Nhoroondo yeNarcissistic Amai: Maitiro ekuziva PN Amai?

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Hupenyu hwese hunobva kuna amai. Anowanzodiwa uye dzimwe nguva anovengwa, asi anogara achiongwa. Vanamai ndivo musimboti wemba. Ko nhoroondo yaamai narcissistic ?

Amai mufananidzo weunyoro, rudo, rudo asiwo wechiremera. Panyaya yenarcissistic amai vakatsveyama, uyu mufananidzo werudo haupo. Mwana anogara naamai vakatsauka haazive kunzwa uku kwekunamatira uye kuda amai vake. Kuva naamai vakatsveyama vanokuvadza zvakanyanya mupfungwa, nokuti amai vanoita basa rinokosha zvikuru mukukura kwepfungwa dzemwana.

Chii chinonzi narcissistic amai?

Amai vakaipa narcissistic vanotambura ne a isingachinji narcissistic uye kukanganisa kusagadzikana.

  • Maitiro ake ekudyidzana nevamwe anoita seasina kuenzana, pathological uye chepfu.
  • Kuna amai vanonyomba, hupenyu mutambo waanotonga.
  • Anozvifunga uye anonyengedza.
  • Kuda kubudirira kwakakosha kwaari.

Vamwe amai vePN vanofunga mwana wake sefoiri kana chinhu chaanoshandisa kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvake. Zvisinei, anoda kuchengetedza chimiro chake. Ichi ndicho chikonzero anogara achiratidza mufananidzo waamai vane hanya nezvemwana wavo uye vanobatanidzwa.

Pachivande, amai venarcissistic ndivo mudzvinyiriri. Anoita kuti mwana wake akundikane uye anonzwa aine mhosva. Pamwe pacho anoitira mwana wake shanje. Nokudaro anogadzira makwikwi ane chepfu kwaari.

Mbiri yaamai venarcissistic: Ndeapi maitiro aamai vane narcissistic?

Les zviratidzo zve narcissistic pervert Izvi zvinotevera zvinogona kubatsira kuona chimiro chaamai narcissistic. Kunyanya, vanoratidza hunhu hwemukadzi anohura :

1. Inotyisa

  • Mudzimai akaipa anonyomba anoramba kuzivikanwa kwevana vake. Anovaisa munjodzi uye anovazvidza chisimba chake chepfungwa netsika.
  • Amai narcissistic vanobata vana vavo zvisizvo kuti vaone uye vazadzikise narcissism yavo.
  • Anoita hutsinye uye anoparadza kumwana wake.
  • Anobira zvakavanzika zvake uye anomudzivisa kuva nerusununguko rwokuzvisarudzira.

2. Kudzora

Mai venarcissistic vanoda kudzora hupenyu hwese hwemwana wavo. Inodzora:

  • mibatanidzwa yake;
  • mitambo yake;
  • zvaanofarira;
  • mapfekero ake...

Mukadzi akaipa narcissistic haatenderi hapana zvakavanzika kumwana wake. Anoteerera ari pamasuo. Anotoverenga diary rake netsamba yake asingazezi. Ikoku kunomubvumira kuva nokudzora kwakakwana pamwana, nokudaro kuchimudzivisa kuva nokuzvimirira.

3. Narcissistic uye manipulative

Amai narcissistic vanosimbisa kutonga kwavo nekushandisa:

  • manipulation;
  • blackmail;
  • devaluation;
  • mhosva.

Anofarirawo uzvitambudze kugadzira mufananidzo wemurombo, ari oga uye asingabatsiri amai. Kutaura zvazviri, akarurama manipulative uye aine zvizere pfuma yake.

Mai venarcissistic vanodzora kuzviremekedza kwemwana wavo. Anomuzvidza pamukana wose kuti arambe ari pasi pake. Anogona kutobira mufaro wake kuti awedzere kuvhiringidzika kwemwana.

 

Ndeipi mibairo yekuva naamai vane narcissistic?

Mai venarcissistic vanoumba chaivo zvinokanganisa kukura kwemwana wako.

  • Kusachengeteka uye kushaikwa kwechinhu

Maitiro eamai narcissistic anokonzera kumwe kusachengeteka mumwana wavo, pahutano hwemuviri, hwepfungwa uye hwepfungwa. Mafungiro ake anokonzeresa kushomeka mukati hukama hune chepfu uye kusadzikama. Amai vanonyengedza ava manzwiro asingawanikwe.

  • Kusazivikanwa

Amai vane narcissistic vakashata vanodzivirira mwana wavo kuti asavake kuzivikanwa. Panzvimbo pokumubatsira kukudziridza unhu hwake, anomuzvidza uye anoramba zvaari. Anomumanikidza kuita sezvaanoda.

  • Kushaya kuzvidavirira

Kunzwa kwemutoro kunenge kusipo zvakare mumwana waamai narcissistic. Iyo yekupedzisira haina ruzivo rwemitoro. Anogara achipomera vamwe uye naizvozvo haasi muenzaniso wakanaka.

Nzira yekuzvibata sei naamai narcissistic?

Kunyangwe iwe uri mudikanwi kana mwana waamai narcissistic, usaramba usina hanya nemaitiro ake.

1. Sehama yepedyo kana imwe hama

Iwe uri chikamu chevaraidzo yaamai narcissistic? Iwe unofanirwa kuziva chinhu chimwe: ndiwe wega mubereki ane hutano kana mudiwa. Naizvozvo unogona ipai nheyo dzakasimba izvo mwana anoda, asi kuti amai vake havagone kupa:

  • kunzwa kwekuchengeteka;
  • munhu oga;
  • hunhu…

Muratidze kuti ane kodzero yokuva nezvido zvake uye kuti anogona kuva iye pachake.

Rega kushora amai kana kutaura nezvavo. Izvi zvinogona kuisa mwana mukurwisana kukuru kwekuvimbika. Ndiyewo hapana chikonzero chekutarisana namai vako. Izvi zvinogona kukudzosera kumashure.

2. Semwana wamai vanonyomba

Kugara naamai vanonyengera hakusi nyore. Iyi pathology hairapike uye ichamutevera kwehupenyu hwake hwose. Kamwe munhu mukuru, mwana waamai narcissistic achafanira kutora nhanho kubva kuna amai vake, kubva mumamiriro ake ezvinhu uye zvakare kubva pamaronda ake.

Chakanakira ndechekuti bvunza murapi kuzvivaka patsva uye kubvisa hukama hune chepfu uhu. Kurapa kunotibvumira kutarisa nyaya yemwana naamai vake kubva kune imwe isiri kutonga uye kunzwisisa maonero. Kutiza nekuvakazve zvinoramba zviri izvo chete zvigadziriso zvekuzvisunungura kubva mukufurirwa naamai narcissistic.

Rarama Vakatsveyamiswa Narcissistic Amai

Nzira yekuziva sei Perverse Narcissistic vanamai?

Iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti vanaamai vePN, nhengo dze narcissistic mhuri yakatsveyama hazvina kufanana. Nepo vamwe vachikwanisa kuzvidzora, vamwe vanogona kuratidza hukasha hwakanyanya. Nekudaro, pane hunhu hwakajairika hunogona kuzivikanwa narcissistic vanaamai: 

Amai PN: kushaya rudo nekuregeredzwa

Rudo rwaamai harwupo muna narcissistic amai vakatsveyama: Haafarire kuve amai uye haanzwe kufara mukuchengeta nekuchengeta vana vavo. Amai vakatsveyama narcissistic havapo zvakanyanya kumwana wavo, haamutereri kana kufunga nezvemanzwiro ake. Kwaari, mwana wake mutoro, mutoro unomuremera uye unodya nguva yake. Kushaikwa kwerudo uye kuregeredza hunhu hunowanzo onekwa munanamai vakarasika. Vana vanowanzoregeredzwa uye vanosiiwa vachiita zvavanoda muhuduku hwavo. Pavanenge vachikura, vanaamai vane narcissistic vakatsauka vanoita kuti vanzwisise kuti vari kuvhiringidza.

Narcissistic Amai Zviratidzo

Pakati pehumwe hunhu hunotitendera kuti tizive amai vane narcissistic vakashata, tinowanawo kuderedzwa kwemwana kana pfungwa yechinhu chemwana.

  1. Haaoni mwana wake seakadaro uye haafungi nezve fragility yake.
  2. Achave nekutaura kwevakuru nemwana wake uye mwana anogona kukanganiswa zvakanyanya. Ichi ndicho chikonzero nei vana vevanaamai vakatsvedza vachigara vachigadzikana mupfungwa uye mupfungwa.
  3. Zvakare, kune narcissistic amai vakatsveyama, vana vake havana kuenzana naye pameso ake. Pachagara paine mwana waanoda kupfuura mumwe. Anofananidza vana vake uye haazvivanze zvachose.
  4. Kunyange kana iye usade mwana, achaita kuti vamwe vazvitende kuitira kuti pave nokunzwanana uye godo pakati pevana. Chinangwa chake chichava chekuita kuti vana vakwikwidze kuti vamufadze.
  5. Achazviita patsanura kuti ushandise simba uye kutonga.
  6. Amai vakaipa narcissistic vanogara vachida kutariswa uye kuyemurwa. Saka achada kuti chido ichi chibve kumwana wake.
  7. Muchiitiko chaaine mwanasikana, amai vane narcissistic vakashata vachave vachinetseka nekuparadza hukama hwavo, iye achada kutora nzvimbo yake uye achanzwa achikwikwidzana naye.

Hukama pakati pemwana uye Perverse Narcissistic Amai

Hukama huripo pakati paamai vakashata uye mwana wavo hahuna chinhu. Kunyange kana amai vachigona kuita zvakanaka kwazvo pamberi peavo vakavapoteredza kuita kuti vanhu vatende kuti vanoda mwana wavo uye vanomuchengeta, tinogona kuona zviratidzo zvakajeka zvenarcissism uye manomano mavari. Kupfuura zvose, mwana achanzwa asina maturo uye asingakoshi mumeso aamai vake. Achavaka hunhu hwakasiyana zvachose kana mask kuti afadze uye anzwe achidiwa. Mwana achatenda kuti akaderedzwa kusvika kumamiriro echinhu uye kuti anofanira kuenderana nezvido zvemuridzi wake.

Amai nokuda kwavo vachashandisa simba, kumwe kunyengedza pamwana wavo. Achamudzora kuti azadzise zvishuwo zvake. Kutanga ne devaluation, zvinogadzira denderedzwa rakashata remhosva mumwana. Mwana achagara achitsvaka kutenderwa mune zvose zvaanoita. Sezvo pasina chisungo cherudo pakati paamai veFN nemwana wavo, mwana achakura mukutya, kusava nechivimbo uye kushaya kukuru. 

Amai narcissistic: mufananidzo wehupfu uye kudzora kudzora

Heano maitiro eakaipa narcissistic amai:

1. Kubata kunosimbiswa nekunyengera

Amai narcissistic vanoshandisa nzira dzakasiyana dzekunyengedza kuti varatidze kutonga kwavo pamusoro pevana vavo. Pakati pavo:

  • Kuvhenekera gasi : zvinopikisa maonero, pfungwa uye manzwiro emwana, zvichiita kuvhiringidzika uye kusava nechokwadi nezvechokwadi chake.
  • Mhosva : kunoita kuti mwana atakure mutoro wenhamo dzake amene, zvichimuita kuti ave nemhosva yokukundikana kwake kana kuti chimiro chake chendangariro.
  • Emotional blackmail : kutyisidzira kwakavharwa kana kuti kwakajeka, kwakadai sokuzvikuvadza kana kuti kusiya mwana, kunomuisa pasi pezvaanotarisira.

2. Chishuvo chekutonga kwakakwana

Amai narcissistic vanotsvaga kudzora zvese zvehupenyu hwemwana wavo:

  • Hukama hwake uye mibatanidzwa.
  • Mabasa ayo, kutandara nemitambo.
  • Kunyange chitarisiko chake uye zvisarudzo zvokupfeka.

Uku kusimba kunosvika pakudzivirira mwana kubva pakuzvimiririra, zvichimuchengeta mupfungwa kuti asangane nezvido zvake zvepfungwa.

3. Kusaratidza tsitsi

  • Kusava nehanya : zvido zvemwana zvepfungwa, zvepfungwa uye zvemuviri zvinoregeredzwa kana kuderedzwa.
  • Conditional love : rudo runopiwa chete kana mwana aita zvinotarisirwa naamai.
  • Kutsamira mupfungwa : mwana anotadza kukura asina kupihwa mvumo naamai.

4. Ukama hune chepfu uye hunoparadza

Amai narcissistic vanowanzoita nenzira dzinoparadza:

  • Anoshandisa chisimba chepfungwa netsika kuzvidza mwana.
  • Anoisa zvishuvo zvake, achiita mwana girazi kana chishandiso chekusimbisa ego yake.
  • Zvinobira zvakavanzika zvake uye zvinodzivirira chero rusununguko rwekusarudza.

5. Kuzvida uye kushandiswa kwemwana

  • Egocentrism : amai venarcissistic vanoda kuyemurwa nekutariswa, vachigara vachiisa zvavanoda pakati.
  • Kushandiswa kwevana : inova chishandiso chekushandisa, kumutsa kuyemurwa kana kugutsa zvishuwo zvemunhu.

6. Kushaikwa kwemiganhu uye ruremekedzo

Amai narcissistic havaremekedze miganhu yemwana kana zvinodiwa zvemwana zvekuzvimiririra:

  • Kupindira : anopindira mune zvese zvehupenyu hwemwana wake, kunyangwe akura.
  • Kutyora Muganhu : anofuratira nzvimbo yemwana pachake kana manzwiro ake.

7. Chepfu mhuri dynamics

  • Kusarura : anofarira mwana mumwe kuti adzore vamwe zviri nani, achigadzira kusawirirana kwemhuri.
  • Division : nokudyara kusawirirana, anosimbisa kudzora kwake ukama hwemhuri.

8. Mafungiro asingatarisirwi uye asina kunaka

  • Mood inochinja : kubva parudo rwakanyanyisa kuenda pakurambwa zvine utsinye, kunopinza mwana mukusagadzikana mupfungwa nguva dzose.
  • Ambivalence : inosanganisa rudo uye hutsinye, inowedzera kuvhiringidzika uye kuvimba kwemwana.

9. Kushandiswa kwemhosva

  • Mhosva yakanyanyisa : zvinoita kuti mwana atende kuti haamboiti zvakakwana, achisimbisa kuvimba kwake.
  • Kuzvidza kubudirira : zvakaitwa nemwana zvinoderedzwa kana kufuratirwa.

Bibliographic reference yekuziva amai vane narcissistic vakarasika

Bibliographic referensi pambiri yaamai narcissistic

  • SOSPN Blog: "Narcissistic Perverse Amai: Tsanangudzo uye Hunhu"
    (sospn.fr)
  • Psychologist: "Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Zviratidzo uye Kurapa"
    (psychologist.fr)
  • Psynat: "Vanaamai veNarcissistic: Chii chinopesvedzera pahukama hwaamai nemwanasikana"
    (psynat.fr)
  • Dérive-sectaire.fr: "Nzvimbo yaamai vane narcissistic"
    (derive-sectaire.fr)
  • Kutaura nezve rudo: "Ongororo yaamai narcissistic"
    (parlerdamour.fr)
  • Imagyna: "Maitiro Ekuporesa kubva kuna Amai Narcissistic"
    (imagyna.fr)
  • Vabereki.fr: "Narcissistic Mubereki: Maziviro Avo"
    (vabereki.fr)

Izvi zvinyorwa zvinokupa iwe pekutangira kuti unzwisise zviri nani maitiro e narcissistic muna amai uye nemhedzisiro yavo pakukura kwepfungwa kwevana.

Cristina Balan
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