Kev Hlub Bombing: Dab tsi yog qhov txheej txheem manipulation?

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Hauv kev hlub, tsis yog txhua yam tshwm sim zoo li zaj dab neeg. Kev ua tsis zoo yog pib tshwm sim hauv kev sib raug zoo romantic hnub no. Hlub kev foob pob los yog kev sib raug zoo romantic. Xav paub ntau ntxiv? Nyeem kom txog thaum kawg.

Kev hlub foob pob yog dab tsi?

Hlub bombing, literally nws yog “kev ​​hlub” et du " foob pob ", los yog nyiam foob pob. Nws yog ib tug txheej txheem siv los ntawm narcissistic pervert nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no kom tiav dominate nws tus neeg raug tsim txom. Nws muaj kev ntseeg siab rau nws thiab muaj kev ntseeg ruaj khov ntawm lawv txoj kev sib raug zoo. Qhov no kev ntseeg cuav ib zaug tsim, yuav dig muag tus neeg raug tsim txom thiab coj lawv mus kev xav dependence tsis kawg.

Hlub Bombing, tshiab Ghosting

Cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb no feem ntau hais txog qhov sib txawv ntawm ib leeg, tab sis thaum kawg lawv tau intertwined.

  • Kev hlub kev foob pob tawg tau tshwm sim, tus neeg tawm mus thiab tsis rov qab los. Cov lus thiab cov ntawv nres tam sim ntawd. Tom qab sib sib zog nqus attachment los a tsis piav qhia nyob deb los ntawm tus narcissistic pervert. Ghosting yuav siv sij hawm.
  • Qhov no txoj kev ntawm ghosting yog pom nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no nyob rau hauv kev tes hauj lwm, yos qhov chaw uas cov lus “kub” thiab puv nrog kev hlub tawg tawm. Kev sib cuam tshuam yooj yim nrog kev siv lub plawv emoji, cov lus cuddly sau tau yooj yim.

Cov neeg siab phem paub siv ob txoj kev sib xyaw ua ke los rhuav tshem lawv raug tsim txom, surge ntawm kev hlub thiab tuag silence.

 

Hlub Bombing, lub tswv yim ntawm Narcissistic Pervert

Peb tuaj yeem tsim nyog tau txais tus neeg mob toxic zoo li tus narcissistic pervert nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo. Yog li ntawd nws siv ntau txoj hauv kev los kaw koj lub sijhawm ntev. Kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev sib raug zoo yuav yog qhov kawg rau nws cov neeg raug tsim txom. Cov laj thawj yog:

  1. qhov pib ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo tuaj yeem tsuas yog idyllic, yuav luag ib zaj dab neeg uas yuav xaus nrog kev sib yuav thiab ntau tus menyuam;
  2. koj yuav tau khoom nrog kev hlub, thiab yog, khoom zoo li goose uas qee zaum koj yuav hnov ​​​​zoo li me ntsis "dhau" lwj;
  3. no adjective ntawm "ntau dhau" yuav rub koj mus rau lub infernal kauv ntawm yuav luag muaj tseeb kev hlub thiab outright manipulation;

Yuav ua li cas kev hlub foob pob tshwm sim?

Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum muaj lub taub hau txias thiab ua tib zoo saib xyuas nws.

  1. Tus neeg yuav ua pa rau koj hlub et saib xyuas. Koj yuav muaj tseeb txaus siab nrog kev xav zoo thiab tsis muaj siab zoo;
  2. Khoom plig, tshaj tawm txoj kev hlub, cov lus cog tseg ntawm lub neej, ib qhov project rau yav tom ntej, mariage thiab cov xeeb ntxwv nyob rau hauv qhov kev pab cuam, koj tsuas yog yuav zoo siab;
  3. Thaum koj tab tom yuav tawg, nws yuav rov qab los nrog nthwv dej tshiab ntawm kev hlub thiab kev sib nyiam;
  4. tus neeg tsim txom ntxub kev chim siab thiab yuav ua kom koj hais tau rau txhua yam kev kho mob uas nws muab rau koj;
  5. Tom qab ntawd yuav muaj lub sijhawm thaum tus tua neeg pib nyob deb, txias thiab tsis txaus siab. Koj yuav tshaib plab rau nws txoj kev hlub thiab kev mloog lus dag;
  6. Kev sib ntaus sib tua tuaj yeem ua rau yav tom ntej tuav

Thiab qhov no yog qhov uas nws yuav tau ua tiav hauv Kev Hlub Bombing thiab Ghosting.  

Kev hlub foob pob: Seduction lossis manipulation?

Raws li txoj hauv kev siv los ntawm executioner:

  • Le lub hom phiaj ntawm tus narcissistic pervert yog ntxias koj nyob rau hauv ib tug qab ntxiag txoj kev, yog li ntawd koj tau hooked sai heev;
  • Nyob ntawd koj bombarded nrog cov lus ntawm kev hlub, kev hlub ntau dhau;
  • Nws yuav ua kom koj npau taws rau nws kom paub tseeb tias koj yuav tsis khiav;
  • Nws npaj nrog koj mus rau yav tom ntej, qhia tias tag nrho cov haujlwm rau xyoo tom ntej yuav tsum tau muab tso rau sai;
  • Koj qhov kev sib tw tsuas yog tsis nco qab, txawv kiag li ntawm qhov koj xav ua ntej nws, txawm tias tej zaum nws tsuas yog kev xav xwb;
  • ib zaug ntxiv lawm, nws yuav cia koj nyob rau hauv suspense thiab yuav yooj yim tig mus rau lwm tus neeg raug tsim txom;
  • tom qab sawv ntawm koj tus npau suav, koj yuav paub qhov ntawd parameter yog txawv txav, tiam sis nws yuav rov qab los rau koj ib yam li yav dhau los, ua rau koj ntseeg tias koj yog nws tus khub tus ntsuj plig;

Yog tias koj ntsib qee yam ntawm nws cov cim, ua tib zoo saib xyuas nws cov kev ua, nws tsuas yog kev ua haujlwm xwb. Yog tias koj xav txog kev ntxias, nws tsuas yog vain illusion.

Rov Qab Hlub Bombing

Le thim rov qab kev sib ntaus sib tua, yog hais txog qhov xwm txheej uas cov tib neeg uas tsis yog narcissistic pom lawv tus kheej nqis peev ntau dhau ntawm kev sib raug zoo nrog tus neeg narcissistic. Feem ntau, "kev hlub foob pob" yog txuam nrog narcissists uas cuam tshuam lawv lub hom phiaj nrog kev hlub thiab kev saib xyuas. Rov qab txoj kev hlub kev foob pob piav qhia txog tus cwj pwm ntawm cov tib neeg uas, tawm ntawm qhov xav tau kev siv tau thiab kev hlub, mus rau qhov ntev kom txaus siab thiab qhuas tus khub narcissistic. Qhov kev coj cwj pwm no yuav cuam tshuam nrog kev txi tseem ceeb, kev nqis peev nyiaj txiag, thiab kev mob siab rau kev xav, qhia txog kev ntseeg tias lawv yuav tsum "tau txais" tus narcissist txoj kev hlub thiab kev pom zoo. Tsis txhob ua qhov no! Koj zoo tag nrho li koj yog thiab tsis muaj qhov taw tes ua txhua yam kom txaus siab rau PN. Koj tsim nyog zoo dua!

Cov ntaub ntawv pov thawj

Nov yog xya phau ntawv keeb kwm ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm "kev sib tsoo pob zeb":

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Cov peev txheej no muab kev nkag siab tob tob txog kev sib ntaus sib tua hauv ntau lub ntsiab lus, suav nrog kev sib raug zoo ntawm tus kheej thiab kev tswj hwm kev coj noj coj ua.

xaus

"Hlub foob pob hluav taws" yog ib lub tswv yim insidious manipulation uas muab kev ntxias thiab kev tsim txom lub siab. Tom qab kev saib xyuas thiab kev hlub ntau dhau, feem ntau ua kom zoo thaum pib ntawm kev sib raug zoo, zais ib qho qauv tshuaj lom neeg uas npaj los cuab tus neeg raug tsim txom hauv kev xav ntawm kev xav. Qhov tshwm sim no, feem ntau cuam tshuam nrog tus cwj pwm ntawm narcissistic perverts, tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws loj heev. Kev ceev faj, mloog nws tus kheej txoj kev xav thiab ua tib zoo soj ntsuam kev sib raug zoo yog qhov tseem ceeb los tiv thaiv tus kheej los ntawm kev ua kom zoo li no. Nco ntsoov, kev hlub tiag tsis tas yuav muaj kev tswj hwm lossis tswj hwm.

Cristina Balan
Cov lus tseeb los ntawm Cristina Balan (saib tag nrho)

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