La godo revatsoropodzi vane narcissistic zviri pamaonero avanoita ivo pachavo. Zvakaoma uye dzimwe nguva hazvigoneke kuti narcissist avimbe nemumwe munhu. Kutaura zvazviri, kana ukama hwenyu huchiwedzera kuswedera pedyo, iye achabva anyanya kuvimba newe. Narcissists vanotya chero hukama hwepedyo kana kusagadzikana nekuti vanotya kuti uchaona kusakwana kwavo uye kuvatonga kana kuvaramba.
Sei Narcissistic Pervert ane Godo?
Maitiro evaNarcissists ekunzwa godo anogona kutsamira zvakanyanya pamanzwiro avo.
Nehurombo, sezvaungave waona, manzwiro emunhu narcissist chinhu chinoshanduka. Vanhu vane narcissistic personality disorder vanogona kupopotera zvinhu zvanga zvisina chinangwa chekuvakuvadza - kazhinji kana mukaha uripo pakati pefacade yavanopfeka uye hunhu hwavo hwechokwadi hwafumurwa.
Izvi zvinonzi kukuvara kwenarcissistic, uko kune njodzi yekusiya narcissist ari mumamiriro ekuzvikoshesa. Mushure mekukuvara kwenarcissistic, isu tinogona kutarisira kuti narcissists vawedzere kuita godo.
Nzira yekuziva sei ane godo PN?
Heano mamwe masaini ekuziva godo renarcissistic pervert:
1. Vane godo pazvinhu zvose
Hapana huwandu hwekusimbiswa hunoratidzika kunge hunoita mutsauko, nekuti maFN anovenga zvakanyanya uye anoramba kusakwana kwavo kunonyadzisa.
Narcissistic perverts haamboita seanovimba nerudo rwevamwe uye vanoramba vachikuedza neakaipa uye nehunhu hwakaipa kuyedza kutsvaga yako yekupwanya.
Kushaikwa kwekuzvivimba nekuzviremekedza ndiko kuri pamoyo wenarcissism. Uku kushayikwa kwekuzviremekedza kunovabvumira kuti vave negodo nyore nyore, godo guru. Uye kwete kubva kune chero ani zvake angangoda kukuda iwe, asi kubva kune chero munhu kana chero chinhu chinogona kukwevera kure kure naye. Iri godo rinokonzera kufufutirwa kwehasha uye maitiro ane dambudziko.
2. PN mitambo
Kana wakambova newawakaroorana naye anopfimba vamwe vanhu pamberi pako, akakurukura nevanhu vausingazivi, uye akaedza kuita kuti unzwe sokuti haukoshi, unogona kunge uchifambidzana nen’anga.
Uye pamwe vaizviita nemaune. Tsvagiridzo itsva inoratidza kuti vanhu vanoratidza hunhu hwakanyanya hwekunarcissistic vanokurudzira godo kune vavakaroorana navo kuitira kuti vazadzikise zvimwe zvinangwa: Kudzora, mune dzimwe nguva, kana kuwedzera mukuzviremekedza kwavo.
Nyaya dzegodo dzeNarcissistic Pervert
Zvikonzero zvemitambo iyi yerudo yemusoro zvinosiyana, zvisinei, zvichienderana nerudzi rwenarcissism. Grandiose narcissists vakashuma vachikurudzirwa nechishuwo chavo chekuwana simba uye kutonga muhukama. Nekune rumwe rutivi, narcissists vanotambura vakaedza kumutsa godo nezvikonzero zvakawanda.
Kudzora ndechimwe, sekuongorora kusimba kwehukama, kutsvaga kuchengeteka muhukama, kubhadhara kuzviremekedza kwakaderera, uye kutsiva zvavanoona semaitiro avo akaipa. Izvi zvinogona kutorwa sea godo rinorwara.
Sei Narcissistic Pervert achida kuitira mumwe wake godo?
Munyaya yevanokanganisa narcissistic, rudzi urwu rwekuita godo rinowanzogadzirirwa kukuita kuti utende kuti vanofarira mumwe munhu.
Achapedza nguva aine shamwari yake itsva, iwe uripo kana kuti kwete, uye kazhinji achataura nezvake muushamwari uye nerumbidzo. Mhedzisiro yacho yakaratidza musiyano pakati pemhando mbiri dze narcissists. Grandiose narcissists vanoita kuti vavakaroorana navo vave negodo kuti vave nesimba rakawanda uye kutonga pamusoro pavo.
Narcissistic vatsveyama vanozviitawo kuti vawane simba nekutonga, asi ivo vane zvimwewo vavariro:
- Kutsiva: Kana wakaita chimwe chinhu kuvashatirisa (izvo zvingava nyore kuita), vangaedza kukuita kuti unzwe godo senzira yokutsiva.
- Kuzvitemba: kana iwe uine godo nemunhu, anofanira kunge akakosha kwauri neimwe nzira. Saka godo rako rinovapa kuwedzera kuderera kwavo kuzviremekedza.
- Edza hukama: Nemhaka yokuti vanhu vanoita narciss vanowanzoshaya tsitsi, zvakaoma kuti vazive manzwiro aunoita. Kuti vawane nzwisiso iyi, vangada kumutsa kuita kuri pachena kubva kwauri.
- Chengetedzo: angave ari kuedza kukusimbisa pamusoro pekusimba kwehukama hwenyu. Zvakafanana nekutyaira mumadziro kuti ungoona kana mota yako yakachengeteka. Asi zviito zve narcisists zvinowanzova zvepfungwa pane kufunga zvakadzikama.
Musiyano pakati peNarcissistic Pervert uye Anorwara Negodo
Un PN munhu ane kuzvikudza uye pfungwa dzisiri dzechokwadi dzekuzvikoshesa. Anogona kukonzera kukanganisa muhukama hwake nekuda kwekuda kuratidza simba rake kana hukuru pamusoro pemumwe wake uye kusava nehanya nemanzwiro ekupedzisira kana kugara zvakanaka. Narcissism zvechokwadi yakabatanidzwa nayo chisimba chepanyama uye / kana zvepfungwa muhukama, ndiko kuti, kune maitiro akadai sekudzora mudiwa wako, kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe, kutsoropodza uye mamwe marudzi ehuipi hunogona kukonzera kukanganisa kwakanyanya kwepfungwa.
Zvese izvi zvinogona kuita kuti iwe ufunge kuti zviri nyore kana zviri pachena kuti ugare kure nevanokanganisa narcissistic muhukama, asi havasi vese veNPs vanoratidza godo ravo rekutsveyamisa maitiro zviri pachena, kunyanya pakutanga.
Kushungurudzwa uye godo remunhu anokanganisa narcissistic
La godo du narcissistic pervert kazhinji inobatanidzwa zvikuru nomufambiro womunhuabus. Hunhu hwemhando iyi hunokura pakuda kugara uchidzora uye kutonga avo vakakukomberedza. Godo rinobva rava nzira yekushandisa kudzora uku, kunyanya kana aona kutyisidzira kupfungwa yake yehukuru kana kuvimbika kwemumwe wake.
Kusiyana negodo rechinyakare, iro renarcissistic pervert yakanyanyisa uye haina musoro. Inozviratidza mukupomerwa kusina musoro, maitiro ekuongorora uye kuedza kudzokororwa kwekuparadzanisa vamwe. Mafungiro aya anowanzo tungamira mukushungurudzwa mupfungwa kana kunyange mumuviri, kune chinangwa chekudzoreredza kutonga kwakazara pamusoro peakabatwa. Kushungurudzwa nokudaro kunova mhinduro yakananga kune godo remunyari, asingakwanise kutakura pfungwa yekurasikirwa nekutonga.
Manongedzero ebhaibheri pamusoro pegodo remuponesi wenarcissistic
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- Grilo, CM, & McGlashan, TH (2001). "Kugadzikana uye nzira yekusagadzikana kwehunhu: Chido chekufunga kugadzikana kwechiratidzo. » Journal of Personality Disorders, 15 (4), 300-312.
Mhedziso - Iyo Narcissistic Pervert yakatendeka here?
Iyo PN haisati yave isina kutendeka asi ivo vachiri kutamba mutambo waanofanirwa kutaridzika ari nani pane mumwe wake. Kunda godo zvinogona kunge zvakangoomera munhu akatsveyama. Rangarira kuti narcissists vanoda chengetedzo yekutarisisa uye kuyemurwa kuchengetedza kuzviremekedza kwavo, ndosaka vaine godo.
Vanowanzoona hukama kubva pakuona kwekutengeserana, kureva, maererano nezvavanogona kuwana kubva kwavari.
Naizvozvo, kana ivo vari muukama newe, zvingangoita nekuti ivo vachiri kutora zviwanikwa zvavo zvenarcissistic kubva kwauri. Kana ukaisiya, unodimbura tsime iroro. Uye kuti unzwisise mamiriro ezvinhu aya, munhu anotsveyamisa narcissistic haagone kutendeka nekuti kwaari makwikwi.
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Inzira zvakare yekubatsira vanhu, sezvo ini ndave ndichikwanisa kuwana rubatsiro kubva kune vandisingazive ini muhupenyu hwangu hwese. Iko hakuna chete narcissistic vatsveyama munyika ino uye nerombo rakanaka! Pano isu tinobatsira vanhu kunzwisisa zviri kuitika kwavari uye kuenderera kuhupenyu husina narcissists - hupenyu hwako hwepamusoro! Iwe hausi wega uye iwe unogona kuita shanduko kuti urarame hupenyu hunogutsa, huzere nerunyararo, kuwirirana uye rudo!
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