Kuve naNarcissistic Akashata Vamwene - Zvinonzwa Sei?

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Ngano yaamwene vane hudzvinyiriri kumukuwasha kana muroora wavo kazhinji kazhinji yakadzikisirwa pachinzvimbo chemufirimu uye akatevedzana script. Chokwadi, kuvapo kwea narcissistic akatsveyama mai vokurera inokuratidza kuti Machiavellian uye munhu anonyengedza chii.

Nzira yekuziva sei vamwene vane chepfu?

Kuziva nzira yekuziva vamwene vanonyengedza? Munofanira kutoziva kuti amwene akatsveyamisa nhema chii. Iye ari Machiavellian munhu anoedza kuzvimanikidza muhupenyu hwemwana wake kana mumwe wake. Maererano nehuwandu, chikamu che25% chevaroora vanoti havasi kuwirirana navamwene vavo. Uye 60% inotova nehukama hwakaipa kwazvo naamai vemumwe wavo.

Kazhinji inovanza muzvikonzero zvakaita se: “Ndiri kungofashukira nerudo kwauri,” “Ndiri kutaura izvi kuti zvikunakire”. Hedzino nzira dzekuzviziva:

  • Iye achada kupa maonero ake, kana kutozvimanikidzira kune vakaroorana pane zvose zvavanoita.
  • Amwene akatsveyama anotadzawo kubvuma kushorwa.
  • Kuvana, achazviratidza kuva ane pfuma zvikuru, kunyange kuenda kunzira dzakaipa dzokuisa a kushungurudzika mupfungwa.
  • Anokwanisa kuratidza hunhu hwechisimba kana achitaura kune avo vakamupoteredza.

5 zvombo zvekushandisa vamwene Narcissistic Pervert 

Kuti azadzise chinangwa chake, vamwene vane narcissistic vanogona kushandura nenzira dzakasiyana. Anoashandisa kumisa chiono chake. Kusimba kwayo kazhinji kunotsamira padariro.

Nzira dzakadai seblackmail ndidzo dzinonyanya kuwanda, saka heino mimwe mienzaniso:

  1. Misodzi yegarwe: Vamwene vanogona kuoneka vakasuruvara. Achaona kuti mwanakomana wake nemuroora vabatwa nemamiriro ake ezvinhu kuitira kuti vamunzwire tsitsi. Zviitiko zvemisodzi zvinorangarira zvekare, nhema dzakanyatsogadzirwa. Iye anozomupa kuita kwakanakisa kunoshamisa kupfavisa moyo wako.
  2. Kushandiswa kwefinancial pressure: Vamwene vangaedza kuvakwezva nerubatsiro rwemari. Asi izvi zvinowanzobatanidzwa kune quid pro quo yekuita zvaanotaura nguva dzese.
  3. Emotional blackmail: Chombo ichi chinomubatsira chaizvo kana achinge aona kuti pane zvaasingagoni. Asi zvakare, kana vaviri vacho vachiita sevanonetsa kufurira. Mai vekurera vakatsveyama vanopandukira vana mubereki wavo. Chombo ichi chinoita kuti vamwene vave nesimba guru pamusoro pevaviri se manzwiro manipulator.
  4. Chinja mhosva kune vaviri ava: Iyi nzira inozivikanwa kune narcissistic perverts. Zvinosanganisira kuita kuti nyajambwa anzwe aine mhosva pamusoro pemamiriro ezvinhu emunyengeri. Vana vamai vokurera nokudaro vachanzwa vane mhaka. Angatoshandisa mashoko anorwadza achiati haaongi uye asina mwoyo.
  5. Shandisa basa rako saamai: Anogona kushandisa nzira iyi pamwana wake kuti akushandure iwe. Izvi zvinoreva kuti unenge usisina tsigiro yomurume kana mudzimai wako.

Mabatiro ehunhu hwavamwene vekunyomba pamunhu wavo

Hunhu hwaamai vekurera hunogona kuva nemigumisiro yakadzama uye inogara kune wavakabatwa, kazhinji muroora wavo kana mukuwasha. Heino ongororo yakadzama yezvinokanganisa izvi:

1. Kuderera kwekuzviremekedza

  • Kutsoropodza nguva dzose : Vamwene vanonyomba vanowanzogara vachitsoropodza munhu anenge abatwa chibharo, izvo zvinogona kuita kuti munhu wacho azvione zvishoma nezvishoma.
  • Kuenzanisa kusingafadzi : Anogona kuenzanisa nyajambwa wake zvisina kunaka nevamwe vanhu, achisimbisa manzwiro ekusakodzera.
  • Kusashanda kwemanzwiro : Nekudzikisa kana kuramba manzwiro emunhu anenge abatwa nemhosva, anogona kuita kuti munhu wacho asava nechokwadi nezvaanofunga uye manzwiro ake.

2. Kufunganya kusingaperi uye kunetseka

  • Kufamba pamusoro pemazai : Munhu anenge abatwa chibharo anogona kuramba achifunganya, achigara achitya kumutsa vamwene.
  • Kutarisira kunetsana : Kunetsekana nekutarisira kuungana kwemhuri kunogona kukurira.
  • Somatisation : Kuzvidya mwoyo kunogona kuzviratidza kuburikidza nezviratidzo zvemuviri zvakadai semusoro, matambudziko ekugaya kana matambudziko ekurara.

3. Kuvhiringwa kwehukama hwemhuri

  • Kunetsana muvaviri : Hukama hwemunhu anenge abirwa nemudiwa wake hunogona kukanganisa, kunyanya kana mudiwa wacho akasaziva kana kubata nemazvo maitiro aamai vake.
  • Kuzviparadzanisa nemhuri : Munhu anenge abatwa chibharo anogona kuzvibvisira kure nemhuri yake kuti adzivise kutaudzana naamwene vanohura.
  • Impact pavana : Kana nyakushungurudzwa aine vana, vanogona kusangana nemaitiro asina kunaka emumhuri kana kushandiswa senzira yekunyengedza vamwene.

4. Kusava nechokwadi uye kuvhiringidzika

  • Kuvhenekera gasi : Vamwene vanonarcissistic vanogona kushandisa hunyanzvi hwekugadzirisa pfungwa, zvichiita kuti nyakubatwa asave nechokwadi chake.
  • Kurasikirwa nechivimbo mukutonga kwemunhu : Nekuzvibvunza, nyajambwa anogona kurasikirwa nechivimbo mukukwanisa kwake kuita sarudzo.
  • Kuvhiringidzika mupfungwa : Munhu anenge abatwa chibharo anogona kusangana nemanzwiro anopokana, achitenderera pakati pekuda kugamuchirwa uye kutsamwa pakubatwa zvisina kunaka.

5. Kukanganisa kwehutano hwepfungwa kwenguva refu

  • Kushungurudzika : Kuratidzwa kwenguva refu kunzvimbo ine muchetura kunogona kutungamirira kuzvikamu zvekuora mwoyo.
  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) : Muzviitiko zvakakomba, nyajambwa anogona kutanga zviratidzo zvePTSD.
  • Generalized kusagadzikana kusagadzikana : Kuzvidya mwoyo kwenguva refu kunogona kufambira mberi kuva dambudziko rekufunganya pasi rose, rinokanganisa zvakasiyana-siyana zvehupenyu.

6. Matambudziko eukama

  • Kusavimbana kwakapararira : Munhu anenge ashungurudzwa anogona kuomerwa nekuvimba nevamwe, kusanganisira kudanana nevasiri vemhuri.
  • Kubudiswa kwemadhayagiramu : Pasina ruzivo uye basa rekurapa, kune njodzi yekuberekazve chepfu dynamics mune humwe hukama.
  • Zvakaoma kuisa miganhu : Munhu akabatwa anogona kunetseka kumisa nekuchengetedza miganhu ine hutano muhukama huchauya.

Nzira yekubudirira sei kuchengetedza hukama hwako kubva pamakumbo emudzimai wenarcissistic?

Kuti uchengetedze hukama hwako, unofanirwa kuziva izvozvo Kufadza vamwene vako haisi iyo nzira yakanakisisa. Usazvimanikidzire kuva iye akafanira zvaanoratidzira. Haungambova waanoda kuona nemwana wake. Edza kumufadza pazvose zvinongosimbisa chete kukubata kwaanako pamusoro pako uye kuburitsa zvakatowanda kwaari chepfu unhu.

Nzira yakanaka ndeyekuvhura maziso emumwe wako kuti aone kuti vamwene vako munhu anohura. Chokwadi, zvakakosha kuti iyo yekupedzisira iri parutivi rwako. Zvichaita kuti muungane kuti musiye zviri kuda kuitwa navamwene venyu vanohura. Kana iwe usinaye parutivi rwako, zvichave zvakaoma kuchengetedza kana kuchengetedza hukama hwenyu.

Zvinoita here kutiza pesvedzero yePervert Narcissistic vamwene?

Hongu, zvinokwanisika kutiza pesvedzero yaamwene akatsveyama. Zviri kwauri kurwa kuti uzvisunungure kubva kusimba rawo. Izvi zvinoda kushivirira uye simba. Ngano yaamai vokurera yakaipa inowanzouya uye unogona kutonetsana nemumwe wako. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kugadzirisa kusiya iyi ine chepfu mamiriro ese.

Bibliographic reference on the narcissistic vamwene

Heino rondedzero yezvinyorwa zvinomwe zvebhaibheri padingindira rekuti "amwene narcissistic":

  1. Racamier, Paul-Claude (1986). "Pakati pekurwadziwa kwepfungwa, kurambwa kwepfungwa uye kukanganiswa kwenarcissistic". French magazini ye psychoanalysis, ndege. 50, nhamba 5.
  2. Joly, Marc naRoquebert, Corentin (2021). "Kubva kuna amai vakashata kusvika kumurume ane utsinye." Zilsel: Sainzi, tekinoroji, nzanga.
  3. Fromm-Reichmann, Frieda (1948). "Zvinyorwa pamusoro pekuvandudzwa kwekurapa schizophrenics ne psychoanalytic psychotherapy". Psychiatry, ndege. 11, nhamba 3.
  4. Nosal, Serge (2020). Kusaziva uye narcissism panjodzi yeborderline inoti: kuenda kune yechitatu musoro. Thesis yachiremba, HAL.
  5. Diguer, Louis et al. (2010). "Kusimbiswa kweshanduro inotaura chiFrench yePathological Narcissism Inventory". Pathological Narcissism Inventory.
  6. Psychologue.net (2024). “Vanaamai vane utsinye vanobata nekukuvadza vana vavo sei? ".
  7. Durand, G. (2020). "(Ku) fungidzira mufananidzo wevamwene vasina mwana mumuenzaniso wemhuri wakasanganiswa." Quebec Journal of psychology.

Aya mareferensi anopa hurongwa hwekunzwisisa maitiro e narcissistic mukati mehukama hwemhuri uye simba naamwene.

mhedziso

Mukupedzisa, hukama naamai vekurera vakaipa hunogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya pfungwa, manzwiro, uye hukama hwevakabatwa. Kudzora manzwiro, kukanganisa manzwiro uye kugara uchitsoropodza zvinogona kukonzera kudzikira kwekuzviremekedza, kusagadzikana kusingaperi, uye kunetsana muhukama. Nekudaro, zvinogoneka kuti uzvisunungure kubva kune iyi pesvedzero nekuziva manipulations uye kuwana rutsigiro kubva kune mumwe wako. Kukurukurirana kwakajeka uye miganhu yakasimba kwakakosha kuchengetedza hukama hwakanaka uye kudzivirira kuwira muhupfu.

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