Nzira yekurarama sei ne narcissistic pervert? 5 mazano

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Kugara nemudiwa wekunyomba zvinova zvakaoma uye zvine ngozi chaizvo. Iye zvino, panguva ino, vakadzi vakawanda vakawanda vanogara mu hukama hune chepfu nemunhu akadai. Tevedza chinyorwa ichi uye iwe uchaziva njodzi dzaunomhanya muhukama uhwu, kuti ungabuda sei mairi pamwe nerumwe ruzivo rwaunoda kuziva.  

Unoziva sei kana uri kugara nemunhu ane narcissistic pervert?

Narcissistic pervert munhu anoda kutonga zvese.. Anoda kutonga zvizere hupenyu hwake uye hweavo vakamupoteredza. Muhupenyu hwake hwose, PN anoshandisa nguva yake yose kutonga nekunyengera vamwe. Anogara achida kuonekwa semunhu ari pamusoro. nyajambwa wekutsveyamisa pfungwa anotambura kunyadziswa kwezuva nezuva, kushorwa, kutyisidzirwa uye kushungurudzwa. Izvi nguva dzose zvinopera mukuparadzaniswa nenyika.

Maitiro ekugara neNarcissist - Njodzi dzekugara Naye

Hedzino njodzi dzekugara nemunhu ane narcissistic pervert:

  • Zvakaoma kuona munhu anokanganisa narcissistic pazuva rekutanga. Pakutanga, achazviita inobatsira uye yakanaka kwazvo, akakodzera chaizvo Prince Charming. Asi, nekufamba kwenguva, anozoita hutsinye hwake hwakaipisisa uye PN inova nenjodzi.
  • Pakutanga, munhu wose achawira pasi peuroyi hwake. Iye zvino zvaave chikamu chehupenyu hwake nezvavakatapa, achamunyengera uye pakupedzisira achamuparadza zvachose. PN inozviratidza semunhu akabatwa anga achitsvaga kwenguva yakareba.
  • Munhu ane rudo, anoteerera, ane mutsa, etc. Kutaura zvazviri, narcissist ari kungoisa chiito. Munhu akabatwa anogona kutosvika pakutadza kuona shamwari nemhuri yake nekuda kwekunyengedzwa kwemunhu ane narcissistic.
  • Mushure mezviitiko zvese izvi, PN ichachinja chiso chake. Achaita kuti utende kuti ndiwe wakaipa munyaya uye kuti ndiye nyajambwa. Munhu wacho anobva angowira pahunyengeri hwake otanga kunzwa aine mhosva. Mukuwedzera, iye achava nehosha yepfungwa uye anowedzera kuora mwoyo, pakupedzisira kuzviuraya.

5 Mazano ekugara neNarcissistic Pervert

Kana iwe uri nyajambwa wemunhu anoshungurudza narcissistic asi uchinyatsovada, zvakakosha kuti uzive maitiro ekugara nemurume kana mukadzi wako anokushungurudza. Tevedza aya matipi mashanu uye iwe uchaziva Nzira yekugara nemudiwa ane hunhu hwekunarcissistic?

1. Teerera

Kazhinji yenguva, vanokanganisa narcissistic vanogara vachionekwa sevanhu vakaipa. Asi, vanogonawo kuva muchinda anoyevedza. Kana iwe uchifara muhukama hwako, unogona kufuratira zvese zviri kuitika zvakakukomberedza. Nekudaro, kana uchiri kunetsekana muhukama hwako, zvakakosha kuti uvandudze hunyanzvi hwako hwekuteerera. Kana izvi zvikaitika, zvino ichokwadi kuti hukama hwenyu hwave pedyo nekuparara. Saka, kuchengetedza hukama hwako, shandisa nzeve dzako zvakanyanya.

2. Bvunza mibvunzo yakakodzera chete

Vazhinji vakabatwa nehunhu hwenarcissistic vanogara navo nekuti vanoita zvese zvavanogona kuti vanzwe vakakosha. Izvi zvinotonyanya kutaurwa kana mhuri yavo neshamwari vachiyemura uye nekuyemura mudiwa wavo wenarcissistic. Ino ndiyo nguva yakakwana yekuti uyo akabatwa azvibvunze kuti: hukama hwacho hwakakodzera here kana kuti kwete?

3. Simbisa zvakanaka

Sekureva kwenyanzvi, kusimbisa izvo zvakanaka kunobatsira chaizvo kunatsiridza hunhu hwemunhu ane narcissistic akatsveyama uye kubatsira mubairo wake kugara naye zviri nani. Mukuwedzera, kuzviremekedza kwenarcissist kunogara kuchivandudza kana vari mumatambudziko.

4. Dzidzira kungwarira

Nekuita tsika iyi, mudiwa wako we narcissistic anotanga kurarama hupenyu huri nani. Kungwarira kwekudzidzira kuchabatsira narcissist kuziva kutanga kwehasha dzavo uye kuchinja mafungiro avo pakarepo. Kuti mumwe wako abvume kuita izvi, unofanira kutanga wazviedza. Zvadaro, zvishoma nezvishoma vazivise kumuitiro wacho.

5. Gara uchiona zvinhu sezvazviri

Zvinokosha zvikuru kuti nyajambwa aone zvinhu sezvazviri. Vanofanira kuyeuka kuti hunhu hwePN hahuzoshanduki, asi maitiro avo achachinja nekufamba kwenguva. Naizvozvo, munhu akabatwa anofanira kuziva chinomukwezva kumunhu uyu.

Nzira yekubuda muhukama nePN?

Kune vakabatwa nehunhu hwekunyomba vanofunga kuti vanogona kuvabatsira kutiza maitiro avo ekunyomba. Zvakadaro, vanhu vane narcissistic havadi rubatsiro nekuti vanofunga kuti vakajairwa. Maererano nevanhu ava, matambudziko nguva dzose anobva kune vamwe. Kunyange nyanzvi dzepfungwa hadzigoni kuwana nzira yekubuda nayo nevanokanganisa narcissistic. Kana vakabvuma rubatsiro kubva kunyanzvi dzepfungwa, ndezvekuvabatsira kutiza kuora mwoyo.

Narcissistic vatsveyama havambofa vakabvuma kukanganisa kwavo. Naizvozvo, ivo vanomira kuenda kumisangano yavo yepfungwa. Pavanongogamuchira zvikanganiso zvavo, vanobatwa vanofanirwa kubva vazvibvisa kure navo. Ehe, zvichanetsa kuti vanenge vawirwa nenjodzi vaende, nekudaro zvinoda rubatsiro rwenyanzvi. Saizvozvowo, rubatsiro runobva kune vadiwa runokosha.

Yasvika nguva yekuti rega kufunga nezvemumwe wako. Ane chokwadi chokuti haazombochinji zvakare. Kuti uve nechokwadi chekubuda muhukama, unofanirwa chinja macontact details ako ese senge nhamba yefoni, email kero, nezvimwe. Usasiye chero chisaririra chekutsveyama uku muhupenyu hwako hutsva. 

Manongedzero ebhaibheri ekuti “kugarisana sei nemunhu akatsauka?

Heino sarudzo yemabhuku manomwe echiFrench ane chekuita nekugarisana nemunhu ari kuratidza hunhu hwekunyomba uye hwekunyengerera:

  1. "Manipulators uye Rudo: Kubata neNarcissistic Perverts"
    Munyori: Isabelle Nazare-Aga
    Muparidzi Zvinyorwa zveMunhu
    Gore : 2013
  2. “Kunetswa kwetsika: Chisimba chakashata muupenyu hwezuva nezuva”
    Munyori: Marie-France Hirigoyen
    Muparidzi La Découverte Editions
    Gore : 1998
  3. "Narcissistic Perverts: Ndivanaani? Vanoshanda sei? Kutiza sei? »
    Munyori: Jean-Charles Bouchoux
    Muparidzi Eyrolles Editions
    Gore : 2010
  4. “Kugara neanonyengedza”
    Munyori: Christel Petitcollin
    Muparidzi Guy Trédaniel Editions
    Gore : 2010
  5. "Manipulators ari pakati pedu"
    Munyori: Isabelle Nazare-Aga
    Muparidzi Zvinyorwa zveMunhu
    Gore : 1997
  6. "Kubata pfungwa mune vakaroorana: Kuita nemunhu ane utsinye"
    Munyori: Pascale Chapaux-Morelli naPascal Couderc
    Muparidzi Eyrolles Editions
    Gore : 2009
  7. "Narcissistic Personalities"
    Munyori: Alberto Eiguer
    Muparidzi Dunod Editions
    Gore : 2014

Aya mabhuku anopa maonero akadzama uye zano rinoshanda rekunzwisisa nekugadzirisa hukama nevanhu vanoratidza hunhu hwekunarcissistic.

mhedziso

Kuita narcissist idambudziko rakaoma repfungwa uye repfungwa. Zvakakosha kuziva zviratidzo, kuchengetedza hutano hwako hwepfungwa, uye, kana zvichidikanwa, tsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune nyanzvi nevadikani kuti uzvisunungure kubva kwavari. Kunzwisisa uye kungwarira matanho akakosha ekuwanazve kuzvitonga kwako uye kuvaka hupenyu hunogutsa, husina chepfu.

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