No ka makuahine mai kēlā me kēia ola. Ua aloha pinepine ʻia ʻo ia a i kekahi manawa inaina ʻia, akā mahalo mau ʻia. ʻO nā makuahine ke kikowaena o ka home. Pehea ʻaoʻao o ka makuahine narcissistic ?
ʻO ka makuahine he kiʻi o ke aloha, aloha, aloha akā he mana. I ka hihia o ka makuahine hoʻopunipuni narcissistic, ʻaʻole i loaʻa kēia kiʻi o ke aloha. ʻAʻole ʻike ke keiki e noho ana me ka makuahine kolohe i kēia manaʻo pili a aloha i kona makuahine. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka makuahine narcissistic perverted he mea pōʻino loa ia, no ka mea, he kuleana nui ka makuahine i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki.
He aha ka makuahine narcissistic?
Ua loaʻa i kahi makuahine narcissistic hewa i ka a narcissistic mau ʻole a me ka maʻi kolohe.
- ʻO kāna ʻano o ka launa pū ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me he mea lā ʻaʻole kaulike, pathological a ʻona.
- No ka makuahine narcissistic, he pāʻani ke ola kahi e hoʻomalu ai.
- Hoʻopili ʻo ia iā ia iho a manipulative.
- He mea nui ka pono no ka holomua nona.
Ke noonoo nei kekahi makuahine PN kana keiki me he pepa la a i ʻole kekahi mea āna e hoʻohana ai e hoʻokō i kāna mau pahuhopu. Akā naʻe, makemake ʻo ia e mālama i kāna kiʻi. ʻO ia ke kumu e hōʻike mau ai ʻo ia i ke kiʻi o ka makuahine e pili ana i kāna keiki a pili.
Ma kahi pilikino, ʻo ka makuahine narcissistic he lokoino. Hoʻopau ʻo ia i kāna keiki a manaʻo hewa. I kekahi manawa, lili ʻo ia i kāna keiki ponoʻī. No laila, hoʻokumu ʻo ia i kahi hakakā ʻawaʻawa iā ia.
Ka moʻolelo o ka makuahine narcissistic: He aha nā ʻano o ka makuahine narcissistic?
Les nā hōʻailona o ka narcissistic pervert Hiki i kēia mau mea ke kōkua i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ka moʻolelo o ka makuahine narcissistic. ʻOi aku ka pololei, hōʻike lākou ke ano o ka wahine hookamani :
1. Toxic
- ʻO ka wahine ʻino narcissistic e hōʻole i ka ʻike o kāna mau keiki. Hoʻokomo ʻo ia iā lākou i ka pōʻino a hoʻowahāwahā iā lākou kona kino noʻonoʻo a me ka pono.
- Hana ʻino ka makuahine narcissistic i kāna mau keiki e hōʻoia a hoʻokō i kāna narcissism.
- Hana ʻino ʻo ia i kāna keiki.
- ʻaihue ʻo ia i kāna pilikino a pale iā ia mai ka loaʻa ʻole o ka makemake.
2. Ka hoomalu ana
Makemake ka makuahine narcissistic e hoʻomalu i ke ola a pau o kāna keiki. Hoʻoponopono ia:
- kona mau hui;
- kana mau lealea;
- kana mau lealea;
- kona ʻano lole...
ʻAʻole ʻae ka wahine ʻino narcissistic ʻaʻohe pilikino i kana keiki. Hoʻolohe ʻo ia ma nā puka. Heluhelu ʻo ia i kāna diary a me kāna leka uila me ka kānalua ʻole. ʻO kēia ka mea e hiki ai iā ia ke loaʻa ka mana piha ma luna o ke keiki, pēlā e pale ai iā ia mai ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mana kūʻokoʻa.
3. Narcissistic a manipulative
Hoʻoikaika ka makuahine narcissistic i kona mana ma ka hoʻohana ʻana:
- hoʻopunipuni;
- ʻeleʻele;
- hoʻohaʻahaʻa kālā;
- ka hewa.
Hana pū ʻo ia hoʻomāinoino iā ʻoe iho e hana i kiʻi o ka makuahine ʻilihune, hoʻokahi a nele. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pololei ʻo ia manipulative a me ka loaa pono o kona waiwai.
Mālama ka makuahine narcissistic i ka manaʻo ponoʻī o kāna keiki. Hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻo ia iā ia i nā manawa a pau e mālama iā ia ma lalo o kona mana. Hiki iā ia ke ʻaihue i kona hauʻoli e hoʻonui i ka huhū o ke keiki.
He aha nā hopena o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka makuahine narcissistic?
He mea maoli ka makuahine narcissistic keakea i ka ulu ana o kau keiki.
- Ka palekana a me ka nele o ka noho ʻana
ʻO ke ʻano o ka makuahine narcissistic ke kumu o ka palekana i kāna keiki, ma ke kino, noʻonoʻo a me ka manaʻo. Hoʻokumu kona ʻano i ka hemahema ka pilina ʻona a kaulike ole. ʻO kēia makuahine manipulative loaʻa ʻole ka manaʻo.
- Ka nele i ka ʻike
ʻO ka makuahine paʻakikī narcissistic ke pale aku i kāna keiki mai ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi ʻike. Ma mua o ke kōkua ʻana iā ia e hoʻomohala i kona ʻano pilikino, hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻo ia iā ia a hōʻole ʻo wai ʻo ia. Koi ʻo ia iā ia e hana e like me kona makemake.
- Ka nele i ke kuleana
ʻO ka manaʻo o ke kuleana he aneane ʻole i loko o ke keiki a ka makuahine narcissistic. ʻAʻohe ʻike o ka hope i nā kuleana. Hoʻopiʻi mau ʻo ia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a no laila ʻaʻole ia he kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi.
Pehea e hana ai me ka makuahine narcissistic?
Inā he mea aloha ʻoe a i ʻole ke keiki a ka makuahine narcissistic, mai noho ʻole ʻoe i kāna ʻano.
1. Ma ke ʻano he pili pili a pili ʻē aʻe paha
He ʻāpana ʻoe i ka hui o ka makuahine narcissistic? Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i hoʻokahi mea: ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka makua olakino a mea aloha paha. No laila hiki iā ʻoe hāʻawi i nā kumu paʻa e pono ai ke keiki, aole nae e hiki i kona makuahine ke hoolako.
- ka manaʻo o ka palekana;
- ʻano pilikino;
- pilikino…
E hōʻike iā ia he kuleana kona e loaʻa i kona mau makemake ponoʻī a hiki iā ia ke lilo iā ia iho.
E pale i ka hoʻohewa ʻana i ka makuahine a i ʻole ka haʻi ʻana iā ia. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻokomo i ke keiki i kahi hakakā nui o ka kūpaʻa. ʻO ia hoʻi ʻaʻole pono e kūʻē i kou makuahine. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻihoʻi hou iā ʻoe.
2. Ma ke ʻano he keiki a ka makuahine narcissistic
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka noho ʻana me ka makuahine manipulative. ʻAʻole hiki ke mālama ʻia kēia pathology a e hahai iā ia no ke ola. I ka wā makua, pono ke keiki a ka makuahine narcissistic e hoʻi i hope mai kona makuahine, mai kona kūlana a me kona mau ʻeha.
ʻO ka mea kūpono e e kukakuka i ke kanaka lapaau e kūkulu hou iā ʻoe iho a kāpae i kēia pilina ʻona. Hiki i ka Therapy ke nānā aku i ka moʻolelo o ke keiki a me kona makuahine mai kekahi manaʻo hoʻokolokolo ʻole a hoʻomaopopo. ʻO ka ʻauheʻe a me ke kūkulu hou ʻana, ʻo ia wale nō ka hopena e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe iho mai ka mana o ka makuahine narcissistic.
Ola Ka makuahine Narcissistic
Pehea e ʻike ai i nā makuahine Perverse Narcissistic?
Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā makuahine PN, nā lālā o kahi ʻohana kolohe ʻino ʻaʻole like nā mea a pau. ʻOiai ke hoʻomalu nei kekahi iā lākou iho, hiki i nā mea ʻē aʻe ke hōʻike i ka hana ʻino loa. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau ʻano maʻamau e ʻike ʻia ai nā makuahine kolohe.
Makuahine PN: nele i ke aloha a me ka malama ole
ʻAʻole ʻo ke aloha makuahine i loko o ka makuahine hoʻopunipuni narcissistic: ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka makuahine a ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu i ka mālama ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i kāna mau keiki. ʻAʻole ʻike nui ka makuahine kolohe i kāna keiki, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻolohe iā ia a noʻonoʻo i kona mau manaʻo. Nona, he mea kaumaha kana keiki, he mea kaumaha maluna ona, a e ai ana i kona manawa. ʻO ka nele o ke aloha a me ka mālama ʻole ʻana he mau hiʻohiʻona i ʻike pinepine ʻia i loko o nā makuahine kolohe. Hoʻowahāwahā pinepine ʻia nā keiki a waiho ʻia i kā lākou hana ponoʻī i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi. Ke ulu aʻe lākou, hoʻomaopopo nā makuahine hoʻopunipuni narcissistic iā lākou he pilikia lākou.
Nā hōʻailona makuahine narcissistic
Ma waena o nā hiʻohiʻona maʻamau e ʻae iā mākou e ʻike i kahi makuahine hoʻopunipuni narcissistic, ʻike pū mākou i ka dehumanization o ke keiki a i ʻole ka manaʻo o ke keiki.
- ʻAʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo i kāna keiki e like me ia a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo i kona palupalu.
- E loaʻa iā ia nā ʻōlelo a nā mākua me kāna keiki a hiki ke hoʻopilikia nui ʻia ke keiki. ʻO kēia ke kumu e hoʻopilikia pinepine ai nā keiki a nā makuahine narcissistic i ka naʻau a me ka naʻau.
- Eia kekahi, no ka makuahine kekee narcissistic, aole like kana mau keiki i kona maka. Hoʻokahi keiki āna e makemake ai ma mua o kekahi. Hoʻohālikelike ʻo ia i kāna mau keiki a ʻaʻole hūnā.
- ʻOiai ʻo ia ʻaʻole makemake i ke keiki, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i manaʻoʻiʻo i mea e ulu ai ka manaʻo hoʻokūkū a me ka lili ma waena o nā keiki. ʻO kāna pahuhopu ka hoʻokūkū ʻana i nā keiki e ʻoluʻolu iā ia.
- E hana ʻo ia e mahele i ka mana a me ka mana.
- Pono mau ka makuahine hewa narcissistic i ka nānā a me ka mahalo. No laila makemake ʻo ia i kēia pono mai kāna keiki.
- I ka hihia i loaʻa iā ia kahi kaikamahine, e makaʻala ka makuahine kolohe i ka luku ʻana i kāna mau pilina, makemake ʻo ia e pani i kona wahi a manaʻo i ka hoʻokūkū me ia.
Ka pilina ma waena o ke keiki a me Perverse Narcissistic Mother
He mea maʻamau ka pilina ma waena o ka makuahine kolohe a me kāna keiki. ʻOiai inā hiki i ka makuahine ke hana maikaʻi loa i mua o ka poʻe a puni iā ia e manaʻoʻiʻo i ka poʻe aloha ʻo ia i kāna keiki a mālama iā ia, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i nā hōʻailona ākea o ka narcissism a me ka hoʻopunipuni i loko ona. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, e manaʻo ke keiki he mea ʻole a hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia i nā maka o kona makuahine. E kūkulu ʻo ia i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe a i ʻole he mask e leʻaleʻa a aloha ʻia. E manaʻoʻiʻo ke keiki ua hoʻemi ʻia ʻo ia i ke kūlana o kahi mea a pono ʻo ia e hoʻokō i ka makemake o kona haku.
ʻO ka makuahine ma kāna ʻaoʻao e hoʻohana i ka mana, kahi hoʻopunipuni ma luna o kāna keiki. E hoʻomalu ʻo ia iā ia i hoʻokō ʻo ia i kona makemake. E hoʻomaka ana me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana, e hana ia i kahi pōʻai hewa o ke keiki. E ʻimi mau ke keiki i ka ʻae ʻia i nā mea a pau āna e hana ai. No ka mea, ʻaʻohe paʻa aloha ma waena o ka makuahine FN a me kāna keiki, e ulu aʻe ke keiki i ka makaʻu, nele i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a me ka nele nui.
ʻO ka makuahine narcissistic: ke kiʻi o ka mana ʻona a me ka manipulative
Eia nā hiʻohiʻona o ka makuahine narcissistic hewa.
1. ʻO kahi paʻa i hoʻoikaika ʻia e ka hoʻopunipuni
Hoʻohana ka makuahine narcissistic i nā ʻano hana hoʻopunipuni e hoʻokumu i kāna mana ma luna o kāna mau keiki. Ma waena o lākou:
- ʻO ke kukui uila : hoʻopiʻi ia i ka manaʻo o ke keiki, nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo, e hoʻokumu i ka huikau a me ke kānalua i kona ʻoiaʻiʻo.
- ʻO ka hewa : he mea ia e lawe ai ke keiki i ke kuleana no kona mau poino ponoi, e hoohewa ana ia ia no kona hemahema a me kona kulana manao.
- Hoʻopiʻi manaʻo : ʻO nā ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli i uhi ʻia a maopopo paha, e like me ka hoʻopōʻino ʻana iā ia iho a i ʻole ka haʻalele ʻana i ke keiki, e hoʻokau iā ia i kāna mau manaʻo.
2. He makemake no ka mana loa
Ke ʻimi nei ka makuahine narcissistic e hoʻomalu i nā ʻāpana āpau o ke ola o kāna keiki:
- ʻO kāna mau pilina a me nā hui.
- ʻO kāna mau hana, nā leʻaleʻa a me nā pāʻani.
- ʻO kona helehelena a me nā koho lole.
ʻO kēia hoʻoikaika ikaika e pale aku i ke keiki mai ka lilo ʻana i mea kūʻokoʻa, mālama iā ia i ka hilinaʻi naʻau no ka hoʻokō ʻana i kona mau pono ponoʻī.
3. ʻO ka nele o ke aloha
- Ka manao ole : Ua mālama ʻole ʻia a hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻia ka pono o ke keiki.
- Aloha kūlana : Hāʻawi ʻia ke aloha inā hoʻokō ke keiki i ka manaʻo o ka makuahine.
- Ka hilinaʻi manaʻo : hiki ole i ke keiki ke ulu me ka ae ole o kona makuahine.
4. He pilina ʻona a luku
Hana pinepine ka makuahine narcissistic i nā ʻano hana ʻino:
- Hoʻohana ʻo ia i ka hoʻomāinoino noʻonoʻo a me ka pono e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ke keiki.
- Hoʻokumu ʻo ia i kāna mau makemake ponoʻī, e hana ana i ke keiki i aniani a i ʻole mea hana e hoʻoikaika ai i kāna kālā.
- ʻAhuehue ia i kona pilikino a pale i ka manaʻo kūʻokoʻa.
5. Ka manaʻo ponoʻī a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ke keiki
- ʻO ka manaʻo hoʻokalakupua : koi ka makuahine narcissistic i ka mahalo a me ka nānā ʻana, e kau mau ana i kāna mau pono ma ke kikowaena.
- Hoʻohana keiki : lilo ia i mea paahana e hoohiwahiwa ai, e hoala ai i ka mahalo, a e hoonaauao paha i kona makemake.
6. Ka nele i nā palena a me ka mahalo
ʻAʻole mahalo ka makuahine narcissistic i nā palena pilikino o ke keiki a me nā pono o ke keiki no ke kūʻokoʻa:
- Hōʻike ʻia : ke keakea nei oia ma na mea a pau o ke ola ana o kana keiki, ma ke ano he kanaka makua.
- Kuʻe palena : hoʻowahāwahā ʻo ia i ka wahi pilikino a i ʻole nā manaʻo o ke keiki.
7. Hoʻoikaika kino ʻohana
- Manaʻo punahele : makemake ʻo ia i hoʻokahi keiki e hoʻomalu maikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hoʻokumu ana i nā pilikia ʻohana.
- mahele : ma ka lulu ana i ka hoopaapaa, hooikaika oia i kona mana maluna o na pilina ohana.
8. ʻO kahi manaʻo hiki ʻole a me ka hewa
- Swings swings : ka neʻe ʻana mai ke aloha nui a hiki i ka hōʻole ʻana i ka hana ʻino, e hoʻolei i ke keiki i loko o ka noʻonoʻo mau.
- Kāleʻike : hui pu ia i ke aloha a me ka lokoino, e hoonui ana i ka huikau a me ka hilinai o ke keiki.
9. Hoohana hewa
- Ka hewa nui : hoʻoikaika i ke keiki e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole lawa kāna hana, e hoʻoikaika ana i kona hilinaʻi.
- Hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā mea i loaʻa : hōʻemi ʻia a nānā ʻole ʻia nā hana a ke keiki.
ʻO ka puke puke e ʻike ai i ka makuahine kolohe
ʻO ka haʻi puke puke ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka makuahine narcissistic
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(sospn.fr) - Psychologist: "Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Nā hōʻailona a me ka mālama ʻana"
(psychologista.fr) - Psynat: "Nā makuahine Narcissistic: He aha ka hopena i ka pilina makuahine a me ke kaikamahine"
(psynat.fr) - Dérive-sectaire.fr: "ʻO ka moʻolelo o kahi makuahine narcissistic"
(derive-sectaire.fr) - E kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke aloha: "Analysis of a narcissistic mother"
(parlerdamour.fr) - Imagyna: "Pehea e ho'ōla ai mai kahi makuahine Narcissistic"
(imagyna.fr) - Parents.fr: "Makua Narcissistic: Pehea e ʻike ai iā lākou"
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