Maitiro emugadziri mushure mekuputika : munhu ane muchetura uyu anoita sei kana wamusiya? Zvinhu zvava kuoma here? Maonero anogona kunge akasiyana! Kuti ndikupe iwe zano, heano 9 maitiro anogona kuitika emumanipulator paunomusiya.
Maitiro emugadziri mushure mekuputika - 9 maitiro
Heino mimwe mienzaniso:
1. Anoongorora munhu wake zvakanyanya
Chimwe chezvinhu makumi maviri a narcissistic akatsveyama manipulator ruvengo ndiko kuzvisiya uye kufuratira. Chinhu chekutanga chaachaita mushure mekurambana kuramba akakutarisa. Sezvinongoita mhuka inovhima mhuka yayo, inokunyangira uye kuona waunoshamwaridzana naye.
2. Anonzwa kuodzwa mwoyo
Kuita uku kunonyanya kuratidza kuti haachakudzori, kwete nekuti afirwa nemudiwa. Kuodzwa mwoyo kunobvawo pakuti anenge asina kubudirira kuzadzisa chinangwa chake, chokukuita kuti utsamire zvachose paari. Ichi chikamu chekunyarara kwePN mushure mekurambana chinoratidzwa nehasha huru kwaari uye kwauri.
3. Haanzwi tsitsi
La kuita kwemunhu anonyengedza kana wamusiya chimwe chinhu kunze kwomudiwa kana munhu anonzwira vamwe rudo. Hapana nzira yaanogona kunzwisisa nayo kurwadziwa kana kutambura kwako, ndoda kunzwira tsitsi. Ndosaka imwe yemaitiro emumanipulator mushure mekurambana ndeyekuti anoedza kukuita kuti utende kuti ari kukanganiswa nekuenda kwako. Muchokwadi, iyo PN manipulator inotaridzika chaizvo uye ine hanya pakutanga kwehukama mukuyedza kukutonga.
4. Inyanzvi yeDouble Game
Paunenge uchifunga kuti PN iri kutambura, mushandisi ari kufunga kukunyengerera zvakare. Ndiye ace mumutambo wembiri, murume ane zviso zviviri anokunda munzvimbo iyi. Muchokwadi, iyo PN haina hanya nevamwe, pane zvinopesana, inovashandisa. Naizvozvo zvingangoita kuti achaita kuti utende kuti chishuvo chake chikuru ndechokuita kuti ufare.
5. Achanangana newe nezvaunokoshesa
Kuve munyengeri mukuru, chinangwa chake ndechekuita kuti utende kuti haubatsiri uye kugadzirisa tsika dzako. Ichaita kuti munhu anzwe akaderera izvo zvinozotungamirira mukurasikirwa kwekuzviremekedza. Kutarisana nehunhu hwako kunomupa mukana wekuputsa kudada kwako.
6. Anokupa mhosva
Kutsvaga kushandura mamiriro acho kune mukana weumwe maitiro akajairika pakati peFNs. Pakupedzisira, anoedza kukuita kuti unzwe uine mhosva, kukupomera mhosva, kuchenesa mufananidzo wake uye azviratidze semunhu akabatwa. Kupfuura zvese, usaite kune iyi mania, nekuti mhedzisiro yekunyarara pane manipulator haigone kumiswa.
7. Anotsvaka kutyisidzira munhu akabatwa
Kutya kunzwa kunopa simba rakawanda kune manipulators uye ivo vanozviziva. Ichi ndicho chikonzero, kana vakatadza kuzadzisa chinangwa chavo, vanoedza kukuvhundutsa. Nzira yekuti vakuratidze kuti ndivo chete vanogona kukudzivirira. Ngwarira uye pamusoro pezvose shandisa ushingi kutarisana navo.
8. Achaita mhirizhonga mupfungwa
Mushure mekutya, achapfuura nekutyisidzira uye kana mukana ukamuka, anogona kutoita kuti iwe uwire mukuora mwoyo. Chokwadi, mhirizhonga yepfungwa inoratidza imwe yekushungurudzwa kwauchatambura muukama hwerudo nemunhu ane narcissistic. Ichi ndicho chikonzero iwe uchifanira kugara uine psycho-emotional rutsigiro parutivi rwako mushure mekurambana nePN.
9. Muitiro weManipulator mushure mekurambana: Anoda kutaurirana
Iye narcissistic manipulator anogara achidzoka muhupenyu hweakabatwa mushure mekurambana kuyedza kumunyengerera kuti asiye danho rake. Iye achaedza kutsvaga kubvumirana kweyananiso inogona kuitika. Hazvigoneke kuti uzive chaizvo kuti zvinotora nguva yakareba sei kuti PN idzoke, asi inogara ichizviratidza pakupedzisira.
Ndeapi maitiro ekugadzirisa?
Kuti isimbise simba rayo rekushandisa, iyo PN inoita zvehungwaru kuvhara maziso emunhu anenge abatwa nayo:
- Kufungidzira mupfungwa: hezvo, munhu anokunyengetedza achaita kunge mbudzi yekumhangara uye anokupomera kuti unoita zvinhu zvaanoita ega. Somurevi wenhema uyo achakuti uri murevi wenhema, kana munhu ane godo anokupomera kuti une godo rakanyanyisa uye ane pfuma.
- The deformation: inonziwo zano remashanga, mushandisi anowana mufaro kungave nekukanganisa mazwi ako kana kuawedzera. Anovashandura nenzira ipi zvayo yakamukodzera uye anoshandisa nharo dzako pamusoro pako kusvika pakunzwa uine mhosva.
- Emotional blackmail: nzira iyi inozivikanwa nePN uye inoishandisa kana zvasvika pakuchengeta mhuka yayo iri pasi pesimba rayo. Kana akacherechedza kuti unovimba naye, hauzoziva kana munhu anonyengedza akakusiya odzoka, nekuti ichi chikamu chemaitiro ake ehupenzi.
- The Bluff kana kunyepa: achivanza chokwadi, achivanza pfungwa dzake nemaune kwauri, manipulator achaita kuti uone divi rake rakakanganisa zvachose. Iye ane double game ace.
- Abuse kana gaslighting : manipulator anoita kuti uzvifungire iwe kusvika pakukuita kunge benzi. Anoshandisa mazwi akadai " Handizvo zvakaitika! Ndiwo fungidziro yako! Unopenga! » Isu tinowanzo kutaura nezve cognitive hijacking.
Manipulators anogona kuchinja here?
Narcissistic manipulator munhu asingambozvibvunzi. Nekudaro, kuvashandura kunova basa risingaite, kunyangwe humwe hunhu hunogona kuvandudzwa. Kuti uite izvi, iwe unofanirwa kuziva chaizvo izvo zvisina kusimba zvemanipulator?
Zvechokwadi, kuti PN ichinje, inofanira kupinda mumamiriro ezvinhu akanyanyisa apo ichaona kuti yakanyatsorova padombo kusvika pakuparara. Izvi zvinofanira kuita kuti azive maitiro ake uye ade kuchinja zvachose kuti ave munhu mutsva. Izvi zvinoramba zvakaoma kuziva uye kubudirira, nekuti uyu munhu anofarira kuona vamwe vachitambura.
Bibliographic reference pamusoro pemanipulator maitiro
Heano mareferensi manomwe ebhaibheri padingindira remanipulator maitiro:
- Sénécal, J. (2013). Manipulation: Kunzwisisa uye kuziva maitiro ekunyengedza. Editions de l'Homme.
- Vermot, J. (2015). Emotional manipulation. Presses Universitaires de France.
- Lalande, J. (2016). Iyo Manipulation Guide: Maitiro ekuona uye kudzivirira kubva kune Manipulators. Editions Eyrolles.
- Bourcier, S. (2014). Psychology of manipulation: Kunzwisisa kuita. Editions L'Harmattan.
- Bouchard, G. (2018). Social manipulation: pakati pekufurira nekushungurudzwa. Zvinyorwa zveDe Boeck.
- Cohen, M. (2017). Manipulators: Ungavaziva sei uye uzvisunungure kubva kwavari. Larousse Editions.
- Rico, C. (2019). Iyo Psychology yekunyengedza: Ongororo uye maonero. Dunod Editions.
Aya mareferensi anopa maonero akasiyana-siyana pamusoro pechidzidzo uye anogona kukubatsira kunzwisisa zviri nani maitiro ekunyengedza nemigumisiro yawo.
Muitiro wemanipulator mushure mekuputika - Mhedziso
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Inzira zvakare yekubatsira vanhu, sezvo ini ndave ndichikwanisa kuwana rubatsiro kubva kune vandisingazive ini muhupenyu hwangu hwese. Iko hakuna chete narcissistic vatsveyama munyika ino uye nerombo rakanaka! Pano isu tinobatsira vanhu kunzwisisa zviri kuitika kwavari uye kuenderera kuhupenyu husina narcissists - hupenyu hwako hwepamusoro! Iwe hausi wega uye iwe unogona kuita shanduko kuti urarame hupenyu hunogutsa, huzere nerunyararo, kuwirirana uye rudo!
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