Narcissistic Manipulator - 10 mau hōʻailona e ʻike ai

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1. ʻO ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi hilinaʻi manaʻo i loaʻa i ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia:

He mea maʻamau kēia ʻenehana i nā mea a pau pilina ʻawahia. E hōʻoia ka mea hoʻopaʻi mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana ua pau loa kāna mea i pepehi ʻia "hoʻohui" aole e puka hou mai. E hoʻololi ʻo ia ma waena o ke aloha a me ke kumakaia, ka wahaheʻe a me ke ʻano o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i hiki ai i kāna mea i pepehi ʻia i loko o ka pōʻeleʻele.

2. Pilikia i kona manao:

E ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole kūlike kāna mau ʻōlelo i kekahi manawa, a kūʻē paha me kona manaʻo maoli. E kānalua mau ʻoe no ka mea hiki ke huli koke kēia kū'ē iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole maopopo ʻo ia i kona poʻo.

3. ʻO ka ʻeleʻele huna, nā ʻōlelo hoʻopunipuni:

Ua ʻike paha ʻoe i kāna hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe? ʻAe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e moeʻuhane, he ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻIke ʻo ia i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻōlelo  "E haʻalele ana au inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake iaʻu" e hoʻonāwaliwali iā ʻoe, a he hoʻokahi wale nō kēia. ʻO ka hoʻololiʻana i ke kūlana i kona pono,ʻo ia kāna mea kūikawā nui loa.

4. Egocentrism, narcissistic tendencies:

ʻO ka hoʻomāhuahua ʻana iā ia iho, kaena ʻana i kāna mau pono, kāna talena a me kāna hana i kēia manawa. Hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻo ia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku hoʻi i kāna wahine i hōʻeha ʻia e manaʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, a hana mau ʻo ia. ʻO ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe iho a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i ka hoalauna, ʻo ia ka pawn maikaʻi loa.

5. Hoʻopili ʻia ka lili e like me ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana.

E noʻonoʻo ka mea i pepehi ʻia he mea maʻamau ko lākou lili, i ke aloha, akā hewa loa lākou. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o wahine kolohe ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia no ka mea makemake ʻo ia i ka hoʻopunipuni, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kāna mea pio ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka puni iā ​​​​ia a no kona olakino noʻonoʻo.

6. He wahaheʻe koʻikoʻi:

Ke moe nei ka wahine kolohe me he hanu lā. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hele mau ka manipulation i ka wahaheʻe e hoʻomalu i kāna mea i pepehi ʻia. Hiki ke ʻike ʻia kēia i nā kikoʻī minuke o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, e ʻike ʻoe e hūnā i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo, hūnā i nā mea, etc.

7. Puhi ʻo ia i ka wela a me ke anu.

ʻAʻole nele ʻo ia i ke aʻalolo e aloha iā ʻoe a ma ka manawa like e hoʻomaʻau iā ʻoe. Hana ʻoe i ke akahai a me ka huhū i ka manawa like. ʻO nā ʻōlelo ʻino, hoʻohaʻahaʻa, a me nā ʻōlelo ʻeha ka mea maʻamau i waena ona.

8. Hoʻohuli ʻo ia i ka poʻe e hoʻopuni ana iā ia e maopopo a paʻa i kā lākou hoʻoholo ʻana.

ʻAʻole like me kāna hana ʻino loa i ka ʻike ʻole ʻana, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e mālama i kona kūpaʻa i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma ke koi ʻana iā lākou, pololei a me ka noʻonoʻo paha, e hana pono. Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ka ʻōlelo pololei a me ka maopopo i kāna hana me ia, nā mea āna i hana ʻole ai.

9. Hoʻopuehu i ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu e lanakila maikaʻi.

ʻO ka manaʻo maʻamau ʻaʻole ia e ʻoluʻolu i ka wahine kolohe narcissistic. Makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokaʻawale i nā kānaka, hōʻike i ka mea a kekahi kanaka i ʻōlelo ai a laila haʻi hou i kekahi.

10. Ua kamaʻilio ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole.

No ka mea, ʻike ʻo ia i ke kū i waho, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia ma laila, kamaʻilio ka poʻe ma hope ona. Ma muli o kona hoʻoulu ʻana i ka makaʻu a me ka noho mālie i ka poʻe e puni ana iā ia, maʻa lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāna mau hana a me kāna mau ʻōlelo ke huli ʻia kona kua.

Nā hōʻailona wikiō i ka Narcissist

Nā hiʻohiʻona o ka wahine manipulative

No ka hoʻomaopopo iā ia, pono ʻoe e ʻike ʻaʻole ʻo ia i lilo i a hoʻomāʻewaʻewa no ka lealea maemae. Malia paha he makua ʻole a kuleana ʻole, he makuahine anu a mālie ke kumu nui.

  • Ua hoʻomohala kēia wahine i nā ʻano he nui: he mau helehelena kona e loli e like me kona makemake a i ʻole ke kaiapuni e hoʻopuni ana iā ia. E hoʻomaopopo he hōʻike pū ʻo ia i kekahi mau hōʻailona o ka bipolarity. He ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i kekahi manawa, ʻoluʻolu a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi a i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomanawanui.
  • Ua nele ʻo ia i ke aloha: hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike me ka maka ʻike ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻike maoli i ke aloha. E like me ke keiki 4 makahiki ʻaʻole ʻike i kāna mea e makemake ai, hoʻokuʻu koke ʻo ia iā ia iho e lanakila ʻia e kāna mau manaʻo.
  • He mea nui ia: ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia ka heleuma o ka narcissistic perversion me ka ʻole o ka hoʻopunipuni. Hōʻike ka mea hope iā ia iho ma ka hoʻomalu ʻana i kāna mea i pepehi ʻia a laila waiho iā ia ma kona mau lima.  

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻule i ke aloha i kahi narcissist manipulative?

ʻO kēia nīnau kaulana i nīnau nui ʻia e nā kāne i loaʻa i ka narcissistic perversion. ʻAʻole ka pane, no ka mea, ʻo ka mea hope loa he pathology e loaʻa ai ka manawa ma waena o ka mea hoʻokō.

No laila he mea paʻakikī, inā ʻaʻole hiki ʻole, no ka wahine hoʻopaʻapaʻa narcissistic ke aloha i kona hoalauna. ʻIke wale ʻo ia i ka hoʻopunipuni i kāna mea i pepehi ʻia, hānai ʻo ia i ko lākou ʻeha, ko lākou hopohopo a me nā kānalua e loaʻa ai ka mana, me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole i ke aloha e hiki mai ana.

ʻO nā manaʻo e like me ke aloha he simulation wale nō a alakaʻi i kahi mea ʻole.

Pehea ke ʻano o ka wahine manipulative narcissistic i loko o ka ʻohana? 

I nā maka o kēlā me kēia kanaka, hana ʻo ia e like me ka wahine a me ka ʻaoʻao o ka makuahine narcissistic kumu hoʻohālike. Hōʻike ia i ke kiʻi o kahi ʻohana maikaʻi ʻoiai e hūnā ana ma hope o nā hiʻohiʻona.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kāna mau keiki ka poʻe pōʻino o kāna hana. He makuahine anu a aloha ʻole ʻo ia ma ka home, a ua haʻalele kāna mau keiki i ka hana ʻana i kāna noi e loaʻa ai kāna aloha.

ʻAʻole i liʻiliʻi ka pilikia o ka wahine i hoʻopilikia ʻia no ka mea ʻo kā lākou hana ma muli o ko lākou aloha.

Pehea e pale ai iā ʻoe iho mai kahi manipulator narcissistic?

ʻO ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ka hopena kūleʻa wale nō e hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa. E hoʻoholo i ka manaʻo nui, e neʻe aku i ʻole e paʻa hou iā ʻoe.

  • E kūkākūkā i kāu poʻe aloha, nā hoaaloha a kamaʻilio ākea e pili ana. ʻOi aku ka pepeiao hoʻolohe ma mua o ka waha hoʻowahāwahā.
  • E kūkākūkā i kahi loea inā hiki no ka mea e kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e hoʻopau iā ia i ka wā lōʻihi.
Cristina Balan
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