Narcissistic pervert: mushonga unogoneka here?

Narcissistic vatsveyama (PN) vanhu vane narcissistic personality disorder. Vanhu vane chirwere ichi vane maonero akaderera. Vanoda kutariswa zvakanyanya kubva kune vamwe uye vanogona kudzikisira. THE rwakatsauka Narcissists haakoshese manzwiro kana pfungwa dzevamwe uye kufuratira zvavanoda. Asi zvinoita here kuti varapwe pachirwere chepfungwa ichi?

Tinofanira kuregerera munhu akatsauka here?

Kana iwe uchida kuzvisunungura kubva muukama nemhando iyi yemunhu, zvakakosha kukanganwira, kana zvakanyanya kuita runyararo newe. Aya ndiwo mafambiro anoita munhu akabatwa nePN kumberi. Kupfuurirazve, hakusati kuri nemhaka yokuti munyengeri wenhando ane zvinetso zvendangariro izvo anofanira kuregererwa.

Kuti apedze chiitiko chinorwadza ichi, nyakubatwa achapfuura nemuzvikamu zvakasiyana zvinosanganisira hasha, kuvaka patsva nekuregerera. Kupfuura zvese, iwe unofanirwa kuzviregerera iwe kuti usunungure manzwiro anoparadza uye ugone kufambira mberi. Zvakanakisa kusiya kutsiva padivi nekuti zvinokonzeresa kukonzeresa kuda kwenarcissistic kutsveyamisa.

Kuporesa munhu anokanganisa narcissistic: tinogona kumurapa here?

PN haigone kuporesa chete kana achiida chaizvo. Anofanira kuziva kuti ari kurwara. Zvisinei, vanhu vane narcissistic personality disorder vanogara mukuramba. Vanowanzo kutsvaga kuyemurwa uye kusava netsitsi, kushaya chivimbo. Nehurombo, ivo havana kugona kuona chirwere chavari kutambura nacho.

Nekudaro, mune zvimwe zviitiko, zvichitevera kukanganisa kwakawanda kwehukama, kana kana vadikani vake vakamuzivisa, munyengeri wenarcissistic anogona kuzvibvunza. Panguva ino, anogona kuita basa pamaitiro ake epathological uye kuita psychotherapy nenyanzvi.

Ndeapi marapirwo ekurapa PN?

Kunyangwe pasina mushonga wePN, kune nzira dzakawanda dzekurapa dzinogona kubatsira. Asi chero psychotherapy yaunosarudza, inofanirwa kuitiswa nemurapi ane hunyanzvi ane ruzivo mukurapa kusagadzikana kwehunhu. Heano mamwe anogona kushanda kune narcissistic pervert:

  • Gestalt kurapwa

Iyi imhando ye psychotherapy inotarisa zvakanyanya pane zvazvino kupfuura zvekare. Zvirongwa zvekurapa zvinowanzotarisa matambudziko ari kutarisana nemunhu muhupenyu hwake. Munguva yeGestalt kurapwa, vanhu vanowanzokumbirwa kuti vatevedzere kushamwaridzana mukuedza kuvandudza hunyanzvi hwavo hwekutaurirana.

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) yakatanga kugadzirirwa kurapa borderline personality disorder. Parizvino, inoshandiswawo kurapa mamwe matambudziko ehunhu uye matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa zvakare.

Inzira yekurapa inodzidzisa vanhu kungwarira uye inovabatsira kudzidza kubata zvirinani manzwiro avo. Kazhinji, vanhu vanogashira kurapwa kwemunhu neboka kana vachishandisa nzira iyi ye psychotherapy.

Zvakanakira nzira ye psychotherapy pane narcissistic pervert

Iyi nzira inogona kubatsira mumwe munhu ane hunhu hwenarcissistic kudzidza ku:

  1. kuziva uye kudzora zviri nani manzwiro ako;
  2. kurarama nezviitiko zvisingafadzi;
  3. kutaurirana zvinobudirira;
  4. gadzirisa zviri nani manzwiro asina kunaka.
  • Kutsigira psychotherapy

Mamwe ma psychotherapists anogona kukurudzira kutsigira kurapwa kune narcissistic perverts. Iyi psychotherapeutic nzira inogona kubatsira kubvisa zviratidzo uye kushushikana kwepfungwa. Kutenda kwazviri, murapi anogona:

  • dzidzisa unyanzvi hwokudzora manzwiro anokuvadza;
  • kupa kurapwa kwezviratidzo zvakadai sekuzvidya mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo;
  • batsira PN kuongorora uye kugadzirisa matambudziko muhukama hwavo hwepakati;
  • kupa rubatsiro kune narcissistic pervert (kugara nemunhu akashata) kuti vaone zvakanakira kuchinjwa kweunhu hwomunhu.

Mune zvimwe zviitiko, murapi anogonawo kukurudzira kusanganisira vadikani mukurapa. Nekunzwisisa zviri nani pfungwa nemanzwiro avo, narcissist inogona kukudziridza yakadzama yekunzwira tsitsi.

Ndeipi mishonga yekurapa narcissistic personality disorder?

Zvinofanira kucherechedzwa kuti hapana mushonga unogona kurapa zvakananga hunhu hwenarcissistic, asi mushonga wakakodzera unogona kuramba uchipa mamwe mabhenefiti. Vanhu vane narcissistic personality disorder vanowanzoona kuti mishonga inogona kubatsira kune zviratidzo zvine chekuita nemamiriro avo.

Chokwadi, zvichienderana nekuoma kwavo, zviratidzo zvakakomba zvehutano hwepfungwa dzimwe nguva zvinogona kukanganisa kubudirira kwe psychotherapy. Semuenzaniso, kana munhu achinzwa kushushikana zvakanyanya kana kusangana nekuora mwoyo kana paranoia, vanogona kunetseka kuramba vachirapwa narcissistic personality disorder.

Naizvozvo, murapi anogona kunyorera antidepressants kana anxiolytics kuti abvise zviratidzo izvi. Mishonga yakagadziridzwa kune zviratidzo zvePN inogona kumubatsira kuti agamuchire psychotherapy.

Rudo runogona kushandura narcissistic manipulator here?

Sezvineiwo, narcissistic vatsveyama havadi chaizvo kudanana nevanhu. Vanowira murudo nemafungiro avo pamusoro pemunhu. Kazhinji, vanofungidzira mumwe wavo semufambidzani akakwana. Mupfungwa iyi, rudo rwa narcissistic manipulator ari pamusoro uye zvinoenderana nekuti mumwe wake anoita sei zvaanoda. Zviri pamusoro pezvavanoda.

Hukama nemunhu ane narcissistic pervert hahugari nekuti hunobva pafungidziro. Kana narcissists vakangorega kuisa nhamburiko mukuyedza kufadza uye kuziva mumwe wavo, vanopedzisira vaodzwa mwoyo. Chikonzero ndechokuti vanoziva zvikanganiso zvevapashure.

Kana mudiwa wenarcissistic aona kuti hausi kunyatso ratidza zvese zvaagara achitsvaga mudiwa, anokukumbira kuti umuchinjire. Mudiwa wako anotanga nekupa nzira dzinokutendera kuti uve nani, zvinoenderana nemaitiro avo.

Manongedzero ebhaibheri pamusoro pekuporesa narcissistic pervert

Heano mareferensi manomwe ebhaibheri padingindira rekuporesa narcissistic pervert:

  1. Sirota, A. (2017). Narcissistic vanotsveyamisa: nzwisisa, kurira, kukunda. Zvinyorwa Le Manuscrit.
  2. Hurni, M., & Stoll, G. (2003). "Narcissistic kukanganisa muvakaroorana". French magazini ye psychoanalysis, 67, 873-893.
  3. Racamier, P.-C. (1992). Nyanzvi yepakutanga.
  4. Couderc, P., & Chapaux-Morelli, P. (2005). Emotional manipulation mune vaviri: Kubata neane narcissistic pervert.
  5. Bouchoux, J.-C. (2011). Narcissistic vatsveyama.
  6. Hirigoyen, M.-F (1998). Kushungurudzwa kwetsika: mhirizhonga yakashata zuva nezuva.
  7. Eiguer, A. (2018). Narcissistic vatsveyama.

Aya mabhuku uye zvinyorwa zvinopa maonero akadzama pamusoro pekutsveyamisa narcissistic uye nzira dzekurapa dzinogona kuitika.

mhedziso

Nekuda kweizvi, zvakakosha kumisa nekuchengetedza miganhu ine hutano kana uri muhukama nemunhu akaonekwa kuti ane narcissistic personality disorder. Ichi chirwere chakakomba chehutano hwepfungwa uye kurapwa kwechirwere ichi kunokurudzirwa zvakasimba. Kuti PN ipore, ivo vanofanirwa chaizvo kuziva nezvehurwere hwavo uye kubvunza chiremba wepfungwa.

Zvisinei, kuisa miganhu kunogona kunge kusina kukwana kuti uchengetedze iwe. Kana uchifunga kuti pane humbowo hwekushungurudzwa kana mhirizhonga muhukama hwenyu, zvakakosha kutaura nemumwe munhu anogona kukubatsira.

Cristina Balan

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