Narcissistic Perverse Mhuri - Iri Dzimba Rinoshanda Sei?

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Kuva pedyo nemunhu akatsveyamiswa zvisiri nyore, saka kugara nemhuri yese yakatsveyamiswa zvakatonyanya kushoma. Asi chii chaizvo chiri pamusoro? Mhuri ine narcissistic yakatsveyama inoshanda sei uye unoziva sei kana uri mumamiriro akanaka kana uchibata nemhuri yakadai? 

Iyo Narcissistic Perverse Mhuri - Chii?

Hazvisi nyore nguva dzose kunyatsotsanangura mhuri ine narcissistic yakashata. Asi chinoitika chinonyanyozivikanwa ndechekuti mumwe wevabereki anotsveyamisa narcissistic. Saka baba kana amai vane dambudziko iri rehunhu uye ivo vachaisa huipi hwavo pamhuri yavo. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, chirwere chacho chinopfuudzwa kune dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri. Nekudaro, mumhuri yakaipa ine narcissistic, panogara paine hunhu hunotonga uye mhuri inotenderera ichi hukuru huipi. Mudzimai pamwe chete nevana vanenge vabatwa nemhosva vanozotsvaga kufadza munhu uyu uye vanotevedzera hutungamiri uhwu. 

Mhuri yeNarcissistic Perverse inoshanda sei?

  • Mhuri yehuipi hwenarcissistic inoshanda pasi pemararamiro akasimba anorairwa neakanyanya kutsveyama. Izvi zvinogona kuva tsika dzakadai sekuda mari, kuvenga vamwe, xenophobia, kusabatanidzwa kwevasiri vedzinza. 
  • Muparadzi anofuridza kupisa nekutonhora mumhuri iyi. Chokwadi, munyengeri mukuru mumhuri anoshandisa simba rokunyengera panhengo dzemhuri yake. Anonyima mudzimai wake nevana kuti vasava nehunhu. L Hunhu humwechete hunokosha ndehuya narcissistic pervert.
  • Sezvo achinzi “musoro” wemhuri, munyengeri anova nechokwadi chokuti mhuri yake inomushumira uye inoremekedza chiremera chake. Vanenge vawirwa nenjodzi havazovi nechisarudzo. Anodzora mhuri yake, zvekusvika pakuvabvisa kubva kunzanga yese, shamwari kana dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri. 

Mudzimai wenarcissistic pervert

Zvinofanira kunzwisiswa kuti muparadzi we narcissistic anonzwa kumwe kusadzikama mukati make uko kwaanoratidza kune avo vakamupoteredza kuburikidza nehunhu hwake hwekunyomba. Munhu anotanga kubatwa nechirwere chemupopotera anenge ari murume/mukadzi wake. Mamiriro maviri anogona kubuda muhukama pakati pePN nemukadzi wake: 

  1. Mukwanyina wacho anowira mukusavapo kana kuti uipi : Muchiitiko ichi, mukwanyina haazviisi zvachose kune akatsveyama, anongogutsikana nekuramba akanyarara. Inopera zvishoma nezvishoma uye inorasikirwa nehunhu hwayo. Pakuvamba kwehukama, mudiwa we narcissistic pervert anokundwa nemashoko anotapira uye kutarisa kunopiwa nemumwe wake. Uye achawira mukupindwa muropa uye achagara achida kuwana zviratidzo izvi zvakare. 
  2. Muchiitiko chechipiri, the mukwanyina achaedza kudzikamisa mamiriro acho nenzira dzese kufadza uye kushumira narcissistic munyengeri. Achaita zvose zvaanoda nezvaanoda. Iye narcissistic anotsveyamisa achadzora mumwe wake uye achashandisa simba rakazara pamusoro pehupenyu hwake, hukama hwake uye manzwiro ake. Kuti arambe achidzora mumwe wake, anogadzirisa chokwadi uye anodzosera kusagadzikana kwake paari. Haazvitendi zvekuti anomboedza kuratidza kushayikwa uku pamumwe wake.

Iyo PN nemhuri yake: Hudiki hwakakanganiswa mupfungwa

Vana veancissistic pervert vanogona kuve NPs ivo pachavo kana kuti vanongove vanyajambwa veimwe PN muhupenyu hwavo hwemangwana. 

1. Mwana anovawo munhu mukuru akatsveyama

Izvo zvakajairika kuti iyomwana wePN anogonawo kuita mwana narcissistic pervert. Naizvozvo akagara nhaka hunhu hwababa vake vekunyomba kana vake narcissistic amai vakatsveyama. Mwana anozoitawo PN munhu uye achatsvaga kushandisa simba raakaona kubva kumubereki wake panguva yake udiki. Haana kungogara mumhuri isingashande narcissistic, asi achaitawo nekusaziva kusika nharaunda imwechete. Ichi chigumisiro chinowanikwa nekuda kwekuti mwana anozvarwa uye anokurira munzvimbo isina kugadzikana uye ine chepfu uye kwaari izvi ndizvo "zvakajairika".

Saka, kana pasina kupindira kana kuziva kunoitika, anongoita sababa vake kana amai PN. Kukura kwake kucharatidzwa zvakanyanya nehunhu hwakatsveyama, udyire hwakajeka uye kusava netsitsi kune zvese. Kana aona kuti haasisiri mwana anobva atotangawo kuita zvakaipa nekuti ndizvo zvaaiziva.  

2. Mwana wePN: ramangwana rakabatwa nePN

Zvinoitikawo kuti mwana akagara mumhuri ine narcissistic yakatsveyama haaite sevabereki vake. Asi kana achinge akura anongotorwa mwoyo kuti asangane nemunhu wePN nekuti ndiye waanoziva. Achaedza kutsvaka rudo netarisiro izvo zvaigaronyimwa kwaari somwana. Achazviona sechinhu, nekuti vabereki vake vaigara vachimuona seakadaro. 

Mamiriro ari mukati memhuri yakashata ine muchetura uye vana havambopukunyuki vasina kukuvara. PN nevana vake havana hukama chaihwo. Mwana anozvarwa nomubereki akatsveyama anongogara ari nyajambwa wokushayikwa kworudo kunooneka, saka kana akura, achatsvaka kuzadzisa uku kushayiwa. 

PN nemwanasikana wake

Mubereki weFN nemwanasikana wavo havana rudo rwakakosha. Kana ari amai vePN, achaona mwanasikana wake semukwikwidzi uye anowanzo tsvaga kumupfuura mumapurojekiti ake, kuparadza hukama hwake hwerudo kana kutochiva. Musikana kubva narcissistic baba vakatsveyama kazhinji achasangana nevarume vane hunhu hwakafanana nababa vake mukukura. Hukama hwake hunowanzova hune chepfu uye hunoparadza kusvikira aona dambudziko rake uye atora danho rakasimba. 

PN nemwanakomana wake

Kana ari a nhoroondo yaamai narcissistic uye mwanakomana wake, zvinoitika kuti ukama hwemakunakuna hunogadzirwa pakati pavo. Kutaura zvazviri, amai havafungi nezvekushaya simba kwemwana wavo uye vanomutora kune mumwe wavo. Izvo zvino zvinogadzira kupindwa muropa muhudiki. Panyaya iyo baba vePN nemwanakomana wavo, mhirizhonga, kuregeredza uye kushomeka kwehudiki ndizvo zvinowanzoitika zvinoonekwa. Uye mwana wacho anowanzoda kutevedzera mafungiro ababa vake.

3. Maitiro akajairika emwana wePN 

  • Nhema ini / fake pachangu: Iyi mufambiro ichagamuchirwa intuitively nemwana, nokuti paanoratidza unhu hwake uye iye pachake chaiye, anogamuchira mhinduro dzisina kunaka uye kutsoropodza kunovhiringidza. Iye anobva aona kuti hunhu hwake hwechokwadi hahugamuchirwi uye achaedza kuzvigadzirira chifukidziro. Mukuwedzera, anovaka goko uye naizvozvo hunhu hwenhema. 
  • Vana ava havazvidi (kuzvivenga ivo pachavo) / kana kuwira mune yavo narcissism: Kunyomba uye kushaikwa kwerukudzo kunoitwa nemubereki ane utsinye pamwana wake zvinopa wekupedzisira pfungwa yekuti haaverenge. Kana kuti haina “kukwana” kana kuti “haina kukosha” chinhu. Mwana wacho achanzwa aine mhosva pamusoro pezvaari uye izvi zvinotungamirira kukuzvivenga kwakakura. 

Tinogona here kutiza kubata kweMhuri yeNarcissistic? EHE

  1. Danho rekutanga rine pamusoro pezvose ziva kuti takakurira mumhuri ine narcissistic yakatsveyama. Kuziva uku kunogona kutora nguva uye kazhinji kunorwadza kubvuma. Kazhinji kazhinji, tinongoona mamiriro acho ezvinhu mukukura. 
  2. Chechipiri kuita isa miganhu : Pfungwa iri pano ndeyekuona izvo zvinogona kushivirirwa uye izvo zvinofanirwa kuverengerwa. Paunenge watarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu ausingadi uye ausisiri kugadzirira kugamuchira, ino ndiyo nguva yokuataura. 
  3. Kupedza gehena nemhuri ine narcissistic, kucheka kuonana kwakakosha. Iwe haugone kuzvisunungura kubva kune yakaipa mhuri ye narcissistic pasina kuchengeta chinhambwe chako. Nekucheka zvisungo, zvichava nyore kupora kubva mukukuvadzwa kwakaitwa mumakore uye kuzvivaka.
  4. Zvinotora chengetedza hupenyu hwako uye ukanganwire zvakaipa zvekare. Kuti urarame hupenyu hwako hwakanakisa, unofanirwa kuziva kukanganwa uye kuenderera mberi. Icho hachisi chinhu chiri nyore, asi chinogona kuitika. Zvinogona kutora nguva, asi nekurapa kwakakodzera uye nzira yekuvakazve, zvinokwanisika kuwana nzira yako yekudzoka. Uye kurarama hupenyu hutsva pasina manzwiro akaoma.

Ndine Vabereki veNarcissistic - Chii Chandinofanira Kuita?

  • Chinhu chekutanga kuita kana waziva kuti une vabereki vane narcissistic kuzviregerera. Zvamazvirokwazvo, kazhinji kazhinji, mwana womubereki akatsveyama anokombamira kuzvipa mhaka amene ndokudavira kuti imhaka yake kana vabereki vake vasingagutsikani. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti iyi haisi mhosva yako uye kuti unongobatwa. 
  • Kazhinji, kuonana nevabereki vane narcissistic kunofanira kubviswa. Dzimwe nguva, havagamuchire chokwadi chekuti mwana aita sarudzo yekuzvisunungura kubva pakutonga kwavo. Uye sarudza kuita kuti mwana anzwe ane mhosva zvikuru. Zvinhu zvinotonyanya kuoma uye mune iyi kesi unofanirwa kutema kuonana zvachose.
  • Kana angosunungurwa kubva pamutoro wake, mwana wemunyengeri anozokwanisa kupora nekurarama hupenyu hwake hwakanakisa. Hazvisi nyore kupfuudza mhedzisiro yehudiki hwakakomberedzwa nemhuri ine utsinye, yakatsveyama. Kuti uwane rubatsiro, zvinowanzodiwa kubvunza nyanzvi yezvepfungwa inyanzvi mune narcissistic perverts. Anobatsira vanenge vawirwa nenjodzi kuitira kuti vararame hupenyu hwavo hwakanakisa. 

 

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