ndipamene amawopa kuti angavulidwe. Ndithudi, amene ali pafupi naye adzasintha m’kupita kwa nthaŵi. A wogwidwa ndi munthu wopotoza wankhanza adzamvetsa kuchokera ku zokumana nazo za mtundu wa munthu amene akukumana naye. Wopotoza wa narcissistic adzatopa kusewera udindo wake chifukwa cha msinkhu wake. Chifukwa chake, wopotoza wamatsenga akuwopa kuti tidzazindikira kuti iye ndi ndani ndipo amawopa nthawi yomwe chigobacho chidzagwa. Athanso kukumana ndi nyama zomwe zimakhala zovuta kuziteteza ndipo chifukwa chake amakumana ndi zolephera zake zoyambirira.
4. Kuopa kutaya mphamvu
Wopotoza wa narcissistic amakalamba moyipa kwambiri, chifukwa amawopa kulephera kuwongolera zinthu ndi nyama yake. Pamene wopotoza wa narcissistic akukula, zofooka zake zimawululidwa. Adzavutika kwambiri kuwongolera ena, chifukwa sakhalanso waluso monga kale. Choncho, amaopa kukalamba, chifukwa amadziwa kuti mphamvu zake ndi mphamvu zake zolamulira zidzachepa kwambiri. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kupotoza kwa narcissistic kumakulirakulira pakapita nthawi.
5. Kuopa imfa
Kuposa wina aliyense, wopotoza wa narcissistic amawopa imfa. Ngakhale imfa ndi njira yachilengedwe yomwe aliyense adzakumana nayo posachedwa, imawopseza kwambiri wopotoza wankhanza. Monga tanenera kale, wopotoza wankhanza amadana ndi chilichonse chimene sangachilamule. Amaopa imfa, chifukwa akudziwa kuti sangathe kulamulira chochitikachi. Komanso, imfa imaimira kutha kwa mphamvu zake zankhanza, zomwe zimamuchititsa mantha kwambiri.
Timakolola zomwe tafesa: Lamulo la Karma
M'moyo, lamulo la Karma limadziwika bwino kwambiri. Ili ndi lamulo lomwe limatanthauza kuti ngati m'moyo mwangotumiza zinthu zoipa kwa ena, muyenera kuyembekezera kulandiranso zinthu zoipa. Ngati mudadana ndi ena, kunyozetsa aliyense, kuwongolera kapena kuyambitsa kuzunzika kwa omwe akuzungulirani, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kulandira chipukuta misozi.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake nthawi zambiri timawona kuti opotoza ambiri amakumana ndi zovuta zaumoyo akafika zaka makumi anayi kapena makumi asanu. Wopotoza wankhanza amadana ndi munthu wake, koma amadzidanso. Kotero, mwachiwonekere, adzakumana ndi mapeto osasangalatsa, chifukwa sanadzisamalire yekha ndi kukhala kwake mwa iye yekha.
N'chifukwa chiyani Opotoza Narcissistic akuopa kukalamba?
Wopotoza wa narcissistic amawopa kukalamba, chifukwa ukalamba umayimira chilichonse chomwe amaopa. Nazi zifukwa zomwe PN amawopa kukalamba:
- Ndi za kutaya thupi lake ndiyeno kulephera kunyengerera kapena kukopa. Ndipo iye sangakhoze kuzilamulira izo.
- Zimakhudzanso kusintha komanso koposa zonse kukhwima. Zomwe sizimagwirizana konse ndi umunthu wa munthu wopotoza wamatsenga. Ngati ambiri aife tisintha pakapita nthawi, kukhala payekha komanso osadalira kuyang'ana kwa ena, PN sisintha.
- Wopotoza wa narcissistic kwa gawo lake, ngakhale atakula, amakhalabe momwemo kale.
- PN simadzifunsa yokha ndipo nthawi zonse imadzudzula ena. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ukalamba umamuwopsyeza, chifukwa omwe ali pafupi naye salinso chimodzimodzi, ozunzidwa ake asintha ndikusintha.
- Pakapita nthawi, adzakumana ndi zovuta kwambiri posewera gawo lake ngati narcissistic manipulator.
Wopotoza wa Narcissistic amakalamba - Zotsatira zake ndi zotani?
Kodi manipulators amatha bwanji? Wopotoza wa narcissistic amakalamba moyipa kwambiri. Zoonadi, akadzakula, adzakumana ndi zovuta zingapo kuposa anthu anzeru.
1. PN watopa
Choyamba, wopotoza wa narcissistic adzamva kutopa. Kuchita nawo mbali ndi kunama nthawi zonse kumadya mphamvu zambiri ndipo akamakula, amamva kutopa kwambiri poyendetsa ndi kunama tsiku lonse. Ndipo ndithudi, monga wina aliyense, nthawi simalekerera wopotoza wamatsenga. Sadzakhalanso ndi nyonga ndi nyonga zonga za m’mbuyomo za kulamulira ndi kuvutitsa ena.
2. Wopotoza wa narcissistic amalephera kudzilamulira
Wopotoza wa narcissistic adzapeza kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kuwongolera pakapita nthawi, ngakhale atakwanitsa kukonza njira zake ndi mabodza ake, omvera ake adzakhala atasintha. Ozunzidwawo sadzakhalanso monga kale. Zidzakhala zocheperako komanso zosasinthika pakapita nthawi. Ndi omwe ali pafupi naye omwe sangathenso kudziteteza, wopotoza wa narcissistic sangathenso kusokoneza miyoyo ya ena. Ndi imodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe PN ikuthawa, chifukwa chakuti nyama yake sikhalanso imodzi.
3. Wopotoza wankhanza amakhala wowawa akakalamba
Wopotoza wa narcissistic sadzakhalanso ndi kusilira komwe amafunikira, chifukwa ena amachoka kwa iye. Choncho, vuto limeneli limamuchititsa mantha komanso kumukhumudwitsa. Zimachitikanso kuti wopotoza wa narcissistic amakanidwa ndi anthu ambiri momwe angathere, chifukwa ena adzafalitsa uthenga wa chikhalidwe chake chenicheni, mabodza ake ndi njira zake. Kenako chigoba chake chimagwa ndipo adzaulula munthu wowawa, wodedwa ndi woyipa mkati mwake.
4. Kukopa kumakhala kovuta kwambiri
Maonekedwe a thupi amasintha tikamakalamba ndipo mbiri ya moyo wa munthu wopotoza wankhanza imamufotokozera. Inde, a wonyenga wonyenga adzakhala ndi vuto lonyengerera, chifukwa pamene anthu akupita patsogolo m'kupita kwa nthawi, maganizo awo ndi kukopa kwawo kumakulanso. Awa ndi achinyamata omwe amangokopeka ndi maonekedwe ndi mawu atatu okopa. Akuluakulu ndi okhwima amatha kufotokozera munthu asanalowe muubwenzi. Chifukwa chake, ngati takumana ndi munthu yemwe sanakwaniritse chilichonse m'moyo wawo, yemwe adakumanapo ndi zolephera, zosweka komanso kusudzulana m'mbuyomu, timayesedwa kuti tisamuke.
Maumboni a m'Baibulo
Nawa maumboni asanu ndi awiri pamutu wa "Mmene munthu wopotoza amakalamba":
- Kupotoza kwa Narcissistic mu Psycho-geriatric Institute: Zachipatala ndi Zochizira
- review : Psychotherapies, 2017
- Kodi narcissistic imapotoza bwanji zaka?
- wolemba : Geneviève Schmit
- Nsanja : Chithandizo cha Psychology pa intaneti, 2014
- Kodi narcissistic imapotoza bwanji zaka?
- Site Chithunzi: SOSPN
- Wokalamba wa narcissistic wopotoza manipulator, kusinthika kwake pakapita nthawi
- Blog Aux Pierres de la Lune, 2019
- Kodi narcissistic imapotoza bwanji zaka?
- Blog : A Psy Kunyumba, 2021
- PN ndi zaka zake: momwe munthu wonyenga amakalamba
- Site : The Lives of Queens, 2023
- Kodi narcissistic imasokoneza bwanji zaka? Amathetsa moyo wake moyipa
- Site : Pervers Narcissique.org, 2023
Maumboni awa amapereka chidziwitso pamalingaliro apano a ukalamba wa narcissistic komanso zovuta zamaganizidwe zomwe zimayenderana nazo.
Kutsiliza: PN sisintha, sadzanong'oneza bondo chilichonse m'moyo wake
Tingaganize kuti munthu wankhanzayo angaphunzirepo kanthu pa zimene zinamuchitikirazo ndiponso kuti akadzakula akhoza kudzanong’oneza bondo chifukwa cha zochita zake. Ndipotu zimenezi sizichitika. Apo kupotoza kwa narcissistic ndi matenda ndipo popanda chithandizo chamankhwala, munthuyo sangathe kuchiza. Zowonadi, wopotoza wa narcissistic samadzifunsa yekha. Iye amadziona kuti ndi wolondola nthawi zonse ndipo ena ndi amene amalakwitsa. Amakhala m'dziko lake ndipo sakusintha m'malingaliro kapena m'malingaliro. Kusakhwima m'maganizo kumeneku kumamutsekera m'ndende ndipo sadzakhalanso ndi chisoni, mosasamala kanthu za zonse zomwe wapanga banja lake ndi omwe ali pafupi naye.
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Ndi njira yothandizanso anthu, popeza ineyo ndakhala ndikutha kupeza chithandizo kwa anthu osawadziwa pamoyo wanga wonse. Palibe anthu opotoza a narcissistic padziko lapansi pano komanso mwamwayi! Pano tikuthandiza anthu kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuwachitikira ndikupita kumoyo wopanda anthu onyoza - moyo wanu wabwino kwambiri! Simuli nokha ndipo mutha kusintha kuti mukhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa, wodzaza ndi mtendere, mgwirizano ndi chikondi!
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